My mother died

[Sergio82Music]

Hello all. Im a member of the old abeforum, but i dont remember my name there xD . If you remember i was complaining about my mother when she was physically focused. She had a sudden death and i´m still in shock. I want to communicate with her in the non physical but for some reason is very difficult. Can you give me any tip ? releasing resistance ? . I think my name there could be Sergio. Thanks .

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Hello all. Im a member of the old abeforum, but i dont remember my name there xD . If you remember i was complaining about my mother when she was physically focused. She had a sudden death and i´m still in shock. I want to communicate with her in the non physical but for some reason is very difficult. Can you give me any tip ? releasing resistance ? . I think my name there could be Sergio. Thanks .

Sergio!
I do remember a Sergio, who was not really happy. But how about you make a new start?

I am very sorry for your sorrow! I deliberately do not write "for your loss", as I am 100% certain that you did not lose your mother- actually, to the contrary. NOW she is "available", in all the good ways that you always desired.

And, of course it is difficult now, to communicate with her- as everything is shifted now, AND you probably still are not ITV about her, and all circumstances that had been: You still are not healed about your relationship with her, and now she also isn't available in the old trained ways! It reminds me about Esther, who also had a not so easy relationship in physicality with her father. When he croaked, "she could not find him", as Abe described. Esther was only used to the disaligned version of him, his not-understanding, his worries, and so on, but all this is gone when you croak!

So, you are no vibrational match to who she is, NOW. And so, you, too, can't really "find her". It's logical, right? But maybe it soothes you, that she knows exactly what you desire, what you think and -want. She KNOWS. And it is ALL ok!
Of course, the key is to release resistance, while this is much easier said than done. Maybe you can look FORWARDS and imagine that your mother is EAGER to, first time in a long time, REALLY connect with you! That she is eager to share her love and insights and soothing with you, finally. Maybe you can forgive yourself for -probably not having been a saint, around her, out of your pain. SHE has forgiven immediately, when she transitioned!

LET it happen. Don't try to make it happen.
Relax into your sadness. Relax into your doubts. Relax into all what is hindering, between you, and let it be, in it's perfect time and -unfolding. It will!

[Tara]

Hi Sergio,

I believe only people who went through similar experience could share any of their personal insight on this... so I would not even try to give any advice..

I met a woman on one of the cruises and she lost her mum, and she told me that during one of the aber cruises she was really grieving her mum and some abers told her to get over the death thing etc... but one of the very close members of staff to Esther Hicks said to her that for a very long time (a year or so) Esther asked someone to sleep with her in the room while she was recovering from her loss of Jerry... meaning it took long time even for Esther who knows this stuff to recalibrate...

You are were you are... it will take time... be nice to yourself... Your desire is POWERFULLY strong now... but so is your resistance due to the AWARENESS of the perceived absence of loss.. but you are human and you are on earth and it is naturally to give it some time... Trust that your mum will make herself very clearly noticeable when she will "catch" you in the receptive mode... For know just trust and have faith that she is there with you and aware of you even and loving you unconditionally even if you have not recalibrated your perception and awareness yet...

Soothe yourself as much as possible..

There is a lot of LOVE flowing to you now so it is very sensible if you are not in tune...but it is natural, and it is all good, and it time you will recalibrate more and more to that Love

[Sergio82Music]

This is valued millions for me .

[spiritualcookie]

Hi Sergio. First of all, so much love to you

I remember reading a story in one of the Abraham books where someone wanted to communicate with a loved one on the other side but couldn't reach them.

Abraham explained that the person was in grief, whilst their loved one in Source was now on a high vibration, around joy on the emotional guidance scale. Abraham could feel and see their loved one's presence right away because they were right there. In order to reach their loved one, Abraham explained, they needed to tune their frequency to the channel their loved one now existed on.

If a person is in grief, the grief itself can be the resistance to reach their loved one. It may be easier / quicker to utilize Mediums to reach people's loved ones - to circumvent the grief which can be the resistance that's in the way of connecting to the high frequencies their loved ones are on. But in time, once we are able to lift our own vibrations, we all have the potential to communicate with our loved ones ourselves.

I heard a technique by Suzanne Giesemann where she says that if you can't currently receive clear messages from a loved one, you may be able to feel them: If you ask them to step away from your aura for a minute, and then step back into your aura - you may be able to sense a difference in the energy around you.

[Sergio82Music]

Yes i did this exercise . Many thanks. I can feel very clearly a loving presence .Strange because in life was not like that, at all.But i can feel is my mother . I will keep releasing resistance. Namasté

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Yes i did this exercise . Many thanks. I can feel very clearly a loving presence .Strange because in life was not like that, at all.But i can feel is my mother . I will keep releasing resistance. Namasté

It is not strange at all! This is who your mother REALLY is, and always was, underneath the resistance. Now, the 2 of you can have a second chance! So good to know, yes?