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"Am I on the right Path?"
(You never feel good when you judge anyone- yourself or others!)
HS:
First I want to say- thank you sooo much! For everything!
Abe:
Yeah, yeah! Well we're all in this together!
HS:
I believe it now. I literally believe it now.
Abe:
Well, words don't teach. When you got a strong asking, there's a strong answer. Of course it helps that you're sitting on the front row (of the WS). How did that happen? That was no easy feat! In other words, how many people did you trample to get there?
HS (laughing):
I just came very early to make it happen.
Abe:
-Deliberate intention! (HS: Yes.) And strong wanting! (HS: Yes.) With no resistance!
HS:
With no resistance! (Abe: yeah.) I am here, because my interest in you has gotten me to where I'm at, today. My belief in you has stabilized me mentally.
Abe:
Your belief in you! (HS: Hm!) Your belief in YOU.
HS:
Thank you! Yeah, thank you. I was going to ask a question that I, um, spoke with a guest that I just met and I was told not to ask it because... I know, but the question I was going to ask is: Am I on the right path?
Abe:
Well you KNOW you are, not just because you're in the hot seat right now! That is a clue, however. You can tell by the increase in your feeling of stability, and the decrease in your unsteadiness.
You can feel by your increase in your happy heart, and the decrease in your concern about things.
In other words, you can feel you're not ever going to be at the place where it's only upper half of the emotional scale- emotions, because you came wanting to explore and ask questions. You came wanting to define your questions, you didn't come to regurgitate other people's questions. Or to assume other people's answers! You came to ask your own questions to live your own life. And to emit, to radiate, to ooze, your questions to the universe, to receive your own answers!
HS:
Absolutely! And the question is, how do I continue to stay on this path?
Abe:
By caring about how you feel.
By that being, what matters most.
By preferring love to anger.
By preferring clarity to confusion, and
by calibrating all day every day in the direction of what feels better.
That's all. And... by not demanding or even asking of yourself, to get it just right, every single minute!
By being nice to yourself about it!
...Like the source within you is! In other words, do you know when you're upset at yourself? It's because your Inner Being isn't. Did you hear that?
HS:
I heard it, and I never knew it.
Abe: You couldn't feel negative emotion, if your Inner Being wasn't just loving you, anyway! If your Inner Being would join you in your negative judgment.
You'd feel just great (in your judgement)! But your Inner Being won't do that. And people that look like they're happy when they're mean- they're just really good fakers they're not happy they're not HAPPY.
from the clip Abraham Hicks SIGNS THAT YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH Law of Attraction
HS:
I was feeling that way for the last nine months really up until the date the night before I came on this cruise which I was feeling awesome about and then I found out that he's been cheating on me for a really long time.
Abe:
We agree that you all have different levels of how much you're willing to put up with. And whether he's just annoying, or whether he is violating some commitment that the two of you have established- in other words, we get it that there are narrower and wider gaps! But we want to be so bold as to say that,
whoever you are interacting with, is going to violate the commitment
that almost all of you want them to keep!
And the commitment that almost everybody wants everybody
that they're up close to impersonal to keep is, "I want you to promise to put me first- no matter what."
And that is a commitment that no one keeps!
Because you're not wired like that!
You were not born like that!
You you've come to establish... We would like your marriage vows, or your relationship vows, to go like this:
"Dear one, I want you to know that- as much as I love you, there's someone who comes first before you.
And that is my alignment with the source, within me!
That's my inner being, that's who I'm devoted to.
That's why I'm aligned to.
That's who I'm feeling for.
That's what my commitment is to.
And my promise to you is, that I will give you, as much as I can, the fullness of me!
Not as the separated me.
I'm going to do my best to satisfy my alignment, and therefore give you the gift of living with someone, who has aligned.
And what that will be for you, what that will mean for you, how that will play out for you, is:
I won't be needing or demanding from you behavior, in order to keep myself happy!
My happiness will be dependent upon my focus."
There are people who feel betrayed, if their partners think about other people.
There are people who feel betrayed if their partner doesn't give their undivided attention to them.
There are people who feel jealous if anyone feels happy at the thought, or in the conversation with somebody else!
There are all kinds of degrees of cheating on you, and for the most part, any part of someone else cheating on you just means: "You've taken your attention away from me! And I was dependent upon your attention, being upon me, so that I could feel good! And now you've taken your attention away from me...!" (Towards the HS) This is too strong for you.
But, we really want you all to not be dependent upon anyone for the alignment.
That it is the epitome of looking for love in all the wrong places!
And when you say you've cheated on me, we know. We know there are agreements that you make! We get what you're talking about.
But we would like you to be uncheatable-upon-able! "I'm stable in my self-respect! My sense of well-being is not dependent upon your behavior."
So what you're really wanting to do, is decide what you want, and become a vibrational match to what you want. And you will attract a partner who is a vibrational match to what you want, you see! And so we're not suggesting that you will not find another partner!
We're just suggesting that you find true alignment with who you are before you go looking!
from the official Abraham Hicks youtube-clip "Uncheatable Uponable", 2014
Your society; it is a very critical society.
Looking for reasons not to appreciate another,
with the hope, the futile hope, of that bringing you to greater appreciation of self.
When we know, and you are coming to know, that that will never work.
It is appreciation that begets appreciation.
In other words, you must feel some appreciation for something in order to attract more of it, you see.
- AH
- Criticizing is just a bad habit - Form a new Good Habit
In this sea of probabilities, focus upon something that makes you feel good, not bad, good.
And sometimes you have to look a while, because sometimes your habit is of finding fault.
[Keep looking for the good: form a new habit!]
- AH
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Stay away from critical people
Friends, your work... what you are to do has nothing to do with DOING!
Your work is to bring yourself in whatever way you can figure out to do it,
to the point of feeling your strength,
feeling your perfection,
feeling your health,
feeling your talent,
feeling your wonderfulness,
feeling good about you.
Which means, if we were standing in your physical shoes, and there was someone in our experience that was critical of us,
we would make ourselves scarce from that one.
That one would see very little of us,
for you are not needing that sort of negative bolstering.
SIGNS THAT YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH 
Law of Attraction
