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All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 8

~ I heard some complaints at home which annoyed me a bit. Should I do some vibrational work about it? I considered, and then chose not to. Because I remembered that the vibe of a problem and the vibe of the solution is very different and wanting to solving a problem often makes things worse. I decided to think about it some days later or even not at all. Instead, I began to read a novel and I felt better. And I then felt less need to deal with the thing I previously heard.

~ Things are working out for me. When I read some news online which immediately caused me strong negative emotion, I knew clearly the reason, because it was the opposite of what I strongly desire. This strong negative emotion was such beneficial guidance and I would be reminded to go back to what I truly desire. I would begin to remember and shore up what I desire, and therefore pre-pave a better future on this specific subject. So, emotions, both positive emotions and negative emotions, continually serve me very well. I appreciate my emotional guidance. I appreciate the guidance reflected by negative emotions especially those strong ones.

I feel blessed to know this cp. They have brought me so much pleasure and wonderful experiences. Yes, sometimes, strong negative emotions would visit me about them, but that only means that they are so important to me and that they bring me so much joy that the thought of them being apart is horrible for me for now. However, this low feelings would last long at all, because I know how to handle them, let go of negative thought and go back to the essence of why I like them at the first place. So, most of the time, they just brighten my life. And actually most joy comes from those writers who keep on creating lovely stories about them. Thinking of these writers, I have purely strong appreciation.

So, knowledge of the Universal laws and processes of feeling better I have learned from Abe continually helps me on all kinds of life subjects and lets me have more and more pleasing experiences. I become more persistent in focusing upon the Vortex version regardless of what is instead of easily feeling disappointed because of what-is. And then positive results ensue again and again.

~ Every day, I would notice and milk something new. I attract new music and stories. I get new clarity on important life subjects such as the life attitudes and personality traits I wanna see more in myself and people around me...

All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 9

~ Things are always working out for me. Today, I listened to a wonderful, new Abe clip that extremely resonates with me. I listened to it four times in a roll. There was a propensity within me that sometimes I procrastinated about leaving a place or a situation that was not a match anymore. I was sorta waiting for the Universe to decide for me. I was waiting people in the work place to say it's time for me to go instead of saying directly that, "I'm leaving." When I actually left the place, I always felt immediate relief, not feeling a bit attachment to the place at all. But now, I would like to be more active in making decision and then moving to a new place or situation or stage. The difference between me and the HS was that I was not a people pleaser, I procrastinated because I was in confusion about the next step and not that active in molding the clay. After all of these, I choose to be clear about what I want on this subject, that is: I choose to follow my own unique path. I choose to hold onto the independence of all of us, so there is no need for me to leave or stay for others' sake. I choose to persistently focus upon the solutions for all of us. Most importantly, I choose to remember again and again that I can just hold onto what I desire in the purest form, and KNOW that all the universal forces and related people would cooprate to make my desire fulfilled. This is LAW. I align and I get, no matter what it is.

Plus there are other wonderful messages in this clip, and I like milking them here and now:

I can a be a people pleaser in the aligned manner. I feel good first and then praise others' sucesses, feel happy for their wellbeing, and make them feel good/get them into a good mood. I focus upon their positive aspects.

Be an effective pleaser who is a value to others. You don't cater to their whining; praise their sucesses. You be like their Inner Beings: You give full attention to what feels good; you give no attention to what feels bad. Don't soothe whiners by fixing things for them; all it does is make them think whining works. Whining does work to a certain degree, but it doesn't work magnificently. It doesn't give you creative genius...

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All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 10

~ I feel good and fulfilled today. I am energized. I am able to discover and enjoy the so-called trivial or mundane. I wrote about the so-called trivial and mundane and felt energied.

~ I noticed the importance of balance and did pre-paving before I went back home. I remembered and milked the positive aspects of the house and imagined desired interactions between family members. I pre-paved my willingness to interact with my family members.

~ I am inspired to listen to some timely and matching Abe clips on subjects I have great interest in. I ponder about vibrational commitment instead of lip service. I am reminded again the importance of finding positive aspects and expect the best of places, things and people which I must focus upon on a frequent basis. I am reminded again the importance of step 5, and glad to know what step 6 means--those extremely high moments which contain so so much elements. I am glad to remember what more actually means, not just including those obviously different new manifestations, but also about the subtler and deeper aspects of so-called old manifestations. They both are new and more.

I like seeing where I am from new perspectives. I like that when I put so-called old stuff into a vivid story or scene, it dons new attraction, it becomes new. I notice that those physical existences which sorta represent poverty become meaningful, memorable and attractive when they appear in certain stories, so mcuh so that I would spend more time and attention upon them than those luxury things. Because, stories play an extremely important role in my life and anything that makes stories more attractive is more meaningful to me. So, I know it's really about personal perspectives and preferences.

I like deliberately focusing upon love in this family. It's so easy to find love for my little niece. My parents are so patient and loving towards babies. Of course I like seeing loving, aligned grandparents. As for my relationship with them, from time to time, I would remember their love towards me in order to enhance my love for them--this often works. Less and less would I argue for limitations or imagine less. "Of course this kind of things happen often in families." This is not my standard and expectation now. I choose to be very clear about what I like seeing in the family and do my best to focus upon them. I don't wanna see things that don't feel good to me as natural or normal at all. I respect my dislikes and therefore my likes/preferences. I like harmony in the family. I like that we speak with each other with at least calmness. I like that we share the same space, doing our own things, in a lighthearted way. I like that we talk to each other in alignment, not complaining, or blaming. I like that we care for, appreciate and love each other. I like that we encourage instead of blaming or negatively expecting. I like that we share jokes and laugh a lot. I like that we zig and zag with each other in great alignment. I like that we are aligned givers and receivers, teachers and students, and co-creators. I like that we can inspire and uplift each other.

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All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 11

~ I had a good time with my niece and she was happy at home today, full of energy and giggled a lot. That being said, I said to myself: It would be nice that my brother came to pick her at 5 pm and then we have free time to do other things. I focused upon this desire--it's an immdiate desire, and weather it manifested or not, I had nothing to lose to desire it and focus upon it. And it manifested--my brother came before 5 pm. A short while before that, my cousin called and said that he would come with some snacks. I didn't want to have interactions with him for some possible uncomfortable conversations, so I said to myself: It would be nice that we don't meet. Or only lightheartedness comes from our meeting. And again, it manifested, he didn't come to the house, but asked my mom to take the snacks at the door of the community. Good for me for now.

~ I like being a happy bargain hunter. I was inspired to click an app and found a coupon which allowed me to buy coconut latte at 0.8 yuan. Whoa! Almost like free. I clicked on my phone and my mom's phone and got two cups of iced coconut latte which tasted very well. I wanted to follow a new Wuxia drama on wetv, so I bought a week Vip card, and it turned out to be a 12-day Vip card. The shop owner just added five days for me. I enjoyed this drama as well as those lighthearted and funny bullet screen.

As for relationships, I like knowing that the key is always to focus upon the positive aspects and the Vortex version of people and relationships. Again and again. I can imagine them. I can remember them. Just be flexible. I like that my mom is a person who loves helping and supporting people when they are in hard situations and that's why till this day, her nephews and nieces treat her well and often thank her for what she had done when they were young. I am glad that both my parents have wonderful relationships with their siblings and the next generations of them. I am glad that even if I live far away from them, they can easily get needed support from the big family. They have already built stable family and friend circles in this city.

And I love seeing my parents' patient and detailed love for my nephew and nieces. I am glad that all parts benefit from the relationship. It's so obvious to me that my father likes and is good at taking care of babies. That had showned a long time ago and it became extremely clear when my nephew was born...

~ I kept on enjoying music, fan fiction, and stories. I continually do vibrational work in the form of thinking and writing. I deliberately pick and get strong resonation by listening to Abe talk about certain life subjects. My mind is clear, fresh and focused most of the time. I am healthy. My body feels comfortable from head to toe. All the elements are supporting me to easily focus and do what I like. I have abundant free time. I stay in wonderful physical environments. I am interested in a lot of things.

It's so interesting that how two actors would inspired so many wonderful artpieces like novels, paintings, dolls, etc. It's fun to think about the origin of this kind of existence and creations. Two actors and the roles they have played in different movies and dramas could be the origin of so so many wonderful stories. And this trend is all over the world and that's why ao3 existed. And it's totally about personal preferences, because this is often an area that you can't cheat yourself by picking the hottest cp to love--if you don't feel their attraction, then you just don't want to waste your time on creating because of them or reading something about them in most cases. But when you love them, you may be inspired to create a lot about them, and/or you would read and watch a lot about them. And because you are so in love and get so much joy from them, you want to spend money on them, like buying products they endorse. You would easily find groups of people of the same hobby and discover more interesting topics and conversations.

~ I feel good in deliberately listening to Abe and explore some interesting subjects every day. It's extremely beneficial for me to feel good thinking of and managing money. It would be extremely beneficial for us to feel good in receiving money, managing money, making budgets, thinking about debts and paying back debts, spending money and noticing others' abundance...

All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 12

~ In the past several days, I was interested in stories of people who had great contrast and kept moving on. I feel that this kind of stories helps me to be more unconditional on certain subjects. And I can deliberately focus upon them to enhance my vibe on these subjects. Whatever works for me IS good.

~ At every moment, I am either in step 1 or step 3. In step 3, I feel good and all is obviously well for me. While in step 1, my Vortex is expanded, new delicious elements are put in my Vortex, and I get new clarity, and therefore step1 is good too. So in essence, every step is good, beneficial and meaningful to me.

Recently, I appreciate step1s, because:
@My Vortex keeps expanding which makes sure that I will continually have a lot of new, good-feeling experiences/manifestations in future.
@I get clarity of my desires, old and new, and so I can deliberately move in the direction of them, which is the basis of living a satisfying life. Because satisfaction comes only from knowing my desires and moving in the direction of my desires.

~ Listening to Abe is a great reminder of the Universal laws for me on a daily basis. I like listening to Abe in different situations--I walk and listen, and I wash dishes and listen. Today, I was inspired to transcribe them with the help of AI and then I can explore them word by word later on. Thanks to Baidu Netdisc, I can easily transcribe the long contents of the conversations between Abe and the Hotseaters. I like the process of repeated listening and pondering. I like the resonation I feel in my being. I get to have this experience on a daily basis. I appreciate youtube and Esther who allows the contents to be in public and of course those wonderful uploaders.

Today, my listening reminds me of the following truths and beneficial ideas:

I choose to be more sensitive to my Inner Being's thought which can be shown as impulses and hunches. When I get it, I follow it immediately, not procrastinating at all. Nothing is more beneficial to me than my Inner Being's guidance. It is most beneficial and meaningful to me at every moment, already taking into consideration all related elements.

Pushing against is pushing against and it will only bring more of what I don't want to me, no matter how justified I am, now matter how right I feel I am. I like becoming more pure and efficient in focusing upon what I desire and pivoting when encoutering what I don't like. So when I read stories about rich people who got money by doing harmful things to other people. I can tell myself: I like abundance. I like financial abundance which comes from aligned ways. And it's enough; it's a awaste of my time to think how evil these people are, etc. This is pushing against; and this is not what My Inner Being thinks.

~ I like sitting comfortably in front of my computer and watching the new Wuxia drama of HD with a lot of people who are expressing lighthearted comments through screen bullet. I can shift the speed as I like and I like go back and repeat the parts I like most.

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All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 13

~ Turn on the air conditioner, put the iced coffee on the left side, and I start watching the new Wuxia drama Hot Blooded. It has so many characters with different personalities, intentions and motives. The unfolding of the story causes abundant emotions within me. As for those so-called evil characters, when I am observing what they are doing, I don't think that they are unredeemable. However, knowing what I know and hearing what Abe talk about people in those low vibes, I understand that these people are strongly called by Source and their Inner Beings to become so-called good, loving people. All things are possible. Most people would see certain people unredeemable, but our Inner Beings would never think so, our Inner Beings are still focusing upon Who They Really Are. I like opening up. I like remembeing this truth, though in reality, some people may not change until they re-emerge into Pure Positive Energy. I can feel the importance of letting go of the past and making the now fresh new as I like--and it's totally up to me.

~ I like making the best of where I am. Now is a wonderful time to pre-pave on as many life subjects as possible. And remembering what Abe say about these subjects--wether I can fully understand them or not--is very beneficial:

For some people, especially those said to have mental illness, the stages of revenge and anger are usually a very important phase for them to move into alignment. I like knowing this. At least, I wouldnot be people who would quickly ask them to not be angry or revengeful because I know the importance of these emotions and I understand that this is a beneficial cornerstone for them to move forward.

I create every bit of my life by what I think/vibe. What I think, how I feel and what manifests are always a vibrational match. When I purely feel good, then I ONLY attract good-feeling manifestations, including others' responses to me. All things are my own creation and doing. I am not a victim to anything or anyone. I am the total controller of my own life. I like knowing this. Source is in on every bit of my life, always guiding me towards the best manifestations and resulsts, wherever I am, whomever I am with, in whatever situation, and in whatever group/company/organization.

I like being extremely flexible. Nothing is more important than that I feel good. Everything that feels purely good to me IS good. I can spend a lot of money and feel good. I can be a happy bargain hunter, joyful for the the cheap bargains I just got. I can easily find positive aspects of wherever I am. I have the intention and ability to mine the treasure wherever I am.

I like knowing that there is never only one way or limited several ways to get what we want. There are ENDLESS ALIGNED WAYS for us to manifest what we desire. Because we are connected to Source that creates the whole Universe/all planets. That's THE POWER at our back, supporting and guding us every step along the way. Every time I encounter news or words that say there is only this way or that way for us to be happy, abundant and successful, I remember this truth and deliberately shore up it.

I know more and more clearly that my focus should be what I truly want, not what is true or not. No matter how something seems not true for me, for some people, they are true because they actually experience them with their senses. For example, some people would experience ghoasts that I don't--for I didn't believe this before and now I choose not to focus upon them at all. After all, all are coming from one's vibration or beliefs . These thoughts make me less and less want to argue with other people about what's true or not. In most cases, I can just assume that what they say are true to them, and then ask myself: So what's the point of my focusing upon this truth? Should I extend this topic? Is this alignment or not for me?

From now on, I like seeing people as unconditionally lighthearted, free flowing and extremely resilient. And we respect each other, have fun with each other, have wonderful conversations and interactions with each other and have great synergy. And when decide to part ways, all of us can accept that quickly and move on, while still appreciating each other, and not limiting ourselves about future possibilities. From time to time, I can use certain common sayings to remind myself to be aligned. Such as: Life is too short to waste, and so don't attach to the past, but focus upon the now and the future, enjoying them fully.

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All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 14

~ I like being step 5. I read a comment in which the writer said in a vivid way how the actor looked ugly. I liked the actor, and when I read this post, I just felt amusing--because many parts of this actor seen as ugly to him or her looked quite good to my eyes. But I totally understand that it's about personal preferences and by reading the post, I knew that it's his or her truth and I respected that, though I still held onto my thought that this actor is handsome. And I understand totally the unique personal preferences, and there are people who are seen as extremely beautiful by lots of people just don't look attractive to my eyes and I respect my personal opinions too. It's really beneficial to putting feeling good as the no.1 priority instead of feeling right. And I get to spend more time doing what truly ring my bells, what truly feel good to me, instead of justifying, explaining, rationalizing or proving. Sometimes, I can just say, "Yes, you are right. I am wrong." Then real quick, I can move onto more pleasant subjects. Meaningful and efficient.

There are all kinds of competitions and lackfulness in the world. When I read news or watch dramas, the concept of competitions, including really harsh ones, is often present. It seems that you have to compete in your life for all kinds of things, otherwise you'd fail. And lots of movies and dramas are just the opposite of the Universal laws. Not accurate at all. For me, I am glad that in alignment, there are only positive competitions like those in wonderful sport games. And Our Inner Beings are calling us mostly for the fun of the process not for the final trophy. I am glad knowing this. I like knowing that based upon the Universal laws, our happiness, health, abundance and successes are only our own doing, as the result of our alignment. It's that simple. We align, so we get, no matter what it is. And a lot of things we think we desire are atually not in our Vortices, not what we truly desire.

Everything we desire is already ours in the Reality, and we just need to line up with them. Jealousy only leads us away from what we truly desire, as well as other negative emotions/attitudes, like worry, fear, etc. Any kind of pushing against only brings us more of what we don't like. Jealousy is wonderful emotional guidance because it mostly means we want something other people already have but we now don't believe we can have it. So by analysing, we can more clearly know what we actually desire, and then we can let go of any other people, and just focus upon our desires and make us more and more believing them. And this process could be very quick, because we really don't need a lot of time to know what we desire from the emotion of jealousy, especially when we know clearly that--jealousy prevents us from realizing and manifesting what we truly desire and it's really a waste of our time to feel jealous and then try to justifiy our jealousy. Because no matter how justified we are about our negative emotions, we are not doing anything good to ourselves, we are adding negative momentum to our creation. It's just not worthwhile. The more I think like this, the quicker I can shift from emotions like jealousy.

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All things ARE always working out for me. [Move towards the belief in my invincibility.]

The more I focus upon what are working, the more things are working out for me.

Day 15

~ Mom cooked lots of yummy dishes for us this lunch. My nephew got a toy he treasured very much and when I took it and shown it to my little niece, he was worried that she would scratch it or break it. He didn't want her to play with it. And so the adults said he should be generous, sharing it with his sister. He still didn't want to, felt angry and showed unfriendly gesture toward his mom. Then a serious of education came up. In a word, almost no one was in alignment during that period of time.

I was interested in some situations about kids, and subjects like spoiled kids and bullying happen in schools. So this event made me think deeper. I was not saying to my sister-in-law that she should not blame him or whatever. For I was wondering that if a kid really showed certain behaviors on the sopt, is going away without saying anything better or blaming better or even in particular situations a beating could be a reminder. If I search, I can also find stories where someone would say some harsh words or even a beating really did teach some kids something important in their lives.

I went back to my own room and then I tried to stand in my nephew's shoes and ponder about the Vortex version and the more aligned thoughts he could have:

I respect that some people treasure something and don't want others to touch. I don't think it's wrong or something need to change. So the best situation could have been that: The toy just stays where it is, and no other person is touching it. When if a situation like the above happens, Who He Really Is would soothe him instead of pushing against what is: The toy could be the same without any scratch and later on he could fully enjoy it and expect that only he owns or enjoys it. Or even it gets scratched, no big deal, because he can easily manifest another one that fully matches his desire. Ask and it is immediately given, no matter what it is. The less he pushes against, the quicker his desires manifests, including this deisre of fully owning things he treasures without any other people touching them.

I expect my nephew to be more his Inner Being like under all kinds of conditions. So the thoughts I just have are actually beneficial to me when I think about him:

I expect that:

He is happy, healthy and abundant. He is always called to be more and more unconditionally happy. He is called to be more and more flexible, resilient and making the best of where he is. He respects his own deisres and preferences, while knowing step is meaningful and beneficial and that pushing against what-is/step1/anyone/anything only brings him more of what he doesn't want. He has been cultivating more aligned attitudes towards step1 or contrast or situations that are not to his liking at first.

Plus, one thing I am sure, when he is aligned, he likes sharing, he shares with others a lot of things, but he is also aligned purely enjoying something by himself. He is aligned to express clear thoughts like: I can't give it to you. Or I can't lend it to you.

I actually like thinking specifically like this.

Go back to the lunch scenario and the aligned version could be:

They come with a happy mood. My nephew has a toy in his hand that he treasures so much. When he eats lunch, he puts it away and no one is touching it. Or we ask weather her sister could play with it, he says no, and we respect his answer. We have a harmonious meal together. Some jokes are said and we laughed. He hums a song, no one stops him, asking him to finish the meal and then hum if he wants. He just follows what makes him happy.

An interesting version could be:

They come with a happy mood. My nephew has a toy in his hand that he treasures so much. When he eats lunch, her sister begins playing with it, and he is worried and wants to grab it. The adults insist he let his sister play. Facing this, he is actually guided to a series of soothing thoughts in his mind, and a short while later, he said yes with a lighthearted attitude and moved on to enjoy his meal, knowing that he would still have and enjoy the intact toy or have a new one.

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Easy good-feeling existing matches:

~ I have been following the new Wuxia drama and I love it. I am eager to watch it every night and I also enjoy some of the funny bullet screen. I might not be attracted by characters like Guo Jing before, but now my thoughts have shifted. I value people who are kind, honest and ready to help people in need, even when they are so-called a bit dumb, or not that smart. Yes, complicated characters can more easily attract the audience, but now some of them are just not attractive to me because there is so much misalignment in their present personality traits. While Guo Jing's thoughts, attitudes and actions are direct, simple and genuine that a lot of the old generation are moved by him. His love relationship with Huang Rong is like this too; he follows his heart, never wavering a bit. Their interactions are simple and sweet most of the time.

There are not many edits about this couple and that last night I strongly wanted to make some for them, though I never made any mvs. This desire inspired to me search for edit tools and I began to install and explore them in the evening. I may do this again in the following days.

~ In writing, specific scenes/scenarios/backgrounds play an important role in the story, and when they get together with vivid characters, the whole story would be much more interesting and charismatic. And I love exploring different environments, and get especially interested in new elements in those environments. For example, I watched a vlog about living a day in a remote village in Madagascar and I was attracted by some aspects of their daily life. I enjoyed watching their cooking utensils like that small-sized stove using charcoal to heat. I noticed that the always smiling host cooked crayfishes in such a detailed way--boiled them, got rid of their heads, and then stir-fried them. It might take more time to use this kind of stoves, the meal was finished late at about 7 pm, but all of them enjoyed it. And then at another time point, the same vlogger was walking in the open market, and women carrying basins or bundles of clothes on their head, heading elegantly in different directions. Here people sell most products in small portions and I guess it's mostly because of the economy--local people don't have a larger sum of money to buy more stuff at once...

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Things are always working out for me.
Day 16

~ My little niece's emotions are simple to feel or guess. When she cries, usually it's because of three things: she is hungry, she feels uncomfortable, or she feels bored and wants to go out. So, as she frowned and started howling, I immediately held her in my arms and walked out doors. It was raining heavily, we stood in the gallery, and she felt satisifed not going outdoors but having a better angle to observe the surroundings. Her eyes are brightened up and her head turns left and right.

~ I like feeling interested in my life. I am eager to watch the new Wuxia drama every night. I especially like the sweet interactions between ml and fl and the unique robust and noisy atmosphere when several characters get together.

~ It's summe now. I have an air conditioner and an electric fan in the bedroom, so that I can flexibly use them to have the most satisfying temperature. The drama was uploaded at 6 pm and I began to watch it at about 6:30 or 7 pm, because then there would be many funny bullet screen/flying comments for me to quickly read and smile about. I always like picking a subject and get immersed for at least 30 minutes, without any interference. I am glad to have all supportive elements for me to do so on a daily basis: I am clear-minded, I am interested in something, I have abundant free time, the sounds are pleasing to me, I stay in a bright, comfy and convenient environment, my eletronic products are working well for me, etc.

As for physical spaces, I love the nearby cafe immensely. Not just me, I discover several couples love the cafe very much. Most of them are teachers. Often they would sit together, while doing different things. From time to time, they chat. For example, the male teacher who reads books most of the time would suggest that his wife and he enjoy some kebabs and beverages from the other shop. Actually his wife doesn't like cofee in this cafe but for its other positive aspects, they still come almost every night. I understand her, because this cafe is a better place for one to use the laptops or read or write--it's bright, spacious, comfy with a lot of sockets to charge one's electronic products. At least, these are the main reasons why I visist it often.

~ I have been know the cp for about a year now. How amazing! I am glad that L becomes more active recently with a new show and a new drama to promote. Both of them are beautiful, handsome, talented, creative and poetic. Thanks to them, I get to continually read heart-warming stories with such vivid characters in them.

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