What if my husband is Mr. Grumpy? (How to be an Uplifter)
Q:
I'm new to this work. I've been doing it for about six months or so, and I've been doing the workshop and the meditation, which is wonderful. And one of the problems that I have is that my husband -– who is wonderful, I adore him -– but he's very negative, and I'll do my morning meditation and I do my workshop, and I just am elated and in total appreciation of the Universe, and I'm totally high and I'll go back in and he's Mr. Grumpy. And I'm....
Abe:
Well, the good news is: his vibration can't get into you. So whatever you are doing that is bringing you to that place of feeling good cannot be affected by his vibration, he cannot assert it into your experience.
Q: Right.
Abe:
And so, if you acknowledge him for a moment -– you walk in, he's Mr. Grumpy, it really hits you hard because he's in such a different place than you are. And you take the hit, and out of it you launch a rocket of desire which goes something like, "Gee, I wish he'd feel better. I wish he could find some of the joy I'm finding. I wish he felt as happy in this moment as I do."
And then you turn your full attention to this desire that's been born out of this experience, and you forget who he is and instead pretend he is this so that you let him stimulate your vibration relative to him in a way that feels good to you. And with a little bit of practice, you can begin seeing him as he really is, not as he temporarily is.
Q: Okay.
Abe:
In other words, he doesn't like feeling grumpy any more than you like him feeling grumpy, but here's the thing: so here you stand, let's say you've been meditating, you've been walking, you're feeling really good. You come in and, under normal circumstances, if you were just following your bliss you would just keep running, you wouldn't even stop at that house where the grumpy one is. (Laughter from audience.)
Because it's not a vibrational match to who you are!
But you have this obligation, in other words, you have this commitment, you have this paper that says you live there and so (more laughter) you stop there, you defy the guidance that is within you, and you do what you 'should' do rather than what your guidance would encourage you to do otherwise. In other words, don't you find yourself making as many excuses as you can to do all the other things that feel good and then you sort of drag yourself home because the – and so, there you are.
You've been hit with the negative vibration, or with the different vibration, and it doesn't feel very good, and now in that moment you have a choice: which thought feels better? So now you can look at him as he is, and as you address it, whether you're saying 'yes' to it or 'no' to it or you're saying 'this is what it is' -– it does not matter whether you're making any judgment about it or not -– as you observe his vibration, whatever it is, it begins to be included in your vibration.
Q: Yeah.
Abe:
And you begin to feel the drowning of your cork, you begin to feel the lowering of your vibration, you begin to feel the separation of you from your Source energy. And then the impulse for most –- we're not feeling it much in you, you're using light and fluffy sweet-like words about this grumpy darling (laughter) –- as you acknowledge that he is the temporary reason that you are not as connected to your Source energy as you once were.
Now here's where your choice comes in. You can call that a bad thing and really be unhappy about it, or you can acknowledge that he is just a particle of the Universe that has achieved his vibration in whatever way he has and let him vibrate however he chooses while you fill your head or your mind or your day with thoughts that feel better to you. And what will begin to happen is, you will be living in your endless loop while he is living in his endless loop, and one or the other of you will then make the decision to join the other.
Q:
Right. Part of what I -– and I'm a fixer, probably a typical woman, I want to help people, sort of... so I want to fix him, I want to share with him my delight and my joy, and I know that's part of where the problem is, going in and....
Abe:
Well, the problem with that, you see, nothing is more annoying to the one being fixed (laughter) than to be in the place of not feeling very good and have some bright-eyed, bushy-tailed person trying to fix them. In other words, nobody wants to learn that they're the creator of their own reality when they're in a place they don't like being. In other words, you're wanting to watch for his time of connection before you offer -– in other words, here's the rule of thumb: talk endlessly to your mate as long as you are feeling good while you are talking.
Q: Okay.
Abe:
In other words, share with him endlessly as long as you are feeling good. And the most important thing that we would say to you about this specific person is he is finding his own way of connecting, and his way may not be your way, and it doesn't make his way wrong or your way right or other way around. Because you are both wanting the same thing. We promise you that there is not anything that he would want for you more than for you to be joyful!
But sometimes when a person is really joyful and you want to be joyful but aren't, their joy just reminds you that you're not where you want to be. And the response looks like they don't really want you to be joyful when if you were to ask him, he wants your joy as much as he wants life itself. He loves the fact that you are joyful. And so what you have to do, is not give so much attention to how he's feeling.
In other words, how he's feeling is really much less of your business than you think that it is.
Don't give so much of your attention to how he's feeling. Let your attention be about how *you're* feeling. And now here's where it becomes a little complex, but here's where the answer is: "How am I feeling about how you're feeling?" (Laughter.) "How am I feeling about how you're feeling? Well, you're feeling crummy, and now I'm feeling crummy about your feeling crummy, which means you now have power in my experience." And so what you're wanting '– you're wanting to feel good about him feeling crummy. Now, how can you feel good about him feeling crummy? (Laughter.)
-By understanding that it's temporary, by understanding that he's not always [feeling crummy],
-by understanding that you sometimes feel crummy too but that you can raise your vibration,
-by understanding that in that crummy experience there is a rocket of desire that is going off, and
-by understanding that the rocket of desire is the nugget.
-By understanding that his life experience is honing out something that is very powerful.
And sometimes you can stand back at a distance while he's having this contrasting experience and as he gives birth to a rocket of desire sometimes you can get a glimpse of the rocket even though he can't. And so, when your grumpy friend launches a rocket and you start looking at the rocket instead of at your grumpy friend, now you're in a place that you're helping.
In other words, now you're anticipating on his behalf! That's what a true uplifter does –- you let the contrast produce the rocket and you fixate on his rocket of desire, even though he can't, because when you fixate on someone you love's rocket of desire, they are more likely to find vibrational harmony with it every now and again, too. It's like, you're a satellite dish beaming the signal and making it more accessible to him!
Q: Mm-hm.
Abe:
But when you do the opposite, which is to say, "Oh. You're feeling crummy. Now I'm feeling crummy," all that's happened is that he has influenced you into a lower vibration when what you want is to influence him into a higher vibration.
Q:
And that's not what he wants anyway. To bring me down. Yes.
Abe:
Last thing he wants. The last thing he wants is to be down himself, you see. Nobody gets discouraged on purpose. Nobody feels unworthy on purpose. None of you did it all at once. All of you did it just one little thought at a time, and you'll get out of it one little thought at a time, too.
Oh, it is so exhilarating, it is such a gift to give to a grumpy person (laughter), to be joyful yourself! Because every part of him wants that, and there is an osmosis that begins to take place. In other words, you just can't be around a joyful person without either being driven to crisis or becoming more joyful yourself. And in either case, another rocket of desire will be born. In other words, the crisis just produces stronger desire which makes the happy person that is around you even more influential.
Think about it! No one can lose, no matter what the circumstances are, because you can choose this end of the stick and focus upon it, which means Law of Attraction will embellish and enhance and give you more of that. Or you can focus on [the other] end of the stick which just means that sooner or later you're going to shoot off a rocket of desire. And so in either case the desire will be born within you, in either case you will be the fulfilling of the intention that you established.
The question that we are asking here is: how long are you willing to stand in a place of not being a vibrational match to your desires?
Why are you tolerating the uncomfortable vibration? We want to put it to you very bluntly, and so we will. (Laughter.) Why are you using your husband as even a temporary excuse to not feel as joyful as you want and deserve to feel? "I don't know, it's just habit. Doesn't feel very good, though." It's because most of you have not understood what your guidance system is, and most of you have not understood that you are wired selfishly! That you are wired to feel good. You are wired to feel good.
But so many of you think that "now that I'm wired to feel good, that means the rest of the world should stand on its head in order to provide something good-feeling for me to observe." And the rest of the world is not one bit interested in satisfying your selfish desire, because the rest of the world is after *its* selfish desire, and that's the way it must be!
That's why everything continues to evolve. The one-celled amoeba is out there in the ocean having its personal experience and having its personal exposure to its personal experience, and its desire is being born, and in the moment that its desire is being born Nonphysical is answering it, and that is why it is evolving as it is. That is why all things in this Universe are as they are. Everything is evolving because the Universe is answering every selfish desire.
Q:
The other thing, what you were just talking about is, it's kind of like when I get to feeling so good and I'm confronted with his mood, it brings to mind the question of since the rest of the world isn't as joyous and hasn't reached that state, how can I feel about being there myself when there's...?
Abe:
Because you are selfishly wired, and because when you look in the pile of sticks, there are plenty of things you can look at. And because what you're saying otherwise is, "How do I have the right to feel good when there are others who do not feel so good?"
Q: Right.
Abe:
And we say: you can't get sick enough to make the sick ones well.
Q: (Laughing.) Right.
Abe:
You can't get poor enough to make the poor ones prosperous. In other words, that's not the way that it works! The way that it works -– your only hope in helping anyone, is to connect to the stream, and when you connect to the stream, then the Source energy flows through you, and then- whatever you are giving your attention benefits, you see.
But you must be selfish enough to keep yourself in vibrational concert with that stream before you have anything to give anyone, you see.
You are joy-seeking beings who have come forth into what we see as the perfect environment for desire to be born within you. What this workshop is about –- we know you could speak it as clearly as we can now, we've said it enough times to you today -– what your work is about, is to bring yourself into vibrational harmony with allowing the energy that is you, to flow. And in simple terms, what that means is, your work is to look wherever you stand, whether you are looking in the past, present or future, your work is to consume your now with the thought that feels best. With the thought that feels best, with the thought that feels best, with the thought that feels best.
And there are always choices there for you! In other words, you can look at the hole in the wall or you can look at the beautiful painting. You can look at the lightbulb that is out, or you can see the lightbulb that is working. You can look at your mate in his positive aspect, or you can look at your mate in his negative aspect. You can look at your own body and find something that pleases you, or find something that doesn't. You can remember your childhood and find something of pleasure, or you can find something that makes you feel discouraged. You can remember a compliment or you can remember somebody down on you. You can remember your love- or you can remember your hate.
In other words, you have that choice in every moment, and you are the definers of that. You are focusers of energy, that's what a creator is. A creator is someone who stands in their now and focuses energy, and you are in the perfect environment to do that, you see. There.
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To be an UPLIFTER
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To be an UPLIFTER
Each time you are appreciating, you bring pure positive Energy into the experience
of whatever is the object of your appreciation.
It sounds so simple, but it is POWERFUL in it's pureness.
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
You can form a fantasy about someone in your life,
and they will begin to modify to meet your fantasy.
Because Law of Attraction is a very powerful thing.
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
Feel appreciation for those who provide examples of Well-being. How would you know that prosperity was possible if there wasn't some evidence of prosperity around you? It's all part of this contrast that helps you to sharpen your desire.
--- Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Orlando, FL on Sunday, January 10th, 1999
--- Abraham
Excerpted from the workshop in Orlando, FL on Sunday, January 10th, 1999
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
Giving to others is the ultimate getting for yourself!
(It's not your job to keep the momentum.)
Outtake:
You don't want to try to rid yourself of desire!
What you want to do is release resistence.
Abraham Hicks
(It's not your job to keep the momentum.)
Jenny Lee wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 1:09 am
HS:
(...) I care. I love to care. And I love to care about others. And I get such fulfillment, uh, everyday, and focusing my energy on others that I care for...
Abe:
You are desirous for others. It's also in your vortex, isn't it?
HS:
Yeah, yeah! and I could almost go through my whole life, just focusing on the people I care about! The thing that interests me, the giving of myself...
Abe:
Let's stop just for a moment, we're only going to interrupt briefly, but we think it is a good thing to say right here, right now:
when you care for others, when you want to care for others and you do, and you feel satisfied, you're getting something you want, aren't you?
(HS: YES!) So you can't separate your desire to be in uplifter; from your desire for getting what you want, Because you want to be an uplifter a hundred percent. -We just want to make sure, that was really clear to everyone! Because sometimes people think "I'm either a giver or a taker." They don't realize, that giving to others is the ultimate getting for yourself!!
HS:
I always easily find momentum in helping others, or you know, coming to support.things, things that I care about. What I have such a longing for, you know, no matter how much of myself I put into that. I have such a longing to create, and tell stories...
Abe:
Before you go into that- we're happy to go there, we want to say one other thing, that is: When your desire is to help others, and so your desire is to uplift them, your desire is to help explain the avenue for their calibration to their own connection, to their own source energy. We just wanted to be very clear, that
in the desire to help others is a fine line, between helping and implying "I do this for you, because I see you can not do it for yourself."
And so, as long as that's in place, then you're good to go.
OK, so what are you working on here? What's your question?
HS:
As much as I put into that, on a day to day... what my calling is, I feel so strongly about telling stories. Creating, um, stories. Making films and, when it's the day to day, oh my friend, has this going on? Oh, there's this job to work on, give it my all, it's easy to find momentum in that. (But) when it comes to times that I'm leaving that to work on stories I want to elaborate on, projects that I want...
Abe:
What will happen to you as you are living in your world, and you are being called as you often are, by your inner being to the fulfilment of something, your gathering of stories to tell will be so immense, that nothing will keep you from doing that!
HS:
I find it very challenging to keep the momentum to actually do it well.
Abe:
It's not your job to keep the momentum! It's your job to stay true to your focus, and the momentum will follow naturally.
So, whats distracting you from your focus?
HS:
I think... if I feel like I have no more momentum by the time I get to that.
Abe:
But we think it's something different!
(HS: okay.) It's that! But here's WHY: One on one, as people come across your path, it seems like the most natural thing in the world for you to just proceed. But it doesn't yet, to you, feel like the most natural thing in the world, to write a script or to produce a product like that. That feels like a bigger stretch for you, and so you contradict your energy by saying, "I'm not ready" -when you are ready! Because it is as easy to create a castle as a button. It's the same process, exactly.
So, what we're saying to you is: As you allow yourself to enjoy the living of life, the observing of life, the conclusions that come to you about life... and you follow those impulses, and you find yourself really effective at uplifting, then you'll feel that momentum, once everything's in alignment for you. (...)
It's not that the world isn't ready for you. It's that you're not quite ready for your own intention!
And it mostly has to do with thinking that it's harder to do big things, than small things. It isn't true, but it feels like that, in the beginning. The momentum will be so strong, you will not be able to stop yourself from moving forward in that way. Also, -this is gonna make a lot of sense to you, because you already think like a movie maker. You like to watch movies. So, we're going to offer some words here, that will come to mean a lot to you, as you become this movie maker.
A movie, your movie, has to be vibrationally accurate- or they will not please you.
So, life is vibrationally accurate. And so, in some cases, you help people and its easy in some cases, you help people and its not so easy. In other words, you're good at helping them, but they're all not in the receiving mode, are they? And so, you are coming to understand in real terms, how the laws of the universe work. But more important, how people are responding to them.
How some have some awareness, how some don't. How some picked up their awareness from a wise grandmother, and how some got it from a basketball coach. How some didn't know it until they met you, but they were eager for it. ...You'll come to realize, that some people with really, really strong desire -who don't believe it at all, but their desire is so strong! Their desire is strong enough, that it carries them through. And you'll be able to explain that, through your movies. And you'll be able to explain why some people, who don't want it that much- who have every way in the world to do it, they could believe it if they wanted to, they just don't, don't make anything happen.
You'll have all of these combinations, and you'll be able to put all of them into your movie! So, that you will leave your watchers of your movies with an understanding of how this really works.
There's just not some pat little formula, that works for everyone, all the time! There are laws that are consistent, but there are lots of different approaches to it. Which, if you give your self enough opportunity to have ...trial and error is not the right word, but you know what we mean... the opportunity to succeed more with some, than others. And to evaluate what happened, and to watch a consistent breakthrough-pattern begin to happen, when you say such and such.
You're going to hone your craft at what you want to teach, before you teach it on a large scale!
HS:
How do I make that more of my every day?
Abe:
By doing what you do every day! Can you feel how it's the exact same intention, and we will tell you that you were born with!? It's the exact same intention that you feel, that you want to help this person who's standing right in front of you, who could benefit from some guidance, as it is the desire to produce something large, that will be received on a big scale. It's the same desire. It's the identical desire. It's just that your belief factor is more with the one on one, than it is with the other, (but it won't always be that way), you talk to those.
And we encourage that you do it! Seek out interviews with those who are now succeeding at what you intend to do, and listen to them. They will tell you what we just told you. Sometimes their intentions are out ahead of their belief... here's something really good. You're going to get this really clearly: You heard us just now say, that sometimes someone that you're wanting to help, their desire is so strong... like the mother, who picks the piano up off her child. Who never thought she could pick a piano up, off her child -until her child needed a piano picked up off of them!
And then suddenly her desire was so strong, that she was able to do something that she never ever believed that she could do. Because the desire factor kicked in and surpassed everything else.
So you're gonna meet people like that, and then you're gonna become one of them. When your desire is strong enough to overcome the beliefs you've been carrying around... tell this story through all kinds of different ways, but here are a couple of ways, and you can sort out which works best for you!
We like to say: If your car is going a hundred miles an hour and it hits a tree, it's a bigger problem than if it's going five miles an hour and hits a tree. Well, people come away from that story with two different conclusions. Sometimes people say "I'm never gonna drive fast because I don't want to hit trees. And some people say, if I'm gonna hit a tree, I wanna hit it when I'm going slow, but
what we mean by it is, if you're going fast enough, the tree will not be in the way.
In other words, you can go fast enough that your resistance will not be a problem, so then we go on with our explanation of deliberate creation. And we say to you:
"You don't want to try to rid yourself of desire! What you want to do is release resistence".
-So you want to release beliefs, that are keeping you from believing.
-You want to practice thoughts, that are about what you want, and
-you want to no longer practice the thoughts about "where will I get the funding, and how will I get the support..." and all of that.
Don't practice those thoughts! Those thoughts don't mean anything, and they don't help you. And they're not necessary!
When it's time for that, you'll be guided to it! Nothing could keep you from that!
You say... in religious terms, people talk about faith.
And what they mean is, believing in something they can't see yet. Well, that's what we're asking of you! We're asking you to believe in what you want, without seeing the immediate path to get to it. Because that's how it works! When you want it, your inner being is all over. It it's happening. The only question is, how much are you gonna go through, before you let yourself believe it?
And as you listen to others, you'll hear lots of stories about how finally it just clicked in with them, but mostly you know what will happen to you. You'll keep meeting people, who would be so benefitted by what you know, that you'll just develop this powerful desire to -once and for all- find a way to explain it to them.
HS: thank you!
Abe:
Sometimes, it takes a lot of trouble to stir up a desire in somebody. Sort of, why you all said: "Yeah, I'll pick this time on planet Earth! Seems like, they'll be quite a bit of trouble. Just enough! Not so much to paralyze me, but enough to get me going!" -yeah, good!
from the youtube-clip "Abraham Hicks - It's not your job to keep the momentumThe law of attraction"
The law of attraction"Outtake:
You don't want to try to rid yourself of desire!
What you want to do is release resistence.
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
About healing your Shortage-Consciousness and become an Uplifter!
(The Checkbook-game)
Almost everyone has feelings of sort of sealings, or limitations, on how much money you associate with "living the good life". In other words, you have these feelings of how much money is enough money! And, how much money is "too much" money. There are a lot of people that are spending a lot of money, and they're feeling joyful in it. But you can't find them, from your place of believing that spending money is an inappropriate thing!
So let's work on that just for a little bit. Because we we want to ask you some questions: If you were to purchase something that you really don't need, something that costs a lot let's say. You go into a jewelry store and you find something that's really shiny and beautiful, and that attracts you, because of its beauty. And you inquire what it costs, and they tell you it's $200,000 -and you have the money to pay it! Let's say that you have $220,000 in your bank account right now. So, you can afford it. So you buy it. What's the feeling from where you currently stand about that? Do you feel like nobody should spend that much money on something? Like, that it feels wasteful?
So, now you're receiving that trinket. And you are giving someone some money, and that person is receiving that money, and paying someone who moved it from one place to another. So they're receiving a little bit of benefit from it. And the person who created it, is receiving some money from it. And the materials that went into it, those people are receiving some money from it. So, let's say that there are 20 people- or more, but let's say there are 20 people who will financially benefit from your purchase.
Is it wasteful for you to add to the financial well-being of others?
Some of them will send their children to school with the money, that you have paid for that. Some of them will buy food with the money that you've paid for that. Some of them will donate it to orphanages. Some of them will pay taxes. So, what has really happened here? Have you added to the economy? Have you added a lifestyle? Has there really been any wastefulness? In other words, you could say "I didn't really need this."
But when you think about it in terms of the economy, and the people that benefited from the spending of the money, where do you get the idea that your participating in the economic system is somehow doing something that is wrong?
How did this Shortage-consciousness occur- when you are all exchanging your gifts and services in this economic world, that you have going on? We want to submit to you, that the more money that you allow to flow through you, and the more places that you funnel the money that flows through you, the more you uplift!
Have you taken a look at your economy? Do you know that your economy is at an all-time high? And do you understand that it was not that long ago, that you were trading beads and fur and things- in other words, your economy isn't bigger because you have connected to some spaceship that has been piping in resources from other galaxies! Your economy is only improving because you have found different ways exchanging your human vitality with one another!
And the more you exchange that, the more vital you are.
And the more vital your economy is!
Everyone wins, when you find ways to attract and release, to "breathe" them.
Now if you were sucking it in and holding it, and not letting it out- we can understand how there could be some imbalance. Just like if you were to try to breathe air in, as you breathe air in and you don't allow it to flow out- in other words... there is a little hangup even about breathing, that is going on!
In other words we like to use the analogy "breathing in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out." It's effortless. When you run, you want more. When you sleep, you want less: In and out, in and out. You never suck it in and hold it, for fear there won't be more, later! You never stand out on your porch for fear that there won't be enough left in the afternoon: "I need to get it all while I can!" -you expect the air to be there when you want it. And we want you to understand that the vitality, and the clarity, and the money, is THERE.
It's always there for you, breathe it in in and breathe it out. And breathe it in and breathe it out.
And that's the point of that game, that's what that game is designed to help you to do is: To think of things that you would like to use as your excuse to allow the money to flow in. But if you feel guilty about spending money, if we were standing in your physical shoes, now as you're spending that money, think about what those will do! Who will receive the money? Think about that!!
Think of yourself as a philanthropist in the uplifting of others from whom you buy!
It it's a checkbook game where you deposit $1,000 into your account vibrational dollars and you spend that 1,000 on the second day you deposit 2,000 and spend them on the third day you deposit 3,000 and spend them on the 365th day you you deposit 365,000 and spend it. So, as you are spending this money vibrationally, as you are mentally spending it, what's happening is: you are creating Outlets out there for it to go. When you create a vibrational Outlet it draws you, and everything, for the accomplishment of it through you!
That's what eagerness is. That's what passion is! That's what your feeling of enthusiasm is!
From the youtube- clip "Abraham Hicks
BE DONE WITH THE STRUGGLE! LET THE MONEY FLOW WITH EASE! ~ Law of Attraction"
(The Checkbook-game)
Almost everyone has feelings of sort of sealings, or limitations, on how much money you associate with "living the good life". In other words, you have these feelings of how much money is enough money! And, how much money is "too much" money. There are a lot of people that are spending a lot of money, and they're feeling joyful in it. But you can't find them, from your place of believing that spending money is an inappropriate thing!
So let's work on that just for a little bit. Because we we want to ask you some questions: If you were to purchase something that you really don't need, something that costs a lot let's say. You go into a jewelry store and you find something that's really shiny and beautiful, and that attracts you, because of its beauty. And you inquire what it costs, and they tell you it's $200,000 -and you have the money to pay it! Let's say that you have $220,000 in your bank account right now. So, you can afford it. So you buy it. What's the feeling from where you currently stand about that? Do you feel like nobody should spend that much money on something? Like, that it feels wasteful?
So, now you're receiving that trinket. And you are giving someone some money, and that person is receiving that money, and paying someone who moved it from one place to another. So they're receiving a little bit of benefit from it. And the person who created it, is receiving some money from it. And the materials that went into it, those people are receiving some money from it. So, let's say that there are 20 people- or more, but let's say there are 20 people who will financially benefit from your purchase.
Is it wasteful for you to add to the financial well-being of others?
Some of them will send their children to school with the money, that you have paid for that. Some of them will buy food with the money that you've paid for that. Some of them will donate it to orphanages. Some of them will pay taxes. So, what has really happened here? Have you added to the economy? Have you added a lifestyle? Has there really been any wastefulness? In other words, you could say "I didn't really need this."
But when you think about it in terms of the economy, and the people that benefited from the spending of the money, where do you get the idea that your participating in the economic system is somehow doing something that is wrong?
How did this Shortage-consciousness occur- when you are all exchanging your gifts and services in this economic world, that you have going on? We want to submit to you, that the more money that you allow to flow through you, and the more places that you funnel the money that flows through you, the more you uplift!
Have you taken a look at your economy? Do you know that your economy is at an all-time high? And do you understand that it was not that long ago, that you were trading beads and fur and things- in other words, your economy isn't bigger because you have connected to some spaceship that has been piping in resources from other galaxies! Your economy is only improving because you have found different ways exchanging your human vitality with one another!
And the more you exchange that, the more vital you are.
And the more vital your economy is!
Everyone wins, when you find ways to attract and release, to "breathe" them.
Now if you were sucking it in and holding it, and not letting it out- we can understand how there could be some imbalance. Just like if you were to try to breathe air in, as you breathe air in and you don't allow it to flow out- in other words... there is a little hangup even about breathing, that is going on!
In other words we like to use the analogy "breathing in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out." It's effortless. When you run, you want more. When you sleep, you want less: In and out, in and out. You never suck it in and hold it, for fear there won't be more, later! You never stand out on your porch for fear that there won't be enough left in the afternoon: "I need to get it all while I can!" -you expect the air to be there when you want it. And we want you to understand that the vitality, and the clarity, and the money, is THERE.
It's always there for you, breathe it in in and breathe it out. And breathe it in and breathe it out.
And that's the point of that game, that's what that game is designed to help you to do is: To think of things that you would like to use as your excuse to allow the money to flow in. But if you feel guilty about spending money, if we were standing in your physical shoes, now as you're spending that money, think about what those will do! Who will receive the money? Think about that!!
Think of yourself as a philanthropist in the uplifting of others from whom you buy!
It it's a checkbook game where you deposit $1,000 into your account vibrational dollars and you spend that 1,000 on the second day you deposit 2,000 and spend them on the third day you deposit 3,000 and spend them on the 365th day you you deposit 365,000 and spend it. So, as you are spending this money vibrationally, as you are mentally spending it, what's happening is: you are creating Outlets out there for it to go. When you create a vibrational Outlet it draws you, and everything, for the accomplishment of it through you!
That's what eagerness is. That's what passion is! That's what your feeling of enthusiasm is!
From the youtube- clip "Abraham Hicks
BE DONE WITH THE STRUGGLE! LET THE MONEY FLOW WITH EASE! ~ Law of Attraction"-
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
What is Art?
How to attract money for your Art?
Can I save people with my Art?
HS:
So I have three questions.
The first is: What is art? I want to hear it straight from source! What is art, and what is the purpose of it all? (...)
Abe:
We love the question because it gives us an opportunity to continue the conversation that we were just having, in a very powerful way.
(Art) exists for satisfaction and for pleasure, period.
...And that twists the brains of most practical humans into a knot! "It's for fun? It's the pleasure? Doesn't it have some more practical purpose?? Does it save lives? Does it put food in cans? ...But the point that we're making is, that It gives us an opportunity to say, that things that are pleasurable are of MOST importance. And that's what it's for! The satisfaction factor is a big big factor, and so, that's what it's about. It's interesting, because
an artist puts into -whatever he is sculpting or painting or creating, he/she imbues it with how they feel, while they're doing it.
And then the law of attraction gathers others, who feel the same way to it. So when you buy a painting, you're sort of high-fiving the artist! -Sort of like saying "oh yeah, man. I felt like that. I feel like that- I see desperation in your painting! High-five!" Or: "Hey man! I see joy in that! High-five!"
HS:
What I feel like, is that the art that I create, and from listening to you, lowers the resistance for people to come closer, to who they are.
Abe:
Maybe, but that's not your job. (HS: that's not my job...?)
Because if you are considering someone's lower vibration, you're putting it in your painting! You can't consider it, without putting it in your painting. So it's your job to tend to who you are.
And that's their job to find harmony with that, or not! You know what teachers like you... you know what your biggest discomfort is? You keep wanting to go save people. But in order to save them, you have to harmonize where they are! And then you don't save them.
So talk to us more about that, if you want to! We believe in bridges. If we were standing in your physical shoes, we would tune to the highest frequency in every individual on the planet. Our attitude would be: "I'm painting from source. And when you are in tune with source, you're gonna love what I paint, or what I sculpt, or...
HS (almost crying):
Yeah. Metal sculpture. Metal sculpture is what I do, and...
Abe:
What's touching you in that tender place?
HS (crying)
Like, am I now going to give myself the permission to create the sculptures? It's JUST between source and I...?
Abe:
Here's what's bothering you. You sense- and this is not inaccurate, you see- you're a high fiver. You are a deliberate harmonizer. So many artists of music and artists of... ART! Artists of all creative fashion have discovered, that harmonizing with people who are wadded up in their discomfort- there's a bigger audience. In other words, most of the love songs are love-gone-bad! Because more people high five to that.
So when you say "give yourself permission", you see- you ALWAYS sculpted from where you are! Are you now telling us, that you feel regret, that some of your sculpting was from a lesser vibration, than where you now are? (HS: I don't regret it.) Ohh, we're so so happy to hear that!
HS:
No no! It's growth, its growth, yeah!
Abe:
And it will never stop! The evolution will never stop. So, what's troubling you?
HS:
My desire is to create beautiful art that feels good to me. That I enjoy making it, and to be paid very very well for it. I am stopping myself. The art is beautiful, but finding the affluent clients, are allowing the affluent clients...
Abe:
Here's the thing. You're gonna like this, and you know this already. But hearing it will be good:
The same connection required to create the beautiful art- it's a same connection required, to find the affluent seekers of your art. It's the same thing.
So if you can do one; if you are doing one- you are doing the other! Except that you're talking about not doing the other, you see. This is a really common thing with so many of you, we love you so much! The things that you are doing on your own, when you accept something, one of the things that is so freeing for artists is, that they often feel that it's just between them and their source. And so, there aren't a lot of other factors to consider. So, that part of it comes easily to you. Because you know when you get tuned in- it flows! And when you're not tuned in, it does'nt.
And so you tune in and it flows. But when you think about other people, you don't have confidence in them, being tuned in! You don't trust them. Why? Because they're not trustworthy! We don't want you to trust other humans! ...Stay with us: we don't want you to put your trust in them.
We want you put your trust in your point of Attraction!
One who's connected to source is a million times more powerful than one who is not. And so, never mind what they're doing. It's NOT your job to sort it all out. It's your job to harmonize with your source and feel the joy, that is evidenced when you are with your source, and let that take care of everything else! But in the sentence that you spoke to us, that was based with some momentum of vibration, what you said is: "I'm really good at this. But I'm not good at that!" "But I'm really good at this. But I'm not good at (that.) But I'm really good at this! But I'm not really good at (that)!
So, just talk about what you're good at. And leave it there:
"I'm really good at this. And my intervene as good at the rest of it. I'm really good at this." -It's attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction! Its attraction. Now if you can cure this, and we think you can! Because we are stubbornly gonna stay here, till you do! It's attraction. It's your attraction. Its attraction! It's your attraction! Its attraction. It's your attraction. Those patrons- they're irrelevant: Its attraction. Its attraction. Its attraction! If you put your mind on who you think they are, you screw up your attraction, because you've decided that they are something (that some of them are). But you've decided, that all of them are something, that all of them aren't!
The world is awash in money!
There are people with soo much money, just looking for something meaningful, and satisfying to do with it! And your Inner Being is finding those cooperative components. That's NOT your work! Your work is to keep your vibration in the place where what your source lines up for you, and the co-operative components there lined up for you- you're not blocking with your negative belief.
It's attraction. That's attraction.
It's NOT about what they're doing, about what you're doing! It's about what you're doing.
Because there's enough of them that are doing what you need them to do for you, to live happily ever after- for 20 or 30 or 40 or 50 lifetimes. The proportion is huge. It isn't what they think it's what you think, that they think. That is messing up your point of Attraction! And you're making it up. You've known so many people that didn't have any money, that you've decided to feel that way about everybody!
HS:
I feel like, my life is just gonna get easier now! Because if I only have to worry about me and myself, and the art that I love to create... so...
Abe:
Now that you've said that, we're going to offer a ridiculous analogy, just to confirm what you just said. Because you heard clearly what we said to you! -Let's say that you're someone who really wants to feel good. And you still are looking to others for their confirmation, and affirmation, and approval. And you're so determined to feel good, and now you're an Internet-genius. You know how to create programs, and you know all about optimization. And so, you send out your profile to the world. You hook in to every meaningful search engine in the world, and here's your picture, and it says "This is me. This is my name, and these are my requirements of you. So when you meet me- I might be in an airport, I might be in the grocery store, I might be walking down the street in any number of cities... keep your eyes open and watch out for me. And when you see me, behave in these ways..."
OR, you could just accept that it's your point of Attraction, and do something about that!
In other words, you could ineffectively and absurdly try to control the behavior of one other, or all others, OR you could accept that it's attraction. Attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, only attraction! Only attraction. Only attraction. Only attraction! Only attraction! Only attraction.
And just clarify your own point of attraction, by getting out ahead of it. It's so easy to let a situation be your reason for calibration! Something happens to you, somebody says something to you, you overhear something, you observe something... is so easy to observe that, until you have harmonized with it, and then your point of Attraction is affected by that. And it has affected you strongly! -So you keep thinking about it, and regurgitating it, and even talking to others about it -so that it really gets a foothold. Then more and more and more and more and more and more of it comes to you, until it becomes a belief, that it's hard for you to get around. But... if you could just wipe your mind of those kind of beliefs! We're gonna make a really strong statement here, that is absolutely accurate. Hard to do, but really accurate.
All you have to have, is a desire. Period! And the Universe will answer your desire.
But if you have a desire in an opposing belief- nope. Not.
Because the Universe isn't answering it! It IS- but because you're not letting it in, so you're missing all the clues. So if you could just have desire, that's why new desires feel so good! Because you haven't figured out how to trample them. That's why new relationships feel so good: you don't know anything about each other. It's so fun to calibrate! To calibrate to the clarity of your Inner Being! To your Inner Being who knows your value, and knows what you want, and cares about it, and knows every person on the planet, who is looking for what you're offering!
If you're not blocking it with past experience, or law of averages. Law of averages is nothing!! Law of averages is just a consensus of the negative thoughts of the humans of the planet.
It's the law of attraction, that matters.
from the clip: Abraham Hicks 2020 The Real Purpose of Art NEW
How to attract money for your Art?
Can I save people with my Art?
HS:
So I have three questions.
The first is: What is art? I want to hear it straight from source! What is art, and what is the purpose of it all? (...)
Abe:
We love the question because it gives us an opportunity to continue the conversation that we were just having, in a very powerful way.
(Art) exists for satisfaction and for pleasure, period.
...And that twists the brains of most practical humans into a knot! "It's for fun? It's the pleasure? Doesn't it have some more practical purpose?? Does it save lives? Does it put food in cans? ...But the point that we're making is, that It gives us an opportunity to say, that things that are pleasurable are of MOST importance. And that's what it's for! The satisfaction factor is a big big factor, and so, that's what it's about. It's interesting, because
an artist puts into -whatever he is sculpting or painting or creating, he/she imbues it with how they feel, while they're doing it.
And then the law of attraction gathers others, who feel the same way to it. So when you buy a painting, you're sort of high-fiving the artist! -Sort of like saying "oh yeah, man. I felt like that. I feel like that- I see desperation in your painting! High-five!" Or: "Hey man! I see joy in that! High-five!"
HS:
What I feel like, is that the art that I create, and from listening to you, lowers the resistance for people to come closer, to who they are.
Abe:
Maybe, but that's not your job. (HS: that's not my job...?)
Because if you are considering someone's lower vibration, you're putting it in your painting! You can't consider it, without putting it in your painting. So it's your job to tend to who you are.
And that's their job to find harmony with that, or not! You know what teachers like you... you know what your biggest discomfort is? You keep wanting to go save people. But in order to save them, you have to harmonize where they are! And then you don't save them.
So talk to us more about that, if you want to! We believe in bridges. If we were standing in your physical shoes, we would tune to the highest frequency in every individual on the planet. Our attitude would be: "I'm painting from source. And when you are in tune with source, you're gonna love what I paint, or what I sculpt, or...
HS (almost crying):
Yeah. Metal sculpture. Metal sculpture is what I do, and...
Abe:
What's touching you in that tender place?
HS (crying)
Like, am I now going to give myself the permission to create the sculptures? It's JUST between source and I...?
Abe:
Here's what's bothering you. You sense- and this is not inaccurate, you see- you're a high fiver. You are a deliberate harmonizer. So many artists of music and artists of... ART! Artists of all creative fashion have discovered, that harmonizing with people who are wadded up in their discomfort- there's a bigger audience. In other words, most of the love songs are love-gone-bad! Because more people high five to that.
So when you say "give yourself permission", you see- you ALWAYS sculpted from where you are! Are you now telling us, that you feel regret, that some of your sculpting was from a lesser vibration, than where you now are? (HS: I don't regret it.) Ohh, we're so so happy to hear that!
HS:
No no! It's growth, its growth, yeah!
Abe:
And it will never stop! The evolution will never stop. So, what's troubling you?
HS:
My desire is to create beautiful art that feels good to me. That I enjoy making it, and to be paid very very well for it. I am stopping myself. The art is beautiful, but finding the affluent clients, are allowing the affluent clients...
Abe:
Here's the thing. You're gonna like this, and you know this already. But hearing it will be good:
The same connection required to create the beautiful art- it's a same connection required, to find the affluent seekers of your art. It's the same thing.
So if you can do one; if you are doing one- you are doing the other! Except that you're talking about not doing the other, you see. This is a really common thing with so many of you, we love you so much! The things that you are doing on your own, when you accept something, one of the things that is so freeing for artists is, that they often feel that it's just between them and their source. And so, there aren't a lot of other factors to consider. So, that part of it comes easily to you. Because you know when you get tuned in- it flows! And when you're not tuned in, it does'nt.
And so you tune in and it flows. But when you think about other people, you don't have confidence in them, being tuned in! You don't trust them. Why? Because they're not trustworthy! We don't want you to trust other humans! ...Stay with us: we don't want you to put your trust in them.
We want you put your trust in your point of Attraction!
One who's connected to source is a million times more powerful than one who is not. And so, never mind what they're doing. It's NOT your job to sort it all out. It's your job to harmonize with your source and feel the joy, that is evidenced when you are with your source, and let that take care of everything else! But in the sentence that you spoke to us, that was based with some momentum of vibration, what you said is: "I'm really good at this. But I'm not good at that!" "But I'm really good at this. But I'm not good at (that.) But I'm really good at this! But I'm not really good at (that)!
So, just talk about what you're good at. And leave it there:
"I'm really good at this. And my intervene as good at the rest of it. I'm really good at this." -It's attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction! Its attraction. Now if you can cure this, and we think you can! Because we are stubbornly gonna stay here, till you do! It's attraction. It's your attraction. Its attraction! It's your attraction! Its attraction. It's your attraction. Those patrons- they're irrelevant: Its attraction. Its attraction. Its attraction! If you put your mind on who you think they are, you screw up your attraction, because you've decided that they are something (that some of them are). But you've decided, that all of them are something, that all of them aren't!
The world is awash in money!
There are people with soo much money, just looking for something meaningful, and satisfying to do with it! And your Inner Being is finding those cooperative components. That's NOT your work! Your work is to keep your vibration in the place where what your source lines up for you, and the co-operative components there lined up for you- you're not blocking with your negative belief.
It's attraction. That's attraction.
It's NOT about what they're doing, about what you're doing! It's about what you're doing.
Because there's enough of them that are doing what you need them to do for you, to live happily ever after- for 20 or 30 or 40 or 50 lifetimes. The proportion is huge. It isn't what they think it's what you think, that they think. That is messing up your point of Attraction! And you're making it up. You've known so many people that didn't have any money, that you've decided to feel that way about everybody!
HS:
I feel like, my life is just gonna get easier now! Because if I only have to worry about me and myself, and the art that I love to create... so...
Abe:
Now that you've said that, we're going to offer a ridiculous analogy, just to confirm what you just said. Because you heard clearly what we said to you! -Let's say that you're someone who really wants to feel good. And you still are looking to others for their confirmation, and affirmation, and approval. And you're so determined to feel good, and now you're an Internet-genius. You know how to create programs, and you know all about optimization. And so, you send out your profile to the world. You hook in to every meaningful search engine in the world, and here's your picture, and it says "This is me. This is my name, and these are my requirements of you. So when you meet me- I might be in an airport, I might be in the grocery store, I might be walking down the street in any number of cities... keep your eyes open and watch out for me. And when you see me, behave in these ways..."
OR, you could just accept that it's your point of Attraction, and do something about that!
In other words, you could ineffectively and absurdly try to control the behavior of one other, or all others, OR you could accept that it's attraction. Attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, attraction, only attraction! Only attraction. Only attraction. Only attraction! Only attraction! Only attraction.
And just clarify your own point of attraction, by getting out ahead of it. It's so easy to let a situation be your reason for calibration! Something happens to you, somebody says something to you, you overhear something, you observe something... is so easy to observe that, until you have harmonized with it, and then your point of Attraction is affected by that. And it has affected you strongly! -So you keep thinking about it, and regurgitating it, and even talking to others about it -so that it really gets a foothold. Then more and more and more and more and more and more of it comes to you, until it becomes a belief, that it's hard for you to get around. But... if you could just wipe your mind of those kind of beliefs! We're gonna make a really strong statement here, that is absolutely accurate. Hard to do, but really accurate.
All you have to have, is a desire. Period! And the Universe will answer your desire.
But if you have a desire in an opposing belief- nope. Not.
Because the Universe isn't answering it! It IS- but because you're not letting it in, so you're missing all the clues. So if you could just have desire, that's why new desires feel so good! Because you haven't figured out how to trample them. That's why new relationships feel so good: you don't know anything about each other. It's so fun to calibrate! To calibrate to the clarity of your Inner Being! To your Inner Being who knows your value, and knows what you want, and cares about it, and knows every person on the planet, who is looking for what you're offering!
If you're not blocking it with past experience, or law of averages. Law of averages is nothing!! Law of averages is just a consensus of the negative thoughts of the humans of the planet.
It's the law of attraction, that matters.
from the clip: Abraham Hicks 2020 The Real Purpose of Art NEW
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
Dealing with your staff as a sensitive Manager
HS:
My question is is this, that every time, or anything that I want, anything at all, um, I create it. Literally I feel like I'm one of the most lucky people out there! And I was just saying um, I tell people I literally go running off cliffs, and know that the net is going to appear- and it happens time and time and time again. And I feel so fortunate to have that! And I also know that... something really big is getting ready to happen to me. And something that I've wanted for for a long time, and... and I I feel like, uh, I grew up Catholic.
And so I have this Catholic guilt, or at least that's what I blame it on. And I want to be able to accept all of these gifts that keep coming! And accept that I know, this... this big thing is getting ready to happen to me. And that I'm ready for it and it's okay that it's going to happen! Does that make sense?
Abe:
It does indeed. We want to give you something here, that will help you a great deal, because as we hear you talk about coming from a Catholic background and all of that guilt, we want to say to you, that everybody comes from some background. In other words, everybody that's standing here in the powerful now came from something, that came before. And even though where you stand now- by all of the choices that you've been making, feels a whole lot better to you, than where you stood in some of those former places.
Condemning those former places only messes up your now!
What we're saying to you is: You came from a glorious background, that gave you stability at the time. It gave you a format to to move from.
In other words, you don't have to feel angry about it, or wish that it had been something different. It was the platform that led, that led, that led, that led, that led to where you are now. And so as you stand in your now, and you say: "I'm in such a good place and I feel appreciation for everything that came before, because all of it was part of it! Even the contrast that didn't please me shot off rockets, that are partly responsible for where I am now."
Can you feel the ease that comes through you?
In other words we would like you to proudly say: "I come from this Catholic background, and it served me so well at the time. And now I'm thinking thoughts that are along this (new) line, but there's still a basis." Because within every religion, within every basis of every background, there are powerful parts that are of enormous value, you see! There's something deeper in your question. You want to get more specific?
HS:
Um, I'd like to know say why am I so emotional about this. Because, um, I think it's just a, well, (...) because I appreciate everybody's time and letting me you know ask this question from you to...
Abe:
But the more they understand about what you're asking, the more they will benefit from the moment, too!
HS:
Well I'll give you an example. The first time that I came to an Abraham session which was a year and a half ago... I own a software company. And at the time we were raising financing. And I came here and I asked the question, I said, you know, "I don't know how many employees it was, 20 or something at the time. And I said "I'm running out of money, and I really need to raise some money, and I would really like to meet somebody, that's going to, you know, help us with this!" Well, I was in fact just telling the story.
I left the Abraham session at the end of the day, and my friends who came along with me, we hopped into a cab, and one of the men from the Abraham session and his significant other, who was there, hopped into the cab with us. We headed off to a Spurs game, because we went to a San Antonio session. And in the cab, the man says: "Well, I'll give you some money!" -and he wrote us $100,000 check! Literally, like that! And it happened that day!
And that's how things keep happening! Literally, um you know, I say: "I want this to happen" and it happens. That day. And... you know, I think part of where I have this deeper questioning coming from, is that as CEO of this, (mumbling) ...yesterday I was dealing with some of our employees who were having a somewhat rough day. And while we were were talking, I thought gosh Ingrid, you're so lucky to be so blessed but there are people around you, that are having a rough time. And they're not able to just dream something up, and have things happen! And what that does to me, when I question myself is, it takes things longer to have happen.
Abe:
-Well, think about why! Now, don't get confused about what's happening:
-When you look at your own life, and you feel appreciation for how well it's going, you hold yourself in a vibration that continues that.
When you look at people you love, and you imagine them having that kind of life, even though they're not having it yet, you still hold yourself in vibrational harmony with well-being, and you still allow it.
-But when you look at people that you love who are not having the life that they want, and you notice that- in this moment they're not having the life that they want, and you suffer with them a little bit. Then you are using them as your excuse to not allow your energy to flow.
In other words, you're using them as a temporary excuse to pinch it off, just a little bit!
The best thing that you can do for anyone is to thrive.
The best thing that you can do for anyone, is to open your Vortex, open your valve to Source energy, and allow the energy to flow. You cannot wish everyone else into alignment, because they must find their own place of alignment.
HS:
(...) Essentially, we all have this, um, ability (of channeling source) and it's just accepting that. And I think I was thinking as she was asking that question, I thought well, we all know what's really true! It's just we need some reassurance, sometimes. I need reassurance, sometimes!
Abe:
We' like you, wanting reassurance! But we also like to remind you, that the Universe is constantly giving you feedback, about where your vibration is! In other words, there's not a shred of evidence to the contrary of this, that we are teaching about Law of Attraction. And so, you are constantly in a life-giving "workshop"! That is always letting you know, what your vibrational nature is. You can tell in every moment, whether you're letting it in or not!
Once you know the way the game is played, and you know the way the game is played... in other words you can tell when you're letting it in. Part of your confusion here, we think, is that a lot of this is coming naturally to you. We think, you've been saying for a very long time how lucky you are! You could start out as a little child, who has a grandmother, who understands the idea of being lucky, who conveys to you that you're lucky. Who reinforces it with you, just a little bit! And you can always have things going well for you, without having any knowledge about Law of Attraction!
You don't have to speak the Law of Attraction-language, in order to be offering a vibration that lets wellbeing flow!
What do you think is troubling you?
HS:
Just getting peace with the sense... that that's okay. That it's okay!
Abe:
So is a question that you're asking "I am so blessed, because I have found ways to allow the energy to flow. Is it really all right for me to get what seems to be way more, than my fair share of well-being? While there are others who are out there, pinching themselves off from it?"
HS:
Right! And not that I don't have a bad day! I don't want to leave the impression that I... every day is... is like...
Abe:
Oh well, now you're trying to justify, for the benefit of the others! (laughter) In other words... (...) We understand what you're doing with that! In other words, you're not wanting people to see you in that light of perfection, too much! (Laughter)
Because it's hard for a struggler to appreciate a lucky one!
It's a little bit in there. And we would like you to never feel any desire, whatsoever, to express anything about your bad day. Because your bad day is such a freakish anomaly in the scope of what your life really is, you see!
We never hear you say: Well I've been well for so long. I think I'll be sick for a while, to allow more sick people to be well! I heard that there are 100,000 really sick people in my small community. And I've been so well- I've made a decision to call someone up. I'm going to be sick, so they can be well!"
Silly, isn't it? It's not related at all!! There is well-being, and you're letting it in. And whether they are, or not, has nothing to do with you!!
There is abundance there, well-being of all nature. And as you let it in, it has nothing to do with what anybody else is doing! We think this is the heart of your mild struggle. And we think, what we're going to say to you here, is at the heart of the remedy for it. So, just relax and we're going to ramble just a little bit here.
You've heard us refer to Law of Attraction as a manager, who understands your vibration and understands the vibration of everybody else, and puts you together in a perfect dance. So, when you have a business, or a corporation, or a project, there are many different facets of it, that need to be answered by many different talents, and many different willingnesses.
As you look at the balance of your planet today, every day Jerry and Esther appreciate those who work in the Food Service Industries. And those that repair the highways! And those that build the buildings. Even though, they don't want to do any of that! And as they feel appreciation for the variety of talents and willingnesses, the universe then can yield to them whatever is necessary to augment their experience, as they are moving along.
Now if they were to sit in a restaurant and feel guilty that they are living this extraordinary life, and that there are Cooks in the kitchen, having to cook food, or waiters having to bring the food to them- they could use that focal point as their excuse not to allow their own wellbeing to flow. And nothing would change for those people, because those people are at the vibration where that is the best suited thing for them, right now!
-For some of them it's a perfect vibrational match, to what they want.
-For some of them it's not a match to what they want, but it's a match to what they believe.
But Jerry and Esther don't have to orchestrate that! Because law of attraction is the manager, that is orchestrating all of that, you see.
So, as you realize that there are people who are working for you, who are very happy working for you, right now- who are in the process of working for you, launching desires that will later be satisfied, outside of your work environment, but right now the Law of Attraction has put them with you because right now they are a vibrational match to you... what troubles you is that sometimes they are a vibrational match to you, and that's why you're all together. But then they're speaking their discord, which makes you think that you've done something wrong, or that you should free them, or that you should teach them something different.
And sometimes it's a little bit of a struggle, because if all of the people, who are working with you, were vibrating exactly as you are- they would not fit in your life.
If you are the creative genius of an organization, you don't need 20 creative Geniuses. You need somebody to run the computers, and somebody to do the accounting. You need people that are at different vibrational places, that all work together with you! And we think that your struggle has been, we can feel little a large part of it at least, is that you're trying to find their places for them. And that's not your job.
Your job is to stay true to your desire- and let Law of Attraction bring them to you, at the perfect timing.
And it's going to be a passing parade that moves through your experience. You are an uplifter, and everyone who interacts with you will benefit from the interaction- whether they stay with you a week, or a month, or a year, or 10 years, you see. It's going to be a passing parade. And we think you are sensitive, and you care very much how they are doing. And because you care very much how they are doing, you listen too much to what they are saying! And then it takes a toll on your vibration. And then you feel a little resentment about that. That's the "sometimes not a very good day", that you were describing! There, that's what's at the heart of that. So, are we unraveling this a little bit for you?
HS:
That's very helpful to me. That's very helpful.
Abe:
So, what you're wanting to do is, just love everybody that interacts with you on a daily basis, no matter how personally involved with you they are. Or how peripherally involved they are! Everybody is coming to you- the the law of attraction is setting it all up, you see! The efficiency of the people, who deal with you, even in places where you go only for the first time! Everything is orchestrated by the manager, called Law of Attraction!
And your vibration is what is setting all of it into motion.
So, everything out there, as it is affecting you, is a reflection of the vibration that you are emitting. That's why we encourage you to spend more time focused upon your dream, than upon the reality.
The reality gives birth to the dream, but the dream is where you're wanting to put your attention.
from the youtube clip "ABRAHAM HICKS | NO NEED TO FEEL GUILTY FOR HAVING MONEY WHILE OTHERS ARE STRUGGLING"
Outtakes:
Life is a permanent, reassuring "Abe-Workshop"!
HS:
We all know what's really true! It's just we need some reassurance, sometimes. I need reassurance, sometimes!
Abe:
We' like you, wanting reassurance! But we also like to remind you, that the Universe is constantly giving you feedback, about where your vibration is! In other words, there's not a shred of evidence to the contrary of this, that we are teaching about Law of Attraction.
And so, you are constantly in a life-giving "workshop"... that is always letting you know, what your vibrational nature is. You can tell in every moment, whether you're letting it in or not!
Abraham Hicks
Others will never benefit from you, not thriving so much. Or from you, struggling with them, as well!
You're trying to justify, for the benefit of the others! (laughter) In other words... (...) We understand what you're doing with that! In other words, you're not wanting people to see you in that light of perfection, too much! (Laughter)
Because it's hard for a struggler to appreciate a lucky one!
It's a little bit in there. And we would like you to never feel any desire, whatsoever, to express anything about your bad day. Because your bad day is such a freakish anomaly in the scope of what your life really is, you see!
We never hear you say: Well I've been well for so long. I think I'll be sick for a while, to allow more sick people to be well! I heard that there are 100,000 really sick people in my small community. And I've been so well- I've made a decision to call someone up. I'm going to be sick, so they can be well!"
Silly, isn't it? It's not related at all!! There is well-being, and you're letting it in. And whether they are, or not, has nothing to do with you!!
There is abundance there is well-being of all nature and as you let it in it has nothing to do with what anybody else is doing.
Abraham Hicks
HS:
My question is is this, that every time, or anything that I want, anything at all, um, I create it. Literally I feel like I'm one of the most lucky people out there! And I was just saying um, I tell people I literally go running off cliffs, and know that the net is going to appear- and it happens time and time and time again. And I feel so fortunate to have that! And I also know that... something really big is getting ready to happen to me. And something that I've wanted for for a long time, and... and I I feel like, uh, I grew up Catholic.
And so I have this Catholic guilt, or at least that's what I blame it on. And I want to be able to accept all of these gifts that keep coming! And accept that I know, this... this big thing is getting ready to happen to me. And that I'm ready for it and it's okay that it's going to happen! Does that make sense?
Abe:
It does indeed. We want to give you something here, that will help you a great deal, because as we hear you talk about coming from a Catholic background and all of that guilt, we want to say to you, that everybody comes from some background. In other words, everybody that's standing here in the powerful now came from something, that came before. And even though where you stand now- by all of the choices that you've been making, feels a whole lot better to you, than where you stood in some of those former places.
Condemning those former places only messes up your now!
What we're saying to you is: You came from a glorious background, that gave you stability at the time. It gave you a format to to move from.
In other words, you don't have to feel angry about it, or wish that it had been something different. It was the platform that led, that led, that led, that led, that led to where you are now. And so as you stand in your now, and you say: "I'm in such a good place and I feel appreciation for everything that came before, because all of it was part of it! Even the contrast that didn't please me shot off rockets, that are partly responsible for where I am now."
Can you feel the ease that comes through you?
In other words we would like you to proudly say: "I come from this Catholic background, and it served me so well at the time. And now I'm thinking thoughts that are along this (new) line, but there's still a basis." Because within every religion, within every basis of every background, there are powerful parts that are of enormous value, you see! There's something deeper in your question. You want to get more specific?
HS:
Um, I'd like to know say why am I so emotional about this. Because, um, I think it's just a, well, (...) because I appreciate everybody's time and letting me you know ask this question from you to...
Abe:
But the more they understand about what you're asking, the more they will benefit from the moment, too!
HS:
Well I'll give you an example. The first time that I came to an Abraham session which was a year and a half ago... I own a software company. And at the time we were raising financing. And I came here and I asked the question, I said, you know, "I don't know how many employees it was, 20 or something at the time. And I said "I'm running out of money, and I really need to raise some money, and I would really like to meet somebody, that's going to, you know, help us with this!" Well, I was in fact just telling the story.
I left the Abraham session at the end of the day, and my friends who came along with me, we hopped into a cab, and one of the men from the Abraham session and his significant other, who was there, hopped into the cab with us. We headed off to a Spurs game, because we went to a San Antonio session. And in the cab, the man says: "Well, I'll give you some money!" -and he wrote us $100,000 check! Literally, like that! And it happened that day!
And that's how things keep happening! Literally, um you know, I say: "I want this to happen" and it happens. That day. And... you know, I think part of where I have this deeper questioning coming from, is that as CEO of this, (mumbling) ...yesterday I was dealing with some of our employees who were having a somewhat rough day. And while we were were talking, I thought gosh Ingrid, you're so lucky to be so blessed but there are people around you, that are having a rough time. And they're not able to just dream something up, and have things happen! And what that does to me, when I question myself is, it takes things longer to have happen.
Abe:
-Well, think about why! Now, don't get confused about what's happening:
-When you look at your own life, and you feel appreciation for how well it's going, you hold yourself in a vibration that continues that.
When you look at people you love, and you imagine them having that kind of life, even though they're not having it yet, you still hold yourself in vibrational harmony with well-being, and you still allow it.
-But when you look at people that you love who are not having the life that they want, and you notice that- in this moment they're not having the life that they want, and you suffer with them a little bit. Then you are using them as your excuse to not allow your energy to flow.
In other words, you're using them as a temporary excuse to pinch it off, just a little bit!
The best thing that you can do for anyone is to thrive.
The best thing that you can do for anyone, is to open your Vortex, open your valve to Source energy, and allow the energy to flow. You cannot wish everyone else into alignment, because they must find their own place of alignment.
HS:
(...) Essentially, we all have this, um, ability (of channeling source) and it's just accepting that. And I think I was thinking as she was asking that question, I thought well, we all know what's really true! It's just we need some reassurance, sometimes. I need reassurance, sometimes!
Abe:
We' like you, wanting reassurance! But we also like to remind you, that the Universe is constantly giving you feedback, about where your vibration is! In other words, there's not a shred of evidence to the contrary of this, that we are teaching about Law of Attraction. And so, you are constantly in a life-giving "workshop"! That is always letting you know, what your vibrational nature is. You can tell in every moment, whether you're letting it in or not!
Once you know the way the game is played, and you know the way the game is played... in other words you can tell when you're letting it in. Part of your confusion here, we think, is that a lot of this is coming naturally to you. We think, you've been saying for a very long time how lucky you are! You could start out as a little child, who has a grandmother, who understands the idea of being lucky, who conveys to you that you're lucky. Who reinforces it with you, just a little bit! And you can always have things going well for you, without having any knowledge about Law of Attraction!
You don't have to speak the Law of Attraction-language, in order to be offering a vibration that lets wellbeing flow!
What do you think is troubling you?
HS:
Just getting peace with the sense... that that's okay. That it's okay!
Abe:
So is a question that you're asking "I am so blessed, because I have found ways to allow the energy to flow. Is it really all right for me to get what seems to be way more, than my fair share of well-being? While there are others who are out there, pinching themselves off from it?"
HS:
Right! And not that I don't have a bad day! I don't want to leave the impression that I... every day is... is like...
Abe:
Oh well, now you're trying to justify, for the benefit of the others! (laughter) In other words... (...) We understand what you're doing with that! In other words, you're not wanting people to see you in that light of perfection, too much! (Laughter)
Because it's hard for a struggler to appreciate a lucky one!
It's a little bit in there. And we would like you to never feel any desire, whatsoever, to express anything about your bad day. Because your bad day is such a freakish anomaly in the scope of what your life really is, you see!
We never hear you say: Well I've been well for so long. I think I'll be sick for a while, to allow more sick people to be well! I heard that there are 100,000 really sick people in my small community. And I've been so well- I've made a decision to call someone up. I'm going to be sick, so they can be well!"
Silly, isn't it? It's not related at all!! There is well-being, and you're letting it in. And whether they are, or not, has nothing to do with you!!
There is abundance there, well-being of all nature. And as you let it in, it has nothing to do with what anybody else is doing! We think this is the heart of your mild struggle. And we think, what we're going to say to you here, is at the heart of the remedy for it. So, just relax and we're going to ramble just a little bit here.
You've heard us refer to Law of Attraction as a manager, who understands your vibration and understands the vibration of everybody else, and puts you together in a perfect dance. So, when you have a business, or a corporation, or a project, there are many different facets of it, that need to be answered by many different talents, and many different willingnesses.
As you look at the balance of your planet today, every day Jerry and Esther appreciate those who work in the Food Service Industries. And those that repair the highways! And those that build the buildings. Even though, they don't want to do any of that! And as they feel appreciation for the variety of talents and willingnesses, the universe then can yield to them whatever is necessary to augment their experience, as they are moving along.
Now if they were to sit in a restaurant and feel guilty that they are living this extraordinary life, and that there are Cooks in the kitchen, having to cook food, or waiters having to bring the food to them- they could use that focal point as their excuse not to allow their own wellbeing to flow. And nothing would change for those people, because those people are at the vibration where that is the best suited thing for them, right now!
-For some of them it's a perfect vibrational match, to what they want.
-For some of them it's not a match to what they want, but it's a match to what they believe.
But Jerry and Esther don't have to orchestrate that! Because law of attraction is the manager, that is orchestrating all of that, you see.
So, as you realize that there are people who are working for you, who are very happy working for you, right now- who are in the process of working for you, launching desires that will later be satisfied, outside of your work environment, but right now the Law of Attraction has put them with you because right now they are a vibrational match to you... what troubles you is that sometimes they are a vibrational match to you, and that's why you're all together. But then they're speaking their discord, which makes you think that you've done something wrong, or that you should free them, or that you should teach them something different.
And sometimes it's a little bit of a struggle, because if all of the people, who are working with you, were vibrating exactly as you are- they would not fit in your life.
If you are the creative genius of an organization, you don't need 20 creative Geniuses. You need somebody to run the computers, and somebody to do the accounting. You need people that are at different vibrational places, that all work together with you! And we think that your struggle has been, we can feel little a large part of it at least, is that you're trying to find their places for them. And that's not your job.
Your job is to stay true to your desire- and let Law of Attraction bring them to you, at the perfect timing.
And it's going to be a passing parade that moves through your experience. You are an uplifter, and everyone who interacts with you will benefit from the interaction- whether they stay with you a week, or a month, or a year, or 10 years, you see. It's going to be a passing parade. And we think you are sensitive, and you care very much how they are doing. And because you care very much how they are doing, you listen too much to what they are saying! And then it takes a toll on your vibration. And then you feel a little resentment about that. That's the "sometimes not a very good day", that you were describing! There, that's what's at the heart of that. So, are we unraveling this a little bit for you?
HS:
That's very helpful to me. That's very helpful.
Abe:
So, what you're wanting to do is, just love everybody that interacts with you on a daily basis, no matter how personally involved with you they are. Or how peripherally involved they are! Everybody is coming to you- the the law of attraction is setting it all up, you see! The efficiency of the people, who deal with you, even in places where you go only for the first time! Everything is orchestrated by the manager, called Law of Attraction!
And your vibration is what is setting all of it into motion.
So, everything out there, as it is affecting you, is a reflection of the vibration that you are emitting. That's why we encourage you to spend more time focused upon your dream, than upon the reality.
The reality gives birth to the dream, but the dream is where you're wanting to put your attention.
from the youtube clip "ABRAHAM HICKS | NO NEED TO FEEL GUILTY FOR HAVING MONEY WHILE OTHERS ARE STRUGGLING"
Outtakes:
Life is a permanent, reassuring "Abe-Workshop"!
HS:
We all know what's really true! It's just we need some reassurance, sometimes. I need reassurance, sometimes!
Abe:
We' like you, wanting reassurance! But we also like to remind you, that the Universe is constantly giving you feedback, about where your vibration is! In other words, there's not a shred of evidence to the contrary of this, that we are teaching about Law of Attraction.
And so, you are constantly in a life-giving "workshop"... that is always letting you know, what your vibrational nature is. You can tell in every moment, whether you're letting it in or not!
Abraham Hicks
Others will never benefit from you, not thriving so much. Or from you, struggling with them, as well!
You're trying to justify, for the benefit of the others! (laughter) In other words... (...) We understand what you're doing with that! In other words, you're not wanting people to see you in that light of perfection, too much! (Laughter)
Because it's hard for a struggler to appreciate a lucky one!
It's a little bit in there. And we would like you to never feel any desire, whatsoever, to express anything about your bad day. Because your bad day is such a freakish anomaly in the scope of what your life really is, you see!
We never hear you say: Well I've been well for so long. I think I'll be sick for a while, to allow more sick people to be well! I heard that there are 100,000 really sick people in my small community. And I've been so well- I've made a decision to call someone up. I'm going to be sick, so they can be well!"
Silly, isn't it? It's not related at all!! There is well-being, and you're letting it in. And whether they are, or not, has nothing to do with you!!
There is abundance there is well-being of all nature and as you let it in it has nothing to do with what anybody else is doing.
Abraham Hicks
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
Soulmates and Twinflames
HS:
My question is: Soul mate versus twin flame. And how the differences between that... um, like, when you have synchronicities with someone intensely, what does that mean?
Abe:
Well, people want to romanticize Alignment.
And that really is what it is! In other words, you all come in clusters. Your relationship to your own family, is a very strong vibrational connection. And so, what you're really describing is- when you feel a connection to someone, what's happened is: You've just met them on a vibrational wavelength, and you can meet on any vibrational wavelength- and it can feel like a strong connection! Sometimes you can meet somebody, who's just willing to complain with you about the same things you're complaining about, and they feel like your long lost soulmate! (Laughter)
Because, they'll stand by you, they'll be with you, they'll support you and defend you, you see!
And, so the best way to know that you've connected with someone who is really your non-physical counterpart, is for you to hang around in that high good feeling vibration for plenty of time. So that you can tell when you've taken a dip! Because until you know whether or not you've taken a dip, you won't know how to recognize someone else! Because as we were saying earlier, when you connect with something, there is momentum even in the connection. When you're offering a vibration and someone else is offering the same vibration, it's brought together by law of attraction. There is always a spark that feels like interest, you see! And so, that's why you're wanting to differentiate between twin flame and soul mate. And to all of those things, we want to say:
ALL of you are soul mates to everyone of you!
In other words, that's the way you feel from your non-physical energy vantage point!
Every single one of you has the potential of enormous harmony with every other being, who is present in this time-space reality. But of course as you've lived life, you've put into your vortex other preferences, besides just being energetically aligned. You want some of your physical awarenesses to be the same. There are many things that life has caused you to want, and you have the potential of satisfying every one of them, you see! And so we would spend no time looking around a crowd, and trying to acknowledge which ones are soul mates and which ones aren't. Because
the only thing that matters is, are you a mate to your own soul in this moment?
Are you a vibrational mate-, are you vibrational in alignment with your own soul?
And if the answer to that is yes, then you'll be able to find those who are a vibrational match to theirs. And two who come together, who are each individually in vibrational alignment with who they are, is what we consider to be the greatest harmony. Not sameness. Not same attitude about all same things! But same vibrational harmonics, which makes for the best kind of relationship.
Enough difference in interest, but the ability to be in alignment- so from that you can extract the best from each other, at all times, yes!
from the youtube clip Abraham Hicks - Soulmate Vs. Twin Flame - When You Feel A Strong Connection To Another
HS:
My question is: Soul mate versus twin flame. And how the differences between that... um, like, when you have synchronicities with someone intensely, what does that mean?
Abe:
Well, people want to romanticize Alignment.
And that really is what it is! In other words, you all come in clusters. Your relationship to your own family, is a very strong vibrational connection. And so, what you're really describing is- when you feel a connection to someone, what's happened is: You've just met them on a vibrational wavelength, and you can meet on any vibrational wavelength- and it can feel like a strong connection! Sometimes you can meet somebody, who's just willing to complain with you about the same things you're complaining about, and they feel like your long lost soulmate! (Laughter)
Because, they'll stand by you, they'll be with you, they'll support you and defend you, you see!
And, so the best way to know that you've connected with someone who is really your non-physical counterpart, is for you to hang around in that high good feeling vibration for plenty of time. So that you can tell when you've taken a dip! Because until you know whether or not you've taken a dip, you won't know how to recognize someone else! Because as we were saying earlier, when you connect with something, there is momentum even in the connection. When you're offering a vibration and someone else is offering the same vibration, it's brought together by law of attraction. There is always a spark that feels like interest, you see! And so, that's why you're wanting to differentiate between twin flame and soul mate. And to all of those things, we want to say:
ALL of you are soul mates to everyone of you!
In other words, that's the way you feel from your non-physical energy vantage point!
Every single one of you has the potential of enormous harmony with every other being, who is present in this time-space reality. But of course as you've lived life, you've put into your vortex other preferences, besides just being energetically aligned. You want some of your physical awarenesses to be the same. There are many things that life has caused you to want, and you have the potential of satisfying every one of them, you see! And so we would spend no time looking around a crowd, and trying to acknowledge which ones are soul mates and which ones aren't. Because
the only thing that matters is, are you a mate to your own soul in this moment?
Are you a vibrational mate-, are you vibrational in alignment with your own soul?
And if the answer to that is yes, then you'll be able to find those who are a vibrational match to theirs. And two who come together, who are each individually in vibrational alignment with who they are, is what we consider to be the greatest harmony. Not sameness. Not same attitude about all same things! But same vibrational harmonics, which makes for the best kind of relationship.
Enough difference in interest, but the ability to be in alignment- so from that you can extract the best from each other, at all times, yes!
from the youtube clip Abraham Hicks - Soulmate Vs. Twin Flame - When You Feel A Strong Connection To Another
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Re: To be an UPLIFTER
You can't uplift everyone. The frequencies must be enough alike!
Nothing is more annoying than to be in a place of feeling not very good-
and have some bright eyed, bushy tailed person trying to fix you!
Abraham Hicks
Nothing is more annoying than to be in a place of feeling not very good-
and have some bright eyed, bushy tailed person trying to fix you!
Abraham Hicks