13thAllieCat wrote: ↑Fri Jun 07, 2024 5:16 pm Hi Paradise! ... I think I understand what you are saying, that energy is always kind of going back and forth between things, and maybe sprinkled in, that if he feels something so large then a responsive energy must be coming back from her kinda thing? Am I understanding?
Hi!
I'm not sure if we talk about the same thing.
I didn't want to imply that really something must come from her (in regards to her, flowing energy). But he certainly uses her as "excuse" (as Abe put it) to attract all sorts of energies that he translates as painful.
There is the Abe-quote
People will love you, people will hate you- and none of it has to do with you. (Abe)
WE create our own reality. We don't need anybody to either be incredibly happy or incredibly off (and everything in between). Nobody needs to flow energy to us, and nobody can take energy from us, if we don't allow that. We are absolutely self-sufficient, BESIDES the relationship we have with our source (="who we really are", God, our higher Self- however you call it).
So truly, all games we play with outside- conditions, -and people belong into that category!- are shadow-plays, in some way. They act as mirrors, who reflect back to us, how our OWN energy is. And no matter if they actively and deliberately flow energy or not interact with us at all- we can use them for our dramas or joyful dances. Because it is about how WE, OURSELVES, focus and line up with source, or not.
Yes, I absolutely know that!What I moreso meant to illustrate with that sentence/section is... you know if you've ever felt someone wanted something from you that you didn't want to give? (for whatever reason) and you 'put up a brick wall' so to speak?
(to me it feels like a blocking of my energy going toward that person, maybe its more so of a block of conscious heart energy, flowing toward that person.
You really can NOT flow "negative energy" or, "a blockage".
Abe explain that there is only 1 source of energy, and it is ALWAYS source-energy (aka, positive energy). "There is no source of darkness. There is only a source of light!" -Abe
But we CAN block the flow of the (positive) energy through ourselves, though. We can hinder the flow. When we feel the "absence of life-source-energy, we always feel bad. Aka, this holding back/resisting the life-energy always backlashes and hurts ourselves, as "we are Lovers, and a lover's gonna love." -Abe
You don't need to deliberately flow love to specific people, but when you deliberately block source energy, it will always feel bad to yourself.
Imo, not necessarily. It could also be that she has moved on and really stopped thinking about Salamander! -We can not know things like that, about others.It seems to be this lady has put this 'brick wall' up between her and Ghosted.
Yes, that is a very valid question!What I wanted to maybe have Ghosted ask himself or feel for clarity on - is if shes put up a wall between your communication... and I know whats thats like on Ghosted's end... what feelings are making you feel shes the 'one' for you?
On the other hand, he could use her as "excuse" to deliberately learn to flow UNCONDITIONAL love, no matter if she will ever "send" love back. That would be an awesome learning, right? -Turning around from neediness to true love. And, by the way, that would feel awesome to him. And it wouldn't need any compliance on her end- AND it would in the long run, indeed, with a propability of- as Abe say, 99,99999%, reign her in.
As Abe said (in one of my last posts), that when you truly LOVE (not in a needy way), the other one most certainly WILL start to love you back.
I appreciate your question, but I don't think I can answer it. As I said, the energy IS flowing! It is ALWAYS flowing. "Blocking" is what we call it, but really, it's not accurate. Energy can't other than flow, as that is what energy always does. But we humans can put up resistances, so that we do not REALIZE the positive source-energy, while it flows!Paradise what words would you use to describe that more accurately without saying energy is not flowing? Thank you!! Maybe I can get the words dialed in better
While really, this is not true either. When we resist the source-life-energy, we maybe don't "realize" it, we maybe aren't consciously aware of it. But we will FEEL it. As I already said- it always feels bad, up to physically painful (see the other thread)
Does this help?
(...I had to make a meme from it!)
Yes, you are. Without questions, there are no answers! 
