Processes Esther is using

[FloatingBoat]

Hello PoE ,I am also not always very high-flying and can understand that well. I often have very destructive parts in me, and it is a lot of fun and joy to then tune back into Abraham and notice how my life changes when I focus on the positive for just one day and do Abraham processes.

so many times I felt so compelled to write and justify that not everything in my life is an easy match… quite a few times I wrote and stopped myself…

But since we are sharing here, me too - I only try to focus, “isolate” and “amplify” what feels good… after all Abraham is teaching us to tell the story of what is working and how we want our lives to be…

So I mostly don’t include the contrasty part of me..

Today, something happened that I found very unjust, but when I got home, I decided not to get involved in this story and not to feel like a victim. Instead, I started reading Abraham's books, and I was very tired. Suddenly, through reading, I felt better and then had this moment where I wanted to go into appreciation mode. I went out again, feeling awake and energized, noticing how everything was coming together and fitting perfectly. Now, I'm so full of positive energy, and I realize how well the methods and focusing on the new, improved story work for me.

I believe that focusing on what works and expecting and knowing that everything in my life will work out will quickly change things towards fulfilling all your desires very quickly.

[Paradise-on-Earth]

so many times I felt so compelled to write and justify that not everything in my life is an easy match… quite a few times I wrote and stopped myself…

But since we are sharing here, me too - I only try to focus, “isolate” and “amplify” what feels good… after all Abraham is teaching us to tell the story of what is working and how we want our lives to be…

So I mostly don’t include the contrasty part of me..

I hear you!! And I came to know, that BOTH needs to be embraced.
Of course, the Focus on the wanted is key. But that INCLUDES to love the contrast, to lovingly care, when we slip, to have fun in the incompleteness, to understand that what (we think) we do not want, is often the very part we miss, in our creation of what we REALLY want, but don't know the whole recipe for, yet.

So, when you "isolate" yourself from the unwanted, it becomes so very fast a judging and a pushing against, which never serves.

On the old Forum was a time where there was a phase of rampant judging of "doing things wrong" because we sooo wanted to do them "right", or fearing to "indeliberately cover up" or -even from the moderators- a try, to "rip off the happy face stickers". WHICH WAS ALL NOT VERY LOVING!

On the other hand- covering up, happy face stickering positivity, or wallowing in the negativity really works against us. It is a sort of action-story.
-I was thrilled when Abe finally spoke about "step 5", where you have step 1 moments without "being mad at yourself"! THIS brought it all together for me. Love heals everything. Embracing the contrast, happily, honestly embracing WHERE YOU ARE without feeling shame, blame or anger (or worse) is the key. And also, it is mastership that we have to train (lovingly!).

Doing that makes you feel your innate freedom.
It makes you feel open and invincible- because you CAME to expand, by sifting through the contrast and find new inspiration for new Creativity. You did NOT come to be "perfect" (which would mean ended, finished... which is not possible, as it would discontinue Life). You came to love UNCONDITIONALLY, to understand that we- unconditionally- are divine children of God, and Gods ourself in physical cloths, and enjoy the motion forwards into more and more fulfillment- eternally.

[Paradise-on-Earth]

(Will come back later to answer you, FloatingBoat! )

[Tara]

so many times I felt so compelled to write and justify that not everything in my life is an easy match… quite a few times I wrote and stopped myself…

But since we are sharing here, me too - I only try to focus, “isolate” and “amplify” what feels good… after all Abraham is teaching us to tell the story of what is working and how we want our lives to be…

So I mostly don’t include the contrasty part of me..

I hear you!! And I came to know, that BOTH needs to be embraced.
Of course, the Focus on the wanted is key. But that INCLUDES to love the contrast, to lovingly care, when we slip, to have fun in the incompleteness, to understand that what (we think) we do not want, is often the very part we miss, in our creation of what we REALLY want, but don't know the whole recipe for, yet.

So, when you "isolate" yourself from the unwanted, it becomes so very fast a judging and a pushing against, which never serves.

Hi POE,

I may have not been very expressive on what I meant here

What I meant is not to "isolate" myself from the unwanted but on this particular forum to "isolate" and "amplify" my focus on the wanted things only. I am using it as a playground to spend my deliberate time for example "isolating" what felt good in that day and "amplify" my focus there

Yes... I do value contrast (some more than others). E.g. new contrast is easy to value, as I can easily bounce off... The one I have long resistance, I get lost... even if I try EGS, I noticed I more amplify the negative side and it goes down spiral for me.. spending deliberate time and building momentum on the wanted somehow had a powerful effect in my life... but yes.. I am embracing contrast when I can, sometimes easier than others (sometimes I am excited about it as it helps me to put and clearly define the wanted part )

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Hi POE,

I may have not been very expressive on what I meant here

What I meant is not to "isolate" myself from the unwanted but on this particular forum to "isolate" and "amplify" my focus on the wanted things only. I am using it as a playground to spend my deliberate time for example "isolating" what felt good in that day and "amplify" my focus there

ups, now I understand! Sorry, I really misunderstood!

Yes... I do value contrast (some more than others). E.g. new contrast is easy to value, as I can easily bounce off... The one I have long resistance, I get lost...

Yah, long trained momentum is harder to get clear on and amused by!

even if I try EGS, I noticed I more amplify the negative side and it goes down spiral for me.. spending deliberate time and building momentum on the wanted somehow had a powerful effect in my life... but yes.. I am embracing contrast when I can, sometimes easier than others (sometimes I am excited about it as it helps me to put and clearly define the wanted part )

exactly! I really enjoy it when I'm in the right mood, or as you say, when it is not a long trained, age-old, terrifying, stinky dragon ...

Also, you CAN only focus on the wanted sides, too! (if you can! *I* personally can't) :

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Today, something happened that I found very unjust, but when I got home, I decided not to get involved in this story and not to feel like a victim. Instead, I started reading Abraham's books, and I was very tired. Suddenly, through reading, I felt better and then had this moment where I wanted to go into appreciation mode. I went out again, feeling awake and energized, noticing how everything was coming together and fitting perfectly. Now, I'm so full of positive energy, and I realize how well the methods and focusing on the new, improved story work for me.

I believe that focusing on what works and expecting and knowing that everything in my life will work out will quickly change things towards fulfilling all your desires very quickly.

That's awesome! masterful, indeed!

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Yes, I am more the type who jumps off the walls with enthusiasm. Thank you for reminding me again.

Thank YOU for giving me an excuse to think and ponder about it, and be reminded as well! And yes, I am a passionate, loud and highly expressive being, too. And my husband, not so much... I think such couples who seem to be opposites are quite normal.You look for what you don't have in others, and as long your freshly "in love" (=on top of the EGS) it feels SO GOOD. But when you are not ITV, the very same thing feels SO BAD!

My girlfriend has a very tender and gentle nature, and I believe you are right; she truly radiates more from within. Besides, she becomes joyful very quickly and is always very happy in her connection with me, which in turn also affects me.

She sounds as a really nice soul!

I want to help her reach a state of ecstasy even without me.

Abe call that "unconditional joy, or love". As nice as the conditional one feels- it's not the real deal! When you need any condition or person to be happy, you are "looking for love in all the wrong places" as Abe call it...

She can't speak English, but she still loves listening to the vortex meditations; I think it's the vibration that then transfers to her. She loves Abraham and wishes for a book by Abraham for Christmas, and I'm still considering which book might suit her best. I think perhaps "Ask and It Is Given" would be the right one for her because it explains the basics well in simple words.

What is very special is that she wished to get a shared apartment near me, and now she lives in my apartment block. I believe she, like me, can manifest quickly in certain areas because she has no resistance to certain things.

Awesome! Exactly... you do not necessarily need to know how it works to pull it off. You absolutely can, intuitively, "get your stuff and get why it happened". But it's nice to know deliberately, isn't it! As to the book, she sounds indeed very intuitive. Maybe you want to "pull" the name of a book out of a hat...? Many healers do that with essences, or homeopathy. They offer the bottles with the medicine (or write the names on little cards) and let the client "choose". Just like with Tarot cards, this always works when you have an honest intention to find the best thing for here and now!

See you soon, and I look forward to your posts.

Wishing you so much fun and joy!