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Abraham Hicks
Re: Quotes on Relationships
About romantic relationship and partnership:
from the clip: Abraham Hicks 2024 new - This is HOW to meet ROMANTIC Partner Law of attraction.
HS: Two of my favorite things that I've heard you say are when you meet, you will know.
Abe: If you have deliberately calibrated something into vibrational beingness. When it manifests, you'll recognize it. The degree of your deliberation is the degree of that knowing, that certainty.
HS: So the other one was about: You don’t have to go looking for this. So these are two quotes, my question is around how to meet a romantic partner, I really struggle with that
Abe: Well, you don't do that. But sometimes you can't help it. Why do you want the rain?
HS: Why do I want?
Abe: Why do you want the rain? It's not why do you want to fill the void, in the absence (of the romantic partner), of loneliness and drudgery of going through this world alone? That's not gonna get you there, but what is it about that that is appealing?
HS: Fulfilment, satisfaction, fun, happiness. Just you know, it seems like there's so much desire
Abe: Those are words. Those are words that are not actually, if you really want to know, all that moving
HS: Right. Yeah.
Abe: It's like, why do you want this? One, two, five, seven, nine, eight. What is it about significant other in your life that is so delicious? What is that? You ever had it?
HS: Yes.
Abe: See if you can find a piece of something that you like and you can focus on it and enjoy it, it has to become more and it will increase in velocity and momentum until it can't not be,
and you will feel the velocity of that, even though you don't know where or when or who, you can just feel it, so you feel it. You're just on the verge of this, which is like an eagerness for life that really feels good.
HS: Right? well, to fine tune this a little bit, it seems like my questions are generally around this. My experience of life of seeing all these people and there's so much you talked about desire and doubt like that's me. there's so much fear and resistance and so
Abe: It's simpler. Let's not go down that muddy road. It's like this, I want to be adored and I want to adore. Those are just words, but feel that, get yourself into a position mentally, where you are observing someone who is clear and communicative and tuned in and oozing good feelings and appreciating you while you're appreciating the other. In other words, there's this feeling of appreciation and each of you has better timing than you've ever had. It's like you're just flowing in and out with each other. It's like ask and answer and answer and ask and it's just so satisfying. Now as we stay there, can't you just feel that and haven't you had brief moments of that with different (people). Stay there and feel that and then broaden it, put that person, put that relationship, the two of you into a setting--Go to a restaurant and walk in and feel what it feels like, for there to be two of you and feel your appreciation for the way your pardner interacts with the hostess and appreciates the menu and even devours the food, chooses the food, likes the food, enjoys the food, and makes you glad that there is food. Just broaden it and make it feel real to you. Practice those kinds of things, do things that you like to do (with the person) because you've attracted a partner who also likes to do many of those things until those are really familiar feelings to you, and then you'll know it when you see it. In other words, the more aspects of that you practise for the pleasure of it, for the pleasure of it, for the pleasure of it, not to make something happen, for the pleasure of it, for the pleasure of the mind meld, for the pleasure of the specifying, for the pleasure of the oh a little more like that and a little more like that, on every subject that matters to you. And then AH, an avalanche of opportunities will start showing up, and you'll know it when you see it. There's nothing that you're supposed to do, but what about collecting data? And what happens to so many humans go out collecting data, how you gonna know if it's a match if you haven't identified the pieces that will match you(/that you desire/like) , and identified them with enough clarity that you know for sure. Is it a wish? Is it a hope? Is it a dream? Is it a well established intention that you've identified and come out from enough angles that you're solid in what you know and then what comes near it you'll be able to tell. There's something else we'd like you to know, hardly anybody else will approach this relationship that you are attracting with the power and the clarity that you are going to do as a result of this conversation, but there are a whole lot matches out there and they will not know what's happening to them? In other words, they'll just feel drawn to you for inexplicable reasons and you'll discover the depth of your relationship in days and weeks and months and even years going by.
HS: That sounds great.
Abe: It is great. It is great. We want you to hear this. You practiced your bag of marbles so well and oh it’s just been thrilling, it's just been the most fun to lie on the bed and think about it or sit at a restaurant and think about it or drive your car and think about it. It's just so satisfying to make that tapestry for yourself with the emotions that it will stir in all of that and then as law of attraction matches you with a little bit of this and a little bit of that here and there, you will be able to feel the intensity of the match, the perfection of the match, you will know it when you see it and you'll know close not quite, close not quite but fun, close not quite. And then something else remarkable happens, once you feel it and allow it, allow yourself to think maybe this is it. As the two of you are now experiencing together, each of you will define with even greater clarity. So the thing that we want you to take from this conversation is that you're molding this into place, you're not just snatching it from somewhere, boom first crack out of the box, that's exactly what you're looking for. You are a creator, you want to create,you want to get better and better and better and better at it.
We would like you all, no matter what it is that you're in the process of creating, we would really like it if you were to listen to us and then practise it a little bit and then were to say to us: I'm having so much fun with what I'm doing mentally that honestly Abraham, it doesn't really matter if we meet up right away, because this is way fun this thing that I'm doing. I'm bringing so much satisfaction to myself, in fact, I think I'm discovering Who I Am I. I think I'm discovering the things I really like and why I really like them. There are people out there that have discovered those things in themselves that you will just bring out the more of that from them, you see. You could be and would be perfect strangers, you don't know each other in the flesh, you just know each other vibrationally, but your Inner Being has done all the vetting and your Inner Being is not going to put off all its bells and whistles over the wrong one. Your Inner Being knows what you’ve been thinking about, knows what's active in your vibration, and knows what matches it. You will know. You'll know because your Inner Being will know most people about most relationships try to make things that aren't workable work and then they'll say,you don't bring me flowers anymore and he'll say I never did bring you any flowers, what are you talking about? Did we get there at all with you?
HS: Yeah, that was helpful,um,I was wondering too where would dating apps fit in with the law of attraction? It seems like that's me
Abe:If your desire is clear, they could work spectacularly well because they're all about compatibility. And if you are clear about what your compatibility points are and you enter them into the artificial intelligence system correctly, then you could have an avalanche of potential matches. You can hear hesitation from us, the reason that we think the Law of Attraction is a better matchmaker is because of the involvement of your Inner Being. Think of your Inner Being is the intelligence that let you know...
What is it about a relationship that is so exhilarating? Why but anyone want that? Why do you want that?
HS: Well, it's, you know, having a best friend that you can have sex with to put it blankly.
Abe: That's not unimportant.
HS: You know, that you mentioned sort of adoring each other, that's a really wonderful thing, look up on the person
Abe: I really like those inside jokes. I like that we've walked around enough together that when we see something it activates something in my bag of marbles and it activates something in their bag of marbles and we have this knowing thing cause we've walked enough together that we know what that means. And each of us is easily calibrating to the best of us, so we consistently make the best of everything. In fact, what I've noticed what you're saying is that as I walked this earth alone, I did really good, but when two of us got together and we were on the same wavelength, really, really incredible magical things began to happen. There's something about the power of us calibrating to each other, while each of us is calibrating to our Inner Being that made it extra,extra, extra powerful and I like that feeling of focus. I like not having to explain myself over and over again, I like not having to open a door and explain everything. I like somebody knowing who I am and knowing what I want and wanting to be part of something that feels good to me. Make it alive for yourself. I like eating the other half of something that somebody wants. I like sharing a meal if we like the same things, and it's nice if we do. I like sharing conversations. I like sharing friends. I like sharing movies. I like sharing. sharing. sharing. I like harmony. I like intensity. I like a little bit of contrast,I like reasoning together,I like thinking together,I like hatching new ideas together and not being on the same wavelength, and then each relaxing until we find a common goal in there and we realize that singularly we were this, but together we are so much more. I like the exponential power of two or more coming together and the thrill of aligning with our Inner Beings. I like the power of alignment. I like co-creating better than I like creating and I like a specific partner to co-create with who knows my mind and is in harmony with me.
HS: You said that a lot better than I did.
Abe: Well. We got all of that out of your Vortex, every bit of it came from your Vortex, but the thing that we want you to know is that all of you can feel it from what we've been talking about already here today, don't put the kibosh on that. Don't let doubt step in. Don't let the waters get muddy. Take that feeling and milk that feeling, speak in ways that enhance that. And don't wear yourself out on it. Let's take a step forward into deliberate creation together right now. See what we just offered was easy for us because we're in your Vortex and we can see what's there and we just verbalized what's there. Well, if you're not in your Vortex and you can't see it and you don't feel it, then for you to rampage when you don't feel it feels like a whole lot of work. And a lot of times it backfires on you. So the key what we're talking about here is find a way to feel something and then rampage about it find a way to feel it and then rampage. Don't rampage to create the feeling. Find the feeling and then rampage and then it just gets bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger until you'll find yourself feeling like when you're with your partner, they're just aren't words, just aren't words to explain the perfection of this. It’s not words. No words, no reason to explain. Just an assumption that you know it too. You'll know it when you see it over and over and over and over again. A lot of people come into a relationship, and it's pretty frisky and good mostly about sex in the beginning, then because there hasn't been any long-range planning, any in depth soul alignment, then the relationship doesn't have a lot of nutrition so to speak, and so they're always on the hunt for that fresh new feeling, but what we want you to hear is rediscovering that fresh feeling within the relationship that exists is way less trouble and way more satisfying because you can go deeper and broader and further and higher. Yeah, it's nice.
from the clip: Abraham Hicks 2024 new - This is HOW to meet ROMANTIC Partner Law of attraction.
HS: Two of my favorite things that I've heard you say are when you meet, you will know.
Abe: If you have deliberately calibrated something into vibrational beingness. When it manifests, you'll recognize it. The degree of your deliberation is the degree of that knowing, that certainty.
HS: So the other one was about: You don’t have to go looking for this. So these are two quotes, my question is around how to meet a romantic partner, I really struggle with that
Abe: Well, you don't do that. But sometimes you can't help it. Why do you want the rain?
HS: Why do I want?
Abe: Why do you want the rain? It's not why do you want to fill the void, in the absence (of the romantic partner), of loneliness and drudgery of going through this world alone? That's not gonna get you there, but what is it about that that is appealing?
HS: Fulfilment, satisfaction, fun, happiness. Just you know, it seems like there's so much desire
Abe: Those are words. Those are words that are not actually, if you really want to know, all that moving
HS: Right. Yeah.
Abe: It's like, why do you want this? One, two, five, seven, nine, eight. What is it about significant other in your life that is so delicious? What is that? You ever had it?
HS: Yes.
Abe: See if you can find a piece of something that you like and you can focus on it and enjoy it, it has to become more and it will increase in velocity and momentum until it can't not be,
and you will feel the velocity of that, even though you don't know where or when or who, you can just feel it, so you feel it. You're just on the verge of this, which is like an eagerness for life that really feels good.
HS: Right? well, to fine tune this a little bit, it seems like my questions are generally around this. My experience of life of seeing all these people and there's so much you talked about desire and doubt like that's me. there's so much fear and resistance and so
Abe: It's simpler. Let's not go down that muddy road. It's like this, I want to be adored and I want to adore. Those are just words, but feel that, get yourself into a position mentally, where you are observing someone who is clear and communicative and tuned in and oozing good feelings and appreciating you while you're appreciating the other. In other words, there's this feeling of appreciation and each of you has better timing than you've ever had. It's like you're just flowing in and out with each other. It's like ask and answer and answer and ask and it's just so satisfying. Now as we stay there, can't you just feel that and haven't you had brief moments of that with different (people). Stay there and feel that and then broaden it, put that person, put that relationship, the two of you into a setting--Go to a restaurant and walk in and feel what it feels like, for there to be two of you and feel your appreciation for the way your pardner interacts with the hostess and appreciates the menu and even devours the food, chooses the food, likes the food, enjoys the food, and makes you glad that there is food. Just broaden it and make it feel real to you. Practice those kinds of things, do things that you like to do (with the person) because you've attracted a partner who also likes to do many of those things until those are really familiar feelings to you, and then you'll know it when you see it. In other words, the more aspects of that you practise for the pleasure of it, for the pleasure of it, for the pleasure of it, not to make something happen, for the pleasure of it, for the pleasure of the mind meld, for the pleasure of the specifying, for the pleasure of the oh a little more like that and a little more like that, on every subject that matters to you. And then AH, an avalanche of opportunities will start showing up, and you'll know it when you see it. There's nothing that you're supposed to do, but what about collecting data? And what happens to so many humans go out collecting data, how you gonna know if it's a match if you haven't identified the pieces that will match you(/that you desire/like) , and identified them with enough clarity that you know for sure. Is it a wish? Is it a hope? Is it a dream? Is it a well established intention that you've identified and come out from enough angles that you're solid in what you know and then what comes near it you'll be able to tell. There's something else we'd like you to know, hardly anybody else will approach this relationship that you are attracting with the power and the clarity that you are going to do as a result of this conversation, but there are a whole lot matches out there and they will not know what's happening to them? In other words, they'll just feel drawn to you for inexplicable reasons and you'll discover the depth of your relationship in days and weeks and months and even years going by.
HS: That sounds great.
Abe: It is great. It is great. We want you to hear this. You practiced your bag of marbles so well and oh it’s just been thrilling, it's just been the most fun to lie on the bed and think about it or sit at a restaurant and think about it or drive your car and think about it. It's just so satisfying to make that tapestry for yourself with the emotions that it will stir in all of that and then as law of attraction matches you with a little bit of this and a little bit of that here and there, you will be able to feel the intensity of the match, the perfection of the match, you will know it when you see it and you'll know close not quite, close not quite but fun, close not quite. And then something else remarkable happens, once you feel it and allow it, allow yourself to think maybe this is it. As the two of you are now experiencing together, each of you will define with even greater clarity. So the thing that we want you to take from this conversation is that you're molding this into place, you're not just snatching it from somewhere, boom first crack out of the box, that's exactly what you're looking for. You are a creator, you want to create,you want to get better and better and better and better at it.
We would like you all, no matter what it is that you're in the process of creating, we would really like it if you were to listen to us and then practise it a little bit and then were to say to us: I'm having so much fun with what I'm doing mentally that honestly Abraham, it doesn't really matter if we meet up right away, because this is way fun this thing that I'm doing. I'm bringing so much satisfaction to myself, in fact, I think I'm discovering Who I Am I. I think I'm discovering the things I really like and why I really like them. There are people out there that have discovered those things in themselves that you will just bring out the more of that from them, you see. You could be and would be perfect strangers, you don't know each other in the flesh, you just know each other vibrationally, but your Inner Being has done all the vetting and your Inner Being is not going to put off all its bells and whistles over the wrong one. Your Inner Being knows what you’ve been thinking about, knows what's active in your vibration, and knows what matches it. You will know. You'll know because your Inner Being will know most people about most relationships try to make things that aren't workable work and then they'll say,you don't bring me flowers anymore and he'll say I never did bring you any flowers, what are you talking about? Did we get there at all with you?
HS: Yeah, that was helpful,um,I was wondering too where would dating apps fit in with the law of attraction? It seems like that's me
Abe:If your desire is clear, they could work spectacularly well because they're all about compatibility. And if you are clear about what your compatibility points are and you enter them into the artificial intelligence system correctly, then you could have an avalanche of potential matches. You can hear hesitation from us, the reason that we think the Law of Attraction is a better matchmaker is because of the involvement of your Inner Being. Think of your Inner Being is the intelligence that let you know...
What is it about a relationship that is so exhilarating? Why but anyone want that? Why do you want that?
HS: Well, it's, you know, having a best friend that you can have sex with to put it blankly.
Abe: That's not unimportant.
HS: You know, that you mentioned sort of adoring each other, that's a really wonderful thing, look up on the person
Abe: I really like those inside jokes. I like that we've walked around enough together that when we see something it activates something in my bag of marbles and it activates something in their bag of marbles and we have this knowing thing cause we've walked enough together that we know what that means. And each of us is easily calibrating to the best of us, so we consistently make the best of everything. In fact, what I've noticed what you're saying is that as I walked this earth alone, I did really good, but when two of us got together and we were on the same wavelength, really, really incredible magical things began to happen. There's something about the power of us calibrating to each other, while each of us is calibrating to our Inner Being that made it extra,extra, extra powerful and I like that feeling of focus. I like not having to explain myself over and over again, I like not having to open a door and explain everything. I like somebody knowing who I am and knowing what I want and wanting to be part of something that feels good to me. Make it alive for yourself. I like eating the other half of something that somebody wants. I like sharing a meal if we like the same things, and it's nice if we do. I like sharing conversations. I like sharing friends. I like sharing movies. I like sharing. sharing. sharing. I like harmony. I like intensity. I like a little bit of contrast,I like reasoning together,I like thinking together,I like hatching new ideas together and not being on the same wavelength, and then each relaxing until we find a common goal in there and we realize that singularly we were this, but together we are so much more. I like the exponential power of two or more coming together and the thrill of aligning with our Inner Beings. I like the power of alignment. I like co-creating better than I like creating and I like a specific partner to co-create with who knows my mind and is in harmony with me.
HS: You said that a lot better than I did.
Abe: Well. We got all of that out of your Vortex, every bit of it came from your Vortex, but the thing that we want you to know is that all of you can feel it from what we've been talking about already here today, don't put the kibosh on that. Don't let doubt step in. Don't let the waters get muddy. Take that feeling and milk that feeling, speak in ways that enhance that. And don't wear yourself out on it. Let's take a step forward into deliberate creation together right now. See what we just offered was easy for us because we're in your Vortex and we can see what's there and we just verbalized what's there. Well, if you're not in your Vortex and you can't see it and you don't feel it, then for you to rampage when you don't feel it feels like a whole lot of work. And a lot of times it backfires on you. So the key what we're talking about here is find a way to feel something and then rampage about it find a way to feel it and then rampage. Don't rampage to create the feeling. Find the feeling and then rampage and then it just gets bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger until you'll find yourself feeling like when you're with your partner, they're just aren't words, just aren't words to explain the perfection of this. It’s not words. No words, no reason to explain. Just an assumption that you know it too. You'll know it when you see it over and over and over and over again. A lot of people come into a relationship, and it's pretty frisky and good mostly about sex in the beginning, then because there hasn't been any long-range planning, any in depth soul alignment, then the relationship doesn't have a lot of nutrition so to speak, and so they're always on the hunt for that fresh new feeling, but what we want you to hear is rediscovering that fresh feeling within the relationship that exists is way less trouble and way more satisfying because you can go deeper and broader and further and higher. Yeah, it's nice.