Conditionally vs Unconditionally Feeling Good
Many say, "Once that condition changes, I'll feel better.
When I have more money or move into a better house or find a better job or a better mate, THEN I'll feel better."
We do not disagree that it does feel better to observe something that is pleasing than something that is not,
but that is going about it in a very backwards way.
Deliberate Creation is not about the condition changing and then your finding a better feeling in response to the changed condition.
Deliberate Creation is about choosing a thought that feels good when you choose it,
which then causes the condition to change.
- AH
Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
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Re: Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
On Unconditional Love
Unconditional love is really about wanting so much to remain in connection with your Source of love,
that you deliberately choose thoughts that allow your connection,
no matter what manifestations may be happening nearby.
- Abraham
Unconditional love is really about wanting so much to remain in connection with your Source of love,
that you deliberately choose thoughts that allow your connection,
no matter what manifestations may be happening nearby.
- Abraham
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Re: Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
In Unconditional Love lays your Power and your Freedom
(and how to not let your bad relationship with your mother pinch you off from it)
Now, here's the piece that we really want you to understand about this this is the subject of unconditional love:
Do you accept, that there is an inner part of you, that is offering a vibration that is calling you?
-That soul, that source, that inner vibration: you got to know it. Because it is the basis of your guidance. And so, if you don't know that, you want to get to know that, want to feel the familiarity of that! Begin to notice when you feel vital, and why. And when you feel depleted and why!
Begin to notice that your guidance has been giving you good information. So, if you accept that, that inner being part of you exists and that that inner being part of you is calling you, then this is what we want you to understand: This subject is how you create your own reality. It's how you turn thoughts if you will, to things. It's how you turn a vibration into a see-it-hear-it-smell-it-taste-it-touch-it experience!
So, here's a vibration. It's where everything starts, and maybe this vibration that we are demonstrating here, is not perceivable to you because maybe you're on a different wavelength. Maybe it's the vibration of your inner being who knows your value, who knows your worthiness, who is liquid love. Maybe that's what's going on, and maybe you have just come away from your mother and you're in a whole different vibrational state. So you can't even perceive this vibration!
But then let's say, for whatever reason, you're not in that state... maybe you meditated, maybe you've had your feet in the water, maybe you've been in the surf today, maybe you've (...) but you ARE not resistant to who you really are! And so, this vibration that before was not perceivable, now is being received by you in the form of the first manifestational phase: You have thoughts that are occurring to you. And you're having an emotional response to those thoughts!
So, vibration and mood, that's the thing that we want you to focus on here. Vibration and mood. So, right now your mood- hear this, is unconditional.
This mood, this vibration of love- it's a vibration of love, because that's who you are! Because it's natural to you!
You didn't say "If you'll do this, then I'll feel good. And if you'll do this, then I'll feel good." You are unconditional in this love, can you feel what we're talking about here? Now, you can get to any feeling of alignment with who-you-are in an unconditional way. But in the moment you say "my mother is in a bad mood", or "my mother is negative"- now you've made HER the condition that prevents you from this mood! That's not unconditional love! That's conditional love!
Now you need to control your mother.
Now you need to have better timing.
Now you need to teach her what you know! It's too long, you don't have enough years and neither does she! (laughter) In other words, you can't depend on somebody else to get it. You've got to be unconditional in your love, and before you are going to be able to be unconditional in your love, you got to understand what it is:
It's alignment with who I really am, and all that I've become. And it is an emotional journey that I can take, because I don't need the condition to support it!
Conditional love says:
Give me more money and I'll feel better.
Unconditional love says:
Apart from the money, if I can stay off that subject for a while, if I can give myself permission to feel good even before the money comes, and I can practice the unconditional vibration of prosperity without needing the condition of money to support it- or to substantiate it or to justify it or to validate it- if you can be unconditional in your vibration -and you can!!...
You were born unconditional in your vibration, you see!
But you co-dependently trained each other away from it!
You've lost track of this relationship with your Inner Being, because there are some rewards that others will give you: They will validate you. They will give you their attention. It's just that you're looking for love in all the wrong places! And it isn't consistent, and you're right: There's no one on this planet who wants to love you more than your mother does. But if she is not in sync with who she is, she has no love to give! What she has, is where she is!
And you've got to give yourself permission to hold yourself in a place, where you can consistently, unconditionally, line up with love. And then you can shine your never-ending attention upon your mother: Unattached!
Unattached from her behavior-
because you went to the source of the well.
-You went to the source of love!
-You found it, you did it often, you stabilized there,
-you cared about it.
Things happen occasionally- you get your back window blown out, it helps you to know what you're doing! You just keep regrouping and trying again, and finding alignment and finding alignment, until -before you know it- you're so stable and you're so sure, that no matter what happens, you don't get off your game!
You understand that you'r Source energy in a physical body, and that you're supposed to have a good time. And then you say those things that you said to us, and you're really really there! You say: "I love my mother. My mother is the Avenue through which I came into this physical life experience, and my mom's doing the best that she knows how to do. She's on her path of least resistance, and sometimes she takes a lot harder path than I want her to take. But, that isn't any of my business! I don't have any control over the path that she takes.
I only have control over the path that I take!
And right now I'm bordering on stumbling off my path, by turning my attention to something that is none of my business, and that I can't control, I think I'm going to be non-conditional unconditionalness and I think I'm going to return to my vibrational frequency that is really meant as:
You do that again and again and again, on subject after subject- because there are so many people willing to play with you! And help you get onto your path!
Get onto your path. Get onto your path! And before you know it, you'll be so steadily there, and people will look at you and they'll say: "What's with you? Why are you so stable all the time? How did you get so stable?" and you say: "I went directly to the source of stability." -long pause, audience begins to laugh... "What? What??" -"Well, let me make it easier. If I went directly to the source of happiness!" -"What??" (Laughter, Abe sigh in playing the HS who explains what he was doing...).
"Okay, man. I'll just tell you how it is: I became selfish. I gave myself permission not to play with those who aren't fun to play with, until I found the vibration of alignment of who I really am. And now everybody I play with, is fun, right?" -"Oh, did they all change?" -"No, they didn't change. I did!
I'm no longer looking to them for the resource. I got my resource! They can do whatever they want, and frankly they are amusing."
-They're amusing! They're amusing. You got that, didn't you?
from the youtube clip: "Unconditional Love: The Source of Happiness - Abraham Hicks"
(and how to not let your bad relationship with your mother pinch you off from it)
Now, here's the piece that we really want you to understand about this this is the subject of unconditional love:
Do you accept, that there is an inner part of you, that is offering a vibration that is calling you?
-That soul, that source, that inner vibration: you got to know it. Because it is the basis of your guidance. And so, if you don't know that, you want to get to know that, want to feel the familiarity of that! Begin to notice when you feel vital, and why. And when you feel depleted and why!
Begin to notice that your guidance has been giving you good information. So, if you accept that, that inner being part of you exists and that that inner being part of you is calling you, then this is what we want you to understand: This subject is how you create your own reality. It's how you turn thoughts if you will, to things. It's how you turn a vibration into a see-it-hear-it-smell-it-taste-it-touch-it experience!
So, here's a vibration. It's where everything starts, and maybe this vibration that we are demonstrating here, is not perceivable to you because maybe you're on a different wavelength. Maybe it's the vibration of your inner being who knows your value, who knows your worthiness, who is liquid love. Maybe that's what's going on, and maybe you have just come away from your mother and you're in a whole different vibrational state. So you can't even perceive this vibration!
But then let's say, for whatever reason, you're not in that state... maybe you meditated, maybe you've had your feet in the water, maybe you've been in the surf today, maybe you've (...) but you ARE not resistant to who you really are! And so, this vibration that before was not perceivable, now is being received by you in the form of the first manifestational phase: You have thoughts that are occurring to you. And you're having an emotional response to those thoughts!
So, vibration and mood, that's the thing that we want you to focus on here. Vibration and mood. So, right now your mood- hear this, is unconditional.
This mood, this vibration of love- it's a vibration of love, because that's who you are! Because it's natural to you!
You didn't say "If you'll do this, then I'll feel good. And if you'll do this, then I'll feel good." You are unconditional in this love, can you feel what we're talking about here? Now, you can get to any feeling of alignment with who-you-are in an unconditional way. But in the moment you say "my mother is in a bad mood", or "my mother is negative"- now you've made HER the condition that prevents you from this mood! That's not unconditional love! That's conditional love!
Now you need to control your mother.
Now you need to have better timing.
Now you need to teach her what you know! It's too long, you don't have enough years and neither does she! (laughter) In other words, you can't depend on somebody else to get it. You've got to be unconditional in your love, and before you are going to be able to be unconditional in your love, you got to understand what it is:
It's alignment with who I really am, and all that I've become. And it is an emotional journey that I can take, because I don't need the condition to support it!
Conditional love says:
Give me more money and I'll feel better.
Unconditional love says:
Apart from the money, if I can stay off that subject for a while, if I can give myself permission to feel good even before the money comes, and I can practice the unconditional vibration of prosperity without needing the condition of money to support it- or to substantiate it or to justify it or to validate it- if you can be unconditional in your vibration -and you can!!...
You were born unconditional in your vibration, you see!
But you co-dependently trained each other away from it!
You've lost track of this relationship with your Inner Being, because there are some rewards that others will give you: They will validate you. They will give you their attention. It's just that you're looking for love in all the wrong places! And it isn't consistent, and you're right: There's no one on this planet who wants to love you more than your mother does. But if she is not in sync with who she is, she has no love to give! What she has, is where she is!
And you've got to give yourself permission to hold yourself in a place, where you can consistently, unconditionally, line up with love. And then you can shine your never-ending attention upon your mother: Unattached!
Unattached from her behavior-
because you went to the source of the well.
-You went to the source of love!
-You found it, you did it often, you stabilized there,
-you cared about it.
Things happen occasionally- you get your back window blown out, it helps you to know what you're doing! You just keep regrouping and trying again, and finding alignment and finding alignment, until -before you know it- you're so stable and you're so sure, that no matter what happens, you don't get off your game!
You understand that you'r Source energy in a physical body, and that you're supposed to have a good time. And then you say those things that you said to us, and you're really really there! You say: "I love my mother. My mother is the Avenue through which I came into this physical life experience, and my mom's doing the best that she knows how to do. She's on her path of least resistance, and sometimes she takes a lot harder path than I want her to take. But, that isn't any of my business! I don't have any control over the path that she takes.
I only have control over the path that I take!
And right now I'm bordering on stumbling off my path, by turning my attention to something that is none of my business, and that I can't control, I think I'm going to be non-conditional unconditionalness and I think I'm going to return to my vibrational frequency that is really meant as:
You do that again and again and again, on subject after subject- because there are so many people willing to play with you! And help you get onto your path!
Get onto your path. Get onto your path! And before you know it, you'll be so steadily there, and people will look at you and they'll say: "What's with you? Why are you so stable all the time? How did you get so stable?" and you say: "I went directly to the source of stability." -long pause, audience begins to laugh... "What? What??" -"Well, let me make it easier. If I went directly to the source of happiness!" -"What??" (Laughter, Abe sigh in playing the HS who explains what he was doing...).
"Okay, man. I'll just tell you how it is: I became selfish. I gave myself permission not to play with those who aren't fun to play with, until I found the vibration of alignment of who I really am. And now everybody I play with, is fun, right?" -"Oh, did they all change?" -"No, they didn't change. I did!
I'm no longer looking to them for the resource. I got my resource! They can do whatever they want, and frankly they are amusing."
-They're amusing! They're amusing. You got that, didn't you?
from the youtube clip: "Unconditional Love: The Source of Happiness - Abraham Hicks"
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There is no condition so severe,
that you can not reverse it
by different thoughts!
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Re: Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
I'm giving up the struggle.
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Re: Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
Observing "what-is" tends to only regurgitate what we already believe.
(Reactivating resistance).
HS:
Is there some kind of a pre-destiny in following that inner guidance, that inner path?
Abe:
Only in this sense: It was decided, or known, as you were making the decision to come into this body, that
You're a creator.
And that through your exploration, you would expand.
And that expansion is necessary and delicious.
But we would call that predetermined or pre-decided by you, intentionality.
HS:
By me -me-, or me -my Inner Self me-?
Abe:
You, your Inner Self.
HS:
Both of us? Teamwork?
Abe:
At that time, there was no split in you, because you hadn't come into consciousness that could think independently. So you said "step one is: I will think independently. I will know what I don't want. I will know what I do want! And in my independent thought, I will discover things that I do not want, and in the discovery of what I don't want, I will simultaneously discover what I do want, because every component of the universe has
wanted and absence of wanted within it."
And you knew that, and you said: "Sometimes it is necessary for life to show me what I don't want, before I can even know what I do want! Because it has to be personal."
So, when life shows you what you don't want, and then you know what you do want- you've launched that rocket of clarity. And you, and therefore we, have reached into a new place where we have never been before! And we immediately go there, because we have no resistance. You are slower in coming along, because you've got beliefs that keep you from immediately going there.
But when your desire for feeling good becomes stronger, than holding to a belief that you don't care about... The other day, we've been telling this story. We may even have told it to you directly! Esther was in Del Mar. She has a house there. She hadn't been there in months, she was sitting at her desk, looking out where the ocean should have been, and couldn't see the ocean. And she realized that in the months that she'd been gone, the trees had grown in, and the bushes from the side had completely obscured her view from sitting at the desk!
Which was why the desk was there. So her gardeners came later that day, and she said: "I'm blocking my own view. Could you guys trim this edge, so that I can see the ocean?" And they said: "Happily!" and then they said: "But there are trees down in the ravine, that might be part of what you're seeing!" and Esther said: "Well, I only own half of that ravine. Just be sure that it's on my property." and they said "We've got you covered!" -and off Esther went to lunch with her friend. They were gone many hours. They shopped and ate and explored, and when Esther came back, she walked onto her deck and went in and looked out the window, and the ocean was back.
She was so happy to see it! Then she looked out a little way on the hillside, up very close to neighboring property, and saw something that made her gasp: Two very large tree stumps. Cut all the way down to the ground. And Esther thought: "How in the world did that happen?? I thought i was so clear!" and then Esther began feeling guilty right away, and so sorry. And then she tried to make herself feel better, and she thought:
"Well, that house is under construction. Maybe it's new people, and they don't know those trees were there!" -so she worried about it for a day or two, off and on, whenever she thought about it.
And then one day, she looked out and she saw a man in a suit standing out on that patio- it's across the ravine, Esther's never been over to that house- standing in a suit, looking at the tree stumps. And then he took his phone out, and took a picture of them, and Esther thought: "I better go confess." But she'd never been over there before, so she didn't know how to get there. Is that a road down, that leads up? Or road up, that leads down? It took her a while to get there. And when she got there, he was already gone. But on her way over, she had practiced her confession: "I didn't mean to do that, and I'm so sorry! But I did do it. And I will make it up to you, in whatever way you want! I'll plant new trees. I'll landscape your whole yard- whatever makes you feel better. I am so sorry!"
-But he wasn't there. So she didn't deliver her speech. So she just went home, and continued to practice it. And then, a day or two later, she went with her friend off to lunch again, and when they got back she said to him: "Look what I did!" -took him out on the patio and pointed at the trees. And her friend said what? "Esther, your gardeners didn't cut those trees down, while we were at lunch! Why isn't the hillside all torn up? Where is the debris from the trees?"
And Esther thought: Hey! and then they walked out to the edge, and she looked up close to her property, and there was a very small stump with all the debris from it lying right there, where they had cut it. And all that had happened is, the gardeners had cut down a little tree that let Esther see things, she wasn't used to seeing. And Esther thought: "It's embarrassing that I believed something so dumb! It was completely illogical. It didn't make any sense at all, that those two men in three or four hours... they would have had to have a helicopter and a saw, and just cut it off at the bottom and carried the whole thing away!"
There was no possible way that that could have happened. But Esther believed that she had done that. The circumstantial evidence was such. The way it had unfolded in her experience- she believed something, that was truly illogical. It shook her up! Esther said: "I bet there's all kinds of really dumb things that I believe, like that, that are in my way! That I just keep carrying forward, for no good reason. Because circumstances just make that the path of least resistance, relative to the momentum that I've got going."
And so, you do- all of you- have many beliefs that you are nurturing, that you continue to keep active. that prevent you from your true reception of what's truly going on. Here's a very powerful statement:
If your desire is strong enough, any belief that's in its way, will fall by the wayside.
But most of you -because of your attention to other humans, and your desire to find mutuality with them, you choose harmony with beliefs that don't serve you- rather than upset them.
Rather than harmony with the beliefs that your Inner Being holds about you, that serve you completely, you don't want to be a freak. You don't want to be a pollyanna. You don't want to believe things that most people don't believe.
You want to believe the circumstantial evidence, because most of you are conditional.
We mean: You, meaning humans, are conditional in your thinking! So you keep observing what-is, and you keep bringing the vibration of what-is forward, even though your very existence means, you are here to create new.
You're not here to regurgitate what's already here!
You are here to become freer. To become wholer. To become newer. To feel better!
You didn't come to regurgitate what-is, and yet, most of those around you are true regurgitators.
And if you stand out not as a regurgitator, sometimes they want to call you weird or freak or pollyanna, or "not facing reality".
HS:
Aren't those regurgitated beliefs manifestations as well (Abe: they are!) ...from something, that happened when you were five or six years old?
Abe:
Something happened 20 years ago, and if you didn't keep thinking about it, it would completely be out of your vibration- within three days! But because you talk about it, you keep bringing it forward 19 years, 18 years, 17 years, 15 years... and so, here it is. Right here, still active in your vibration, even though it has no relevance other than the relevance that you've given it, because you keep it active in your vibration!
So it continues to be in the way of what you want. but your blessed Inner Being- even though your Inner Being knows that you've got things in your way, your Inner Being is always looking for a path of least resistance to call you around it! Over and under it. In other words, to show you that you can get to where you want to be, no matter what beliefs that you hold. But isn't it nice, when you are willing to acknowledge that you have beliefs that are in your way, that are not valid? And what we're saying to you, with this segment, is:
The less you try to find mutuality with the girls in the nail salon, because they're lovely they are lovely and there are positive aspects... Esther one day realized, we've been talking about positive aspects for as long as she can remember. And somehow she was thinking that what we meant was -in every situation, or in every individual, there are positive and negative aspects, so line up the positive ones, line up the negative ones, and focus on the positive ones... and all of a sudden, she understood what we really meant. We meant:
Focus upon any aspect that causes you to feel good, while you focus upon it!
It's not an evaluation. It's not a determining what's positive, and what's negative! It's looking for mutuality with your inner being. It's looking for what feels good when you find it, you see!
HS:
And what feels good- a positive desire can blast out an old negative belief!
Abe:
Because, you see, every individual is like the universe at large. Within every particle of the universe is wanted and absence of it. So, in every individual, there are aspects of them that you want to find mutuality with, and aspects of them that you don't. But most people want the other to change, to be mutual to you, rather than just looking for what is mutual. Or looking somewhere else to find it! Oh, you could be living such wonderful lives, if you would realize, that in every place you look, there is mutuality. And it's up to you, to find it. But when the first thing you do, is find something that's missing- then you harmonize with what you're mutual on, that takes you away from your Inner Being. And then, you struggle and need them to change, so that you can feel better. You got that, didn't you?
HS:
Yeah. Is that... is that mutuality? Because part of me attracted like, some negativity, and part of me attracted some positivity. and everything that I... I attract to myself.
Abe:
That's a perfect statement. Because you've attracted it all.
Nothing is coming to you, that you haven't attracted. But here's the thing: You could be in a place of true alignment. Maybe you've been meditating for a while, and you're tuned in, tapped in, turned on, and you are in alignment, and in that alignment, you attract someone to you- let's say an individual to you, who has that mutuality.
In other words, that person has that potential or maybe even that going on actively, right here right now, and even though they might have a whole lot of other things that you don't want to think about ,or that you don't want to be mutual with, doesn't matter. You are focused upon and active about the thing that does, until you get so nosy about everything, about that person. You meet new people, law of attraction brings you together, and the first thing you do, is: "Tell me about yourself!" and we're in the background, saying: "Don't do that!! Let the law-of-attraction- mutuality be what carries you!"
Don't look around for other things that you might be mutual about, because you might find all kinds of things that neither one of you want to have active in your vibration, that you're mutual about! Because you have all kinds of things within you, that you don't want to be active in your vibration right now. Helpful?
HS:
Yeah, that makes sense, too. Yeah! Yeah, yeah!
Abe:
So, what is life, really? What is it?
Life really is you, seeking alignment with who you really are.
You, seeking alignment with who you really are, you seeking alignment with who you really are, until you discover:
You know when you're satisfied. And when you're not, then moving out and let law of attraction bring to you things that are important to you.
HS:
Well, that's what brought up that predestination I was thinking about. Jerry, manifesting through his own questioning a lot of this, right here... (Abe: yes!) ...and was that like, his Inner Being, calling him into it? (Abe: No question!) ...This is where he's going to, and he just had to... (Abe: No question.) ...allow that to happen and go through his experiences, to get in line with that?
Abe:
Sometimes, when you really want to know something, your Inner Being calls you right through contrasting experiences, in order to inspire you to ask for the thing, that you most want. It's also good: Everything is always working out for you!
from the youtube- clip "Is Pre-Destiny Real | Abraham Hicks | LOA (Law of Attraction)"
(Reactivating resistance).
HS:
Is there some kind of a pre-destiny in following that inner guidance, that inner path?
Abe:
Only in this sense: It was decided, or known, as you were making the decision to come into this body, that
You're a creator.
And that through your exploration, you would expand.
And that expansion is necessary and delicious.
But we would call that predetermined or pre-decided by you, intentionality.
HS:
By me -me-, or me -my Inner Self me-?
Abe:
You, your Inner Self.
HS:
Both of us? Teamwork?
Abe:
At that time, there was no split in you, because you hadn't come into consciousness that could think independently. So you said "step one is: I will think independently. I will know what I don't want. I will know what I do want! And in my independent thought, I will discover things that I do not want, and in the discovery of what I don't want, I will simultaneously discover what I do want, because every component of the universe has
wanted and absence of wanted within it."
And you knew that, and you said: "Sometimes it is necessary for life to show me what I don't want, before I can even know what I do want! Because it has to be personal."
So, when life shows you what you don't want, and then you know what you do want- you've launched that rocket of clarity. And you, and therefore we, have reached into a new place where we have never been before! And we immediately go there, because we have no resistance. You are slower in coming along, because you've got beliefs that keep you from immediately going there.
But when your desire for feeling good becomes stronger, than holding to a belief that you don't care about... The other day, we've been telling this story. We may even have told it to you directly! Esther was in Del Mar. She has a house there. She hadn't been there in months, she was sitting at her desk, looking out where the ocean should have been, and couldn't see the ocean. And she realized that in the months that she'd been gone, the trees had grown in, and the bushes from the side had completely obscured her view from sitting at the desk!
Which was why the desk was there. So her gardeners came later that day, and she said: "I'm blocking my own view. Could you guys trim this edge, so that I can see the ocean?" And they said: "Happily!" and then they said: "But there are trees down in the ravine, that might be part of what you're seeing!" and Esther said: "Well, I only own half of that ravine. Just be sure that it's on my property." and they said "We've got you covered!" -and off Esther went to lunch with her friend. They were gone many hours. They shopped and ate and explored, and when Esther came back, she walked onto her deck and went in and looked out the window, and the ocean was back.
She was so happy to see it! Then she looked out a little way on the hillside, up very close to neighboring property, and saw something that made her gasp: Two very large tree stumps. Cut all the way down to the ground. And Esther thought: "How in the world did that happen?? I thought i was so clear!" and then Esther began feeling guilty right away, and so sorry. And then she tried to make herself feel better, and she thought:
"Well, that house is under construction. Maybe it's new people, and they don't know those trees were there!" -so she worried about it for a day or two, off and on, whenever she thought about it.
And then one day, she looked out and she saw a man in a suit standing out on that patio- it's across the ravine, Esther's never been over to that house- standing in a suit, looking at the tree stumps. And then he took his phone out, and took a picture of them, and Esther thought: "I better go confess." But she'd never been over there before, so she didn't know how to get there. Is that a road down, that leads up? Or road up, that leads down? It took her a while to get there. And when she got there, he was already gone. But on her way over, she had practiced her confession: "I didn't mean to do that, and I'm so sorry! But I did do it. And I will make it up to you, in whatever way you want! I'll plant new trees. I'll landscape your whole yard- whatever makes you feel better. I am so sorry!"
-But he wasn't there. So she didn't deliver her speech. So she just went home, and continued to practice it. And then, a day or two later, she went with her friend off to lunch again, and when they got back she said to him: "Look what I did!" -took him out on the patio and pointed at the trees. And her friend said what? "Esther, your gardeners didn't cut those trees down, while we were at lunch! Why isn't the hillside all torn up? Where is the debris from the trees?"
And Esther thought: Hey! and then they walked out to the edge, and she looked up close to her property, and there was a very small stump with all the debris from it lying right there, where they had cut it. And all that had happened is, the gardeners had cut down a little tree that let Esther see things, she wasn't used to seeing. And Esther thought: "It's embarrassing that I believed something so dumb! It was completely illogical. It didn't make any sense at all, that those two men in three or four hours... they would have had to have a helicopter and a saw, and just cut it off at the bottom and carried the whole thing away!"
There was no possible way that that could have happened. But Esther believed that she had done that. The circumstantial evidence was such. The way it had unfolded in her experience- she believed something, that was truly illogical. It shook her up! Esther said: "I bet there's all kinds of really dumb things that I believe, like that, that are in my way! That I just keep carrying forward, for no good reason. Because circumstances just make that the path of least resistance, relative to the momentum that I've got going."
And so, you do- all of you- have many beliefs that you are nurturing, that you continue to keep active. that prevent you from your true reception of what's truly going on. Here's a very powerful statement:
If your desire is strong enough, any belief that's in its way, will fall by the wayside.
But most of you -because of your attention to other humans, and your desire to find mutuality with them, you choose harmony with beliefs that don't serve you- rather than upset them.
Rather than harmony with the beliefs that your Inner Being holds about you, that serve you completely, you don't want to be a freak. You don't want to be a pollyanna. You don't want to believe things that most people don't believe.
You want to believe the circumstantial evidence, because most of you are conditional.
We mean: You, meaning humans, are conditional in your thinking! So you keep observing what-is, and you keep bringing the vibration of what-is forward, even though your very existence means, you are here to create new.
You're not here to regurgitate what's already here!
You are here to become freer. To become wholer. To become newer. To feel better!
You didn't come to regurgitate what-is, and yet, most of those around you are true regurgitators.
And if you stand out not as a regurgitator, sometimes they want to call you weird or freak or pollyanna, or "not facing reality".
HS:
Aren't those regurgitated beliefs manifestations as well (Abe: they are!) ...from something, that happened when you were five or six years old?
Abe:
Something happened 20 years ago, and if you didn't keep thinking about it, it would completely be out of your vibration- within three days! But because you talk about it, you keep bringing it forward 19 years, 18 years, 17 years, 15 years... and so, here it is. Right here, still active in your vibration, even though it has no relevance other than the relevance that you've given it, because you keep it active in your vibration!
So it continues to be in the way of what you want. but your blessed Inner Being- even though your Inner Being knows that you've got things in your way, your Inner Being is always looking for a path of least resistance to call you around it! Over and under it. In other words, to show you that you can get to where you want to be, no matter what beliefs that you hold. But isn't it nice, when you are willing to acknowledge that you have beliefs that are in your way, that are not valid? And what we're saying to you, with this segment, is:
The less you try to find mutuality with the girls in the nail salon, because they're lovely they are lovely and there are positive aspects... Esther one day realized, we've been talking about positive aspects for as long as she can remember. And somehow she was thinking that what we meant was -in every situation, or in every individual, there are positive and negative aspects, so line up the positive ones, line up the negative ones, and focus on the positive ones... and all of a sudden, she understood what we really meant. We meant:
Focus upon any aspect that causes you to feel good, while you focus upon it!
It's not an evaluation. It's not a determining what's positive, and what's negative! It's looking for mutuality with your inner being. It's looking for what feels good when you find it, you see!
HS:
And what feels good- a positive desire can blast out an old negative belief!
Abe:
Because, you see, every individual is like the universe at large. Within every particle of the universe is wanted and absence of it. So, in every individual, there are aspects of them that you want to find mutuality with, and aspects of them that you don't. But most people want the other to change, to be mutual to you, rather than just looking for what is mutual. Or looking somewhere else to find it! Oh, you could be living such wonderful lives, if you would realize, that in every place you look, there is mutuality. And it's up to you, to find it. But when the first thing you do, is find something that's missing- then you harmonize with what you're mutual on, that takes you away from your Inner Being. And then, you struggle and need them to change, so that you can feel better. You got that, didn't you?
HS:
Yeah. Is that... is that mutuality? Because part of me attracted like, some negativity, and part of me attracted some positivity. and everything that I... I attract to myself.
Abe:
That's a perfect statement. Because you've attracted it all.
Nothing is coming to you, that you haven't attracted. But here's the thing: You could be in a place of true alignment. Maybe you've been meditating for a while, and you're tuned in, tapped in, turned on, and you are in alignment, and in that alignment, you attract someone to you- let's say an individual to you, who has that mutuality.
In other words, that person has that potential or maybe even that going on actively, right here right now, and even though they might have a whole lot of other things that you don't want to think about ,or that you don't want to be mutual with, doesn't matter. You are focused upon and active about the thing that does, until you get so nosy about everything, about that person. You meet new people, law of attraction brings you together, and the first thing you do, is: "Tell me about yourself!" and we're in the background, saying: "Don't do that!! Let the law-of-attraction- mutuality be what carries you!"
Don't look around for other things that you might be mutual about, because you might find all kinds of things that neither one of you want to have active in your vibration, that you're mutual about! Because you have all kinds of things within you, that you don't want to be active in your vibration right now. Helpful?
HS:
Yeah, that makes sense, too. Yeah! Yeah, yeah!
Abe:
So, what is life, really? What is it?
Life really is you, seeking alignment with who you really are.
You, seeking alignment with who you really are, you seeking alignment with who you really are, until you discover:
You know when you're satisfied. And when you're not, then moving out and let law of attraction bring to you things that are important to you.
HS:
Well, that's what brought up that predestination I was thinking about. Jerry, manifesting through his own questioning a lot of this, right here... (Abe: yes!) ...and was that like, his Inner Being, calling him into it? (Abe: No question!) ...This is where he's going to, and he just had to... (Abe: No question.) ...allow that to happen and go through his experiences, to get in line with that?
Abe:
Sometimes, when you really want to know something, your Inner Being calls you right through contrasting experiences, in order to inspire you to ask for the thing, that you most want. It's also good: Everything is always working out for you!
from the youtube- clip "Is Pre-Destiny Real | Abraham Hicks | LOA (Law of Attraction)"
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Re: Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
Be NICER to yourself!
So, let's find the takeaway from this:
It's really important that you be nicer to yourselves!
TO YOU!! To your family, too. And to people around you. Yeah, you want to be nice! You want to feel good. But it's really important that you give yourself permission. that you give yourself permission to just feel good!
Because you deserve to feel good, without jumping through any hoops that any other human has assigned.
Because, we promise you, there's no one non-physically, that is assigning the hoops that you jump through!
Do you believe that? Once you know it... Esther remembers looking in the mirror at herself, after she'd done something really bad and she thought: "I don't look the same now. Wish I could go back to that time before I did that really bad thing!" and we say: You got to get over that!
Because, when you look in the mirror, your Inner Being is looking back at you. There just isn't any of that!!
YOU'VE assigned the resistance that you carry around as guilt!
YOU'VE assigned the resistance that you carry around as hate!
Here's the reason. We want to give you your reason: You think you're right! Think about the last person that you really told off. Think about the last fit you through, this morning. Just think about the last fit you threw, and weren't you sure that your perspective was right? Weren't you defending a perspective? But what if everybody gets to be right?
Because, everyone is free to create. So, start by saying "I was right! ...And they were, too."
Just start giving them the benefit of the doubt. Because when you give somebody the benefit of doubt, you're the one that gets the benefit, right? So, be nicer to yourself! Be nicer to yourself!
Can you think of anything that you want to do? That, on a day-to-day basis, you want to do... that you don't do?
What are some of those things, you ever wish you could, take a nap in the afternoon? Do you let yourself do that, or is that just too lazy for you? Is that just something you should not do? Are you trying to honor some other criteria, other than doing something that's nice for you? We're just taking your temperature, and we want to say to you:
You're not even hardly very nice to yourselves, hardly, in relationship to the way your Inner Being would treat you!
If you're Inner Being was calling the shots about how you would behave, do you know how your Inner Being would spend your day? Want to know?
-Your Inner Being would wake up and feel glad to be awake, again!
-And then think: What's the most fun thing that I could do, today?
-And then, your Inner Being would do it. And you're thinking: "I'd get fired!"
...and your Inner Being would do it, anyway! Because your Inner Being knows, that when you're Tuned in, Tapped in, Turned on, and when you care about your job, that you won't get fired- you'll get understanding. In other words, things can't go wrong for you! -You don't believe, that nothing goes wrong for you, when you're tuned in to Source energy, but it doesn't!
It's resistance that causes all of the things that feel like they're going wrong for you. This is worth thinking about!
"If I could do anything that I wanted to do... since I can do anything that I want to do, since I've already told through Rockets of Desire my Vortex, what those things are, and my Inner Being knows what they are, and has already queued them all up- since everything that I want is already in the process of becoming, and the only thing that is missing is me, letting it in- then what could I do now, that would let a little more of it in?"
That's the question:
"How could I let a little more of what's already there, in?"
So, we're just going to ask you:
-Do you believe that it's there, in a vibrational form?
-Do you believe it? Like the seed in the ground that you can't see, that will be a plant- so it's there.
-Do you believe that? You have access to it, if you play your vibration right!
-Do you believe that? You can let it in, or not let it in.
-And do you believe, that you get to decide how long it is that you don't let it in- or that you let it in?
-Do you believe that you get to decide how much you let in,
-And do you believe that what other people think about you, has a lot to do with why you let in, what you let in?
So, wouldn't one of the first things that you might do, that is really nice for yourself, is decide that you're going to care more about what YOU think, and less about what THEY think?
But how you'r going to do that- do you get in their face and say: "I don't care what you think!" or do you just think, "well, you're right, too. You're right, but so am I. And you're choosing for you, and I'm choosing for me!" -and then you think: "No, you're trying to choose for me. And I'm not going to let you get away with that- whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa whoa!"
They CAN'T choose for you, remember? Only you can choose for you.
So, get that straight, right away. And then enjoy the show! Watch them throwing fits to try to get you to be different, while you stand there, being who you want, to be loving them, anyway. You don't fight back! There won't be a fight for long: Most of the juice in most of the fights are knee-jerk responses. Let them yank your chain or push your button, or get your goat. Esther's friend says, that her grandmother said:
"I'm trying to keep my goat in the backyard, where no one can get it!"
from the youtube-clip "Abraham Hicks 2024 - Be NICER to YOURSELF
Law of attraction"
So, let's find the takeaway from this:
It's really important that you be nicer to yourselves!
TO YOU!! To your family, too. And to people around you. Yeah, you want to be nice! You want to feel good. But it's really important that you give yourself permission. that you give yourself permission to just feel good!
Because you deserve to feel good, without jumping through any hoops that any other human has assigned.
Because, we promise you, there's no one non-physically, that is assigning the hoops that you jump through!
Do you believe that? Once you know it... Esther remembers looking in the mirror at herself, after she'd done something really bad and she thought: "I don't look the same now. Wish I could go back to that time before I did that really bad thing!" and we say: You got to get over that!
Because, when you look in the mirror, your Inner Being is looking back at you. There just isn't any of that!!
YOU'VE assigned the resistance that you carry around as guilt!
YOU'VE assigned the resistance that you carry around as hate!
Here's the reason. We want to give you your reason: You think you're right! Think about the last person that you really told off. Think about the last fit you through, this morning. Just think about the last fit you threw, and weren't you sure that your perspective was right? Weren't you defending a perspective? But what if everybody gets to be right?
Because, everyone is free to create. So, start by saying "I was right! ...And they were, too."
Just start giving them the benefit of the doubt. Because when you give somebody the benefit of doubt, you're the one that gets the benefit, right? So, be nicer to yourself! Be nicer to yourself!
Can you think of anything that you want to do? That, on a day-to-day basis, you want to do... that you don't do?
What are some of those things, you ever wish you could, take a nap in the afternoon? Do you let yourself do that, or is that just too lazy for you? Is that just something you should not do? Are you trying to honor some other criteria, other than doing something that's nice for you? We're just taking your temperature, and we want to say to you:
You're not even hardly very nice to yourselves, hardly, in relationship to the way your Inner Being would treat you!
If you're Inner Being was calling the shots about how you would behave, do you know how your Inner Being would spend your day? Want to know?
-Your Inner Being would wake up and feel glad to be awake, again!
-And then think: What's the most fun thing that I could do, today?
-And then, your Inner Being would do it. And you're thinking: "I'd get fired!"
...and your Inner Being would do it, anyway! Because your Inner Being knows, that when you're Tuned in, Tapped in, Turned on, and when you care about your job, that you won't get fired- you'll get understanding. In other words, things can't go wrong for you! -You don't believe, that nothing goes wrong for you, when you're tuned in to Source energy, but it doesn't!
It's resistance that causes all of the things that feel like they're going wrong for you. This is worth thinking about!
"If I could do anything that I wanted to do... since I can do anything that I want to do, since I've already told through Rockets of Desire my Vortex, what those things are, and my Inner Being knows what they are, and has already queued them all up- since everything that I want is already in the process of becoming, and the only thing that is missing is me, letting it in- then what could I do now, that would let a little more of it in?"
That's the question:
"How could I let a little more of what's already there, in?"
So, we're just going to ask you:
-Do you believe that it's there, in a vibrational form?
-Do you believe it? Like the seed in the ground that you can't see, that will be a plant- so it's there.
-Do you believe that? You have access to it, if you play your vibration right!
-Do you believe that? You can let it in, or not let it in.
-And do you believe, that you get to decide how long it is that you don't let it in- or that you let it in?
-Do you believe that you get to decide how much you let in,
-And do you believe that what other people think about you, has a lot to do with why you let in, what you let in?
So, wouldn't one of the first things that you might do, that is really nice for yourself, is decide that you're going to care more about what YOU think, and less about what THEY think?
But how you'r going to do that- do you get in their face and say: "I don't care what you think!" or do you just think, "well, you're right, too. You're right, but so am I. And you're choosing for you, and I'm choosing for me!" -and then you think: "No, you're trying to choose for me. And I'm not going to let you get away with that- whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa whoa!"
They CAN'T choose for you, remember? Only you can choose for you.
So, get that straight, right away. And then enjoy the show! Watch them throwing fits to try to get you to be different, while you stand there, being who you want, to be loving them, anyway. You don't fight back! There won't be a fight for long: Most of the juice in most of the fights are knee-jerk responses. Let them yank your chain or push your button, or get your goat. Esther's friend says, that her grandmother said:
"I'm trying to keep my goat in the backyard, where no one can get it!"
from the youtube-clip "Abraham Hicks 2024 - Be NICER to YOURSELF
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Re: Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
Pretend that you are a saint.
Pretend that you have been imbued with an energy of Love,
that is so powerful that it sort of oozes through you!
And pretend that the animals know it, and the babies know it,
and people tuned in, tapped it, turned on know it,
and walk through the day and watch how people respond to you!
Abraham Hicks
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Re: Being UNCONDITIONAL (Satisfied where I am, Eager for more)
You'r on track.
You'r on schedule.
Nothing's gone wrong!
Everything's gone wright.
It's time for you to start ENJOYING YOUR JOURNEY!
Abraham Hicks