On the subject of beauty and physical appearance

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I found a quote yesterday while digging the forum and it said "The odds don't matter at all. Because the odds of Law of Attraction are 100%" I'd love to find a collection of stories about coincidences or stuff like that, I think it would help me believe this more deeply.

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...it's small yet, but maybe you would find your "proof" in Abraham clips with the searchwords of "probability" or "statistics" from which you could draw quotes that you find especially helpful, and add them on this thread? It would help others, but most of all, it would serve YOU. As, in engaging yourself in thought and action towards what you want- you boost LoA on the topic to bring you more, and to GET IT, deeper! I think this would serve you manyfolds more than just listening to others who try to convince you...

That was me today Radio interference is a brilliant way to put it. Anytime I tried to tune in, I'd get interference thoughts that I didn't want. I spent my day having to consciously let go of unwanted thoughts/doubts.

good job! Yah, the first steps are a b*. But it becomes your norm, and so easy with just some training!

I love that. The truth of this really resonates with me right now.

Ok, yes. I can do that!
It's really true that when I focus on joyful things consistently enough, I'll end up finding myself really pretty. And when I'm not "high", I don't.

Really, write such insights down, somewhere. What you write down gets more momentum, and than you have access to it easier, the next time. THAT is training!

And then when I don't, I panic that I won't be able to get the stuff I want (husband, good life) which I want to make myself happy with.
By making myself happy now, I cut out the middlemen.

Exactly. And that is of SUCH importance! That is the "unconditionally" that you look for, and that really makes you stable and in time, invincible. While you can never totally depend on outside circumstances, or other people (no matter how nice they are and how much they are willing to not let you down).

So, how does this FEEL to you?

Terrible. I don't like thinking what I want is rare or unlikely to happen.

THAT is the only guidance you really need! It is so much more valuable than statistics!

You're right (as usual). I suppose it's why we've come here anyway, no? We didn't come here to say "and then everything will be perfect and I'll have no contrast and therefore manifest nothing new".

EXACTLY!!

We came here for the JOY, and the SATISFACTION. And we get these when we unfold towards what life caused our hearts to desire. We are free to choose joy, or not. Our expansion is secured anyway- no matter if we choose joy or not. But life is so MUCH more fun we we choose a joyful path, right?

Abe teach:

There is this triad of intentions:
1., The basis of your life is freedom. You are so free that you can choose bondage.
2., The inevitable outcome of life is growth, or expansion.
3., The reason for life is joy- but that is an option.

(Abraham Hicks)

[Tara]

Jet’aimeAussi thank you for your question. This is also quite active in me

However, you can attract a lover in your life if you decide to focus on loving instead of being loved but you have to be determined and differentiate

I truly resonate with your question… I know the state matters a lot!

When I was a kid, I somehow considered myself to be Beautiful I now look at photos (from outside the vortex probably, and I do not see anything special), but I recall that I truly believed I was beautiful and of course my reality reflected that (boys at school would give me attention, etc)…

Over the years I lost myself in comparison and focusing on the things I do not like in myself and somehow ended up a bit on the other side of the stick…with occasional glimpses of feeling good about myself.

I remember in the old forum there was a woman (she said she was beautiful (a model), but she wanted to become the most beautiful woman in the world… in that forum a guy shared an example of a girl who told him and his friends that her mum always said when she will grow up she will be beautiful so now when she turned 19 or sth like that she has become beautiful. The guy said neither he nor his friends saw her as beautiful but after a year, I think she also started modelling or sth, when he saw her again, she looked so beautiful to him … even there was almost no changes..

I wonder how these things truly work… would like to manifest these states of being too

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I wonder how these things truly work… would like to manifest these states of being too

...what do you mean? It is always the same process: You get what you believe... aka, you get back what you "put out", aka to what you are a vibrational match to!

[Paradise-on-Earth]

...you could also say:

Beauty is not pulling together the "look" (=the stuff, the perfect body, the beautiful clothes, the right age...).
It is the state of mind, that resonates in yourself or others as "Beauty".

[Tara]

Thank you, Paradise on Earth

With physical looks I wonder is it only the inner state (which is very powerful, of course! ) or can you really manifest your face and body in a way that you would see yourself as beautiful physically …. And truly be content with your looks.

That would be a huge relief to many people to be happy with their looks and be their own beautiful selves.

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Thank you, Paradise on Earth

my pleasure!!

With physical looks I wonder is it only the inner state (which is very powerful, of course! )

it is (as with EVERY other topic)...

...1., AT FIRST only the inner (=vibrational) state.
When you keep up the wanted vibration, it MUST- due to LoA- become bigger and bigger, and become...
...2., your souvereign, (self-) loving stance, which is not only "content", but truly appreciating. Aka, it is "receptive mode"- you, being receptive for what you want and desire. And then,
...3., it becomes materialized "stuff". Which can translate into a wanted digestive reaction of your body that transforms into wanted weight-gain or -loss, into a different skeleton with different features, fully healthy teeth, a different eye-color, the vanishing of wrinkles and the gaining of healthy beautiful skin, beautiful healthy hair, glistening eyes, a happy attitude that mirrors your lively loving attitude in your walk and talk and all your physical appearance. It can translate into a stunning beautiful smile and adorable behavior, that charms people (and animals and and and). NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS- when you believe that you can have it.

BUT you will never be able to fully control other people's receptive mode. Or, said in the words of Dita van Teese:

or can you really manifest your face and body in a way that you would see yourself as beautiful physically …. And truly be content with your looks.

Of course you can! And before you do this ALIGNMENT with who-you-really-are, it all stays conditional, it will never really fulfill you. "Getting your stuff" is only skin-deep. (I don't fully agree with Sophia Loren on this, see quote below). "Skin deep" beauty is still a real sort of beauty. But it doesn't last, it isn't steady, and it keeps people on their toes. But owning the truth of your innate beauty is eternal, and certain, and unconditionally fulfilling. It changes with the seasons, but it will not go away: Nothing can pull it away from you- other than you, moving OOTV, out of the receptive mode where you are ABLE to see the beauty that is.

That would be a huge relief to many people to be happy with their looks and be their own beautiful selves.

-It would be the only real solution to ALL people who care for beauty!

...maybe you enjoy this quotes from people who "got that", too...

[Tara]

I love you POE!

Thank you for your beautiful words

[Paradise-on-Earth]