Quotes on Decisions
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[When] there is a decision for you to make, and you haven't made it yet; you are still exploring the options. You might even have narrowed it down to one or two things [but are still undecided].
Do you feel how enervated you feel? How tired, even depressed?
How you wake up in the morning and you really don't want to get out of bed?
The reason for that is because [in indecision] your Energy is diffused.
You don't know what you want, and so this powerful or potentially powerful Energy is coming into you -
but you are sending it off in so many [diffused] directions, [it makes] you feel tired.
And do you remember how, whenever you made a decision about something, how good you felt?
Once you make a decision, no matter how minor the decision is, you are suddenly empowered again. Because suddenly you are saying "yes" to something. You're not saying "yes, no, yes no, maybe" [where the energy is all diffused]. You're saying "Yes!" and so the Energy flows [in one clear direction, undiffused].
That is "Divine Intervention": When you get all of your thoughts going in one direction, then WE say "Let it go" and [the Universe arranges it so that] "everyone" gets behind [the powerful desire] and offers to you.
That is why you feel this great power of momentum you see.
All the "fairies of the Universe" get behind you when you're decided.
[But as long as you're undecided, with your split energy] it is sort of, nobody paying much attention to you [in terms of the fairies of the Universe]. [Because] there is not much point in sending it off in a thousand directions, is there?
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Focus on what you have Decided!
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The Pro- and Con-game is the deliberate game of splitting energy.
What you want to do is, find the Pro and line up with it!
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Your deliberate decisions that you speak to your cells,
gives them knowledge of your desires that overrides any negative beliefs or expectations!
Many of you assign all of the thinking ability of your being to your brain.
That is not an accurate assumption! For we have not that clump of physical stuff, and yet we still think, regarding your bodies, it is not just your brain that transmits and receives thought.
Literally every cell of your body has the ability to transmit and receive-
if you do not make decisions about what you want, then the cells of your body, literally every part of you, receives influence or direction from whatever mass consciousness speaks.
That's why doctors have concluded that diseases are hereditary. Because the cells of the infant body were communicating with the cells with the sick parents body, or with the worrisome thoughts of the sick parent. Babies not thinking about being sick, but receiving on some level about it. And receiving the result of that, because the conscious decision was not stronger.
A few years ago Jerry and Esther climbed the mountain. It was great fun, and on the following day, Esther could not get out of bed!
A few days ago, they climbed another mountain. Only this time, instead of Esther's body responding to mass consciousness or to Esther's old beliefs about the way her body responds to that sort of strenuous ordeal, Esther stood at the bottom of the mountain and said, speaking to her body:
"Are you all listening? It is my intent to climb this mountain. And I'm wanting you to receive the perfect amount of blood and energy and oxygen in order to do it with efficiency, and with effectiveness, and with fun and furthermore, tomorrow morning when I wake up and I'm wanting to feel very good! Are you listening to me?" she said again and again. She stopped along the trail, and spoke to her body!
And on the following morning when she awakened, she opened her eyes and was delighted as she bounced from her bed to find not one bit of soreness! Why? Because she made the decision consciously, to override old beliefs or mass consciousness, regarding this issue!
Now the reason we tell you this story is, because we are wanting you to understand that there is great power in decision, and that you do not have to let the evidence that others have created and are living, the physical evidence of disease, or poverty or whatever they are living- you do not need to let that affect your experience!
Because it is not evidence that has anything to do with you. It is only evidence of that which they have attracted by virtue of the balance of the thought that is within them. You are following us? It is our very strong wanting, to bring each of you to the place of knowing that you have control of your own experience and that it is not difficult to have it. That it is only a matter of you, deciding what you want, and really believing that your decision carries enough weight, that it can be your experience.
from the youtube-clip Abraham Hicks - RAMPAGE - TELL YOUR CELLS WHAT TO DO! With music (No ads)
gives them knowledge of your desires that overrides any negative beliefs or expectations!
Many of you assign all of the thinking ability of your being to your brain.
That is not an accurate assumption! For we have not that clump of physical stuff, and yet we still think, regarding your bodies, it is not just your brain that transmits and receives thought.
Literally every cell of your body has the ability to transmit and receive-
if you do not make decisions about what you want, then the cells of your body, literally every part of you, receives influence or direction from whatever mass consciousness speaks.
That's why doctors have concluded that diseases are hereditary. Because the cells of the infant body were communicating with the cells with the sick parents body, or with the worrisome thoughts of the sick parent. Babies not thinking about being sick, but receiving on some level about it. And receiving the result of that, because the conscious decision was not stronger.
A few years ago Jerry and Esther climbed the mountain. It was great fun, and on the following day, Esther could not get out of bed!
A few days ago, they climbed another mountain. Only this time, instead of Esther's body responding to mass consciousness or to Esther's old beliefs about the way her body responds to that sort of strenuous ordeal, Esther stood at the bottom of the mountain and said, speaking to her body:
"Are you all listening? It is my intent to climb this mountain. And I'm wanting you to receive the perfect amount of blood and energy and oxygen in order to do it with efficiency, and with effectiveness, and with fun and furthermore, tomorrow morning when I wake up and I'm wanting to feel very good! Are you listening to me?" she said again and again. She stopped along the trail, and spoke to her body!
And on the following morning when she awakened, she opened her eyes and was delighted as she bounced from her bed to find not one bit of soreness! Why? Because she made the decision consciously, to override old beliefs or mass consciousness, regarding this issue!
Now the reason we tell you this story is, because we are wanting you to understand that there is great power in decision, and that you do not have to let the evidence that others have created and are living, the physical evidence of disease, or poverty or whatever they are living- you do not need to let that affect your experience!
Because it is not evidence that has anything to do with you. It is only evidence of that which they have attracted by virtue of the balance of the thought that is within them. You are following us? It is our very strong wanting, to bring each of you to the place of knowing that you have control of your own experience and that it is not difficult to have it. That it is only a matter of you, deciding what you want, and really believing that your decision carries enough weight, that it can be your experience.
from the youtube-clip Abraham Hicks - RAMPAGE - TELL YOUR CELLS WHAT TO DO! With music (No ads)
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Astrology and Destiny...?
HS:
I was told... I've had, um astrological readings, and have been told through my natal chart, that... how does that work? They take your, um, birth date where you were born... the time you were born-
Abe:
...all the past [Applause] stuff? The stuff that happened, before you've put anything in your Vortex? The stuff that... really, we're just playing with you a little bit. But we ARE playing with you! So, what's the big question? The question is: There's manifestation. And there's, um, predictions. Predictions based on the fact, that you didn't just begin when you were born, here! The fact, that you are and were Consciousness, coming in, does mean that you did set intentions in motion.
And so, we are never going to say that there is nothing to all of that!
Because there IS something to all of that.
So, you get here, just as you planned from an atmosphere, a non-physical atmosphere of non-resistance.
And came into a time and space, and then began having experiences, and continuing the creation by launching your Rockets of Desire.
And so, all we are suggesting in this conversation about astrology is, that you understand that- once you got here... in other words, your immersion into this time-space-reality was perfect every single time. And then you got here, and you began offering new intentions. And it's the gap between where you stand, and what this Vortex is, that you are really all about!
And so we could say to 100% of you, that getting here went really well. Because you came from nonphysical- just the way you intended to, from an atmosphere of no resistance but after you got here, you started sort of mucking it up a little bit. So, that's the part that you're really wanting to focus upon! So, we cut you off. We didn't even let you ask your question! But now we have prepared you, for what you know the answer is going to be. Ask your question!
HS:
Um, I've forgotten what my question was (laughter)...
Abe:
Good. One day, early on in Jerry and Esther, doing this work, they were at a dinner table with a lot of people, who had been at the seminar. They all went to a restaurant and sat around a big table, and somebody had a book of astrology and it was a few volumes. They were big, big, books and they were passing it around and they were saying- whoever brought the books- "pick your birth date and the time of your birth as nearly as you can, and read what it says!" and so, it was a great hit!
Everyone was passing around the table and the book came to Esther at the precise moment, that the waiter was taking her order and so she's giving her order to the waiter and Jerry said "I'll find you in the book!" So he found her in the book. And when she came back to focus on the book, he said "here!" and she read it, and she said "Oh my God! that's exactly it! How precise could that possibly be?" and Jerry said "I don't know! I just opened the book and pointed."
HS:
So... so my question is, because this was ingrained in me, because this was ingrained in me that...
Abe:
A lot of things were! -Getting sick and dying is ingrained in you. -Everything that everybody's got, you're probably going to get: "One out of four has it, and you're probably the one..." -all of this is ingrained in you. -"There's not enough money to go around." That's ingrained in all of you! -"The rich are taking it all, and there's a finite pie with only so much money in it, and if you're not born into it, you're not going to get it" or -"If you're not doing something..." in other words, a lot is ingrained in you.
That's no excuse!
A lot is ingrained in you. What you're wanting to do, is measure what you're focused upon! Which may be what's ingrained in you against, or with your Inner-being-point-of-view about is saying! Because we're not saying it's incorrect!
We're just saying there are Paths of much lesser resistance that you can follow. Connect the current dots!
Backstage, for Esther, Val always leaves a notepad. Different sizes, but she always needs one, because she knows that Esther likes to sit and do a focus wheel. Or now Esther's doing her bag of marbles! And so she wants something to write on, and she always leaves a pen and Esther picked it up, and off she went and the pen was out of ink. And Esther thought: Well, I usually bring a pen. But I didn't bring a pen, because I thought there would be a pen! -And so, she just got on the radio and asked Jared, if he had a pen, and he brought her a pen, and that's great. And then, Esther noticed this pen that has no ink in it has a stylus on the end of it, and Esther lost her stylus on the airplane.
So, is it possible that the universe is so on Esther's side, that that pen which was chosen randomly by Val, was chosen for the stylus? Because Esther can always get another pen. Now, that feels like reaching... that feels like, oh, trying to make something work in this Psycho-Babble-Mumble- Jumbo that Abraham is offering.
Or is it legitimately the universe, always working things out for you? Every single thing, right down to a minute- detail? And is ANYTHING really going wrong?
And so we're just saying: If we where standing in your physical shoes, we'd be aware of what we're offering vibrationally. And aware of what that's attracting, and that would be the emphasis that we would be applying: That's the guidance that we would be looking for!
HS:
So can you talk to me about pivoting out of a belief that is hard to get rid of?
Abe:
No, we can't! Because- well, you can't stop thinking about that thing you're thinking about! Stop and thinking about "I'm not going to think about that anymore!" -Yes you are!! You're doing it right now. Think about something else! But this is compelling. Well, then think about it- you know about prioritization. You know about checking the boxes. You know about there being multiple boxes. You know about the ones that mean the most to you! We are not in any way saying that anything that you're thinking about; any of that is wrong. Let it dovetail! But you got here, call that a day, and now get on with what you came to be about!
You were not born with an astrological chart, tattooed to your butt!
HS:
How do you know?
Abe:
We're wrong! (laughter) But you were born with a guidance system to let you calibrate the vibration of your moment, in thought with that of your inner being, with this specific magnificent guidance. And so let's pretend that that doesn't really work, -does it? Because, the cat is out of the bag: Law of Attraction does prevail!
But let's just assume that the only guidance you've got, is whatever is in those charts, that somebody figured it all out, before you got here and now it's your job to dig through all of the whatever it is, and decipher what your plan for this life is, as if you're not deciding it, every moment of every day!
So here's some questions. What are the kinds of things that someone, who has a really good grasp on all of that, what is it you would be asking of that information to provide you, in terms of guidance here and now? What do you want to know? "How long will I live?"
-"To be determined- by your desire, and alignment with it!"
from the youtube clip Abraham Hicks2024 - The TRUTH about BIRTH CHARTS
The law of attraction
HS:
I was told... I've had, um astrological readings, and have been told through my natal chart, that... how does that work? They take your, um, birth date where you were born... the time you were born-
Abe:
...all the past [Applause] stuff? The stuff that happened, before you've put anything in your Vortex? The stuff that... really, we're just playing with you a little bit. But we ARE playing with you! So, what's the big question? The question is: There's manifestation. And there's, um, predictions. Predictions based on the fact, that you didn't just begin when you were born, here! The fact, that you are and were Consciousness, coming in, does mean that you did set intentions in motion.
And so, we are never going to say that there is nothing to all of that!
Because there IS something to all of that.
So, you get here, just as you planned from an atmosphere, a non-physical atmosphere of non-resistance.
And came into a time and space, and then began having experiences, and continuing the creation by launching your Rockets of Desire.
And so, all we are suggesting in this conversation about astrology is, that you understand that- once you got here... in other words, your immersion into this time-space-reality was perfect every single time. And then you got here, and you began offering new intentions. And it's the gap between where you stand, and what this Vortex is, that you are really all about!
And so we could say to 100% of you, that getting here went really well. Because you came from nonphysical- just the way you intended to, from an atmosphere of no resistance but after you got here, you started sort of mucking it up a little bit. So, that's the part that you're really wanting to focus upon! So, we cut you off. We didn't even let you ask your question! But now we have prepared you, for what you know the answer is going to be. Ask your question!
HS:
Um, I've forgotten what my question was (laughter)...
Abe:
Good. One day, early on in Jerry and Esther, doing this work, they were at a dinner table with a lot of people, who had been at the seminar. They all went to a restaurant and sat around a big table, and somebody had a book of astrology and it was a few volumes. They were big, big, books and they were passing it around and they were saying- whoever brought the books- "pick your birth date and the time of your birth as nearly as you can, and read what it says!" and so, it was a great hit!
Everyone was passing around the table and the book came to Esther at the precise moment, that the waiter was taking her order and so she's giving her order to the waiter and Jerry said "I'll find you in the book!" So he found her in the book. And when she came back to focus on the book, he said "here!" and she read it, and she said "Oh my God! that's exactly it! How precise could that possibly be?" and Jerry said "I don't know! I just opened the book and pointed."
HS:
So... so my question is, because this was ingrained in me, because this was ingrained in me that...
Abe:
A lot of things were! -Getting sick and dying is ingrained in you. -Everything that everybody's got, you're probably going to get: "One out of four has it, and you're probably the one..." -all of this is ingrained in you. -"There's not enough money to go around." That's ingrained in all of you! -"The rich are taking it all, and there's a finite pie with only so much money in it, and if you're not born into it, you're not going to get it" or -"If you're not doing something..." in other words, a lot is ingrained in you.
That's no excuse!
A lot is ingrained in you. What you're wanting to do, is measure what you're focused upon! Which may be what's ingrained in you against, or with your Inner-being-point-of-view about is saying! Because we're not saying it's incorrect!
We're just saying there are Paths of much lesser resistance that you can follow. Connect the current dots!
Backstage, for Esther, Val always leaves a notepad. Different sizes, but she always needs one, because she knows that Esther likes to sit and do a focus wheel. Or now Esther's doing her bag of marbles! And so she wants something to write on, and she always leaves a pen and Esther picked it up, and off she went and the pen was out of ink. And Esther thought: Well, I usually bring a pen. But I didn't bring a pen, because I thought there would be a pen! -And so, she just got on the radio and asked Jared, if he had a pen, and he brought her a pen, and that's great. And then, Esther noticed this pen that has no ink in it has a stylus on the end of it, and Esther lost her stylus on the airplane.
So, is it possible that the universe is so on Esther's side, that that pen which was chosen randomly by Val, was chosen for the stylus? Because Esther can always get another pen. Now, that feels like reaching... that feels like, oh, trying to make something work in this Psycho-Babble-Mumble- Jumbo that Abraham is offering.
Or is it legitimately the universe, always working things out for you? Every single thing, right down to a minute- detail? And is ANYTHING really going wrong?
And so we're just saying: If we where standing in your physical shoes, we'd be aware of what we're offering vibrationally. And aware of what that's attracting, and that would be the emphasis that we would be applying: That's the guidance that we would be looking for!
HS:
So can you talk to me about pivoting out of a belief that is hard to get rid of?
Abe:
No, we can't! Because- well, you can't stop thinking about that thing you're thinking about! Stop and thinking about "I'm not going to think about that anymore!" -Yes you are!! You're doing it right now. Think about something else! But this is compelling. Well, then think about it- you know about prioritization. You know about checking the boxes. You know about there being multiple boxes. You know about the ones that mean the most to you! We are not in any way saying that anything that you're thinking about; any of that is wrong. Let it dovetail! But you got here, call that a day, and now get on with what you came to be about!
You were not born with an astrological chart, tattooed to your butt!
HS:
How do you know?
Abe:
We're wrong! (laughter) But you were born with a guidance system to let you calibrate the vibration of your moment, in thought with that of your inner being, with this specific magnificent guidance. And so let's pretend that that doesn't really work, -does it? Because, the cat is out of the bag: Law of Attraction does prevail!
But let's just assume that the only guidance you've got, is whatever is in those charts, that somebody figured it all out, before you got here and now it's your job to dig through all of the whatever it is, and decipher what your plan for this life is, as if you're not deciding it, every moment of every day!
So here's some questions. What are the kinds of things that someone, who has a really good grasp on all of that, what is it you would be asking of that information to provide you, in terms of guidance here and now? What do you want to know? "How long will I live?"
-"To be determined- by your desire, and alignment with it!"
from the youtube clip Abraham Hicks2024 - The TRUTH about BIRTH CHARTS
The law of attraction-
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About People-Pleasing- the good, the bad and the ugly...
(EVERYTHING ALWAYS works out for you!
HS:
Hi! Yeah, it's you!!!
Abe:
Shocking! (laughter)
HS:
Thank you! Yeah, I, uh second time in Stanford, I knew if I raised my hand, you'd call me. But I wasn't ready, and I knew that today, you' call me. So I raised my hand.
Abe:
Yeah. Yeah! The key word: I knew. "I knew..." that's why we don't just call on anybody, when you know! Yeah.
HS:
Yeah. Um, I want to not take too much time, but I'm trying to figure out if I'm between "love", "finance" and my "deep desire dreams", slash "professional". But I think I'm going to choose "professional", because this week was intense and, um, I want to know... I want any clarity on whether or not...
-I know who I am. And what I have manifested when I'm tapped in and turned on, all of that, I make powerful things happen. And, I'm grateful...
Abe:
Well, so when things happen like what you're talking about, it does a wonderful thing for you: It really sharpens desire. But it's tricky, because it sharpens your desire, and it also sharpens your awareness of where you are! It makes it really intense. And that's why it feels so strong, you see. The good news is, your desire has come into much stronger clarity!
Well, your inner being knows mostly what you want. But you know, your Inner being- you get the concept of the Vortex? Where your desires are? And you get the concept of your Inner Being, focusing there? So, can you imagine or accept, that you might live something, that might make you put another piece into that, that wasn't there, before? It might be a timing-piece. It might be a value-piece, like, bigger what you're living. It's never of not value, even if it feels like it's not going the way you wanted it to go!
It is always of value, because every subject is like a stick with two ends on it. So when it doesn't go your way, it really went your way! And your Inner Being got a stronger bead on more specifics, now, than has ever been there before. And so, it is more certain, that what's coming is going to please you, big time, than it was before that!
So, doesn't that soften your discomfort about anything?
HS:
Oh yes! I've been leaning into refinement and allowing myself to create from whatever contrast comes my way.
Abe:
Yeah. contrast is good!! That's something that humans usually aren't willing to say: Contrast is good.
It provides clarity, and it strengthens asking. But the key to the key to allowing contrast to be good, is not stubbornly trying to... affirm isn't the right word, to not justify or defend what happened.
So, talk to us!
HS:
Well, interesting you said that things happen. And so, for me, I was existing in this way, being in this way, and my personal... uh happening, was health. And it brought upon a huge crisis. Like a a crisis in confidence. And things just like, wobbly wobbly, not as a will to align and long story short, yesterday after a year and a half about um... my two bosses sat me down to discuss my exit. Um and that's where I'm... I felt like I needed to talk to you, to fine. I want to know if they asked me to stay extra for a good transition to help them, to not affect the culture, to not affect... blah blah blah. And that I can control the narrative, but I'm not sure that's in service of me, but...
Abe:
We think it is! For this reason. Because what they're calling an exit, is your new entrance somewhere.
And since the new entrance isn't obvious to you yet, then letting this exit be smoothing both ends of that out- it helps this! And it helps this not because this needs to be helped, because this is already lined up, but it doesn't feel lined up to you, now! -You got the sense of all of that, didn't you? The man in the chair just now said: "Everything is always working out for me." And you just said "Well it might be good for them, but I don't know if it's so good for me!" -We like to explain:
Things are always working out for me, in this way:
This is the way Esther writes it every day. "Things are always working out for me, and everyone else, too."
Because there's no competition! It's not a pie that you're slicing up, and if somebody else is getting a bigger slice, I'm getting a smaller slice. It's NOT like that! Things are always working out, for all of us! You're not ready for it yet, maybe you are. But as this unfolds a little bit you're going to realize that there are better things for you, than this! What has been is already become sort of limiting. And you've been feeling some of that, that that's all part of some of the angst that you've been feeling! And so, it's working to your advantage, in a big way! This is not you, winding down, into less than. Its you, winding up into more, than!
HS:
To give you just some context of where I'm coming from, is: I'm... I've always been a pleaser. My whole life. And that's one thing I've wanted to shift, and that I've been working on, and doing my personal work on that, and being intentional on my actions. And not allowing that need to like, please everyone. So that's why I want to make sure, that it's not coming from the pleaser.
Abe:
We're going to throw something back at you, and you tell us how that fits in with what you just said! (HS: Sure!)
"If I know (we're standing in your human shoes...) if I know, that things are always working out for me, and I also know that things are also working out for everyone else... am I a pleaser. Oh, I'm pleased when you thrive! I'm pleased when things are good for you! I'm pleased when things are good for me!
Am I a pleaser? Well, maybe! I'm just pleased:
-Maybe I'm tuned in, tapped in, turned on?
-Maybe I realize, that there's enough resources for everybody?
-Maybe I'm no longer competing over resources?"
HS:
Well, that I do believe!
Abe:
We know that about you, too! But in the context of being a pleaser as you hear it come from us this is the context- we know who you were, before you came into this physical body. And who you've become vibrationally, ever since! And it is our desire, that you calibrate to that part of you- not to the peanut gallery out here!
Most people are calibrating to the others, that they can see and hear and smell and taste and touch. You watch their body language. There are a lot of people, that just throw a little fit and so it changes the way you behave! So, being an effective pleaser who is a value to them, you don't cater to their whining. You praise their successes! You be like they Inner Being: You give full attention to what feels good. And you give no attention to what feels bad! And so, the only way that we mean that being a pleaser is detrimental to you, and to them, is if you're trying to be the Law of Attraction and make up for what they're not able to do, through your action.
Don't soothe whiners! Don't soothe whiners by fixing things for them.
Because all it does, is make them think that whining works.
And whining does work to a certain degree. But it doesn't work magnificently:
It doesn't give you creative genius.
It doesn't make you one of the best of the best, in terms of the way you thrive and feel, you see!
And so, the health thing is about you, taking on too much responsibility for too many people, that you don't have any power over.
For you care about their well-being, but it's like pushing a noodle. You can't make someone allow! You watch us and all the antics that we go through. We can't know it enough, to make someone know it, who is stubbornly not knowing it, right? Now, we just keep saying it over and over and over and over and over and over again- until you're ready.
You don't let it in, and so you can't make people succeed or be happy, who are in an ornery mood! It's just not going to happen. It's not going to happen.
Esther heard a comedian that she really likes... we're not doing an advertisement for anything, but she heard Jerry Seinfield say about this new Netflix thing, that is being released, called "poptart". Esther hasn't seen it, she's going to see it as soon as she can get rid of all of you! (laughter) But she heard him say, when they ask him how did he make something so wonderful happen- he says "We just get people in a good mood, and then it happens! We just try to get people in a good mood, and then it happens. We just try to get people in a good mood and then it happens!" Well, is that a pleaser? Kind of sort of, he is. But you can't get people in a good mood, if you are not in a good mood!
So if your bag of marbles is in a good mood, then you're going to encourage other people to tune in, and they're going to be in a good mood, and then wonderful things do happen collectively, as you're all working together.
But if you're in a bad mood, because you're worried about this or that, or this or that- you're trying to protect people from this or that, or this or that- that takes a toll on outcomes. We don't think your moving in your work is a disadvantage, in any way, shape or form! Its something that your Vortex has been calling you toward, for a long time. We'r going to make a strong statemen,t that you're going to hear really well: We're going to tell you a story.
There was a woman who came to a workshop, who lived in a place that she described as miserable. But for whatever reason, she kept staying there, and she kept staying there. She just kept putting up with all the things about it, that she didn't like. Then they passed a new rule, that her cat could not live there. So she's sneaking the cat around, for quite a while, because she's defiant of this. But then she decided to move. And we said: "So, you'll move for your cat?" -Cuz the cat didn't like being carried around in a paper sack, sneaking in and out. So, she moved for the cat. But she wouldn't move for herself!
And that's kind of why you'll move: Because somebody else has decided that it's not a match. But it hasn't been a match for you, for a long time time! And because you're a pleaser, and because you keep your commitments, and because you're good at what you do, you put up with stuff you didn't like, in order to help them. And that's why you're so mad! You've been putting up with stuff for them. And now they've got the nerve to say: "No"??? This could have happened two years ago, or 3 years ago, or 4 years ago or 5 years ago!
HS:
Yeah. My best friend is sitting there! You're just... you're completely validating her. I can feel her eyes and energy, over there! (laughter)
Abe: Good?
HS:
Amazing. Thank you!
from the youtube-clip: "Abraham Hicks 2024 new - From a people pleaser to a SELF EMPOWERED LEADER
Law of attraction
(EVERYTHING ALWAYS works out for you!
HS:
Hi! Yeah, it's you!!!
Abe:
Shocking! (laughter)
HS:
Thank you! Yeah, I, uh second time in Stanford, I knew if I raised my hand, you'd call me. But I wasn't ready, and I knew that today, you' call me. So I raised my hand.
Abe:
Yeah. Yeah! The key word: I knew. "I knew..." that's why we don't just call on anybody, when you know! Yeah.
HS:
Yeah. Um, I want to not take too much time, but I'm trying to figure out if I'm between "love", "finance" and my "deep desire dreams", slash "professional". But I think I'm going to choose "professional", because this week was intense and, um, I want to know... I want any clarity on whether or not...
-I know who I am. And what I have manifested when I'm tapped in and turned on, all of that, I make powerful things happen. And, I'm grateful...
Abe:
Well, so when things happen like what you're talking about, it does a wonderful thing for you: It really sharpens desire. But it's tricky, because it sharpens your desire, and it also sharpens your awareness of where you are! It makes it really intense. And that's why it feels so strong, you see. The good news is, your desire has come into much stronger clarity!
Well, your inner being knows mostly what you want. But you know, your Inner being- you get the concept of the Vortex? Where your desires are? And you get the concept of your Inner Being, focusing there? So, can you imagine or accept, that you might live something, that might make you put another piece into that, that wasn't there, before? It might be a timing-piece. It might be a value-piece, like, bigger what you're living. It's never of not value, even if it feels like it's not going the way you wanted it to go!
It is always of value, because every subject is like a stick with two ends on it. So when it doesn't go your way, it really went your way! And your Inner Being got a stronger bead on more specifics, now, than has ever been there before. And so, it is more certain, that what's coming is going to please you, big time, than it was before that!
So, doesn't that soften your discomfort about anything?
HS:
Oh yes! I've been leaning into refinement and allowing myself to create from whatever contrast comes my way.
Abe:
Yeah. contrast is good!! That's something that humans usually aren't willing to say: Contrast is good.
It provides clarity, and it strengthens asking. But the key to the key to allowing contrast to be good, is not stubbornly trying to... affirm isn't the right word, to not justify or defend what happened.
So, talk to us!
HS:
Well, interesting you said that things happen. And so, for me, I was existing in this way, being in this way, and my personal... uh happening, was health. And it brought upon a huge crisis. Like a a crisis in confidence. And things just like, wobbly wobbly, not as a will to align and long story short, yesterday after a year and a half about um... my two bosses sat me down to discuss my exit. Um and that's where I'm... I felt like I needed to talk to you, to fine. I want to know if they asked me to stay extra for a good transition to help them, to not affect the culture, to not affect... blah blah blah. And that I can control the narrative, but I'm not sure that's in service of me, but...
Abe:
We think it is! For this reason. Because what they're calling an exit, is your new entrance somewhere.
And since the new entrance isn't obvious to you yet, then letting this exit be smoothing both ends of that out- it helps this! And it helps this not because this needs to be helped, because this is already lined up, but it doesn't feel lined up to you, now! -You got the sense of all of that, didn't you? The man in the chair just now said: "Everything is always working out for me." And you just said "Well it might be good for them, but I don't know if it's so good for me!" -We like to explain:
Things are always working out for me, in this way:
This is the way Esther writes it every day. "Things are always working out for me, and everyone else, too."
Because there's no competition! It's not a pie that you're slicing up, and if somebody else is getting a bigger slice, I'm getting a smaller slice. It's NOT like that! Things are always working out, for all of us! You're not ready for it yet, maybe you are. But as this unfolds a little bit you're going to realize that there are better things for you, than this! What has been is already become sort of limiting. And you've been feeling some of that, that that's all part of some of the angst that you've been feeling! And so, it's working to your advantage, in a big way! This is not you, winding down, into less than. Its you, winding up into more, than!
HS:
To give you just some context of where I'm coming from, is: I'm... I've always been a pleaser. My whole life. And that's one thing I've wanted to shift, and that I've been working on, and doing my personal work on that, and being intentional on my actions. And not allowing that need to like, please everyone. So that's why I want to make sure, that it's not coming from the pleaser.
Abe:
We're going to throw something back at you, and you tell us how that fits in with what you just said! (HS: Sure!)
"If I know (we're standing in your human shoes...) if I know, that things are always working out for me, and I also know that things are also working out for everyone else... am I a pleaser. Oh, I'm pleased when you thrive! I'm pleased when things are good for you! I'm pleased when things are good for me!
Am I a pleaser? Well, maybe! I'm just pleased:
-Maybe I'm tuned in, tapped in, turned on?
-Maybe I realize, that there's enough resources for everybody?
-Maybe I'm no longer competing over resources?"
HS:
Well, that I do believe!
Abe:
We know that about you, too! But in the context of being a pleaser as you hear it come from us this is the context- we know who you were, before you came into this physical body. And who you've become vibrationally, ever since! And it is our desire, that you calibrate to that part of you- not to the peanut gallery out here!
Most people are calibrating to the others, that they can see and hear and smell and taste and touch. You watch their body language. There are a lot of people, that just throw a little fit and so it changes the way you behave! So, being an effective pleaser who is a value to them, you don't cater to their whining. You praise their successes! You be like they Inner Being: You give full attention to what feels good. And you give no attention to what feels bad! And so, the only way that we mean that being a pleaser is detrimental to you, and to them, is if you're trying to be the Law of Attraction and make up for what they're not able to do, through your action.
Don't soothe whiners! Don't soothe whiners by fixing things for them.
Because all it does, is make them think that whining works.
And whining does work to a certain degree. But it doesn't work magnificently:
It doesn't give you creative genius.
It doesn't make you one of the best of the best, in terms of the way you thrive and feel, you see!
And so, the health thing is about you, taking on too much responsibility for too many people, that you don't have any power over.
For you care about their well-being, but it's like pushing a noodle. You can't make someone allow! You watch us and all the antics that we go through. We can't know it enough, to make someone know it, who is stubbornly not knowing it, right? Now, we just keep saying it over and over and over and over and over and over again- until you're ready.
You don't let it in, and so you can't make people succeed or be happy, who are in an ornery mood! It's just not going to happen. It's not going to happen.
Esther heard a comedian that she really likes... we're not doing an advertisement for anything, but she heard Jerry Seinfield say about this new Netflix thing, that is being released, called "poptart". Esther hasn't seen it, she's going to see it as soon as she can get rid of all of you! (laughter) But she heard him say, when they ask him how did he make something so wonderful happen- he says "We just get people in a good mood, and then it happens! We just try to get people in a good mood, and then it happens. We just try to get people in a good mood and then it happens!" Well, is that a pleaser? Kind of sort of, he is. But you can't get people in a good mood, if you are not in a good mood!
So if your bag of marbles is in a good mood, then you're going to encourage other people to tune in, and they're going to be in a good mood, and then wonderful things do happen collectively, as you're all working together.
But if you're in a bad mood, because you're worried about this or that, or this or that- you're trying to protect people from this or that, or this or that- that takes a toll on outcomes. We don't think your moving in your work is a disadvantage, in any way, shape or form! Its something that your Vortex has been calling you toward, for a long time. We'r going to make a strong statemen,t that you're going to hear really well: We're going to tell you a story.
There was a woman who came to a workshop, who lived in a place that she described as miserable. But for whatever reason, she kept staying there, and she kept staying there. She just kept putting up with all the things about it, that she didn't like. Then they passed a new rule, that her cat could not live there. So she's sneaking the cat around, for quite a while, because she's defiant of this. But then she decided to move. And we said: "So, you'll move for your cat?" -Cuz the cat didn't like being carried around in a paper sack, sneaking in and out. So, she moved for the cat. But she wouldn't move for herself!
And that's kind of why you'll move: Because somebody else has decided that it's not a match. But it hasn't been a match for you, for a long time time! And because you're a pleaser, and because you keep your commitments, and because you're good at what you do, you put up with stuff you didn't like, in order to help them. And that's why you're so mad! You've been putting up with stuff for them. And now they've got the nerve to say: "No"??? This could have happened two years ago, or 3 years ago, or 4 years ago or 5 years ago!
HS:
Yeah. My best friend is sitting there! You're just... you're completely validating her. I can feel her eyes and energy, over there! (laughter)
Abe: Good?
HS:
Amazing. Thank you!
from the youtube-clip: "Abraham Hicks 2024 new - From a people pleaser to a SELF EMPOWERED LEADER
Law of attraction