Quotes on Parenting

[Paradise-on-Earth]

True Leadership ONLY works in Alignment.
And when you'r in Alignment -you can't other than lead!


HS:
So my question today is, I'd like to talk about leading from an Abraham inspired perspective. I'm an entrepreneur, start and build businesses. And I really would love to find... you know, we talk a lot about individually. But how can I take that into the corporate environment?

Abe:
Well you know it's much easier than you might think!

Because everything that we've been talking about, is about influence. And your greatest influence is in your alignment- so you can't help but lead, when you tune in to who you really are, and hold it consistently!


So that there's not much, if any, dip in your vibration. Then you'll get a lot of momentum going! And that is, in fact what leadership is, isn't it! The thing that must be understood in all of that, is you've got to decide who it is that you're leading. And it would be easier for all of you if you would just accept that

You can only lead those who are on your spinning disk.
("disc"=emotional stance that you are in, in the very moment)

The thing that goes wrong with so many is, that you get there.
-They're not there!
-You notice they're not there,
-you join them where they are-
and you don't lead.

But if you get there, you practice it, you maintain it- it's yours.
You interface with them, and you'll dip every now and again, but if you're aware of this, so that you are deliberately reaching for those higher vibrations- THEN you keep finding them!

You find them, and find them, and find them, and find them, and find them. And then, more people jump on your disk! And really, don't you want to lead those, who are in tune with who you really are? (HS: absolutely!) It's really a good time to talk about healing, or teaching, or mentoring in this context. Because what it always is, is LEADING. Leading by the clarity of your example! Or leading with the clarity of your vibrational momentum.

Have you ever had an experience, where you decided that you were going to lead- and you had it all lined up, and then you witnessed something that sort of got your goat a little bit, so you lost your alignment. And now you're struggling to lead. You're efforting to lead. And it seems like, the inmates are running the asylum!

HS
Yes, yeah. I have experienced that.

Abe:
It's all about what's going on with your vibration! Always!

HS:
So then, to that end, the momentum... so if I jump into a business that's already going- it'll have a certain momentum to it, as well. And so the best thing i can do, is just then stay aligned, and stay focused!?

Abe:
Well, momentum is everywhere! What you're wanting to do is, more consciously exercise your choice, about which disc you jump onto. And the more you practice in the privacy of your own mind, it may sound odd,

but true leadership is a rather solitary experience!
Because you spend most of your time tuning. And then, you go out, and lead for a while. And then you tune, and then you go out and lead for a while. So many leaders think, they have to be ever present! And then, they don't stay tuned.

from the youtube-clip Abraham Hicks - Secrets of Leadership

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Trying to introduce stuff to those that aren't ready
causes the wobble!

Abraham Hicks

[Paradise-on-Earth]

In Unconditional Love lays your Power and your Freedom
(and how to not let your bad relationship with your mother pinch you off from it)

Now, here's the piece that we really want you to understand about this this is the subject of unconditional love:
Do you accept, that there is an inner part of you, that is offering a vibration that is calling you?
-That soul, that source, that inner vibration: you got to know it. Because it is the basis of your guidance. And so, if you don't know that, you want to get to know that, want to feel the familiarity of that! Begin to notice when you feel vital, and why. And when you feel depleted and why!

Begin to notice that your guidance has been giving you good information. So, if you accept that, that inner being part of you exists and that that inner being part of you is calling you, then this is what we want you to understand: This subject is how you create your own reality. It's how you turn thoughts if you will, to things. It's how you turn a vibration into a see-it-hear-it-smell-it-taste-it-touch-it experience!

So, here's a vibration. It's where everything starts, and maybe this vibration that we are demonstrating here, is not perceivable to you because maybe you're on a different wavelength. Maybe it's the vibration of your inner being who knows your value, who knows your worthiness, who is liquid love. Maybe that's what's going on, and maybe you have just come away from your mother and you're in a whole different vibrational state. So you can't even perceive this vibration!

But then let's say, for whatever reason, you're not in that state... maybe you meditated, maybe you've had your feet in the water, maybe you've been in the surf today, maybe you've (...) but you ARE not resistant to who you really are! And so, this vibration that before was not perceivable, now is being received by you in the form of the first manifestational phase: You have thoughts that are occurring to you. And you're having an emotional response to those thoughts!

So, vibration and mood, that's the thing that we want you to focus on here. Vibration and mood. So, right now your mood- hear this, is unconditional.
This mood, this vibration of love- it's a vibration of love, because that's who you are! Because it's natural to you!

You didn't say "If you'll do this, then I'll feel good. And if you'll do this, then I'll feel good." You are unconditional in this love, can you feel what we're talking about here? Now, you can get to any feeling of alignment with who-you-are in an unconditional way. But in the moment you say "my mother is in a bad mood", or "my mother is negative"- now you've made HER the condition that prevents you from this mood! That's not unconditional love! That's conditional love!

Now you need to control your mother.
Now you need to have better timing.
Now you need to teach her what you know! It's too long, you don't have enough years and neither does she! (laughter) In other words, you can't depend on somebody else to get it. You've got to be unconditional in your love, and before you are going to be able to be unconditional in your love, you got to understand what it is:
It's alignment with who I really am, and all that I've become. And it is an emotional journey that I can take, because I don't need the condition to support it!

Conditional love says:
Give me more money and I'll feel better.
Unconditional love says:
Apart from the money, if I can stay off that subject for a while, if I can give myself permission to feel good even before the money comes, and I can practice the unconditional vibration of prosperity without needing the condition of money to support it- or to substantiate it or to justify it or to validate it- if you can be unconditional in your vibration -and you can!!...

You were born unconditional in your vibration, you see!

But you co-dependently trained each other away from it!
You've lost track of this relationship with your Inner Being, because there are some rewards that others will give you: They will validate you. They will give you their attention. It's just that you're looking for love in all the wrong places! And it isn't consistent, and you're right: There's no one on this planet who wants to love you more than your mother does. But if she is not in sync with who she is, she has no love to give! What she has, is where she is!

And you've got to give yourself permission to hold yourself in a place, where you can consistently, unconditionally, line up with love. And then you can shine your never-ending attention upon your mother: Unattached!

Unattached from her behavior-
because you went to the source of the well.
-You went to the source of love!
-You found it, you did it often, you stabilized there,
-you cared about it.

Things happen occasionally- you get your back window blown out, it helps you to know what you're doing! You just keep regrouping and trying again, and finding alignment and finding alignment, until -before you know it- you're so stable and you're so sure, that no matter what happens, you don't get off your game!

You understand that you'r Source energy in a physical body, and that you're supposed to have a good time. And then you say those things that you said to us, and you're really really there! You say: "I love my mother. My mother is the Avenue through which I came into this physical life experience, and my mom's doing the best that she knows how to do. She's on her path of least resistance, and sometimes she takes a lot harder path than I want her to take. But, that isn't any of my business! I don't have any control over the path that she takes.

I only have control over the path that I take!

And right now I'm bordering on stumbling off my path, by turning my attention to something that is none of my business, and that I can't control, I think I'm going to be non-conditional unconditionalness and I think I'm going to return to my vibrational frequency that is really meant as:
You do that again and again and again, on subject after subject- because there are so many people willing to play with you! And help you get onto your path!

Get onto your path. Get onto your path! And before you know it, you'll be so steadily there, and people will look at you and they'll say: "What's with you? Why are you so stable all the time? How did you get so stable?" and you say: "I went directly to the source of stability." -long pause, audience begins to laugh... "What? What??" -"Well, let me make it easier. If I went directly to the source of happiness!" -"What??" (Laughter, Abe sigh in playing the HS who explains what he was doing...).

"Okay, man. I'll just tell you how it is: I became selfish. I gave myself permission not to play with those who aren't fun to play with, until I found the vibration of alignment of who I really am. And now everybody I play with, is fun, right?" -"Oh, did they all change?" -"No, they didn't change. I did!
I'm no longer looking to them for the resource. I got my resource! They can do whatever they want, and frankly they are amusing."

-They're amusing! They're amusing. You got that, didn't you?

from the youtube clip: "Unconditional Love: The Source of Happiness - Abraham Hicks"

[Paradise-on-Earth]

In Unconditional Love lays your Power and your Freedom
(and how to not let your bad relationship with your mother pinch you off from it)

Now, here's the piece that we really want you to understand about this this is the subject of unconditional love:
Do you accept, that there is an inner part of you, that is offering a vibration that is calling you?
-That soul, that source, that inner vibration: you got to know it. Because it is the basis of your guidance. And so, if you don't know that, you want to get to know that, want to feel the familiarity of that! Begin to notice when you feel vital, and why. And when you feel depleted and why!

Begin to notice that your guidance has been giving you good information. So, if you accept that, that inner being part of you exists and that that inner being part of you is calling you, then this is what we want you to understand: This subject is how you create your own reality. It's how you turn thoughts if you will, to things. It's how you turn a vibration into a see-it-hear-it-smell-it-taste-it-touch-it experience!

So, here's a vibration. It's where everything starts, and maybe this vibration that we are demonstrating here, is not perceivable to you because maybe you're on a different wavelength. Maybe it's the vibration of your inner being who knows your value, who knows your worthiness, who is liquid love. Maybe that's what's going on, and maybe you have just come away from your mother and you're in a whole different vibrational state. So you can't even perceive this vibration!

But then let's say, for whatever reason, you're not in that state... maybe you meditated, maybe you've had your feet in the water, maybe you've been in the surf today, maybe you've (...) but you ARE not resistant to who you really are! And so, this vibration that before was not perceivable, now is being received by you in the form of the first manifestational phase: You have thoughts that are occurring to you. And you're having an emotional response to those thoughts!

So, vibration and mood, that's the thing that we want you to focus on here. Vibration and mood. So, right now your mood- hear this, is unconditional.
This mood, this vibration of love- it's a vibration of love, because that's who you are! Because it's natural to you!

You didn't say "If you'll do this, then I'll feel good. And if you'll do this, then I'll feel good." You are unconditional in this love, can you feel what we're talking about here? Now, you can get to any feeling of alignment with who-you-are in an unconditional way. But in the moment you say "my mother is in a bad mood", or "my mother is negative"- now you've made HER the condition that prevents you from this mood! That's not unconditional love! That's conditional love!

Now you need to control your mother.
Now you need to have better timing.
Now you need to teach her what you know! It's too long, you don't have enough years and neither does she! (laughter) In other words, you can't depend on somebody else to get it. You've got to be unconditional in your love, and before you are going to be able to be unconditional in your love, you got to understand what it is:
It's alignment with who I really am, and all that I've become. And it is an emotional journey that I can take, because I don't need the condition to support it!

Conditional love says:
Give me more money and I'll feel better.
Unconditional love says:
Apart from the money, if I can stay off that subject for a while, if I can give myself permission to feel good even before the money comes, and I can practice the unconditional vibration of prosperity without needing the condition of money to support it- or to substantiate it or to justify it or to validate it- if you can be unconditional in your vibration -and you can!!...

You were born unconditional in your vibration, you see!

But you co-dependently trained each other away from it!
You've lost track of this relationship with your Inner Being, because there are some rewards that others will give you: They will validate you. They will give you their attention. It's just that you're looking for love in all the wrong places! And it isn't consistent, and you're right: There's no one on this planet who wants to love you more than your mother does. But if she is not in sync with who she is, she has no love to give! What she has, is where she is!

And you've got to give yourself permission to hold yourself in a place, where you can consistently, unconditionally, line up with love. And then you can shine your never-ending attention upon your mother: Unattached!

Unattached from her behavior-
because you went to the source of the well.
-You went to the source of love!
-You found it, you did it often, you stabilized there,
-you cared about it.

Things happen occasionally- you get your back window blown out, it helps you to know what you're doing! You just keep regrouping and trying again, and finding alignment and finding alignment, until -before you know it- you're so stable and you're so sure, that no matter what happens, you don't get off your game!

You understand that you'r Source energy in a physical body, and that you're supposed to have a good time. And then you say those things that you said to us, and you're really really there! You say: "I love my mother. My mother is the Avenue through which I came into this physical life experience, and my mom's doing the best that she knows how to do. She's on her path of least resistance, and sometimes she takes a lot harder path than I want her to take. But, that isn't any of my business! I don't have any control over the path that she takes.

I only have control over the path that I take!

And right now I'm bordering on stumbling off my path, by turning my attention to something that is none of my business, and that I can't control, I think I'm going to be non-conditional unconditionalness and I think I'm going to return to my vibrational frequency that is really meant as:
You do that again and again and again, on subject after subject- because there are so many people willing to play with you! And help you get onto your path!

Get onto your path. Get onto your path! And before you know it, you'll be so steadily there, and people will look at you and they'll say: "What's with you? Why are you so stable all the time? How did you get so stable?" and you say: "I went directly to the source of stability." -long pause, audience begins to laugh... "What? What??" -"Well, let me make it easier. If I went directly to the source of happiness!" -"What??" (Laughter, Abe sigh in playing the HS who explains what he was doing...).

"Okay, man. I'll just tell you how it is: I became selfish. I gave myself permission not to play with those who aren't fun to play with, until I found the vibration of alignment of who I really am. And now everybody I play with, is fun, right?" -"Oh, did they all change?" -"No, they didn't change. I did!
I'm no longer looking to them for the resource. I got my resource! They can do whatever they want, and frankly they are amusing."

-They're amusing! They're amusing. You got that, didn't you?

from the youtube clip: "Unconditional Love: The Source of Happiness - Abraham Hicks"

[Paradise-on-Earth]

There are no lessons to be learned.
Only life, to be lived!

Abraham