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Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2023 6:20 pm
by Tara
spiritualcookie wrote: ↑Mon Dec 04, 2023 1:30 pm
A: Well, you shouldn't need it from them before you feel it.
In other words, what we want you to understand about relationships with life - with relationships with anything - you want to be a presenter of your energy; an actor, not a reactor. And so we just don't want you to need from other people what your Inner Being is always offering you. We don't want you to replace that Source that is flowing to you all of the time with others who can't possibly flow to you all of the time, because they weren't born to be your Source or your resource or your replenishment; it's a misunderstanding of who they are. Having someone up close to you to adore and appreciate, that's the best part of a relationship. It's not about what they give you, because you don't want to be needy, it's about the opportunity to experience your loving.
It is so true. I have attracted my partner by applying unconditional love and even when I went on a first date I repeated to myself "I am LOVE looking at YOU" and I repeated that most important that I feel LOVE. And, of course, he responded to my offering with LOVE and unfolding was MAGICAL.
I guess this is SOURCE part in me.
However, there are days where I really want to feel LOVED unconditionally, to feel attractive to that person unconditionally. Some days I long that he would have been the one who focused on me specifically and not me who have applied this focus. To feel desired, to feel selected, to feel significant. And to feel that he feels about me this way not because he feels my LOVE directed at him, but because that's the way he feels about me. That Human Part in me wants to know that He loves me because he loves me and not because he feels my LOVE.
I know it is just a human part in me... still learning and evolving....
Yet, I can confirm that AH quote is very powerful if applied in practice and being in that state is wonderful...
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2023 11:29 pm
by spiritualcookie
Tara
ON CO-CREATION
While individually, each of you who are in physical form have the ability to create anything that you can imagine -
you enhance the experience of one another tremendously
as you participate in this physical life together.
As you are individually making decisions
and as you are individually creating,
you are cooperating to enhance the creations of one another.
- Abraham
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You have not chosen a life experience alone,
you have chosen a life experience where there are many.
And in such a life experience there is great opportunity for satisfaction.
- Abraham Hicks
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For the most part, those of you who are in physical form at this time upon Planet Earth
hold an intention of uplifting others,
and you receive upliftment when you are aware of the upliftment of others.
- Abraham
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Sat Dec 16, 2023 6:18 pm
by spiritualcookie
PEOPLE WE INTERACT WITH ENHANCE THE LIFE EXPERIENCE
You have chosen to share your physical life experienc with others
not becauase you need them for you to effectively create,
but because participating with others enhances your experience.
Each of you, individually, has the ability to create anything that you can imagine -
but as you are interacting, you benefit from the examples of one another.
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YOUR POINT OF ATTRACTION IS THE MAIN DETERMINANT FOR THE TYPES OF PEOPLE YOU MEET
You attract others and are attracted by others
depending upon the current intentions that you hold in any point in time.
You have, undoubtedly, come into contact with others where There was immediate at-oneness experienced by both of you,
and in such cases it is very possible that you are old friends who have participated in, perhaps, many physical life experiences, and have agreed, prior to this physical birth, to reunite to participate again.
Many of you are finding one another now.
You are coming together in this life experience because your Inner Beings have agreed that you would.
But even as you have made some decisions about others with whom you will interact in this physical lifetime,
you are attracting only those beings who enhance hat which you are currently thinking about. (...)
No matter what decisions have been made prior to this physical birth,
you are attracting the others, with whom you are interacting, through your physical conscious thoughts.
- Abraham
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Sat Dec 16, 2023 6:39 pm
by spiritualcookie
ALL BEINGS HAVE A UNIQUE PERSPECTIVE, AND RELATIONSHIPS HELP BROADEN EACH OTHERS PERSPECTIVES
There are not two beings, physical or not physical, who have precisely teh same perspective.
Those of you who are currently in physical form share many different perspectives,
and those of us who are in Non-physical form share many different perspectives as well. (...)
You participate in your physical world with many others,
for you are wanting to exercise your power of influence.
Indeed, you are wanting to help others to broaden their perspective.
While your words and actions do influence to a certain degree,
your greatest power of influence comes forth as you are a blended being
[ie in touch with your Inner Being as well as with your physical being]
who speaks from the knowing that comes from within.
- Abraham 1988
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Sat Dec 16, 2023 7:17 pm
by spiritualcookie
HOW TO STOP ARGUMENTS BEFORE THEY GET GOING?
[When relationships go wrong] your attention is focused upon the few areas that are NOT in harmony
rather than upon the many areas that ARE in harmony. (...)
As we observe your interaction, we see that, for the most part, you do not do a good job of
communicating what it is that you are wanting.
You seem to assume that others know or understand or want what you want,
but without your effective and continuing communication with one another as you are making your new decisions from your ever changing vantage points, there is little possibility of continuing harmony. (...)
Utilize your [Emotional Guidance] system for recognizing disharmony.
In the moment that you are aware that your warning bell is ringing, ask yourself,
"What thought, word or action has caused my warning bell to ring?"
And then state clearly to yourself what it is that you want regarding the subect.
And then most importantly, discuss it with one another.
More often than not, because you do not understand that the negative emotion is a warning bell,
you focus upon th negative emotion itself, thus creating more of it,
and so the anger grows, the tension grows, and the Law of Attraction assists by bringing ofrth more like thought, until very quickly you have a very large and uncomfortable argument or disagreement.
If you will recognize at the subtle stages that there is discomfort,
and then communicate one with another -
each specifying what is wanted -
in the majority of cases, the negative emotion will not grow.
It will dissipate and in its place will be harmony and satisfaction.
- Abraham
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2023 11:46 am
by spiritualcookie
simon wrote: ↑Wed Dec 14, 2022 2:50 pm
“Stop asking others to be the change that you need in order to feel better.
That is the freedom that you are looking for.”
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If you knew your potential to feel good,
you would ask no one to be different so that you can feel good.
You would free yourself of all of that cumbersome impossibility of needing to control the world, or control your mate, or control your child.
You are the only one who creates your reality.
For no one else can think for you, no one else can do it.
It is only you, every bit of it you.
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“The greatest gift you can ever give another person is your own happiness.”
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“The greatest thing you can give yourself is freedom from what others think.”
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“People will love you.
People will hate you.
And none of it will have anything to do with you.”
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2023 1:39 pm
by spiritualcookie
Blue__Butterflies wrote: ↑Tue Apr 18, 2023 5:58 pmWhen your grandmother loves you, the reason it feels so good is because
as she holds you as her object of attention in appreciation, she’s connected to Source and flooding it all over you.
And then you say “Oh, that feels good. I think I will demand that from everyone.”
But the problem is everyone’s not tuned in with Source.
So then, when you get the idea that the way people look at you is the feedback about how you’re doing, and then there are plenty of people looking at you that aren’t tuned in with Source when they’re looking at you,
then you begin to get a different impression of who you are.
Where, if you’re only looking for the opinion of Source about you,
you will always come out of that sort of a conversation feeling very satisfied with who you are.
Source sees you right where you intended to be:
A Pure Positive Energy, Leading Edge creator in an environment of contrast
giving birth to all kinds of new rockets of desires
making the world a better place just by your asking for it to be better for you.
And then, when you take the time to come into alignment with that, so that you actually allow yourself the benefit right here, right now, of that alignment and of that manifestation, it just does not get any better than that.
~ Abraham-Hicks, Sacramento, CA 2/17/2007
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2023 3:10 pm
by spiritualcookie
Blue__Butterflies wrote: ↑Tue Apr 18, 2023 5:59 pm
Do you realize that your disapproval of what they’re doing just messes up your Energy?
And then you blame your messed up Energy on them doing something different,
when your messed up Energy doesn’t have anything to do with them.
You’re just using them as your excuse for your messed up Energy.
~ Abraham-Hicks, Boca Raton, FL 11/5/2005
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2023 12:43 pm
by spiritualcookie
Every interaction with other people depends on your point of attraction
Blue__Butterflies wrote: ↑Tue Apr 18, 2023 6:12 pm
Esther began making a statement, “I’m becoming a vibrational snob.”
And what she meant by that was,
“I really like clarity more than confusion,
so I’m sort of limiting the people I hang out with
because they almost always bring confusion.”
But she was giving the power to them rather than to her tuning.
So once she realized that nobody just shows up without an ‘engraved invitation’
she’s no longer saying, “I’m a vibrational snob,”
and what she’s saying now is,
“I want to be in the Receptive Mode.
I’m tending to my vibration and I want to be aware.”
And then it’s really fun to watch how clever the Universe is
in just dropping people into her life to give her a little piece of something that they have no clue why they’re even giving that to her.
They don’t know that they’re just a messenger that has come to deliver a piece of something that’s meaningful to her,
And she just laughs about how pervasive it is,
how steady it is,
how perfect it is,
how free it is,
how satisfying it is,
how worthy she feels,
how tended to she feels,
how perfect it is.
You all will get along with each other so much better when you stop holding each other accountable for how you feel.
~ Abraham-Hicks
Atlanta 4/4/2015
Re: Quotes on Relationships
Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2023 1:02 pm
by spiritualcookie
Blue__Butterflies wrote: ↑Tue Apr 18, 2023 6:16 pmYes, the vibration of love exists,
the vibration of knowing who you are exists,
but you’ve got to find the frequency of it and translate it so that you can feel it.
You can’t assert enough love for someone to get it,
they have to be in the vicinity.
~ Abraham-Hicks
2015 Caribbean Cruise
Tara