"Figuring it out" aka asking questions, aka Step 1

[Paradise-on-Earth]

How it works, when a Desire gets born

As you're experiencing contrast, knowing what you don't want and therefore asking what you do want-

when you ask for what you do want, we are not kidding you- that requests springs forward in a rocket-light fashion! A vibrational rocket. And the larger part of you, who knows full well that no one would know better to ask for an improvement for you, than you... so, when that rocket emanates from you, your inner being and that which is source, gives undivided attention to that new found request! And the universe expands: Because Source Energy is on that request now! That's really a big thing to understand!!

Abraham

[Paradise-on-Earth]

"Am I on the right Path?"
(You never feel good when you judge anyone- yourself or others!)

HS:
First I want to say- thank you sooo much! For everything!

Abe:
Yeah, yeah! Well we're all in this together!

HS:
I believe it now. I literally believe it now.

Abe:
Well, words don't teach. When you got a strong asking, there's a strong answer. Of course it helps that you're sitting on the front row (of the WS). How did that happen? That was no easy feat! In other words, how many people did you trample to get there?

HS (laughing):
I just came very early to make it happen.

Abe:
-Deliberate intention! (HS: Yes.) And strong wanting! (HS: Yes.) With no resistance!

HS:
With no resistance! (Abe: yeah.) I am here, because my interest in you has gotten me to where I'm at, today. My belief in you has stabilized me mentally.

Abe:
Your belief in you! (HS: Hm!) Your belief in YOU.

HS:
Thank you! Yeah, thank you. I was going to ask a question that I, um, spoke with a guest that I just met and I was told not to ask it because... I know, but the question I was going to ask is: Am I on the right path?

Abe:
Well you KNOW you are, not just because you're in the hot seat right now! That is a clue, however.
You can tell by the increase in your feeling of stability, and the decrease in your unsteadiness.
You can feel by your increase in your happy heart, and the decrease in your concern about things.

In other words, you can feel you're not ever going to be at the place where it's only upper half of the emotional scale- emotions, because you came wanting to explore and ask questions. You came wanting to define your questions, you didn't come to regurgitate other people's questions. Or to assume other people's answers! You came to ask your own questions to live your own life. And to emit, to radiate, to ooze, your questions to the universe, to receive your own answers!

HS:
Absolutely! And the question is, how do I continue to stay on this path?

Abe:
By caring about how you feel.
By that being, what matters most.
By preferring love to anger.
By preferring clarity to confusion, and
by calibrating all day every day in the direction of what feels better.

That's all. And...
by not demanding or even asking of yourself, to get it just right, every single minute!
By being nice to yourself about it!

...Like the source within you is! In other words, do you know when you're upset at yourself? It's because your Inner Being isn't. Did you hear that?

HS:
I heard it, and I never knew it.

Abe:
You couldn't feel negative emotion, if your Inner Being wasn't just loving you, anyway! If your Inner Being would join you in your negative judgment.

You'd feel just great (in your judgement)! But your Inner Being won't do that. And people that look like they're happy when they're mean- they're just really good fakers they're not happy they're not HAPPY.


from the clip Abraham Hicks SIGNS THAT YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH Law of Attraction

[Paradise-on-Earth]

MAKING MISTAKES IS HOW WE LEARN - IT'S ALL ALRIGHT

Do you remember watching a child... learning to walk?
When he fell down and bumped his head, did you say:
"You stupid little fool!" ? (group laughter)
"Get up and walk!" (laughter)
Or did you say:
"It's all right. All of us fell down and bumped our heads. It is the way we learned to walk..."

And so, why do you keep beating up on yourself every time when in a new experience, you don't know just what to do?

Why not take the experience and live it,
and bask in the knowledge that comes from it -
looking for the positive aspects within it?
Because they are always there.
Do you know how we know?
Because within everything here are positive and negative aspects.
There is not an exception to that in all the Universe. [...]
And by your decision to focus, [you] bring into your experience whatever it is you have chosen.

- Abraham

[Paradise-on-Earth]

NEVER again say "I have enough!"


HS:
If I'm honest with myself, the truth is is, that in my life, I've always had enough: Enough!
And when I talk...

Abe:
you know, you- whether you use honest words or not, doesn't matter, because you can't be dishonest with your vibration. Your vibration is what it is and law of attraction is responding to what it is! So, you don't have to you don't have to say whether it's truthful or not. Because what it is, is what it is! And law of attraction is bearing out what it is. So if what it is is enough- then don't change anything. And if what is is is not enough, then change some things!

HS:
Well, here's the dilemma... it's that in one sense, I've had enough. I've had enough money is... I've had enough money but...

Abe:
You see, that statement is not even accurate on any level. And let us tell you, let us tell you why! Anyone who says "I have enough" is... now, now stay with us a little bit! You're going to bock at this a little bit, because it's going to sound different than you want source energy to sound.

But anyone who says "I have enough" is not, in that moment, in alignment with the expanding being that is them -who understands there will never be enough!!

Because there will will never be a cessation of expanding.
When someone says "I have enough", what they are doing... they're focused upon limitation. They're focused on finite resources! And they are concluding: "Given the others that may be watching me at this time, that I have more than my fair share." And we want you to understand, that even at its best, that is very limited thinking!

Because there is no ending to what the universe has the ability to yield to you.

And you did not say, as you made the decision to come forth into physical experience: "I've had enough. I've had I've had enough exposure for life!" because that that would defy your being here. "I've had enough contrasts, that will lead me to more desires" -because that would defy the fact that you are here, giving birth to new desires! In other words, "I've had enough" defies everything. Because Source energy is becoming the new you, constantly!

So, what we think you've had enough of, is feeling the gap between the expanded you and the you you're letting yourself be.

We think that's what you've had enough of, right? (HS, chuckling: Right. I hear you.) And... and so, you say: "I don't want to put myself in that position anymore!" Have you ever been feeling pretty good, and then you saw something that you wanted that you couldn't afford, and then you said "oh man, I wish I didn't know I wanted that! Because now... now I feel tension about it. I didn't care before I drove it. But now I rode in it... now... (unhappy sighs)
I didn't care before I saw her! Before I smelled her, before I touched her, but now I want her!" -In other words, there are so many things that your life experience causes you to become.

And you have no choice if you are to be joyful than to stay up to speed with it!
So, never again say "I have enough!"
But say instead: "I have a way of keeping myself in perfect alignment on my way to eternal expansion!"

And that feeling of not enough, that feeling of discord is the feeling of the stream going this way, and me going this way. That's what you're trying to describe with those words, you see.

from the clip Abraham Hicks NEVER AGAIN SAY 'I HAVE ENOUGH MONEY' ~ SAY THIS INSTEAD! Law of Attraction

[Paradise-on-Earth]

HS:
After about a three year hiatus of being at the live events and listening to the weekly CDs, I've come up with two things. I keep opening the CD and thinking my question is going to be in this CD. It's in all the CDs, but I can't quite get some of these things. Um... well, actually my first question has to do with um- the question- the evolution of the questions that have been discussed. At first it was a lot of "What about child molestation? What about The Holocaust? How this Law of Attraction doesn't work here or there"- and that seems to have dropped away...

Abe:
You know why? We never give a satisfying answer.

HS:
You never give a satisfying answer?

Abe:
Not to those questions. In other words, we never tell anybody what they really want to hear! In other words, we say "you create your own reality". Right. Period. And then, they say "well, what about bad things happening to other people?" And we say "they create their own reality." And they say "why would anyone create something they do not want to create??" And we say "because they don't know what they're doing. They are offering vibrations that they are not paying attention to."

HS:
I think, people eventually got that. Um- I kinda promised I wouldn't ask this question but I'm going to, anyhow.

Abe:
Who did you promise?

HS:
This is it. I've mentioned to people and they said, "oh, don't". Um- but this is a quick one.
Why do dogs risk getting bugs in their eyes, sticking their heads out of car windows?

Abe:
Well, tell your friends that you have asked the most profound question that has ever been asked! And you have given us an opportunity to give the answer, that we have been waiting a very long time to give. And that is:

Because the contrast of the bugs in the eye is a small price to pay for the exhilaration of that ride! And it is exactly the same way you felt, when you made the decision to come into this physical existence. It's exactly the way you felt when you knew there would be contrast, and you said:

The ride is going to be worth it.


from the official youtube-clip Abraham: THE MOST PROFOUND QUESTION - Esther and Jerry Hicks

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Expect your every need to be met!
Expect the answer to every problem.
Expect abundance, on every level!
Expect to grow spiritually!
You are NOT living by human laws!

Abraham Hicks

[Paradise-on-Earth]

You'r all trying too hard!
You'r all thinking too much.
It's exhausting and impossible,
you'r not EVER going to sort it out!

But you could just find a reason to feel good!
And milk that, for a little while.
And then, tap into your Inner Being- who does feel good!

Abraham Hicks

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Observing "what-is" tends to only regurgitate what we already believe.
(Reactivating resistance).

HS:
Is there some kind of a pre-destiny in following that inner guidance, that inner path?

Abe:
Only in this sense: It was decided, or known, as you were making the decision to come into this body, that

You're a creator.
And that through your exploration, you would expand.
And that expansion is necessary and delicious.

But we would call that predetermined or pre-decided by you, intentionality.

HS:
By me -me-, or me -my Inner Self me-?

Abe:
You, your Inner Self.

HS:
Both of us? Teamwork?

Abe:
At that time, there was no split in you, because you hadn't come into consciousness that could think independently. So you said "step one is: I will think independently. I will know what I don't want. I will know what I do want! And in my independent thought, I will discover things that I do not want, and in the discovery of what I don't want, I will simultaneously discover what I do want, because every component of the universe has
wanted and absence of wanted within it."

And you knew that, and you said: "Sometimes it is necessary for life to show me what I don't want, before I can even know what I do want! Because it has to be personal."

So, when life shows you what you don't want, and then you know what you do want- you've launched that rocket of clarity. And you, and therefore we, have reached into a new place where we have never been before! And we immediately go there, because we have no resistance. You are slower in coming along, because you've got beliefs that keep you from immediately going there.

But when your desire for feeling good becomes stronger, than holding to a belief that you don't care about... The other day, we've been telling this story. We may even have told it to you directly! Esther was in Del Mar. She has a house there. She hadn't been there in months, she was sitting at her desk, looking out where the ocean should have been, and couldn't see the ocean. And she realized that in the months that she'd been gone, the trees had grown in, and the bushes from the side had completely obscured her view from sitting at the desk!

Which was why the desk was there. So her gardeners came later that day, and she said: "I'm blocking my own view. Could you guys trim this edge, so that I can see the ocean?" And they said: "Happily!" and then they said: "But there are trees down in the ravine, that might be part of what you're seeing!" and Esther said: "Well, I only own half of that ravine. Just be sure that it's on my property." and they said "We've got you covered!" -and off Esther went to lunch with her friend. They were gone many hours. They shopped and ate and explored, and when Esther came back, she walked onto her deck and went in and looked out the window, and the ocean was back.

She was so happy to see it! Then she looked out a little way on the hillside, up very close to neighboring property, and saw something that made her gasp: Two very large tree stumps. Cut all the way down to the ground. And Esther thought: "How in the world did that happen?? I thought i was so clear!" and then Esther began feeling guilty right away, and so sorry. And then she tried to make herself feel better, and she thought:
"Well, that house is under construction. Maybe it's new people, and they don't know those trees were there!" -so she worried about it for a day or two, off and on, whenever she thought about it.

And then one day, she looked out and she saw a man in a suit standing out on that patio- it's across the ravine, Esther's never been over to that house- standing in a suit, looking at the tree stumps. And then he took his phone out, and took a picture of them, and Esther thought: "I better go confess." But she'd never been over there before, so she didn't know how to get there. Is that a road down, that leads up? Or road up, that leads down? It took her a while to get there. And when she got there, he was already gone. But on her way over, she had practiced her confession: "I didn't mean to do that, and I'm so sorry! But I did do it. And I will make it up to you, in whatever way you want! I'll plant new trees. I'll landscape your whole yard- whatever makes you feel better. I am so sorry!"

-But he wasn't there. So she didn't deliver her speech. So she just went home, and continued to practice it. And then, a day or two later, she went with her friend off to lunch again, and when they got back she said to him: "Look what I did!" -took him out on the patio and pointed at the trees. And her friend said what? "Esther, your gardeners didn't cut those trees down, while we were at lunch! Why isn't the hillside all torn up? Where is the debris from the trees?"

And Esther thought: Hey! and then they walked out to the edge, and she looked up close to her property, and there was a very small stump with all the debris from it lying right there, where they had cut it. And all that had happened is, the gardeners had cut down a little tree that let Esther see things, she wasn't used to seeing. And Esther thought: "It's embarrassing that I believed something so dumb! It was completely illogical. It didn't make any sense at all, that those two men in three or four hours... they would have had to have a helicopter and a saw, and just cut it off at the bottom and carried the whole thing away!"

There was no possible way that that could have happened. But Esther believed that she had done that. The circumstantial evidence was such. The way it had unfolded in her experience- she believed something, that was truly illogical. It shook her up! Esther said: "I bet there's all kinds of really dumb things that I believe, like that, that are in my way! That I just keep carrying forward, for no good reason. Because circumstances just make that the path of least resistance, relative to the momentum that I've got going."

And so, you do- all of you- have many beliefs that you are nurturing, that you continue to keep active. that prevent you from your true reception of what's truly going on. Here's a very powerful statement:

If your desire is strong enough, any belief that's in its way, will fall by the wayside.
But most of you -because of your attention to other humans, and your desire to find mutuality with them, you choose harmony with beliefs that don't serve you- rather than upset them.

Rather than harmony with the beliefs that your Inner Being holds about you, that serve you completely, you don't want to be a freak. You don't want to be a pollyanna. You don't want to believe things that most people don't believe.

You want to believe the circumstantial evidence, because most of you are conditional.
We mean: You, meaning humans, are conditional in your thinking! So you keep observing what-is, and you keep bringing the vibration of what-is forward, even though your very existence means, you are here to create new.

You're not here to regurgitate what's already here!
You are here to become freer. To become wholer. To become newer. To feel better!

You didn't come to regurgitate what-is, and yet, most of those around you are true regurgitators.
And if you stand out not as a regurgitator, sometimes they want to call you weird or freak or pollyanna, or "not facing reality".

HS:
Aren't those regurgitated beliefs manifestations as well (Abe: they are!) ...from something, that happened when you were five or six years old?

Abe:
Something happened 20 years ago, and if you didn't keep thinking about it, it would completely be out of your vibration- within three days! But because you talk about it, you keep bringing it forward 19 years, 18 years, 17 years, 15 years... and so, here it is. Right here, still active in your vibration, even though it has no relevance other than the relevance that you've given it, because you keep it active in your vibration!

So it continues to be in the way of what you want. but your blessed Inner Being- even though your Inner Being knows that you've got things in your way, your Inner Being is always looking for a path of least resistance to call you around it! Over and under it. In other words, to show you that you can get to where you want to be, no matter what beliefs that you hold. But isn't it nice, when you are willing to acknowledge that you have beliefs that are in your way, that are not valid? And what we're saying to you, with this segment, is:

The less you try to find mutuality with the girls in the nail salon, because they're lovely they are lovely and there are positive aspects... Esther one day realized, we've been talking about positive aspects for as long as she can remember. And somehow she was thinking that what we meant was -in every situation, or in every individual, there are positive and negative aspects, so line up the positive ones, line up the negative ones, and focus on the positive ones... and all of a sudden, she understood what we really meant. We meant:

Focus upon any aspect that causes you to feel good, while you focus upon it!

It's not an evaluation. It's not a determining what's positive, and what's negative! It's looking for mutuality with your inner being. It's looking for what feels good when you find it, you see!

HS:
And what feels good- a positive desire can blast out an old negative belief!

Abe:
Because, you see, every individual is like the universe at large. Within every particle of the universe is wanted and absence of it. So, in every individual, there are aspects of them that you want to find mutuality with, and aspects of them that you don't. But most people want the other to change, to be mutual to you, rather than just looking for what is mutual. Or looking somewhere else to find it! Oh, you could be living such wonderful lives, if you would realize, that in every place you look, there is mutuality. And it's up to you, to find it. But when the first thing you do, is find something that's missing- then you harmonize with what you're mutual on, that takes you away from your Inner Being. And then, you struggle and need them to change, so that you can feel better. You got that, didn't you?

HS:
Yeah. Is that... is that mutuality? Because part of me attracted like, some negativity, and part of me attracted some positivity. and everything that I... I attract to myself.

Abe:
That's a perfect statement. Because you've attracted it all.
Nothing is coming to you, that you haven't attracted. But here's the thing: You could be in a place of true alignment. Maybe you've been meditating for a while, and you're tuned in, tapped in, turned on, and you are in alignment, and in that alignment, you attract someone to you- let's say an individual to you, who has that mutuality.

In other words, that person has that potential or maybe even that going on actively, right here right now, and even though they might have a whole lot of other things that you don't want to think about ,or that you don't want to be mutual with, doesn't matter. You are focused upon and active about the thing that does, until you get so nosy about everything, about that person. You meet new people, law of attraction brings you together, and the first thing you do, is: "Tell me about yourself!" and we're in the background, saying: "Don't do that!! Let the law-of-attraction- mutuality be what carries you!"

Don't look around for other things that you might be mutual about, because you might find all kinds of things that neither one of you want to have active in your vibration, that you're mutual about! Because you have all kinds of things within you, that you don't want to be active in your vibration right now. Helpful?

HS:
Yeah, that makes sense, too. Yeah! Yeah, yeah!

Abe:
So, what is life, really? What is it?

Life really is you, seeking alignment with who you really are.
You, seeking alignment with who you really are, you seeking alignment with who you really are, until you discover:
You know when you're satisfied. And when you're not, then moving out and let law of attraction bring to you things that are important to you.

HS:
Well, that's what brought up that predestination I was thinking about. Jerry, manifesting through his own questioning a lot of this, right here... (Abe: yes!) ...and was that like, his Inner Being, calling him into it? (Abe: No question!) ...This is where he's going to, and he just had to... (Abe: No question.) ...allow that to happen and go through his experiences, to get in line with that?

Abe:
Sometimes, when you really want to know something, your Inner Being calls you right through contrasting experiences, in order to inspire you to ask for the thing, that you most want. It's also good: Everything is always working out for you!

from the youtube- clip "Is Pre-Destiny Real | Abraham Hicks | LOA (Law of Attraction)"