The Abe Forum

IN THE VORTEX is where all the inspiration,
and what all the people, who don't get this vibrational stuff,
call MAGIC, is.

Abraham Hicks

THE REASON WE'RE DIS-APPOINTED instead of "Living real time"...
(The difference between real physical life on the leading edge vs the perfection of "mere vibration" in the Vortex)

The reason why "falling in love" seems to be better than "living love"



So, we want to talk about every relationship you have.

And we want to say to you, that every relationship that you're currently living falls far, far, far, far short of the one that you've got in your Vortex, every single time!

Every relationship that you're living cannot even come close to measuring up to the one you've got into your Vortex. Stop asking it to, stop needing those relationships to be different than they are- so that you can feel better!

That's not the way this universe is established!
That was the bouncing off place for this.
This is where you want to put your attention, you see!

What we're getting at... so, it's really interesting. You have this dream of a perfect relationship, or a perfect breakfast or a perfect hotel or a perfect drive, or (...) you have this dream. You have this anticipation, tha,t from a distance, felt good to dream it. But now you're living the reality of it. And it's not living up! So, you feel deprived. You feel almost offended. You feel almost assaulted: You say to each other, "you don't bring me flowers anymore!" You say, "you promised to obey me!", or "you promised to hold me dear!" -and we say to you, we really... if you can just hear this!! -If you can just hear that:

NO relationship that is ever manifested, will ever measure up to the one you've got in your Vortex.
And if you will let them off the hook, and focus on your Vortex, you'll keep yourself joyful. And the relationships will improve, too.

But we are not giving you this information, so that the relationships can catch up and start pleasing you- so that you can then start turning around, and observing the relationships that are pleasing you! We SO want you to get it, that that you've always been reaching into who you are. And anything less than that will never feel as good!

Now let's talk about this, in really vivid terms.
So, those of you who have been in love, who now have relationships- you want to say: you're in love. But maybe you don't really feel it so much...? It's been a long time since you felt that "in love" feeling. Here's why:
In the beginning, that relationship was more of a dream than it was a reality.

You were building that relationship long before you ever hooked up with this particular person! It became who-you-really-are. You and that person became this wonderful wonderful wonderful relationship, and it's vivid and real, and it holds all that you are. You're kind to one another! You believe in one another. You're respectful of one another. You're looking for the best in each other. You're evoking more and more, you are the catalyst that keeps pulling more good stuff through each other.

You are humorous together! You're tuned in, tapped in, turned on. You move well together: You move through life well together. In other words, in the vortex... what a magnificent relationship that you've built! Because every awkward moment improved it. Everything that went wrong, made it right. Everything that was off made it on! In other words, are you getting the sense of this? YOU created this "now"!

Some of you want to call this an illusion. We want to call it the vibrational reality.

We want to call it the relationship that you have created!
We want to call it the the the world that you created from your non-physical and physical vantage point.

It is a reality, that is real- that you've got to be a vibrational match to or you won't feel good.

So, then- when you look at reality as it is- you can't help but compare.
...You're not as nice as you're supposed to be.
..."You're not as attended to me, as you're supposed to be."
..."Chivalry is dead over there."
...You're still alive over here!

In other words... and so... then you're hard on each other. Because then you want, that... you want them to perform in a way that matches up to this! And we're wanting you to understand: you're you're looking for love in all the wrong places!

It's in your Vortex! And it's not their responsibility.

Are you following this? So, when you get there, when you get there... then what happens is: You begin enjoying the alignment of your vision. Which fills you with the feeling of LIFE. Don't you know from your own experience, that when you're on your way to the relationship, you felt so much better, than when you actually got there? And it's because, when you got there, you started looking at it as it is.

And what it is, in terms of manifestation, is never up to speed with what it has become (in the Vortex)!

-It's already past tense. ...Well, you took that pretty well!
That's hard. It's a hard thing to hear. It's... what we're saying to you is, in terms of physics- it would be like saying to you "as you're driving down the road, you want to look where you're going. Not where you are! And and not where you've been!"

You want to look where you're going.
And while that's simplistic, and really almost silly- it's the same idea. We want you to look toward what will manifest, but we want you to look toward what is! We want you to feel the realness of who you are. So, now speculate just for a little bit... think about, how have you ever... let's find some some simple ideas. Have you ever got an idea, that you'd like to refurbish your house. Or buy new furniture. And, do you remember that, how good it felt? Did you ever look through catalogues, and kind of start forming an image of how you'd like it to look?

And didn't it feel better- than when you got into the throws of trying to gather it all up or pay for it, or find someone who could coordinate it?
In other words, isn't it easier- isn't it easier to feel good in the envisioning-stage? And what we want you to come along... and we can feel you starting to move with us, what we want you... if we could convince you,

that your life is about the way you feel!!

Then it wouldn't matter to you if you're dreaming the new furniture, or if you're placing it.
If we've really convinced you, that how you feel is where it's at!

So, movie-makers, just keep dreaming new movies!
Authors, just keep dreaming new books!
Songwriters, just keep writing new songs!
The creative people never rest on their laurels. They... the happy creative people only stay happy and creative, because they keep writing the next song, you see! What we're getting at... they keep painting the next painting. Do you really think the world needs another painting?? NO!! But painters want to paint! Sculptors want to sculpt. Songwriters want to write songs. Musicians want to make music! In other words... you're getting the hang of it, aren't you? In other words,

you want to flow the energy!
That's how you mold the clay. You want to flow the energy, you want to think the good feeling thoughts! You want to sing the good feeling songs. You want to think the good feeling thoughts!

You want to think the good feeling thoughts. You want to think the good feeling thoughts!!
You don't want to think bad feeling thoughts!
You want to think the good feeling thoughts.

Now, think about it, as we watch people building empires, as we watch relationships coming together, as we watch movements coming into being- do you know that far and away the majority of the movement happens before there is any physical stuff, that even comes into being? In other words, as as you dream your empire, as you dream your dream employees, as you dream your dream product, as you dream the world's response to it, as you dream that it's all pure... because there's no reality that's clashing with it, you got to dream it as you wanted to dream.

But when you start facing reality, and reality clashes with the dream- that's when you lose your connection.

And that's when your dream slows down.
Well you're almost there! You're closer than any audience has been, we'll tell you that you're closer than any audience has been, to us having convinced you of the reality of this Vortex.

And the benefit to you, to reach toward it- because, have you ever been on vacation, and you've been out on the road, and you've been sort of free, and in an attitude of discovery with no time commitments... just sort of free flowing, and you know that fresh feeling of the Universe just yielding to you fun stuff to see, and fun things to feel... it's that fresh feeling that you can have all day every day, once you start living this real time that we're talking about.

So, someone says: "Did you get your new car?" -you could say and mean, and smile and feel good as you say:
-"no I'm still dreaming about it."
And then they'll go (disappointed) "ohh! ohhh." But you don't mean Oh. ...you mean: I'm still dreaming about it!

-"Did you meet that perfect... did you find your lover yet?" -"No. I'm still dreaming about him!" -"Oh! " -"No, you don't understand! He doesn't have to be here this red hot minute! The idea of him has breathed life into me, the likes of which I cannot even begin to explain."

-"Did you write your best-selling novel yet?" -"No. I'm just dreaming about it." -"Oh. haven't really gotten around to yet? Oh. " -"No no! The life is just showing me bits and pieces of it. I'm gathering it up, I can feel it formulating. I can feel the inspiration that's flowing through me! I've never felt so vivid or so alive!"

-"You moved into your new house yet?" -"No. I'm just still dreaming about it!" -"Oh! " -"No, no! That dreaming about it is good. I'm in the vortex! I'm tuned in with the vibrational reality of it! It's breathing life into me. Oh sure, it will manifest. But I found you can say to your friends, that the more that manifests, the more I have to insure it, the more I have to move it from place to place, the more I have to clean it!"

In other words, you watch people! The more they gather, the less good they feel. The less they've got- the better they feel. We're not trying to talk you out of manifestations, friends! We're not. Manifestations are so wonderful!

And there is nothing more spiritual than the manifestation of this spirit, that you are.
Nothing is more delicious than manifestation!

But manifestation that comes from alignment, is delicious.
Manifestation that is dragging you around by the hair is not!

And we think that, in general, our human friends are hung up on the what-isness of manifestations, and depriving themselves of the freedom, of the natural joy that comes from roving with the energy that is truly you. Now that's easy for us to explain to you, because we don't have a physical body that we're dragging around. We don't have to bathe it or clothe it or feed it. We don't live in a house that we have to pay rent on, or own or ensure. In other words, we live in a state of beingness. But here's the big picture for you!

So, does the larger part of you... you are Spirit!
You are not a thing. You are a being, not a doing. You are a being, not a having. You are a physical being, who has the potential of aligning with the clarity and the adventure and the love and the sureness and and the worthiness that is really you! And you can tell moment by moment, whether you've caught caught a glimpse of it. And when you do milk it milk it milk it milk it milk it milk it milk it until you say incessantly to those around you, who say "well, what do you need?" -you say:

"I really don't need anything! There's nothing that I need. But I'm always on the Quest for alignment!" -"What does that mean?" -"Well it's sort of a long story, but what it basically means is: I'm more than I see. Or that you see here, in this physical body! And I can feel the wholeness of who I am, through my emotions. And I'm always on the trail of that."

Now, most people won't get it. But you do! You get it.
And, in fact, you've gotten it so good, that you can't go back from it. We should have explained that at the beginning, that you now know too much. You now know too much- you can't go back. You know too much, you can't go back! You are Source energy, and physical bodies, and the way you feel is everything.

A woman said, "My lover left, and now I'm sad." And said, no you're not! -She said: "Abraham. My lover left, and now I'm sad!" We said, no you're not. She said: "Abraham!!" -she thought things she didn't say. Something about a ridiculous ghost... "Abraham, you ridiculous ghost! My lover left, and now I am sad!" and we said: No, you're not! She said, "Let me be very clear with you. I wasn't sad, and then my lover left, and now I'm sad. I'm sad because my lover left!" -and we said:

While you were interacting with that lover, you created a lover in your Vortex, that that lover was not a match to.
And when that lover left, you're using that as an excuse not to match up with the one that's in your Vortex. You're not sad because that lover left! You're sad because, right now in this red hot minute, you are not a vibrational match to the lover you have created. THAT'S why you're sad.

You're sad because you are not up to speed with who you are!
That's the only reason that you're ever sad.
It's the only reason that you're ever sick.
It's the only reason that you ever feel negative emotion:
You're not up to speed you're not up to speed you're not up to speed you're not up to speed.

Well, how do you get up to speed?
You care about how you feel and you practice reaching for the thoughts that feel better and until you find yourself in the vortex.

And then you practice being in the vortex, until you're chronically in the vortex. And then you're living real time! Then your Source energy is flowing through you. Now, as you're interacting with others, all of you is in that moment. Now you're offering one signal, not split energy!

Now you are living life as you've intended. That's what you came for.

from the youtube-clip "Once You KNOW How To Think In 4 Dimensions, You Can SEE The INVISIBLE ~ Abraham Hicks "

Abraham on the World Financial Crisis
(About "the Plan of Solution" that's in your Vortex!)

HS:
Abraham, um... this evening we are going to have a uh- a presidential, hopeful... not hopeful... debates. But debates between some hopeful presidential people. And uh-

Abe:
We don't find either one of them very hopeful, do you?

HS:
OK. OK so but I just thought it would be fun to hear from you if they have... if they would allow three people in the debate and the uh, person would- and the question posed would be and you, Mr. and Mrs. Abraham, uh- what would be your uh- proposal to alleviate the uh- current financial uh- crisis- worldwide crisis?

Abe:
"Chill out and go to work." -That's it. Focus upon the things that are important to you, and figure out how to satisfy the details of your life and stop looking to someone else to solve it, and figure out how to bring yourself into balance. And turn off things like this debate! So, that you don't continually harass yourself into the misalignment of what's already in your vibrational escrow!

And then, we would say, "we have a plan".

(HS: Oh yeah?)

Abe:
...And it was set into motion long before we got here to this platform! And you are all co-conspirators in this plan. And you have, through what you have been living, been contributing to this plan! And it is the brightest and most exhilarating of a future experience, as has ever been upon the face of the earth! And it is the legacy that all of you hold ownership of! In order for you to claim your piece of this amazing pie of prosperity, all you have to do is look in the direction of it and see if you can remember what pieces of it you put there.

Because every piece you put there has been lovingly held for you.
It can not evaporate from the stock market!
And it can not be squandered by those who do not understand.
And it can not be misunderstood by anyone, and it cannot be taken from you.

Because if your life caused you to put it into this holding pattern; this vibrational escrow... then it is forever there for you!

And the only thing that is required in order for you to make your personal withdrawal, is make your personal withdrawal by no longer paying attention to who else is making what withdrawals. Don't worry about them, getting your fair share! It's not possible for anybody to get your fair share. Your fair share is always earmarked for you! It will always stay there, in perfect becomingness. Oh, And we might tell you, that since you put it there, it has been accruing with magnificent interest, the likes of which we have never seen. So it got bigger than it was when you asked for it! And it gets bigger with every request you make. And in fact, the more crisis that is applied around all of this, the bigger it gets!

-So first thing: Know that it's there for you, and that no one can get it away from you!
-And next: stop worrying about what anybody else is doing. Because it is your worry about what anybody else it doing, which is causing you to hold yourself vibrationally out of whack from it.

Now we acknowledge, that the majority of people who would be witnessing such a debate, would not have heard a word we said. Because they are not accustomed to focusing upon the vibrational world, they don't understand that there is a vibrational reality that they hold ownership to; that they must find alignment with- before it can be a physical reality. And so, for those who don't yet know about the vibrational reality,

...We would say to them: Worry not. We've seen this before, and we know that you can come through it.
We would say, do not worry about what's happening, because nothing has changed in the last few days. Nothing has even changed in the last few years, that is so far out of balance that it can not come back into balance!
Then we would say: There are enough numbers upon this planet that are involved in the economics of this time-space reality, that it is certain that balance will come back.

And all you have to do is sort of settle yourself in and ride it out!

And so, the thing that we want you to say to yourself everyday is: It's getting better. It's getting better and it's going to be alright! It's better it's getting better, and it's going to be alright. And the sooner you convince yourself that it is better than you thought it was, and that it is getting better than it is right now! And that it is not only going to be alright: it's going to be REALLY alright. Your prosperity can begin to come to you, immediately!

And then, we would make the longest list of positive aspects about the other two speakers on the platform, that we had ever made in our life. We would speak of the power of their desire to lead, and the power of their desire to serve. We would speak about how they wanted this almost the day their feet hit the ground in this time-space reality, and how each of them is prepared in their own unique way, to be all that they need to be, to stand in that place. And then we would say: Do not hold these two men, or either one of them, -or anyone on the planet!- responsible for the well-being that comes to you. This man and this man is not responsible for your well-being:

You are responsible for your well-being.

HS: Wow.

Abe: Give them a break!

HS: Thank you.

from the official youtube-clip ABRAHAM ON THE WORLD FINANCIAL CRISIS - Esther & Jerry Hicks

When you'r ITV, there is no reason to be guarded.
And when you're guarded, you're not ITV!

Abraham Hicks

Quantum Entanglement and knowing LoA (Einstein speaking!)

HS:
So, on Einstein and quantum entanglement... and... quantum entanglement states, that "if you observe a particle in one place another particle will instantly change its properties as if the two are connected by a mysterious communication channel. Two particles are inextricably linked together, no matter their separation from one another, although these entangled particles are not physically connected, they still can share information with each other instantaneously."

-The moment I heard that, that sounded strikingly similar to me and my inner being!
-Uh, physical reality and the vortex, um, so would you please comment on that?
-Could you please explain what that mysterious communication channel is?
-And, is our vortex scientifically provable?
-And maybe, Einstein can make another cameo appearance, like he's done in the past?
So much love to you!

Abe:
All well. Yes, it is strikingly similar and the clarification- what Einstein did not know, that you now do know- is that those particles that came together, were a vibrational match, or they could not have done it. In other words, he did not understand then, he was witnessing the law of attraction at work! But the thing that confused him and this is what he really wants to say to you now:

"The thing that was confusing then, was the randomness of which particles came together. And it was the not being able to expect the particle to come together! Because the missing piece was the understanding about the vibrational nature, or the law of attraction-aspect of those particles. So, they were called entangled particles by me, instead of matching particles. Because the law of attraction was not fleshed out in the way that it now is."

And we say to you, yes your vortex is provable. Our friend proved it in traffic that day! But don't seek to prove it to others, because no one can see past their expectations. And when you try too hard to prove something that they're not ready to see, that they are not a vibrational match to, then then you get frustrated like Einstein was!

He died frustrated over that, because it seems random when it isn't. It seems like you're not in control, when you are. And so much of what he studied made him know, that that was true mostly- and now he is reveling in what you've brought forth today: That it is always true! You just have to understand the law of attraction, that that which is like, to itself is drawn.

We think this conversation has been good for so many of you, who've written to us and talked to us about things not quite being, maybe, as you want them to be. or not quite being as understood, understood as you want them to be. But we're going to finish this broadcast by offering to you our knowing, our absolute knowledge of the structure of this universe, that Einstein and so many others have been looking to explain to you, through mathematics, equations, evidence.

Here is the structure of this universe: It is expanding.

-Why?
Because cooperative components are being gathered! "Entangled particles" keep coming together, and there is More, as a result of the combining. Because as each combining of those particles comes together, there's not only that manifestation, but a whole new platform from which to observe and launch rockets of desire! The structure that is based upon what is, will eternally expand, because you keep... as focusers, you continue as focusers, to find new desires from the variety that surrounds you. Because you are Creators!

So, the structure of the universe is diversity, which produces desire, that the non-physical energy from which you have come, then focuses on, to hold steady the well-being of the universe, and of your physical time and place.

Your time space reality, the combination of this reality that you can perceive and watch expand, and notice the expansion because there's space that is observable, and noticeable, and there's time that is observable and noticeable, while you're here in this body. And that is causing an expansion of desires, which then your non-physical consciousness joins.

Well-being is dominant, and while it is possible to focus in a way that is an individual or even a mass consciousness where you pinch off well-being for a while- in every single case, the more you pinch it off, the more you want it. And the more you want it, the more you will always find it! And the more you find it, the more you will ask for more.

There's perfection in what we live! And there is perfection in what you live. And when we live it together, it's fun! Joyful. Mind-blowing!

There's great love here for you! We are appreciating your willingness to chew slowly through conversations, that help you to feel the wholeness of who you are. And we are in the vortex- we're in your vortex! We're in your individual vortices, and in that mass consciousness vortex, where all that is has expanded. And you have the opportunity now, to feel your joyful participation in witnessing the manifestation into your life, of that expansion!

Nothing is off limits! No amount of money off limits. No amount of vitality off limits! No amount of conscious awareness off limits! Nothing is off limits. The only limitation you now know what to do about: Put it in the inactive box. Piece by piece.

from the official youtube-clip "The Structure of This Universe — Abraham NOW excerpt from April 2, 2022"

You'r all trying too hard!
You'r all thinking too much.
It's exhausting and impossible,
you'r not EVER going to sort it out!

But you could just find a reason to feel good!
And milk that, for a little while.
And then, tap into your Inner Being- who does feel good!

Abraham Hicks

We applaud you for your patience.
And we encourage you
to come to your Vortex,
where you never need it.

Abraham Hicks

About People-Pleasing- the good, the bad and the ugly...
(EVERYTHING ALWAYS works out for you!

HS:
Hi! Yeah, it's you!!!

Abe:
Shocking! (laughter)

HS:
Thank you! Yeah, I, uh second time in Stanford, I knew if I raised my hand, you'd call me. But I wasn't ready, and I knew that today, you' call me. So I raised my hand.

Abe:
Yeah. Yeah! The key word: I knew. "I knew..." that's why we don't just call on anybody, when you know! Yeah.

HS:
Yeah. Um, I want to not take too much time, but I'm trying to figure out if I'm between "love", "finance" and my "deep desire dreams", slash "professional". But I think I'm going to choose "professional", because this week was intense and, um, I want to know... I want any clarity on whether or not...

-I know who I am. And what I have manifested when I'm tapped in and turned on, all of that, I make powerful things happen. And, I'm grateful...

Abe:
Well, so when things happen like what you're talking about, it does a wonderful thing for you: It really sharpens desire. But it's tricky, because it sharpens your desire, and it also sharpens your awareness of where you are! It makes it really intense. And that's why it feels so strong, you see. The good news is, your desire has come into much stronger clarity!

Well, your inner being knows mostly what you want. But you know, your Inner being- you get the concept of the Vortex? Where your desires are? And you get the concept of your Inner Being, focusing there? So, can you imagine or accept, that you might live something, that might make you put another piece into that, that wasn't there, before? It might be a timing-piece. It might be a value-piece, like, bigger what you're living. It's never of not value, even if it feels like it's not going the way you wanted it to go!

It is always of value, because every subject is like a stick with two ends on it. So when it doesn't go your way, it really went your way! And your Inner Being got a stronger bead on more specifics, now, than has ever been there before. And so, it is more certain, that what's coming is going to please you, big time, than it was before that!

So, doesn't that soften your discomfort about anything?

HS:
Oh yes! I've been leaning into refinement and allowing myself to create from whatever contrast comes my way.

Abe:
Yeah. contrast is good!! That's something that humans usually aren't willing to say: Contrast is good.
It provides clarity, and it strengthens asking. But the key to the key to allowing contrast to be good, is not stubbornly trying to... affirm isn't the right word, to not justify or defend what happened.

So, talk to us!

HS:
Well, interesting you said that things happen. And so, for me, I was existing in this way, being in this way, and my personal... uh happening, was health. And it brought upon a huge crisis. Like a a crisis in confidence. And things just like, wobbly wobbly, not as a will to align and long story short, yesterday after a year and a half about um... my two bosses sat me down to discuss my exit. Um and that's where I'm... I felt like I needed to talk to you, to fine. I want to know if they asked me to stay extra for a good transition to help them, to not affect the culture, to not affect... blah blah blah. And that I can control the narrative, but I'm not sure that's in service of me, but...

Abe:
We think it is! For this reason. Because what they're calling an exit, is your new entrance somewhere.
And since the new entrance isn't obvious to you yet, then letting this exit be smoothing both ends of that out- it helps this! And it helps this not because this needs to be helped, because this is already lined up, but it doesn't feel lined up to you, now! -You got the sense of all of that, didn't you? The man in the chair just now said: "Everything is always working out for me." And you just said "Well it might be good for them, but I don't know if it's so good for me!" -We like to explain:

Things are always working out for me, in this way:
This is the way Esther writes it every day. "Things are always working out for me, and everyone else, too."

Because there's no competition! It's not a pie that you're slicing up, and if somebody else is getting a bigger slice, I'm getting a smaller slice. It's NOT like that! Things are always working out, for all of us! You're not ready for it yet, maybe you are. But as this unfolds a little bit you're going to realize that there are better things for you, than this! What has been is already become sort of limiting. And you've been feeling some of that, that that's all part of some of the angst that you've been feeling! And so, it's working to your advantage, in a big way! This is not you, winding down, into less than. Its you, winding up into more, than!

HS:
To give you just some context of where I'm coming from, is: I'm... I've always been a pleaser. My whole life. And that's one thing I've wanted to shift, and that I've been working on, and doing my personal work on that, and being intentional on my actions. And not allowing that need to like, please everyone. So that's why I want to make sure, that it's not coming from the pleaser.

Abe:
We're going to throw something back at you, and you tell us how that fits in with what you just said! (HS: Sure!)

"If I know (we're standing in your human shoes...) if I know, that things are always working out for me, and I also know that things are also working out for everyone else... am I a pleaser. Oh, I'm pleased when you thrive! I'm pleased when things are good for you! I'm pleased when things are good for me!

Am I a pleaser? Well, maybe! I'm just pleased:
-Maybe I'm tuned in, tapped in, turned on?
-Maybe I realize, that there's enough resources for everybody?
-Maybe I'm no longer competing over resources?"

HS:
Well, that I do believe!

Abe:
We know that about you, too! But in the context of being a pleaser as you hear it come from us this is the context- we know who you were, before you came into this physical body. And who you've become vibrationally, ever since! And it is our desire, that you calibrate to that part of you- not to the peanut gallery out here!

Most people are calibrating to the others, that they can see and hear and smell and taste and touch. You watch their body language. There are a lot of people, that just throw a little fit and so it changes the way you behave! So, being an effective pleaser who is a value to them, you don't cater to their whining. You praise their successes! You be like they Inner Being: You give full attention to what feels good. And you give no attention to what feels bad! And so, the only way that we mean that being a pleaser is detrimental to you, and to them, is if you're trying to be the Law of Attraction and make up for what they're not able to do, through your action.

Don't soothe whiners! Don't soothe whiners by fixing things for them.
Because all it does, is make them think that whining works.

And whining does work to a certain degree. But it doesn't work magnificently:
It doesn't give you creative genius.
It doesn't make you one of the best of the best, in terms of the way you thrive and feel, you see!

And so, the health thing is about you, taking on too much responsibility for too many people, that you don't have any power over.

For you care about their well-being, but it's like pushing a noodle. You can't make someone allow! You watch us and all the antics that we go through. We can't know it enough, to make someone know it, who is stubbornly not knowing it, right? Now, we just keep saying it over and over and over and over and over and over again- until you're ready.

You don't let it in, and so you can't make people succeed or be happy, who are in an ornery mood! It's just not going to happen. It's not going to happen.

Esther heard a comedian that she really likes... we're not doing an advertisement for anything, but she heard Jerry Seinfield say about this new Netflix thing, that is being released, called "poptart". Esther hasn't seen it, she's going to see it as soon as she can get rid of all of you! (laughter) But she heard him say, when they ask him how did he make something so wonderful happen- he says "We just get people in a good mood, and then it happens! We just try to get people in a good mood, and then it happens. We just try to get people in a good mood and then it happens!" Well, is that a pleaser? Kind of sort of, he is. But you can't get people in a good mood, if you are not in a good mood!

So if your bag of marbles is in a good mood, then you're going to encourage other people to tune in, and they're going to be in a good mood, and then wonderful things do happen collectively, as you're all working together.

But if you're in a bad mood, because you're worried about this or that, or this or that- you're trying to protect people from this or that, or this or that- that takes a toll on outcomes. We don't think your moving in your work is a disadvantage, in any way, shape or form! Its something that your Vortex has been calling you toward, for a long time. We'r going to make a strong statemen,t that you're going to hear really well: We're going to tell you a story.

There was a woman who came to a workshop, who lived in a place that she described as miserable. But for whatever reason, she kept staying there, and she kept staying there. She just kept putting up with all the things about it, that she didn't like. Then they passed a new rule, that her cat could not live there. So she's sneaking the cat around, for quite a while, because she's defiant of this. But then she decided to move. And we said: "So, you'll move for your cat?" -Cuz the cat didn't like being carried around in a paper sack, sneaking in and out. So, she moved for the cat. But she wouldn't move for herself!

And that's kind of why you'll move: Because somebody else has decided that it's not a match. But it hasn't been a match for you, for a long time time! And because you're a pleaser, and because you keep your commitments, and because you're good at what you do, you put up with stuff you didn't like, in order to help them. And that's why you're so mad! You've been putting up with stuff for them. And now they've got the nerve to say: "No"??? This could have happened two years ago, or 3 years ago, or 4 years ago or 5 years ago!

HS:
Yeah. My best friend is sitting there! You're just... you're completely validating her. I can feel her eyes and energy, over there! (laughter)

Abe: Good?

HS:
Amazing. Thank you!

from the youtube-clip: "Abraham Hicks 2024 new - From a people pleaser to a SELF EMPOWERED LEADER Law of attraction