About strong desires, beliefs and resistance

[Jenny Lee]

The following words are from an abe clip:

...their desire is so strong like the mother who picks the piano up off her child who never thought she could pick a piano up off her child until her child needed a piano picked up off of them and then suddenly her desire was so strong that she was able to do something that she never,ever believed that she could do because the desire factor kicked in and surpassed everything else...

If your car is going a hundred miles an hour and it hits a tree, it's a bigger problem than if it's going five miles an hour and hits a tree. Well, people come away from that story with two different conclusions. Sometimes people say I'm never gonna drive fast because i don't want to hit trees. And some people say, if I'm gonna hit a tree, I wanna hit it when I'm going slow, but what we mean by it is if you're going fast enough, the tree will not be in the way. In other words, you can go fast enough that your resistance will not be a problem.

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So what happened to the mom's physical body. She didn't believe she could lift up such a heavy thing and would her body hurt badly? I just found a story about Angela Cavallo lifting a car to save her son, but didn't find other information.

I had some strong desires, but I didn't believe them, trying my best to fulfill them but failed, and then I got into depression. I am wondering how strong should my desire to be that it can surpass the resistance?

Expect new clarity on this. Thank you all for sharing your thoughts, in advance.

[spiritualcookie]

Hi Jenny

With the mother who could lift up the car -
Perhaps when desire is very strong and the mother has a strong long-held helpful belief that "I take care of my son!" - perhaps the momentum of that belief helped her lift the car. We don't know for sure, but it's posible that in that Now moment, she wasn't thinking resistant thoughts of "I can't" - she was just thinking "I can! And I will!" - No split energy, just one directional flow. Strong desire + strong belief that she's the mom and she takes care of her son no matter what.

Will her body hurt afterwards? I don't know. In theory, perhaps if she has a belief or thoughts that it will, then it will. But if she doesn't think that it will, perhaps it won't.

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As I understand it, desire is not the only component to surpassing resistance.
Even the strongest desire may not surpass equally strong resistance.

When there is desire + lack of belief in the desire, it's like that split energy train that's pulling in both ways at the same time so it's difficult to see movement forward in the direction you want.

I want to use the Abraham saying of "We love you very much but..." it sounds like you tried to take the shortcut of using action before you were fully aligned so the results were not ideal (I've definitely been there too!)

To help things work out better, I would guess there is more aligning work that needs to be done:
- Work to soften the disbelief, and build up the belief (eg finding similar cases where it did happen and work out). Work to build up companion-beliefs that can help, like the mother who believed she always takes good care of her son.
- Work to soften the resistance, letting go of unhelpful stories on the subject, soothe resistant thoughts
- Work to soften the desperate-urgent-feeling / impatience (which is also resistance since it's resisting that it's not here yet). - letting go of time limits & taking score.
- Work to be done on relaxing into the desire. Relaxing into the fact that it's a process. Relaxing into trust that it is coming.
- Work on making peace with What Is until you get the desire
- Work on finding joy in the journey in the aligning work
- Avoiding efforting, and easing into it instead

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I'm not sure I understand the quote about "you can go fast enough that your resistance will not be a problem." - maybe someone else can help us with that

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I'm not sure I understand the quote about "you can go fast enough that your resistance will not be a problem." - maybe someone else can help us with that

...Abe explained that in detail! And they gave the example of Esther, driving her VERY heavy and big monster-truck. All other motorists used to "jump aside" when she entered the highway with this BIG vehicle, as they didn't want to get mowed over (and Esther loved it). Abe have spoken about the topic quite often. When your (energetic) momentum is big and bold enough, you simply do not care about tiny doubts. It's like an avalanche in comparison to pebbles on the road- it doesn't matter. It will not hold you back. You might not even notice them!

And that is the very same with the mother who has "supernatural powers" in the moment she only focuses on saving her child.
There exist even youtube clips, where a 2 year old toddler does the same for his sibling, who got beaten down by a cupboard. When you do not care for what could hold you back, it doesn't hold up against your desire.

Only those who don't feel the bigness of the desire even care for the resistances in the way. And so- their desire gets muddled and loses it's pulling power. Then, doubt wins over desire, aka, resistance beats desire. But never for all time, as desires never die.

[Paradise-on-Earth]

The following words are from an abe clip:

...their desire is so strong like the mother who picks the piano up off her child who never thought she could pick a piano up off her child until her child needed a piano picked up off of them and then suddenly her desire was so strong that she was able to do something that she never,ever believed that she could do because the desire factor kicked in and surpassed everything else...

If your car is going a hundred miles an hour and it hits a tree, it's a bigger problem than if it's going five miles an hour and hits a tree. Well, people come away from that story with two different conclusions. Sometimes people say I'm never gonna drive fast because i don't want to hit trees. And some people say, if I'm gonna hit a tree, I wanna hit it when I'm going slow, but what we mean by it is if you're going fast enough, the tree will not be in the way. In other words, you can go fast enough that your resistance will not be a problem.

Hi Jenny! Sorry for asking this first- but, is this a real Abe-quote? Because if it is, I'd love to put it into the quote-collection!

So what happened to the mom's physical body. She didn't believe she could lift up such a heavy thing and would her body hurt badly? I just found a story about Angela Cavallo lifting a car to save her son, but didn't find other information.

I don't know what happened with this specific women in this specific case, but think about it this way: All we experience is an "illusion", anyway. (That IS a real Abe-quote! )

As Abe often point out, our physical senses are "translators of energy". The patterns of the energy (the "Grids") make things hard or soft, of this or that material, this or that color, this or that density. And they are absolutely interchangeable- in parts of seconds. The basis of all our physical stuff (as a car, our muscles or bones) is ENERGY, that we translate with energy-deciphering sensors (our eyes, nose and so on).

Energy is always in motion, it changes all the time. But it can change into same over and over and over again, IF WE EXPECT THAT. That, and the intention of the soul/oversoul of the physical thing, defines how long physical stuff lasts, and what it "normally" can endure. But when we change our expectation, the ability or parameters of physically shifts WITH THE EXPECTATION.

That is why Yogis can levitate, some "holy people" can manifest jewels, chocolates or "holy dust", shape-shift, walk through walls, occur on a different continent all of a sudden, and so on. The same with "miracle healings", where- per example- seemingly unhealable damaged human bodies heal over night from accidents, cancer and whatnot. The pretty well known story of author and speaker Anita Moorjani might be a wonderful example. Her body was already destroyed by cancer beyond all hope. Her organs had broken down, her lungs were filled with water, her skin was cracking. And- after her soul decided to stay, 1 day later, her body started working again, and she healed up fully.

So, in this case of the mother simply not caring for any doubt, only holding the 1 burning, PURE desire of saving her child, could shift what we "normally" expect of a female body. The energy morphed to what she EXPECTED. She didn't include doubt in the very moment into her pondering, there was no room for doubt.

And: if she was not concerned that this MUST hurt or do damage to her body- then there will be no hurt or pain, within it. The physicality can do EVERYTHING life causes us to desire! On the other hand, if she expects there to be damage- so, it will be. We get what we EXPECT.

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I had some strong desires, but I didn't believe them, trying my best to fulfill them but failed, and then I got into depression. I am wondering how strong should my desire to be that it can surpass the resistance?

I so hear you! I lived the same. I tried incredibly hard with all I've got. I went into depression and burnout, and slowly got back "into the light"- at first just into "feeling less crappy", then into solidly living mostly ITV- but still, holding up resistances in regards to my "BIG" desires, while I have "made miracles" beyond counting in topics that I dont care sooo much about. No one knows how often I yelled at God, and later at Abraham!! (they lovingly understand. They don't hold grudges! )

I had to pass through hate against God because "I did it all perfectly, but God didn't comply". Then I got into self-hate for "doing it OBVIOUSLY wrong" (the old Forum and some of it's members where a big player in that!) and then, I got out of self-hate and into confusion. And slowly slowly I understood, that I need to decide "If I want to be right (in my doubt, in my fear, in my disappointment, in this story of failure, and my fear to repeat it and not wanting to go there again..., in my story that it is "painful and hard"...or happy". Because, before you are not willing to drop IT ALL and "nothing matters more to you than that you feel good" (Abe) -at least the famous 51% of your time in regards to your desire- you don't get over the cliff of LINING UP YOUR FREQUENCIES.

You MUST achieve the high frequency of your desire to match up with it, to ATTRACT it. It has NOTHING to do with willpower or hard work or consistent meditation. It has to do with lightheartedness, ease, skipping, sleeping, and ENJOYING all of this.
And in some cases, it has to do with forgetting your negative stories all together, because nothing matters more to you than getting what you want (as, getting your child out of danger-zone).

Both is in the same time incredibly simple- and the most challenging thing on Earth. Because we have learned it all backwards. We got taught to "work very very hard" (=doesn't feel good!), make all sorts of "sacrifices and fearfully leaving our comfort-zones" (=doesn't feel good!), "chase our dreams and set goals" (feels exhausting!), "let go of our vain desires" (doesn't feel good!!) -yadda, yadda, yadda. While our true "work", our real "responsibility" is trusting, letting go, loving ourselves and others, chilling out and appreciating UNCONDITIONALLY, what is nice within us and around us. Dropping the need to "be right" and instead, choose the tiny mundane happiness (aka "the roses at the side of the road") that is there now, now, now- and now again- until this momentum becomes a reallllly big one, that no one can stop anymore. Trust the processand indulge yourself in the joy of the journey. (Stopping the time and measuring your flaws while you are on the way is not for those that will achieve the true magic!) See the journey towards your manifestation-goals as PART of the manifestation. Because, you will never get a happy ending to an unhappy journey!

AND: you will never ever be complete. There will always be more.
AND: If it isn't fun, if it doesnt FEEL GOOD- or at least as relief, your missing the point.

AND:
The longer it takes- the more fun you will have! (Abe)

[Paradise-on-Earth]

...Sigh... I would love to have my "old" quote-collections at hand about what the body can do! (literally everything we wand AND expect!)- as regrowing missing limbs, teeth, hair from totally bald heads, straighten out wrinkles, regain eyesight and hearing (and whatever you heard of Jesus, in regards to walking on water, conjuring food for thousands, calming storms...)

WE CAN HAVE IT ALL. Because, the basis of everything is ENERGY, aka VIBRATION. And we can translate and morph it into all we can think of. spiritual cookie has collected a few awesome quotes about what is "natural", while we call it "magic", here: Quotes on Magic & Miracles

[spiritualcookie]

...Abe explained that in detail! And they gave the example of Esther, driving her VERY heavy and big monster-truck. All other motorists used to "jump aside" when she entered the highway with this BIG vehicle, as they didn't want to get mowed over (and Esther loved it). Abe have spoken about the topic quite often. When your (energetic) momentum is big and bold enough, you simply do not care about tiny doubts. It's like an avalanche in comparison to pebbles on the road- it doesn't matter. It will not hold you back. You might not even notice them!

This adds so much clarity! Thank you so much POE!
So with the example of the speeding vehicles and the tree in the way - When the desire AND energetic momentum is big and bold enough, it is like driving a huge super-strong monster truck at the most powerful speeds, so it just mows down the tree (like pebbles and boulders get mown down by an avalanche), so any tree (=doubt / resistance) won't "get in the way" of your motion forward. You just sail right through it, hardly even noticing it was there (even though it was). Something like that!

[spiritualcookie]

...Sigh... I would love to have my "old" quote-collections at hand about what the body can do! (literally everything we wand AND expect!)- as regrowing missing limbs, teeth, hair from totally bald heads, straighten out wrinkles, regain eyesight and hearing (and whatever you heard of Jesus, in regards to walking on water, conjuring food for thousands, calming storms...)

I'm pretty sure I saved some quotes from that thread
I'll add them soon!

[Jenny Lee]

Thank you so much, PoE and Spiritualcookie, I'm still processing your words, and will come here later.

PoE, it's from Abraham Hicks - It's not your job to keep the momentumThe law of attraction

I listened to it several times, and the AI transcribed it but I hadn't corrected it fully--I may not do it, so I just post the rough version here and see weather you find it useful(if you have copied it or don't feel needin git, let me know, I can edit this post):

HS: sorry,extremely well.i care.I love to care.and I love to care about others.
and I get such fulfilment,uh,everyday and focusing my energy.on others that i care for

your desirous for others.it's also in your vortex,isn't it?

HS: yeah,yeah.and I kul do most goth rum yh o life just focusing on.the people i care about the things that interest me.and giving of my selves list

stop just for a moment, we're only going to interrupt briefly,but we think it is a good thing to say right here right now.when you care for others.when you want to care for others and you do and you feel satisfied,you're getting something you want,
aren't you? yeah,so you can't separate your desire to be in uplifter.from your desire for getting what you want,because you want to be an uplifter a hundred percent,yeah,
just want to make sure that was really clear to everyone,because sometimes people think I'm either a giver or a taker.they don't realize that giving to others is the ultimate getting for yourself。嗯，yeah，
yeah，and。always easily find momentum in helping.others or you know coming to support.things,
things that i care about what I have such a longing for what and SUP,you know,no matter how much of.myself,i put into that.
I have such a longing to.right?create intel LED stories before you go into that. we're happy to go there,w wanta say one other th that is.when your desire is to help others and so your desire is to uplift them,
your desire is to.help explain the avenue for their calibration to their own connection to their own source energy. we just wanted to.be very clear that in the desire to help others is a fine line between helping and implying,i do this for you because I see you can not do it for yourself.OK,
and so as long as that's in place,then you're good to go.OK,so what are you working on here? what's your question as much as i put into that on day to day?what my calling is.
I feel so strongly about telling stories creating um stories.making films and.when it's the day to day,oh my friend,has this going on? oh,
there's this job to work on,give it my all,it's easy to find momentum in.that when it comes to times that I'm leaving that to work on stories,I want to elaborate on.
projects that I want what will happen to you as you are living in your world and you are being called as you often are by your inner being.to the fulfilment of something your gathering of stories to tell will be so immense.that nothing will keep you from doing that.I find it very challenging to keep the momentum to actually do it well. it's not your job to keep the momentum,it's your job to stay true to your focus,
and the momentum will follow naturally.so whats distracting you from your focus?I think if eli ci hh no more momentum by the time I get to that,but we think its thing different. oka,it's that,
but here's why.one on one,as people come across your path,it seems like the most natural thing in the world for you to just proceed.but it doesn't yet to you feel like the most natural thing in the world to write a script or to produce a product like that that feels like a bigger stretch for you,and so you contradict your energy by saying,I'm not ready.when you are ready,because it is as easy to create a castle as a button.
it's the same process exactly. so what we're saying to you is as you allow yourself to enjoy the living of life.the observing of life,the conclusions that come to you about life and you follow those impulses and you find yourself really effective at uplifting, then you'll feel that momentum once everything's in alignment for you.【The process, the how】
it's not that the world isn't ready for you,it's that you're not quite ready for your own intention,and it mostly has to do with thinking that it's harder to do big things than small things.it isn't true,but it feels like that in the beginning. The momentum will be so strong, you will not be able to stop yourself from moving forward in that way. also,this is gonna make a lot of sense to you because you already think like a movie maker.you like to watch movies.so we're going to offer some words here that will come to mean a lot to you as you become this movie maker.
a movie.your movie.have to be vibrational ly accurate or they will not please you,so life is vibration ally accurate.and so in some cases,
you help people and its easy in some cases,you help people and its not s easy.in other words,you're good at helping them,but they're all not in the receiving mode,
are they?and so you are coming to understand in real terms how the law.of the universe work,but more important,how people are responding to them,
how some have some awareness,how some don thow some picked up their awareness from a wise and.have some got it from a basketball coach how some didn't know it until they met you,but they were eager for it. you'll come to realize that some people with really,really strong desire who don't believe it at all, but their desire is so strong.desire is strong enough that it carries them through and you'll be able to explain that through your movies. and you'll be able to explain why some people who don't want it that much who have every way in the world to do it,they could believe it if they wanted to,they just don't.don't make anything happen,
you'll have all of these combinations and you'll be able to put all of them into your movie so that you will leave your watchers of your movies with an understanding of how this really works.there's just not some pat little formula that works for everyone all the time. there are laws that are consistent,but there are lots of different approaches to it which,if you give your self enough opportunity.to have trial and air is not the right word,
but you know what we mean,the opportunity to succeed more with some than others and to evaluate what happened and to watch.a consistent breakthrough pattern begin to happen when you say such and such you're going to hone your craft at what you want to teach before you teach it on a large scale.how do I make that more of my every day by doing what you do every day?can you feel how it's the exact same intention and we will tell you that you were born with?
it's the exact same intention that you feel that you want to help this person who's standing right in front of you who could benefit from some guidance.as it is,the desire to produce something large that will be received on a big scale is the same desire. it's the identical desire.it's just that your belief factor is more with the one on one than it is with the other,but it won't always be that way.
you talk to those and we encourage that you do it,seek out interviews with those who are now succeeding at what you intend to do and listen to them. tell you what we just told you.OK,sometimes their intentions are out ahead of their belief.here's something really good. you're going to get this really clearly,
you heard US just now say,go sometimes someone that you're wanting to help.their desire is so strong like the mother who picks the piano up off her child who never thought she could pick a piano up off her child until her child needed a piano picked up off of them.and then suddenly her desire was so strong that she was able to do something that she never,ever believed that she could do because the desire factor kicked in and surpassed everything else.
so you're gonna meet people like that,and then you're gonna become one of them.when your desire is strong enough to overcome the beliefs you've been carrying around.tell this story all kinds of different ways,but here are a couple of ways and you can sort out which works best for you. we like to say.


If your car is going a hundred miles an hour and it hits a tree, it's a bigger problem than if it's going five miles an hour and hits a tree. Well, people come away from that story with two different conclusions. Sometimes people say I'm never gonna drive fast because i don't want to hit trees. And some people say, if I'm gonna hit a tree, I wanna hit it when I'm going slow, but what we mean by it is if you're going fast enough, the tree will not be in the way.In other words, you can go fast enough that your resistance will not be a problem,so then we go on with our explanation of deliberate creation.and we say to you.you don't want to try to rid jerself of desire.what you want to do is re leas resistence.
so you want a release beliefs that are keeping you from believing.you want to practise thoughts that are about what you want and you want to no longer practise the thoughts about where will I get the funding and how will I get the support and.all of that don't practice those thoughts,those thoughts don't mean anything,and they don't help you. and they're not necessary when it's time for that,
you'll be guided to it.nothing could keep you from that,you say.in religious tomes,people talk about faith.
and what they mean is believing in something they can't see yet. well,that's what we're asking of you,we're asking you to believe in what you want without seeing the immediate path to get to it.because that's how it works when you want it,your inner being is all over. it it's happening.
the only question is,how much are you gonna go through before you let yourself believe it?and as you listen to others,you'll hear lots of stories about how finally it just clicked in with them,but mostly you know what will happen to you.
y OK it meading people.who would be so benefited by what you know?that you'll just develop this powerful desire to once and for all find a way to explain it to them.thank you sometimes,it takes a lot of trouble to stir up a desire in somebody sort of why you all said.
ya'll pick this time on planet ers.seems like they'll be quite a bit of trouble.just enough,not so much to paralyze me,but enough to get me going.
yeah,good.

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I'm pretty sure I saved some quotes from that thread
I'll add them soon!

awesome!!!! Thank you!!