What if I'm not my type's type? Can what I want not want me back?

[Jet'aimeAussi]

Exactly! The odds, and even more, the "how" IS NOT YOUR JOB.
The "odds" become because people think insides their boxes. And so, not much un-seen-before-stuff happens! But you are not at all limited to that. Your job is to do step 3 "and let it in".

I always forget the "How" is not my job!!! I really have to lean into this in the next few weeks. I always put myself in the driver's seat but I've noticed before how much work the Universe can pull off for me! I started doing this list to the Universe thing and it helps a lot!

You did not come to react to reality!
You came to CREATE reality.
- Abraham Hicks

Yes Yes Yes! I need to write down all the quotes you're providing me in a book or something

When you are a "halfsy", what other CAN you attract than a halfsy!?

This revelation is huge for me. I've meditated on it for the past few days and I think it really explains everything.

I really really REALLY want to give you my greatest kudos for being SO capable, understanding and willing to do this all in the ways it works! AWESOME!!!

And I want to thank you for guiding me, and all the others here on this forum. This is better than a shrink! There's so much love and guidance here, it's my new favourite place on the internet! I wouldn't have had those realisations without you. Talking to someone that knows Abe and can give advice in accordance with those teachings is priceless.

I want to get invited to the wedding!

Sending them vibrationally right as we speak!

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I always forget the "How" is not my job!!! I really have to lean into this in the next few weeks. I always put myself in the driver's seat but I've noticed before how much work the Universe can pull off for me! I started doing this list to the Universe thing and it helps a lot!

being "in the drivers seat" and choosing where you want to go, how you want to live, what you like best (and what not)... that is absolutely needed. You, making general or even very specific decisions about the "WHAT" and "WHY" in your life are your very first business!

Just not the "How". That's sources job.

Yes Yes Yes! I need to write down all the quotes you're providing me in a book or something

"No need"! Do things ONLY if this is fun to you!

This revelation is huge for me. I've meditated on it for the past few days and I think it really explains everything.

It does, right? What comes to you in life really is a mirror image of what you put out- but also, what you really want. And, you might not always be so aware of that.
Often life throws us a curve-ball, and we might think that what comes would be punishment from source. BUT SOURCE NEVER PUNISH!!! And really, it always is FOR you- to better understand your resistance, or to gain insight in something that just will never work. Or to learn a skill that you need, on your way to what you really desire.

You have deep desires in your Vortex that you might have completely forgotten or suppressed (as learning such "unreasonable" skills as to love unconditionally, or getting/ becoming something that you deem absolutely impossible). But source know EXACTLY what is in your Vortex and what you desire most, and what you are in vicinity of- and will guide you in ways that often look screwy or as bad jokes! BUT whatever life throws at you, is ALWAYS the next best tiny step towards your fulfillment.

And I want to thank you for guiding me, and all the others here on this forum. This is better than a shrink! There's so much love and guidance here, it's my new favourite place on the internet! I wouldn't have had those realisations without you. Talking to someone that knows Abe and can give advice in accordance with those teachings is priceless.

awwwww!! I, for my part, am soooo glad to hear that!! Perfect co-creation, right?

Sending them vibrationally right as we speak!

...I want physical ones, when it's the right time!! (no pressure, though)

[Jet'aimeAussi]

I just want to post a follow-up since our exchange :

No physical invitation yet BUT doubts about this type of guy not being into me have been mostly washed away thanks to the breakthrough you helped me achieve. From time to time, I'll get thoughts like "I want HIM and not another" but I manage to remind myself that there is not only one prize and that this one might not be exactly like I'd like to be. And I go back to simply using his image to imagine the type of guy I'd like to be with, only using this one guy's physical appearance as a canvas.

Every night when I fall asleep, I imagine little scenarios using that picture of this unknown police officer (if that real guy knew!!) and I feel pure bliss and fun. I do feel like it's possible I'll attract that type of man and he'll like me back so that's great!

I've even done something else that still makes me giggle, I use artificial intelligence to write stories about this man and me. I'll invent names and events and let the AI write it for me, giving me exactly what I ask for in story form. So I get to read bed time stories of me and my fantasy guy and it almost feels like pre manifestation. It feels real to read it from a source other than my own brain.

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I just want to post a follow-up since our exchange :

No physical invitation yet BUT doubts about this type of guy not being into me have been mostly washed away thanks to the breakthrough you helped me achieve. From time to time, I'll get thoughts like "I want HIM and not another" but I manage to remind myself that there is not only one prize and that this one might not be exactly like I'd like to be. And I go back to simply using his image to imagine the type of guy I'd like to be with, only using this one guy's physical appearance as a canvas.

Wow. How does this FEEL?
I guess, it is around empowerment, worthiness...?

Every night when I fall asleep, I imagine little scenarios using that picture of this unknown police officer (if that real guy knew!!)

...According to Abe, we feel this, in some way. We feel a certain joy and light, when others appreciate us (when this is a pure joyful appreciation, and we are in vicinity to joy), as you send him light and love, in some way, and, really, if the twoof you would physically meet, it is likely that he would recognize you in SOME joyful way. As long as it feels good- it IS good, not only for you, but for all of those that are included, as well!

and I feel pure bliss and fun. I do feel like it's possible I'll attract that type of man and he'll like me back so that's great!

exactly!!

I've even done something else that still makes me giggle, I use artificial intelligence to write stories about this man and me. I'll invent names and events and let the AI write it for me, giving me exactly what I ask for in story form. So I get to read bed time stories of me and my fantasy guy and it almost feels like pre manifestation. It feels real to read it from a source other than my own brain.

that is genius!!! What a wonderful idea!