Psychopaths-
and how they would NEED to move up the EGS through the very low stances, to get higher
HS:
There there are other people like... I understand... I've never met one so far, as I know. About Psychopaths, so apart... they are not able to feel at all! No matter how much I...
Abe:
Think about it! We'll talked about this briefly, but if you're in absolute despair, you don't have access to joyful thoughts. Because if you've been beating the drum of despair... let's say you were badly abused. Let's say that you had the the joyous life sort of beaten out of you, at an early life. And so, despair was something that you chronically knew! You were afraid, and you felt no freedom. And you were not appreciated, you were treated with disdain. And so, enough of that going on- you're gonna begin to practice thoughts that are really far, far, far from the thoughts that your Inner Being has about you! Until, eventually, you could sort of lose your connection with who you are. Now, an Inner Being of a person like that is still in the vortex.
But you're Inner Being doesn't leave the vortex to go rescue you!
Your Inner Being stays in this vibrational place of alignment, all the time. Offering the signal, always offering a signal.
Well, you know that if you're standing in hope, and the Inner Being offers its signal of knowledge- that hope just feels delicious. As it calls you into the vortex! But if you're over there in despair, that vibration of love, that vibration of appreciation is calling you- but you can't jump suddenly. It's too big of a vibrational gap! It will call you right into revenge, or right into anger. And so what happens with a lot of those people... in other words, wouldn't you rather be angry than be afraid? Everyone would!
Fear feels awful. Anger is awful, too. But it feels a lot better than fear!
So what happens sometimes- the circumstances of a person's life only allow them that much leeway. They go from from feeling powerless to revenge. Powerless to revenge. Powerless to revenge. And your society doesn't help them move up the emotional scale! Because your society condemns their revenge, rather than praising it. In other words, somebody who understood the emotional scale, somebody that understood that that person deserves to feel better, and does feel better in his rage, could call him into rage.
And then, could call him into less rage, and then could call him into anger and then could call him into overwhelment, and eventually could call him into hopefulness- and right into the vortex, you see. So, anyone that you see, it's all relative. And and there are people that worry about our message, because they say: "Abraham you tell everyone they should do what feels good! And mass murderers like murdering. They think it feels good to them!"
And we say, they feel better in their power than they do in their powerlessness. But they are a far cry from the vortex.
From the clip Esther Abraham Hicks - Psychopaths
Mental Disorders
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Are there really such a lot of Sociopaths in the Government?
(Segment- Intending-Process)
HS:
I used to work in the government. I used to work in politics pretty high up...
Abe:
That'll kill freedom and segment intending. (big laughter. HS: well, yeah, I mean...) "Quagmire" is the...
HS:
Sure. Just even the way that it works, and how you create wedge issues and different things, in which you can manipulate the public in order to vote for specific segments of people to come out, so they can vote... I saw kind of the dark side of things. And I was just wondering, it was very amoral. And to me... how can one, who goes and sees that... and I try to tell my friends: "Hey, this is what I believe is going on!" -like, why are there so many leaders who vibrate- and like these low energies, who are sociopathic?
Abe:
Here's the thing. Let's start with something that we said earlier, that- no matter what anybody is asking for- they always believe that they will feel better in the having of it. And so,
Everyone is reaching for Alignment. Whether they are calling it that, or not.
And there are a lot who are not understanding the laws of the Universe, and remember that variety and contrast is a good thing, not a bad thing. And so, it's a good thing to start there. So let's sort of dig into this, that you are feeling. A lot of people understand what you mean, as you were expressing it here! So let's start by acknowledging that those thoughts, as you face that reality that you believe is real, feel awful to you.
And the reason that they feel awful to you- you called it amoral, the reason it feels awful to you is: Because it's your vantage point as sources calling you toward what source knows, through the resistance that you've picked up along your physical trail. That's the way you translate it. And:
It doesn't feel good to you. And the reason it doesn't feel good to you- negative emotion always means the same thing- the source within you has a different vantage point, or perspective, than you do!
So if you can just start there, by acknowledging that -while a lot of people might agree with this perspective that you hold, source energy does not agree with it.
So that's a good beginning place. So, then you could, one day on your way to work, or anytime you have a segment where you want to free flow with your thoughts... the other day, Esther was driving to the airport, on friday. And she had an early flight, and so there was little traffic, but there was a lot of construction. And the construction wasn't slowing her down, and she was looking at these people who were out in the already 99 degree-weather in San Antonio. Who she knew had a full day of being out in that sun, adding another lane or two, onto interstate 10. And as she looked at them, she deliberately had the thought:
"This is government at work. This is something that's orchestrated by government. Someone with long-range planning anticipated the population made a decision about what they were going to do, when. And methodically are widening interstate 10." And while it is hindering in the interim, while it is happening- Esther knows that the big plan is for the benefit of her, who lives out there! And a lot of others, who do. And so, it was a form of segment intending herself into alignment. And in doing so, she perpetuated some momentum on that. Now before she knew it, she was appreciating the TSA- people she rendezvoused with! No crowd at all. She just walked right in, and went right through the line. She rendezvoused with no bag check. She didn't turn up to be the random one, that they wanted to check. She didn't have to take her shoes off, because the TSA has improved that!
There are so many things that government does, that are definite improvements in your life! In other words, they are organizers of big concepts, that you don't have to do! And so- yes. There are always things that could be done better! But if you'll get the momentum within you going on the things that are appreciated by you, law of attraction will rendezvous you with those things. You will find yourself being an advocate, because ...could you say, that you already feel this way?
And we're really not wanting to put words in your mouth. So, if you disagree with this- which we know you don't, because we've already checked your vibe... but so, we rarely get blindsided. But would you say, that there are well-meaning people in government?
HS:
Well, I was one of them!
Abe:
But so... now think about this segment intending. Think about this segment, and what you could do... you could focus upon the well-meaningness of yourself, and others like you. Or you could say what you're wanting to say right now: "I think I was in the minority."
HS:
Maybe I didn't belong there? Is that what you're saying?
Abe:
Yes, we are saying that, too. But before we say that, we want to say, that
there is something that you want and something that you don't want in everything that you look at!
Because in every particle of the Universe is wanted and absence of it. And as you use more of your segments, intending to find and activate within yourself those things that feel good to you, because they harmonize with the broader viewpoint of source energy, and your inner being and all that, is then: Law of attraction must yield to you more and more of those! Until, in time, mostly only those kinds of things you see.
And those who aren't segment intending, or creating by default, otherwise will stand on the other side of that argument, and demand that you've got your head in the sand. Or demand that you've got your head in the clouds, or they will insist that you're just not looking at reality. But we want you to understand how many realities there are! There is many realities, as there are perceivers of reality, you see!
And the reason government disappoints you, is because you erroneously thought, that government creates your reality!
That- if you could pick the right people... we're not just talking about you, we're talking about people in general. They believe that this entity called "government", that you elect or that you find, or that you pay, or who serve you- should serve you. And the thing that is so interesting about that is, that you are so broad in the way you individually want to be served!
And so, if you can just let yourself accept, that government gets some stuff right.
And when you focus upon it, you feel better. You can be one of the receivers, that will allow the vortex, that has been created by the distaste and disdain and disappointment in government! A huge vortex has been created, because of their ineptness!
You can be one of those who gets into the receiving mode, with ideas!
There's a lot of government interfacing with a lot of free enterprise. There's a lot of... Government is shifting around all the time!
HS:
Yeah. It was more of, uh, I guess you say the morality of it, is kind of like "House of Cards". So it's kind of interesting in that way... but I thank you for your...
Abe:
In a general sense- we're going to give you something really hard hitting here.
Almost everyone who believes strongly in something, who sees almost anybody else believing on the other side of that, believes that they are amoral.
Because it is normal that you believe that what you want, is good!
Because at the basis of who you are, there is a knowing that you are good, you see.
Here's a little trick that will help you a lot to understand: You just don't need to explain. If you can understand that Law of attraction is powerful, and that it is always responding... it's really a fascinating thing. We have said a lot of things from this platform, about the dysfunction of government. So, we are not in disagreement with you! But the reason that we speak about the dysfunction of government, is because we want you to stop needing government to be functional in order for you to live happily ever after.
Because when you need to control anyone or anything or any entity, it's gonna let you down.
And when you focus on it, letting you down, then you've disconnected from the resources that would be there for you, otherwise, you see! So look for the benefit, wherever you can find it! And you'll feel your creativity flowing more. And you may find words to explain to others. You like the idea of self-employment?
HS:
Yes, because it gives me my own power over myself.
Abe:
How do you think, how all those government employees feel? So, here they all are, doing something that you don't want to do. And whether they're doing it well, or whether they're not doing it well... in other words, you got to give them that right! You got to give them that!
HS:
Well, there's a great lot of great people there!
Abe:
Aren't there! Wouldn't it be nice, if all that collective brilliance, from all of those people, at all levels of government, were to tap into their receptive mode? And let flow freely what they have been creating in their vortex, since they've been government-employees. Because they're up close and personal to it, they know what would be better, in many places! Talk about being bogged down, and not free. That which you are feeling is minuscule in comparison with the quagmire that most of them are feeling!
from the clip: Abraham Hicks ~ why Leaders sometimes seem like Sociopaths
(Segment- Intending-Process)
HS:
I used to work in the government. I used to work in politics pretty high up...
Abe:
That'll kill freedom and segment intending. (big laughter. HS: well, yeah, I mean...) "Quagmire" is the...
HS:
Sure. Just even the way that it works, and how you create wedge issues and different things, in which you can manipulate the public in order to vote for specific segments of people to come out, so they can vote... I saw kind of the dark side of things. And I was just wondering, it was very amoral. And to me... how can one, who goes and sees that... and I try to tell my friends: "Hey, this is what I believe is going on!" -like, why are there so many leaders who vibrate- and like these low energies, who are sociopathic?
Abe:
Here's the thing. Let's start with something that we said earlier, that- no matter what anybody is asking for- they always believe that they will feel better in the having of it. And so,
Everyone is reaching for Alignment. Whether they are calling it that, or not.
And there are a lot who are not understanding the laws of the Universe, and remember that variety and contrast is a good thing, not a bad thing. And so, it's a good thing to start there. So let's sort of dig into this, that you are feeling. A lot of people understand what you mean, as you were expressing it here! So let's start by acknowledging that those thoughts, as you face that reality that you believe is real, feel awful to you.
And the reason that they feel awful to you- you called it amoral, the reason it feels awful to you is: Because it's your vantage point as sources calling you toward what source knows, through the resistance that you've picked up along your physical trail. That's the way you translate it. And:
It doesn't feel good to you. And the reason it doesn't feel good to you- negative emotion always means the same thing- the source within you has a different vantage point, or perspective, than you do!
So if you can just start there, by acknowledging that -while a lot of people might agree with this perspective that you hold, source energy does not agree with it.
So that's a good beginning place. So, then you could, one day on your way to work, or anytime you have a segment where you want to free flow with your thoughts... the other day, Esther was driving to the airport, on friday. And she had an early flight, and so there was little traffic, but there was a lot of construction. And the construction wasn't slowing her down, and she was looking at these people who were out in the already 99 degree-weather in San Antonio. Who she knew had a full day of being out in that sun, adding another lane or two, onto interstate 10. And as she looked at them, she deliberately had the thought:
"This is government at work. This is something that's orchestrated by government. Someone with long-range planning anticipated the population made a decision about what they were going to do, when. And methodically are widening interstate 10." And while it is hindering in the interim, while it is happening- Esther knows that the big plan is for the benefit of her, who lives out there! And a lot of others, who do. And so, it was a form of segment intending herself into alignment. And in doing so, she perpetuated some momentum on that. Now before she knew it, she was appreciating the TSA- people she rendezvoused with! No crowd at all. She just walked right in, and went right through the line. She rendezvoused with no bag check. She didn't turn up to be the random one, that they wanted to check. She didn't have to take her shoes off, because the TSA has improved that!
There are so many things that government does, that are definite improvements in your life! In other words, they are organizers of big concepts, that you don't have to do! And so- yes. There are always things that could be done better! But if you'll get the momentum within you going on the things that are appreciated by you, law of attraction will rendezvous you with those things. You will find yourself being an advocate, because ...could you say, that you already feel this way?
And we're really not wanting to put words in your mouth. So, if you disagree with this- which we know you don't, because we've already checked your vibe... but so, we rarely get blindsided. But would you say, that there are well-meaning people in government?
HS:
Well, I was one of them!
Abe:
But so... now think about this segment intending. Think about this segment, and what you could do... you could focus upon the well-meaningness of yourself, and others like you. Or you could say what you're wanting to say right now: "I think I was in the minority."
HS:
Maybe I didn't belong there? Is that what you're saying?
Abe:
Yes, we are saying that, too. But before we say that, we want to say, that
there is something that you want and something that you don't want in everything that you look at!
Because in every particle of the Universe is wanted and absence of it. And as you use more of your segments, intending to find and activate within yourself those things that feel good to you, because they harmonize with the broader viewpoint of source energy, and your inner being and all that, is then: Law of attraction must yield to you more and more of those! Until, in time, mostly only those kinds of things you see.
And those who aren't segment intending, or creating by default, otherwise will stand on the other side of that argument, and demand that you've got your head in the sand. Or demand that you've got your head in the clouds, or they will insist that you're just not looking at reality. But we want you to understand how many realities there are! There is many realities, as there are perceivers of reality, you see!
And the reason government disappoints you, is because you erroneously thought, that government creates your reality!
That- if you could pick the right people... we're not just talking about you, we're talking about people in general. They believe that this entity called "government", that you elect or that you find, or that you pay, or who serve you- should serve you. And the thing that is so interesting about that is, that you are so broad in the way you individually want to be served!
And so, if you can just let yourself accept, that government gets some stuff right.
And when you focus upon it, you feel better. You can be one of the receivers, that will allow the vortex, that has been created by the distaste and disdain and disappointment in government! A huge vortex has been created, because of their ineptness!
You can be one of those who gets into the receiving mode, with ideas!
There's a lot of government interfacing with a lot of free enterprise. There's a lot of... Government is shifting around all the time!
HS:
Yeah. It was more of, uh, I guess you say the morality of it, is kind of like "House of Cards". So it's kind of interesting in that way... but I thank you for your...
Abe:
In a general sense- we're going to give you something really hard hitting here.
Almost everyone who believes strongly in something, who sees almost anybody else believing on the other side of that, believes that they are amoral.
Because it is normal that you believe that what you want, is good!
Because at the basis of who you are, there is a knowing that you are good, you see.
Here's a little trick that will help you a lot to understand: You just don't need to explain. If you can understand that Law of attraction is powerful, and that it is always responding... it's really a fascinating thing. We have said a lot of things from this platform, about the dysfunction of government. So, we are not in disagreement with you! But the reason that we speak about the dysfunction of government, is because we want you to stop needing government to be functional in order for you to live happily ever after.
Because when you need to control anyone or anything or any entity, it's gonna let you down.
And when you focus on it, letting you down, then you've disconnected from the resources that would be there for you, otherwise, you see! So look for the benefit, wherever you can find it! And you'll feel your creativity flowing more. And you may find words to explain to others. You like the idea of self-employment?
HS:
Yes, because it gives me my own power over myself.
Abe:
How do you think, how all those government employees feel? So, here they all are, doing something that you don't want to do. And whether they're doing it well, or whether they're not doing it well... in other words, you got to give them that right! You got to give them that!
HS:
Well, there's a great lot of great people there!
Abe:
Aren't there! Wouldn't it be nice, if all that collective brilliance, from all of those people, at all levels of government, were to tap into their receptive mode? And let flow freely what they have been creating in their vortex, since they've been government-employees. Because they're up close and personal to it, they know what would be better, in many places! Talk about being bogged down, and not free. That which you are feeling is minuscule in comparison with the quagmire that most of them are feeling!
from the clip: Abraham Hicks ~ why Leaders sometimes seem like Sociopaths
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Re: Mental Disorders
Massmurderers- can we help them?
Will they come after us?
Sometimes people worry when they hear us talking. Because they think, that we're encouraging mass murderers. And we say: no one ever does anything like that, when they're in alignment with source!
So if someone is having those kinds of experiences, you've got to know they're completely out of whack. And usually, the reason that they are so out of whack- if you follow the history of the serial killers, or those who are doing those what you call dastardly deeds to society, or to individuals; what you will find in every case is that they were someone, who was being misunderstood. Who was being touted, who was being controlled, who was being misunderstood! Who was being punished by a society, who did not understand what unconditional love is. And so, it just perpetuates more and more and more.
There is a war against crime, and more crime every day.
There is a war against teenage pregnancy, and more teenage pregnancy every day.
Everything that you push against becomes more!
Because the pattern of vibration holds stronger and stronger and stronger, so you just have to come to the place where you have to individually decide: want to feel good! And if you're tending to the thoughts, then you'll never get to the action. In other words, if you're having thoughts of unworthiness and thoughts of rage and revenge, and someone is counseling you into soothing yourself, and you're finding alignment with who you are, it's not going to escalate into taking a gun and killing someone!
But if you're feeling revenge and rage and somebody says to you: "You're wrong!" and feeling that, and you need to get control of your emotions, and they're not explaining what your emotions are- law of attraction is going to help that rage get more and more and more. Until the next logical step is some sort of violence, which then as a society and a whole, you push against all the stronger! And lock them up, and condemn them, and speak of them disrespectfully, you see. Nice to know isn't it? Nobody has to know this, but you, in order for you to live happily ever after!
If you found someone in the street bleeding, we know you'd help them.
If you find someone in the street writhing in agony, and wielding a gun- you don't feel so inclined to help them out! Even though they're asking in the same way that they would, if they were bleeding.
And if you want to know how source feels about them: source is adoring them. But they're so blocked off, they can't hear it. And that's why they're behaving the way they do! When life causes you to ask for something in a really strong way, and you find vibrational attitudes and ways of living, that keep you from hearing it, or feeling it, then you want it and want it and want it! But you're blocking it blocking it blocking it. It's logical, isn't it? Doesn't that make perfect sense of everything, that you see in the world?
Once you understand that, it doesn't take many to stand in a place- and it's easier if you have your distance from them!- where you are focusing upon them through the eyes of source.
Esther notices that, as she writes with Jerry, who is non-physical. Or Abraham, who is non-physical! She can feel when she asks for guidance about something that she's dealing with. She can feel an absolute awareness of where she is, and an absolute non-attachment to the negative emotion, that she feels: that's what step-five-living is!
It's understanding that stuff happens. But not letting it take you off of your balance, as you're observing it! And not feeling guilty about being in the middle of it.
Because it's part of the process of expansion, you see! Really good conversation! Yeah. Do you feel a need to control those, that you fear would harm you or your family? It's sort of a logical thing: To want to, at least, keep them away from you! But they won't come for you. If someone's agitated and in that place and you're in a place of love, they're not going to come for you! (It's) vibrationally inaccurate. They don't find you! They find those, who are in the same hatred. Have you ever heard someone say:
The dog bites those who are afraid of it? Well, that's why- because that fear is a vibration of aggravation.
from the youtube-clip Mass Murderers - That’s Why Someone Becomes A Murderer. ~ Abraham Hicks
Will they come after us?
Sometimes people worry when they hear us talking. Because they think, that we're encouraging mass murderers. And we say: no one ever does anything like that, when they're in alignment with source!
So if someone is having those kinds of experiences, you've got to know they're completely out of whack. And usually, the reason that they are so out of whack- if you follow the history of the serial killers, or those who are doing those what you call dastardly deeds to society, or to individuals; what you will find in every case is that they were someone, who was being misunderstood. Who was being touted, who was being controlled, who was being misunderstood! Who was being punished by a society, who did not understand what unconditional love is. And so, it just perpetuates more and more and more.
There is a war against crime, and more crime every day.
There is a war against teenage pregnancy, and more teenage pregnancy every day.
Everything that you push against becomes more!
Because the pattern of vibration holds stronger and stronger and stronger, so you just have to come to the place where you have to individually decide: want to feel good! And if you're tending to the thoughts, then you'll never get to the action. In other words, if you're having thoughts of unworthiness and thoughts of rage and revenge, and someone is counseling you into soothing yourself, and you're finding alignment with who you are, it's not going to escalate into taking a gun and killing someone!
But if you're feeling revenge and rage and somebody says to you: "You're wrong!" and feeling that, and you need to get control of your emotions, and they're not explaining what your emotions are- law of attraction is going to help that rage get more and more and more. Until the next logical step is some sort of violence, which then as a society and a whole, you push against all the stronger! And lock them up, and condemn them, and speak of them disrespectfully, you see. Nice to know isn't it? Nobody has to know this, but you, in order for you to live happily ever after!
If you found someone in the street bleeding, we know you'd help them.
If you find someone in the street writhing in agony, and wielding a gun- you don't feel so inclined to help them out! Even though they're asking in the same way that they would, if they were bleeding.
And if you want to know how source feels about them: source is adoring them. But they're so blocked off, they can't hear it. And that's why they're behaving the way they do! When life causes you to ask for something in a really strong way, and you find vibrational attitudes and ways of living, that keep you from hearing it, or feeling it, then you want it and want it and want it! But you're blocking it blocking it blocking it. It's logical, isn't it? Doesn't that make perfect sense of everything, that you see in the world?
Once you understand that, it doesn't take many to stand in a place- and it's easier if you have your distance from them!- where you are focusing upon them through the eyes of source.
Esther notices that, as she writes with Jerry, who is non-physical. Or Abraham, who is non-physical! She can feel when she asks for guidance about something that she's dealing with. She can feel an absolute awareness of where she is, and an absolute non-attachment to the negative emotion, that she feels: that's what step-five-living is!
It's understanding that stuff happens. But not letting it take you off of your balance, as you're observing it! And not feeling guilty about being in the middle of it.
Because it's part of the process of expansion, you see! Really good conversation! Yeah. Do you feel a need to control those, that you fear would harm you or your family? It's sort of a logical thing: To want to, at least, keep them away from you! But they won't come for you. If someone's agitated and in that place and you're in a place of love, they're not going to come for you! (It's) vibrationally inaccurate. They don't find you! They find those, who are in the same hatred. Have you ever heard someone say:
The dog bites those who are afraid of it? Well, that's why- because that fear is a vibration of aggravation.
from the youtube-clip Mass Murderers - That’s Why Someone Becomes A Murderer. ~ Abraham Hicks
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Re: Mental Disorders
Advice to a HS- a Singer- with Bipolar-Disorder
(What means the label of being bi-polar?
How does strong wanting play into it?- How to deal with strong desires?
Is healing possible for her?
How about taking the medicine?)
HS:
The first question I have is:
If I want to heal myself of bipolar disorder, no matter what. Can I do it? Is it possible, if all the doctors say, I cannot? And, years ago when I got off my medicine... let's say, 7 years ago when I was experimenting and didn't want to accept that I had this label. Um, I ended up in in the hospital many times, and it was very painful. So I guess, my my first question is: Do you believe that I can heal my bipolar disorder?
Abe:
Absolutely!
Talk to us about how it manifests!?
HS:
Um, well, I'm on medicine. So it doesn't get to come out very often.
Abe:
Then, is it an issue?
HS:
That's the second part of my question! I'm doing great on the medicine. So, should I just keep taking my medicine, and... and, what the hell, and live like that?
Abe:
Here's what we would do:
We would continue the medicine, feeling appreciation for the balance that it provides for you.
And at the same time, we would identify what our strong desire is!
In other words, your desire is to be what?
HS:
I'm a singer. And when I get up on a stage, it's to be just like my old self, before I got manic.
Abe:
What is that?
HS:
Excited, without getting anxious, or without having balancing desire, and medication.
To go in the bathroom and pray and calm down, or (tearing up) ...put a pill under my tongue...
Abe:
There is not anything inappropriate about continuing with the medicine! In other words, because it is giving you this stable footing for now! And so we would continue that. Do you get a sense of what we mean, when we say that?
Out of your life experience are born powerful desires. And so- when you, through life experience come to conscious awareness of things that you want, there's a vibration that activates within you, that's very powerful. And that's what the vibration of Desire is! So, when -however it happens, you give birth to some powerful desires, that you -for whatever reason, for whatever other influence in your life, aren't believing, then there's this really strong tug of war that's taking place within you. And we think that is the best description of this label that they have given you, of anything else. Every time we have seen it -and we see it every time that it is labeled, in other words- it is not something that you are making up!
Every single time, it is a person who has powerful, off-the-chart wanting, that they have figured out how to receive.
Your emotions tell you everything that you need to know about your relationship with your Source energy. And by that we mean, how much Source energy am I pulling through me, right now? Or another way of saying that is,
-how great is my desire? And as my desire is very powerful in pouring through me,
- how much of that am I allowing to pour through me, or how much of that am I not allowing to pour through me?
If I didn't want very much, my resistance would be a non-issue. In other words, if you're going 2 mph, it doesn't matter how many trees are in the way. You can guide around them. But if you're going 200 mph, the trees start to matter more!
When you have a powerful desire and so you're summoning lots of energy through you, and you have beliefs that contradict your own desire- now there's this clashing going on. And that's what the medicine helps you to soften. In other words, it softens your focus. It softens your angst. Of course, it changes the chemicals in your body, which is what is doing that. But the process through which it is happening is not as important as understanding what is happening! What is happening is:
There is a splitting of energy within you. And so, even while you are taking the medicine as you talk about your desire, and why you want it, it's not possible for you to think about what you want and why you want it, and be in as contradicted a vibration, as when you are thinking about what you want and the fact that you don't have it!
We would far rather see you with strong strong desire, that you're not allowing- than we would with no desire.
And you were born with this powerful inclination toward desire! You are a powerful focuser. Which means, it's not possible for you to reign in your desire! We don't encourage that ever, anyway. And so, what you're wanting to do, is let your desire run as rampant as it wants to run- and it is pretty strong! And then you work, to bring yourself into alignment with your desire, as best you can.
Soothe yourself into alignment!
And you soothe yourself into alignment, with words that feel soothing, when you hear them from others, or from yourself!
HS:
My husband tapped into it. He said, "Candace, just could you be quiet in your spirit?" -we were just at the bar, and before I was going on stage and he's like, "just be quiet in your spirit", and it was just... it was like somebody put a little pill under my tongue. I completely understood. And when I'm writing a song, I've learned how to be completely focused, and very quiet in my spirit. And the composition just comes out! It's amazing. And it just writes itself! And so, that's what I am learning, how to do as far as you know, trying to heal myself, as...
Abe:
Focus on those times, that that happens.
In other words, the more you remember, as you were speaking that to us- right then, you were in perfect alignment with what you were speaking! In other words, as you remembered that time, you were there again. And also it is helpful for you to recall, that you can be there- and you cannot be there, that sometimes you're able to bring yourself back into alignment with thought.
Sometimes you bring yourself back into alignment by putting the pill under your tongue! It doesn't really matter.
You can bring yourself back into alignment and when you remind yourself, that you can come into alignment. -Then it makes you not so fearful that you will get out of alignment! And when you are not so fearful that you will get out of alignment, then you don't get out of alignment so much. -And it just gets better and better and better and better!
You are born with powerful desire! And when you go with the desire, you thrive.
When you fight against it, you don't.
And so, that desire was to stand out!
That desire was to make a difference.
That desire was to be heard.
That desire was to get tuned in, and be an example to others who can be tuned in!
And so, when you think thoughts like "I'm not good enough", or "I'm not ready", or "they won't accept me" or "they don't understand me... why don't I have a record deal yet..." those thoughts are so opposite of your desire, that that's what sets you out of alignment! Where, thoughts like "It's coming. All is well. Everything in its perfect time"...
And if we were standing in your physical shoes, we would focus on the writing of the song! And we would let the Universe take care of the aligning with the contracts. In other words- you get in that creative mode! ...It's always lovely to speak with someone, who understands that creative mode! Because you know when you're there, and you know when you're not. And when you're there, you're in that place of allowing!
So, what we'd like to say to you:
You want to get into that place of allowing, relative to your record contracts, too! Yeah! Write a song about your record contract! In other words, get...
HS:
Yeah, I just finished it. It's called "The jet plane takes off", and it's about what you teach! So perfect!! I got it! Okay, um.... I think, you say genius is focus. Does Focus take practice? Or is it just something you pull out of the sky, when you're letting it in?
Abe:
Focus does take practice.
What focus is, is isolating a vibration from a maze of vibration, and focusing upon it long enough that it becomes a dominant vibration.
And so, sometimes because you are a very energetic person who's eager about a lot of different things, you have a lot of active vibrations in your experience and it's possible for you to have many things that are moving forward, all at the same time. But if there is something that is bothering you, that is getting quite a bit of your attention.
Sometimes it causes the dominance of your vibration to be not in a place of letting in the other things, that you wanting! You've been letting the Universe know, in lots of different ways, what you want. And you do not need to sit down right now, and say "I want this, and I want this, and I want this, and I want this...", because you've done an excellent job- through the contrast that you've been living- of pointing all of that out!
Now your work is to get into a place where you're a match to what you are wanting.
You're a match, when you're feeling good. You're not a match when you're not feeling good! -And so, that worries you. Because you say, "but when I don't feel good I really don't feel good."
And we say: but what that means is, you really really want it!
In other words, that's good news, not bad news, you see! Just relax more. Be more playful about it.
Continue to take your medicine at the same time,
that you continue to acknowledge that you don't need it.
Let it be something that's like a friend that helps you along the way!
Don't push against it. It is a friend, not an enemy!
And and give yourself as much time in the creative phase as you can. Because when you'r in that creative phase, that's when you'r in your place of allowing. And so, do you find that you can achieve that, almost anytime? You sit down to do it... (HS: oh yes!) ...you know how to do it, relative to the creative music. Now get into it relative to anything, that you desire! You could pet your cat. You could never think another thought about any of this- and the Universe will yield you a contract!
And the time it takes, between now and when the contract is yielded, has to do with how many thoughts you have that are worrisome in nature, that keep that from happening. The well-being is on its way to you, unless you do that thing you do. And the good news is: Every time you do that thing you do, you feel negative emotion!
So, negative emotion is not an enemy or not a bad thing. It's your friend!
It's saying: Hey what you want is on its way to you! But you're slowing it down just a little bit by this train of thought!
HS:
So, when somebody says to you "You're 33. You better hurry up! Because if you don't... you know my mother says "well that's just ridiculous, you know! You need to think of maybe going back to college!" or, you know... hey, I just opened for Coolio at the Menton in L.A. "Oh, that's great, honey! Hey... la la la la la" -and she's talking about something else. So and then, um, you know somebody from a record company says "Well you know, you have talent you're an amazing composer and you're this and that. But gez... you're really getting up there in age!" ...you know, because I've listened to you and listened to your tapes and everything, and read your book and I don't necessarily get keyed into that so much... but still, the little devil goes "huh!"
Abe:
You might say something to them, like: "Are you saying that the entry point has to be a certain age? Because there are a lot of people a lot older than I am, that are still at the top of their game. So is the age thing just about the entry point? Or are there some other qualifications, that I'm not aware of?"
Who gets to decide other than you? NO ONE, you see! it's usually someone who feels defensive... in other words, if you're hiring somebody to represent you and they're not finding any inroads, then sometimes they feel like they need to justify why things aren't going better. So they're looking for excuses and trying to lay it back on you. And what you want to do is, if you are not putting them in the position where you are making them feel like you think that they are responsible for what's happening,
they'll offer you less of that, as you begin to accept that you are the creator of your own experience.
And so, you're not laying it on your agent's table... in other words, you're in this together, but you're not making them feel defensive. They won't throw that stuff up at you. That's just their defense mechanism. Just laugh, and say "Oh, there's been a whole lot of a lot older buggers than me, making great success. Now get off of that, and let's move on! (HS: right, right!!)
...Be playful about it. Because age has nothing to do with anything! EVERYTHING is about vibrational alignment.
What we notice as we watch you, as you are moving through time, all of you as a mass consciousness, is that the majority of your desires are happening early on in your life. And if you are in a place where you can allow it, then much of your success comes very early in life. And there are people who will say "if your success does not come early, then it will not come!" -and the reason that they say that, from what they observe, is because mostly they're not really allowing themselves to want! -Only when they are young. And usually, by the time they are older, they've blocked off most of the allowing anyway. And so, they're not wrong in their observation. In other words, that is the usual rule. But that is not who you are!! In other words,
You're going to keep wanting long long long into your 80s and 90s!! And you're going to allow long long long!!
In other words, age is irrelevant. It doesn't have anything to do with it, and so- if somebody says that to you, and you want to be playful to them, just say:
"Oh, I think that what you're getting at, is that young people are usually more eager about things. But you'll never find anybody more eager than I am!"
From the youtube-clip "Talk to Your Cells, Will Change Your Life!
Abraham Hicks 2024"
(What means the label of being bi-polar?
How does strong wanting play into it?- How to deal with strong desires?
Is healing possible for her?
How about taking the medicine?)
HS:
The first question I have is:
If I want to heal myself of bipolar disorder, no matter what. Can I do it? Is it possible, if all the doctors say, I cannot? And, years ago when I got off my medicine... let's say, 7 years ago when I was experimenting and didn't want to accept that I had this label. Um, I ended up in in the hospital many times, and it was very painful. So I guess, my my first question is: Do you believe that I can heal my bipolar disorder?
Abe:
Absolutely!
Talk to us about how it manifests!?
HS:
Um, well, I'm on medicine. So it doesn't get to come out very often.
Abe:
Then, is it an issue?
HS:
That's the second part of my question! I'm doing great on the medicine. So, should I just keep taking my medicine, and... and, what the hell, and live like that?
Abe:
Here's what we would do:
We would continue the medicine, feeling appreciation for the balance that it provides for you.
And at the same time, we would identify what our strong desire is!
In other words, your desire is to be what?
HS:
I'm a singer. And when I get up on a stage, it's to be just like my old self, before I got manic.
Abe:
What is that?
HS:
Excited, without getting anxious, or without having balancing desire, and medication.
To go in the bathroom and pray and calm down, or (tearing up) ...put a pill under my tongue...
Abe:
There is not anything inappropriate about continuing with the medicine! In other words, because it is giving you this stable footing for now! And so we would continue that. Do you get a sense of what we mean, when we say that?
Out of your life experience are born powerful desires. And so- when you, through life experience come to conscious awareness of things that you want, there's a vibration that activates within you, that's very powerful. And that's what the vibration of Desire is! So, when -however it happens, you give birth to some powerful desires, that you -for whatever reason, for whatever other influence in your life, aren't believing, then there's this really strong tug of war that's taking place within you. And we think that is the best description of this label that they have given you, of anything else. Every time we have seen it -and we see it every time that it is labeled, in other words- it is not something that you are making up!
Every single time, it is a person who has powerful, off-the-chart wanting, that they have figured out how to receive.
Your emotions tell you everything that you need to know about your relationship with your Source energy. And by that we mean, how much Source energy am I pulling through me, right now? Or another way of saying that is,
-how great is my desire? And as my desire is very powerful in pouring through me,
- how much of that am I allowing to pour through me, or how much of that am I not allowing to pour through me?
If I didn't want very much, my resistance would be a non-issue. In other words, if you're going 2 mph, it doesn't matter how many trees are in the way. You can guide around them. But if you're going 200 mph, the trees start to matter more!
When you have a powerful desire and so you're summoning lots of energy through you, and you have beliefs that contradict your own desire- now there's this clashing going on. And that's what the medicine helps you to soften. In other words, it softens your focus. It softens your angst. Of course, it changes the chemicals in your body, which is what is doing that. But the process through which it is happening is not as important as understanding what is happening! What is happening is:
There is a splitting of energy within you. And so, even while you are taking the medicine as you talk about your desire, and why you want it, it's not possible for you to think about what you want and why you want it, and be in as contradicted a vibration, as when you are thinking about what you want and the fact that you don't have it!
We would far rather see you with strong strong desire, that you're not allowing- than we would with no desire.
And you were born with this powerful inclination toward desire! You are a powerful focuser. Which means, it's not possible for you to reign in your desire! We don't encourage that ever, anyway. And so, what you're wanting to do, is let your desire run as rampant as it wants to run- and it is pretty strong! And then you work, to bring yourself into alignment with your desire, as best you can.
Soothe yourself into alignment!
And you soothe yourself into alignment, with words that feel soothing, when you hear them from others, or from yourself!
HS:
My husband tapped into it. He said, "Candace, just could you be quiet in your spirit?" -we were just at the bar, and before I was going on stage and he's like, "just be quiet in your spirit", and it was just... it was like somebody put a little pill under my tongue. I completely understood. And when I'm writing a song, I've learned how to be completely focused, and very quiet in my spirit. And the composition just comes out! It's amazing. And it just writes itself! And so, that's what I am learning, how to do as far as you know, trying to heal myself, as...
Abe:
Focus on those times, that that happens.
In other words, the more you remember, as you were speaking that to us- right then, you were in perfect alignment with what you were speaking! In other words, as you remembered that time, you were there again. And also it is helpful for you to recall, that you can be there- and you cannot be there, that sometimes you're able to bring yourself back into alignment with thought.
Sometimes you bring yourself back into alignment by putting the pill under your tongue! It doesn't really matter.
You can bring yourself back into alignment and when you remind yourself, that you can come into alignment. -Then it makes you not so fearful that you will get out of alignment! And when you are not so fearful that you will get out of alignment, then you don't get out of alignment so much. -And it just gets better and better and better and better!
You are born with powerful desire! And when you go with the desire, you thrive.
When you fight against it, you don't.
And so, that desire was to stand out!
That desire was to make a difference.
That desire was to be heard.
That desire was to get tuned in, and be an example to others who can be tuned in!
And so, when you think thoughts like "I'm not good enough", or "I'm not ready", or "they won't accept me" or "they don't understand me... why don't I have a record deal yet..." those thoughts are so opposite of your desire, that that's what sets you out of alignment! Where, thoughts like "It's coming. All is well. Everything in its perfect time"...
And if we were standing in your physical shoes, we would focus on the writing of the song! And we would let the Universe take care of the aligning with the contracts. In other words- you get in that creative mode! ...It's always lovely to speak with someone, who understands that creative mode! Because you know when you're there, and you know when you're not. And when you're there, you're in that place of allowing!
So, what we'd like to say to you:
You want to get into that place of allowing, relative to your record contracts, too! Yeah! Write a song about your record contract! In other words, get...
HS:
Yeah, I just finished it. It's called "The jet plane takes off", and it's about what you teach! So perfect!! I got it! Okay, um.... I think, you say genius is focus. Does Focus take practice? Or is it just something you pull out of the sky, when you're letting it in?
Abe:
Focus does take practice.
What focus is, is isolating a vibration from a maze of vibration, and focusing upon it long enough that it becomes a dominant vibration.
And so, sometimes because you are a very energetic person who's eager about a lot of different things, you have a lot of active vibrations in your experience and it's possible for you to have many things that are moving forward, all at the same time. But if there is something that is bothering you, that is getting quite a bit of your attention.
Sometimes it causes the dominance of your vibration to be not in a place of letting in the other things, that you wanting! You've been letting the Universe know, in lots of different ways, what you want. And you do not need to sit down right now, and say "I want this, and I want this, and I want this, and I want this...", because you've done an excellent job- through the contrast that you've been living- of pointing all of that out!
Now your work is to get into a place where you're a match to what you are wanting.
You're a match, when you're feeling good. You're not a match when you're not feeling good! -And so, that worries you. Because you say, "but when I don't feel good I really don't feel good."
And we say: but what that means is, you really really want it!
In other words, that's good news, not bad news, you see! Just relax more. Be more playful about it.
Continue to take your medicine at the same time,
that you continue to acknowledge that you don't need it.
Let it be something that's like a friend that helps you along the way!
Don't push against it. It is a friend, not an enemy!
And and give yourself as much time in the creative phase as you can. Because when you'r in that creative phase, that's when you'r in your place of allowing. And so, do you find that you can achieve that, almost anytime? You sit down to do it... (HS: oh yes!) ...you know how to do it, relative to the creative music. Now get into it relative to anything, that you desire! You could pet your cat. You could never think another thought about any of this- and the Universe will yield you a contract!
And the time it takes, between now and when the contract is yielded, has to do with how many thoughts you have that are worrisome in nature, that keep that from happening. The well-being is on its way to you, unless you do that thing you do. And the good news is: Every time you do that thing you do, you feel negative emotion!
So, negative emotion is not an enemy or not a bad thing. It's your friend!
It's saying: Hey what you want is on its way to you! But you're slowing it down just a little bit by this train of thought!
HS:
So, when somebody says to you "You're 33. You better hurry up! Because if you don't... you know my mother says "well that's just ridiculous, you know! You need to think of maybe going back to college!" or, you know... hey, I just opened for Coolio at the Menton in L.A. "Oh, that's great, honey! Hey... la la la la la" -and she's talking about something else. So and then, um, you know somebody from a record company says "Well you know, you have talent you're an amazing composer and you're this and that. But gez... you're really getting up there in age!" ...you know, because I've listened to you and listened to your tapes and everything, and read your book and I don't necessarily get keyed into that so much... but still, the little devil goes "huh!"
Abe:
You might say something to them, like: "Are you saying that the entry point has to be a certain age? Because there are a lot of people a lot older than I am, that are still at the top of their game. So is the age thing just about the entry point? Or are there some other qualifications, that I'm not aware of?"
Who gets to decide other than you? NO ONE, you see! it's usually someone who feels defensive... in other words, if you're hiring somebody to represent you and they're not finding any inroads, then sometimes they feel like they need to justify why things aren't going better. So they're looking for excuses and trying to lay it back on you. And what you want to do is, if you are not putting them in the position where you are making them feel like you think that they are responsible for what's happening,
they'll offer you less of that, as you begin to accept that you are the creator of your own experience.
And so, you're not laying it on your agent's table... in other words, you're in this together, but you're not making them feel defensive. They won't throw that stuff up at you. That's just their defense mechanism. Just laugh, and say "Oh, there's been a whole lot of a lot older buggers than me, making great success. Now get off of that, and let's move on! (HS: right, right!!)
...Be playful about it. Because age has nothing to do with anything! EVERYTHING is about vibrational alignment.
What we notice as we watch you, as you are moving through time, all of you as a mass consciousness, is that the majority of your desires are happening early on in your life. And if you are in a place where you can allow it, then much of your success comes very early in life. And there are people who will say "if your success does not come early, then it will not come!" -and the reason that they say that, from what they observe, is because mostly they're not really allowing themselves to want! -Only when they are young. And usually, by the time they are older, they've blocked off most of the allowing anyway. And so, they're not wrong in their observation. In other words, that is the usual rule. But that is not who you are!! In other words,
You're going to keep wanting long long long into your 80s and 90s!! And you're going to allow long long long!!
In other words, age is irrelevant. It doesn't have anything to do with it, and so- if somebody says that to you, and you want to be playful to them, just say:
"Oh, I think that what you're getting at, is that young people are usually more eager about things. But you'll never find anybody more eager than I am!"
From the youtube-clip "Talk to Your Cells, Will Change Your Life!
Abraham Hicks 2024"-
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Re: Mental Disorders
Be NICER to yourself!
So, let's find the takeaway from this:
It's really important that you be nicer to yourselves!
TO YOU!! To your family, too. And to people around you. Yeah, you want to be nice! You want to feel good. But it's really important that you give yourself permission. that you give yourself permission to just feel good!
Because you deserve to feel good, without jumping through any hoops that any other human has assigned.
Because, we promise you, there's no one non-physically, that is assigning the hoops that you jump through!
Do you believe that? Once you know it... Esther remembers looking in the mirror at herself, after she'd done something really bad and she thought: "I don't look the same now. Wish I could go back to that time before I did that really bad thing!" and we say: You got to get over that!
Because, when you look in the mirror, your Inner Being is looking back at you. There just isn't any of that!!
YOU'VE assigned the resistance that you carry around as guilt!
YOU'VE assigned the resistance that you carry around as hate!
Here's the reason. We want to give you your reason: You think you're right! Think about the last person that you really told off. Think about the last fit you through, this morning. Just think about the last fit you threw, and weren't you sure that your perspective was right? Weren't you defending a perspective? But what if everybody gets to be right?
Because, everyone is free to create. So, start by saying "I was right! ...And they were, too."
Just start giving them the benefit of the doubt. Because when you give somebody the benefit of doubt, you're the one that gets the benefit, right? So, be nicer to yourself! Be nicer to yourself!
Can you think of anything that you want to do? That, on a day-to-day basis, you want to do... that you don't do?
What are some of those things, you ever wish you could, take a nap in the afternoon? Do you let yourself do that, or is that just too lazy for you? Is that just something you should not do? Are you trying to honor some other criteria, other than doing something that's nice for you? We're just taking your temperature, and we want to say to you:
You're not even hardly very nice to yourselves, hardly, in relationship to the way your Inner Being would treat you!
If you're Inner Being was calling the shots about how you would behave, do you know how your Inner Being would spend your day? Want to know?
-Your Inner Being would wake up and feel glad to be awake, again!
-And then think: What's the most fun thing that I could do, today?
-And then, your Inner Being would do it. And you're thinking: "I'd get fired!"
...and your Inner Being would do it, anyway! Because your Inner Being knows, that when you're Tuned in, Tapped in, Turned on, and when you care about your job, that you won't get fired- you'll get understanding. In other words, things can't go wrong for you! -You don't believe, that nothing goes wrong for you, when you're tuned in to Source energy, but it doesn't!
It's resistance that causes all of the things that feel like they're going wrong for you. This is worth thinking about!
"If I could do anything that I wanted to do... since I can do anything that I want to do, since I've already told through Rockets of Desire my Vortex, what those things are, and my Inner Being knows what they are, and has already queued them all up- since everything that I want is already in the process of becoming, and the only thing that is missing is me, letting it in- then what could I do now, that would let a little more of it in?"
That's the question:
"How could I let a little more of what's already there, in?"
So, we're just going to ask you:
-Do you believe that it's there, in a vibrational form?
-Do you believe it? Like the seed in the ground that you can't see, that will be a plant- so it's there.
-Do you believe that? You have access to it, if you play your vibration right!
-Do you believe that? You can let it in, or not let it in.
-And do you believe, that you get to decide how long it is that you don't let it in- or that you let it in?
-Do you believe that you get to decide how much you let in,
-And do you believe that what other people think about you, has a lot to do with why you let in, what you let in?
So, wouldn't one of the first things that you might do, that is really nice for yourself, is decide that you're going to care more about what YOU think, and less about what THEY think?
But how you'r going to do that- do you get in their face and say: "I don't care what you think!" or do you just think, "well, you're right, too. You're right, but so am I. And you're choosing for you, and I'm choosing for me!" -and then you think: "No, you're trying to choose for me. And I'm not going to let you get away with that- whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa whoa!"
They CAN'T choose for you, remember? Only you can choose for you.
So, get that straight, right away. And then enjoy the show! Watch them throwing fits to try to get you to be different, while you stand there, being who you want, to be loving them, anyway. You don't fight back! There won't be a fight for long: Most of the juice in most of the fights are knee-jerk responses. Let them yank your chain or push your button, or get your goat. Esther's friend says, that her grandmother said:
"I'm trying to keep my goat in the backyard, where no one can get it!"
from the youtube-clip "Abraham Hicks 2024 - Be NICER to YOURSELF
Law of attraction"