Quotes on Fear

[Paradise-on-Earth]

What fear really is, is feeling pinched off from Yourself.
You soften it when you care for being more SATISFIED!


HS:
There's a little bit more I'd like to know about the fear, or the worry, that comes out... um, you rang my bell earlier, when you talked about my desire for action and need for control. Which slips away, perhaps, in the night. So, can you say a little bit more about, maybe even a technique, or...

Abe (teasing)
We'd like to exaggerate your fear! You have control of nothing! ...Let's say, that everything that you're afraid of, is really after you! (Laughter).

All fear is, is a difference of opinion between your Inner Being and you, about the subject that's on your mind, when you feel the fear.

It's just an indicator: "Hey, there's another way of looking at this, that would feel better! You want to see if, you can find it!"
But if you've waited until it's fear, rather than dissatisfaction, it's really hard for you. Because what you end up doing is, defending your fear. Justifying your fear, rationalizing your fear, compounding your fear, exaggerating your fear- keeping the momentum of your fear going. Rather than finding the relief from it!

And then, the subsequent romping in the direction of what you're wanting... what do you think you're afraid of? If you want to tell us? What is that you fear?Most would say, "fear of not being in control", but what are you afraid of?

HS:
I think... I would say, of being alone!

Abe:
Well, that really really really applies! Because, fear is the indicator that you've pinched off the whole of you, and you are sort of out on the ragged edge, without the whole of you flowing through. So, your fear is justified!

"When I feel fear, it feels like I'm out here on the raw and ragged edge, without my clarity. Without my stability. Without my wholeness. Without my wisdom! Without my love- core!"

It's logical, isn't it? So you want us to say, "well you're the one exception in all of the universe: when you feel fear, it means you're locked on!" (HS, laughing: No!) ...So next time you find yourself feeling fear, say: "Yeah, that's about right! I've got myself pinched off from the whole of Who-I-Am." And this feeling of emptiness... doesn't fear feel like emptiness? Vulnerability, void... these words are all too strong, but it's "I've pinched myself off from my resources. And now I feel pinched off from my resources!"

And stop looking for other reasons that you feel fear. You feel fear, because you've pinched yourself off from your resources, period! It's not because you're afraid of that, or that, or that, or that, or that. You did the best job of articulating what you're afraid of, of anyone that we've ever asked that question! And we've asked hundreds of people.

"I feel fear of being without my Inner Being- which fear is the indication, that I pinched myself off from my Inner Being! And so, I'd like my Inner Being to come back. Even though I have fear!" and your Inner Being says: "We're here! You gotta let go of whatever thought you're thinking, in order to let us back!" and you say: "I can't. I'm afraid." And then your Inner Being says: "Then go to sleep." and you say: "I can't sleep!" -No hope at all for you! (Laughter) -You know what to do!

HS:
I do know what to do!

Abe:
And we liked how you started out with us! That you know, that satisfaction is the key. And that's just gonna open things up! If we were to visit with you a week or two or three, down the road,
you would have already discovered that that reaching for satisfaction is just softening that! Softening that, softening that, softening that, softening that!

from the youtube-clip "Abraham Hicks What is fear?"

[spiritualcookie]

Fear is not a premonition of what's to come - it's a "present moment" activity

"Realize what negative emotion is. or what fear is.
it's not an indication of something to come.

It's an indication of something you're doing right now."

- Abraham

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Fear is just Guidance from your Inner Being about your Point of Focus

So when you think about the opposite of what you want;
when you're IB is thinking about what you want,
then that's what you're feeling -
that's all that fear is.

That fear is only your inner being saying:
"Hey, your focus upon it in opposition to what you want and opposition to what we're focusing upon."

That's all it means.

And if you can accept that intellectually...
Accept what the guidance actually is.



- Abraham, from the youtube clip: Abraham Hicks - The FEAR of LOSS! - Law Of Attraction 2019

[spiritualcookie]

When you feel fear, choose to focus on something else that feels better

The easiest way to release fear from your experience is to find something to love - something easy to love and focus upon the fact that you love it and how much you love it.

In other words, it really is about the amount of air time that you've been giving to things.

But you have been living under a misconception, as have most people on the planet.

Most people think that stuff just happens and when bad stuff happens - and you look at it - and you have to - that you're going to feel fear and that there's not anything that you can do about it.

And we want to say even under the most fearful of conditions you don't have to feel fear because you have the ability to change the subject.

So why wouldn't anyone be willing to change the subject from a fearful one to a joyful one?

Why would you not be willing to do that?

Because you don't believe in the vortex.
Because you believe in reality.
Because you don't believe that changing the point of your attention and therefore
changing the way you feel [about it matters].

In other words the only reason that anyone would not be willing to do that is because they really don't get the vortex.
They really don't get attraction.
They really don't get vibration.
They really don't yet understand that manifestations will follow your point of Attraction, and your point of Attraction is evidence to you by the way you feel.

And you can choose to feel good no matter what - no matter what - no matter what - once you understand this you see.

So when you say:
"How can I push through fear?"

We say: "We wouldn't,"
We just try to find little pieces of something that feel entirely different than fear and we would practice them until they're so active in our vibration that even scary things don't scare you.



- From the youtube clip: Abraham Hicks ~ THE BEST METHOD TO DEACTIVATE FEAR★MASTER THIS & WHATCH WHAT HAPPENS★

[spiritualcookie]

Don't just stew in Fear - Do something about it

"Love yourself enough,
that you are willing to stop
torturing yourself with negative emotion."

Stamford, May 2014

[spiritualcookie]

Abraham Talking about Global Fear in the world during Covid times (broadcast March 2020)

We’re not asking you to deny it or to fake it or pretend that it is something else,
because you are adaptive beings and you can adapt to your environment.
You can adapt to these temporary conditions.
You can do it with greater ease than you may know right now.

So we’re not asking you to just all of a sudden turn your attention to something that feels better.
It’s not even possible really to do that.

It would be like seeing someone who has just come in off of the ski-lift and they are headed down the ski slope and they hit some rough snow, an icy patch, something that trips them up and now they are tumbling downward on the slope and you could not look at them and say to them,
“Stop! Right now, stop!”
and expect them to do that.
Because they have some momentum going
and it’s alright that you have some going, too.

But when you remember, that while you have some momentum going in response to what you’re watching on television or hearing from one another or from social media,
while you are naturally responding to what you see,
no-one is asking you to “stop” thinking that way,
or “stop” feeling what you’re feeling- because that is irrational.

But what we are encouraging you to do is
to recognize that:
you do have an Inner Being who has a different perspective, an “overview”.
An Inner Being who always, at all times, knows right where you are standing, in your human perspective and form, in relationship to where you want to be.
And we want to say that, you’ve never launched such clarity before!
Your Inner Being is offering a vibrational frequency to you with such clarity, that
the likelihood of you tuning into it, is much greater now than ever before.

Esther used to tease with us and with Jerry she would say,
“Abraham, why is it that I always seem to shine in a crisis?”
And what she meant was,
it didn't matter if there was something going wrong,
it seemed to cause her to rise to the occasion.
And we always teased her and said,
***“Because the crisis makes you focus!”***

And we want you to realize, that you have the opportunity to focus,
- not upon the crisis, but upon the SOLUTIONS.

- Not upon where you are right now, but where your vibrational reality has come to be [your Vortex content], as a result of what you have been observing [and asking for more strongly than ever before].

We want you to feel the wholeness of who you are,
or at least we want you to acknowledge that there is that wholeness of you [=Source / your IB] that is broadcasting to you,
and that it is possible for you to find that frequency.
And when you do, you will feel what it feels like, from our point of view!
You’ll feel clarity, because that’s what we feel,
and you will feel stability because that’s what we know,
and you will feel eagerness because new ideas are flowing.
You will feel newfound creativity!

Esther said, “It feels like my brain is firing on all cylinders.
It’s like many thoughts are coming one after the other, at many times on different subjects”,
but still there was continuity to it all.
She is not feeling overwhelmed or confused as normal life sometimes causes her to feel, because there is a stronger “asking” globally,
a stronger asking from her “personally”
and all of that is serving her when she gets in the vicinity of “us” - of who we are.

And it will serve you, too.


Now - On-Demand Broadcast March 21, 2020

[spiritualcookie]

There is a Buffer between Fear and Manifestation

"Terrible things aren’t going to come to you because you’re focused in a way that makes you feel fear or despair. It doesn’t work that fast, it’s not like that.

You have a huge buffer of well-being.

You have more well-being than you know!

So we’re not encouraging your attention toward the solution-part of who you are,
or toward the whole of who you are because there is an urgency or a desperation for you that requires it.

We are encouraging it, because
we don’t think for a moment you should feel fear!
We don’t think for a moment you should feel despair!

We’re talking in terms of how we would feel, if we were standing in your physical shoes.
We would focus ourselves as best we can in the direction of what feels best to you, moment by moment."



Now - On-Demand Broadcast March 21, 2020

[spiritualcookie]

When you feel fear, try to relax, and do anything you can to choose a better vibration & tone

"When you finally get it that the Universe
is only answering your vibration,
then you understand, that
if you are victim
to anything, it's only your haphazard offering of vibration.

The real desire that is being born within you is,
"I want to vibrate on purpose.
I want to set my Tone.
I want to conclude and decide and offer it
consistently and then watch the results of it."

You cannot get it done, ever,
and you cannot get it wrong.
So you might as well relax and start
having fun with this."

- AH

[spiritualcookie]

On Global Fears to Global Problems (where the solution seems outside your hands)

"When you also remember that your Inner Beings, and all that is Source Energy are focused upon the solutions,
And when you remember that the vibrational version of solutions is available to anyone who aligns and taps in,
then you are able to understand that all around your planet, people who are focused upon solutions and are therefore vibrationally aligned to solutions — (doctors, scientists, inventors, producers, creators) — these people are ready to be ready to be ready to receive viable ideas, which already have enormous Nonphysical momentum.

You have only one thing to consider in your now moment, and the next, and the next.

"Am I with this thought, [trusting that there are people working on solutions]
adding momentum to the solution
or the problem?"

We want you to remember that
the most important solution you are seeking,
is the relief of your fear,
which will in time transform into Energy flowing through you
that will enliven you and refresh you and restore you to more than you have ever been before."

- Abraham

[spiritualcookie]

Abe Talking about People in Fear During Covid days

"[When you have fear about Covid] it’s activating a clarity of desire that has awesome summoning power, such a strong calling of well-being to you.

And so many people are holding themselves apart from this well-being,
but that is not necessary.

People are using this [coronavirus fear] as a stronger reason to push against [what they DON'T want] than they normally do, because they are feeling vulnerable.

You need not calibrate to any of that [which you do not want].
And calibrating to anything you don’t want is a sacrifice of your connection to Source Energy.

Remember that you can calibrate to well-being at any time.
THAT [positive] calibration is millions of times more powerful than anything else.

Then you will help spread [not fear, and not whatever virus you're afraid of spreading, but if you're calibrated to well-being you will spread] the "virus" of optimism, of steadiness, of Source Energy."


Abraham, 2020

[spiritualcookie]

Abe talking about how Fear during Covid led to Asking that led to Solutions that World Leaders could Reach if in the Receptive Mode


"When you callibrate to a problem, simultaneously you callibrate to a solution.

And the thing that we really want you to hear is that in [fear]
there is [positive] POWER that is matched.

In other words when there is strong fear, there is equivalent ASKING.

And so we want that to soothe you, even as you hear it.

We’ve talked to you on many occasions about how the vibration of the problem is different from the vibration of the solution -
Just like the vibration of the question is different of the vibration of the answer.

And that’s why, if you are really wrapped up in your question, or in your problem, even though the solution is immediately, instantaneously flowing into your atmosphere and even though you could -if you were in a receiving mode - pick up on it,
if you are vibrationally different from it, then you can’t receive it right now.

But the good news is, the solution was created by your attention to it.

So every time a contrasting experience is yours, you launch an equivalent rocket of desire and so you must feel it, for sure.

Can you feel the BIGNESS of the solution that is in that vibrational reality, in that vibrational atmosphere?

And are you not -as you are feeling better in a moment here, and in a moment there-
are you not becoming aware of humans all around your planet that are receiving that call from their inner being who are tuned for whatever reason?

It might be that they were just exhausted and they stopped pushing against for a little while.

It might be that the situation just feels so big that they sort of thrown up their hands in an attitude of giving up.

But we promise you that
there are leaders and thinkers and very capable minds that are often in a receiving mode,
that are receiving the benefit of what you in your fear and your concern are contributing to this creation.

(...)

Even though any one of you, small group or large group of you, may be focused in opposition to your reception of it,
it does not diminish the fact that the answers are there,
that the ideas are flowing,
that the solutions are forthcoming."


Abraham-Now-Life-Broadcast, March 2020