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Prosperity is like Love.
It has no resistance in it.

Abraham Hicks

How Self-Love works

Be nice to yourself!
Rest well.
Eat well.
Get out where beautiful things are!
Play with people who are fun.
Think thoughts that feel good.
Quiet your mind, every now and again.
Think nice things about yourself.
Think nice things about others.

Abraham Hicks

THE REASON WE'RE DIS-APPOINTED instead of "Living real time"...
(The difference between real physical life on the leading edge vs the perfection of "mere vibration" in the Vortex)

The reason why "falling in love" seems to be better than "living love"



So, we want to talk about every relationship you have.

And we want to say to you, that every relationship that you're currently living falls far, far, far, far short of the one that you've got in your Vortex, every single time!

Every relationship that you're living cannot even come close to measuring up to the one you've got into your Vortex. Stop asking it to, stop needing those relationships to be different than they are- so that you can feel better!

That's not the way this universe is established!
That was the bouncing off place for this.
This is where you want to put your attention, you see!

What we're getting at... so, it's really interesting. You have this dream of a perfect relationship, or a perfect breakfast or a perfect hotel or a perfect drive, or (...) you have this dream. You have this anticipation, tha,t from a distance, felt good to dream it. But now you're living the reality of it. And it's not living up! So, you feel deprived. You feel almost offended. You feel almost assaulted: You say to each other, "you don't bring me flowers anymore!" You say, "you promised to obey me!", or "you promised to hold me dear!" -and we say to you, we really... if you can just hear this!! -If you can just hear that:

NO relationship that is ever manifested, will ever measure up to the one you've got in your Vortex.
And if you will let them off the hook, and focus on your Vortex, you'll keep yourself joyful. And the relationships will improve, too.

But we are not giving you this information, so that the relationships can catch up and start pleasing you- so that you can then start turning around, and observing the relationships that are pleasing you! We SO want you to get it, that that you've always been reaching into who you are. And anything less than that will never feel as good!

Now let's talk about this, in really vivid terms.
So, those of you who have been in love, who now have relationships- you want to say: you're in love. But maybe you don't really feel it so much...? It's been a long time since you felt that "in love" feeling. Here's why:
In the beginning, that relationship was more of a dream than it was a reality.

You were building that relationship long before you ever hooked up with this particular person! It became who-you-really-are. You and that person became this wonderful wonderful wonderful relationship, and it's vivid and real, and it holds all that you are. You're kind to one another! You believe in one another. You're respectful of one another. You're looking for the best in each other. You're evoking more and more, you are the catalyst that keeps pulling more good stuff through each other.

You are humorous together! You're tuned in, tapped in, turned on. You move well together: You move through life well together. In other words, in the vortex... what a magnificent relationship that you've built! Because every awkward moment improved it. Everything that went wrong, made it right. Everything that was off made it on! In other words, are you getting the sense of this? YOU created this "now"!

Some of you want to call this an illusion. We want to call it the vibrational reality.

We want to call it the relationship that you have created!
We want to call it the the the world that you created from your non-physical and physical vantage point.

It is a reality, that is real- that you've got to be a vibrational match to or you won't feel good.

So, then- when you look at reality as it is- you can't help but compare.
...You're not as nice as you're supposed to be.
..."You're not as attended to me, as you're supposed to be."
..."Chivalry is dead over there."
...You're still alive over here!

In other words... and so... then you're hard on each other. Because then you want, that... you want them to perform in a way that matches up to this! And we're wanting you to understand: you're you're looking for love in all the wrong places!

It's in your Vortex! And it's not their responsibility.

Are you following this? So, when you get there, when you get there... then what happens is: You begin enjoying the alignment of your vision. Which fills you with the feeling of LIFE. Don't you know from your own experience, that when you're on your way to the relationship, you felt so much better, than when you actually got there? And it's because, when you got there, you started looking at it as it is.

And what it is, in terms of manifestation, is never up to speed with what it has become (in the Vortex)!

-It's already past tense. ...Well, you took that pretty well!
That's hard. It's a hard thing to hear. It's... what we're saying to you is, in terms of physics- it would be like saying to you "as you're driving down the road, you want to look where you're going. Not where you are! And and not where you've been!"

You want to look where you're going.
And while that's simplistic, and really almost silly- it's the same idea. We want you to look toward what will manifest, but we want you to look toward what is! We want you to feel the realness of who you are. So, now speculate just for a little bit... think about, how have you ever... let's find some some simple ideas. Have you ever got an idea, that you'd like to refurbish your house. Or buy new furniture. And, do you remember that, how good it felt? Did you ever look through catalogues, and kind of start forming an image of how you'd like it to look?

And didn't it feel better- than when you got into the throws of trying to gather it all up or pay for it, or find someone who could coordinate it?
In other words, isn't it easier- isn't it easier to feel good in the envisioning-stage? And what we want you to come along... and we can feel you starting to move with us, what we want you... if we could convince you,

that your life is about the way you feel!!

Then it wouldn't matter to you if you're dreaming the new furniture, or if you're placing it.
If we've really convinced you, that how you feel is where it's at!

So, movie-makers, just keep dreaming new movies!
Authors, just keep dreaming new books!
Songwriters, just keep writing new songs!
The creative people never rest on their laurels. They... the happy creative people only stay happy and creative, because they keep writing the next song, you see! What we're getting at... they keep painting the next painting. Do you really think the world needs another painting?? NO!! But painters want to paint! Sculptors want to sculpt. Songwriters want to write songs. Musicians want to make music! In other words... you're getting the hang of it, aren't you? In other words,

you want to flow the energy!
That's how you mold the clay. You want to flow the energy, you want to think the good feeling thoughts! You want to sing the good feeling songs. You want to think the good feeling thoughts!

You want to think the good feeling thoughts. You want to think the good feeling thoughts!!
You don't want to think bad feeling thoughts!
You want to think the good feeling thoughts.

Now, think about it, as we watch people building empires, as we watch relationships coming together, as we watch movements coming into being- do you know that far and away the majority of the movement happens before there is any physical stuff, that even comes into being? In other words, as as you dream your empire, as you dream your dream employees, as you dream your dream product, as you dream the world's response to it, as you dream that it's all pure... because there's no reality that's clashing with it, you got to dream it as you wanted to dream.

But when you start facing reality, and reality clashes with the dream- that's when you lose your connection.

And that's when your dream slows down.
Well you're almost there! You're closer than any audience has been, we'll tell you that you're closer than any audience has been, to us having convinced you of the reality of this Vortex.

And the benefit to you, to reach toward it- because, have you ever been on vacation, and you've been out on the road, and you've been sort of free, and in an attitude of discovery with no time commitments... just sort of free flowing, and you know that fresh feeling of the Universe just yielding to you fun stuff to see, and fun things to feel... it's that fresh feeling that you can have all day every day, once you start living this real time that we're talking about.

So, someone says: "Did you get your new car?" -you could say and mean, and smile and feel good as you say:
-"no I'm still dreaming about it."
And then they'll go (disappointed) "ohh! ohhh." But you don't mean Oh. ...you mean: I'm still dreaming about it!

-"Did you meet that perfect... did you find your lover yet?" -"No. I'm still dreaming about him!" -"Oh! " -"No, you don't understand! He doesn't have to be here this red hot minute! The idea of him has breathed life into me, the likes of which I cannot even begin to explain."

-"Did you write your best-selling novel yet?" -"No. I'm just dreaming about it." -"Oh. haven't really gotten around to yet? Oh. " -"No no! The life is just showing me bits and pieces of it. I'm gathering it up, I can feel it formulating. I can feel the inspiration that's flowing through me! I've never felt so vivid or so alive!"

-"You moved into your new house yet?" -"No. I'm just still dreaming about it!" -"Oh! " -"No, no! That dreaming about it is good. I'm in the vortex! I'm tuned in with the vibrational reality of it! It's breathing life into me. Oh sure, it will manifest. But I found you can say to your friends, that the more that manifests, the more I have to insure it, the more I have to move it from place to place, the more I have to clean it!"

In other words, you watch people! The more they gather, the less good they feel. The less they've got- the better they feel. We're not trying to talk you out of manifestations, friends! We're not. Manifestations are so wonderful!

And there is nothing more spiritual than the manifestation of this spirit, that you are.
Nothing is more delicious than manifestation!

But manifestation that comes from alignment, is delicious.
Manifestation that is dragging you around by the hair is not!

And we think that, in general, our human friends are hung up on the what-isness of manifestations, and depriving themselves of the freedom, of the natural joy that comes from roving with the energy that is truly you. Now that's easy for us to explain to you, because we don't have a physical body that we're dragging around. We don't have to bathe it or clothe it or feed it. We don't live in a house that we have to pay rent on, or own or ensure. In other words, we live in a state of beingness. But here's the big picture for you!

So, does the larger part of you... you are Spirit!
You are not a thing. You are a being, not a doing. You are a being, not a having. You are a physical being, who has the potential of aligning with the clarity and the adventure and the love and the sureness and and the worthiness that is really you! And you can tell moment by moment, whether you've caught caught a glimpse of it. And when you do milk it milk it milk it milk it milk it milk it milk it until you say incessantly to those around you, who say "well, what do you need?" -you say:

"I really don't need anything! There's nothing that I need. But I'm always on the Quest for alignment!" -"What does that mean?" -"Well it's sort of a long story, but what it basically means is: I'm more than I see. Or that you see here, in this physical body! And I can feel the wholeness of who I am, through my emotions. And I'm always on the trail of that."

Now, most people won't get it. But you do! You get it.
And, in fact, you've gotten it so good, that you can't go back from it. We should have explained that at the beginning, that you now know too much. You now know too much- you can't go back. You know too much, you can't go back! You are Source energy, and physical bodies, and the way you feel is everything.

A woman said, "My lover left, and now I'm sad." And said, no you're not! -She said: "Abraham. My lover left, and now I'm sad!" We said, no you're not. She said: "Abraham!!" -she thought things she didn't say. Something about a ridiculous ghost... "Abraham, you ridiculous ghost! My lover left, and now I am sad!" and we said: No, you're not! She said, "Let me be very clear with you. I wasn't sad, and then my lover left, and now I'm sad. I'm sad because my lover left!" -and we said:

While you were interacting with that lover, you created a lover in your Vortex, that that lover was not a match to.
And when that lover left, you're using that as an excuse not to match up with the one that's in your Vortex. You're not sad because that lover left! You're sad because, right now in this red hot minute, you are not a vibrational match to the lover you have created. THAT'S why you're sad.

You're sad because you are not up to speed with who you are!
That's the only reason that you're ever sad.
It's the only reason that you're ever sick.
It's the only reason that you ever feel negative emotion:
You're not up to speed you're not up to speed you're not up to speed you're not up to speed.

Well, how do you get up to speed?
You care about how you feel and you practice reaching for the thoughts that feel better and until you find yourself in the vortex.

And then you practice being in the vortex, until you're chronically in the vortex. And then you're living real time! Then your Source energy is flowing through you. Now, as you're interacting with others, all of you is in that moment. Now you're offering one signal, not split energy!

Now you are living life as you've intended. That's what you came for.

from the youtube-clip "Once You KNOW How To Think In 4 Dimensions, You Can SEE The INVISIBLE ~ Abraham Hicks "

Make peace with the Contrast!
Push against nothing.
Be the Lover you were born to be!

Abraham Hicks

We all want to be in love with everyone.
And there is something in everyone to be in love with, you see!

Abraham Hicks

In Unconditional Love lays your Power and your Freedom
(and how to not let your bad relationship with your mother pinch you off from it)

Now, here's the piece that we really want you to understand about this this is the subject of unconditional love:
Do you accept, that there is an inner part of you, that is offering a vibration that is calling you?
-That soul, that source, that inner vibration: you got to know it. Because it is the basis of your guidance. And so, if you don't know that, you want to get to know that, want to feel the familiarity of that! Begin to notice when you feel vital, and why. And when you feel depleted and why!

Begin to notice that your guidance has been giving you good information. So, if you accept that, that inner being part of you exists and that that inner being part of you is calling you, then this is what we want you to understand: This subject is how you create your own reality. It's how you turn thoughts if you will, to things. It's how you turn a vibration into a see-it-hear-it-smell-it-taste-it-touch-it experience!

So, here's a vibration. It's where everything starts, and maybe this vibration that we are demonstrating here, is not perceivable to you because maybe you're on a different wavelength. Maybe it's the vibration of your inner being who knows your value, who knows your worthiness, who is liquid love. Maybe that's what's going on, and maybe you have just come away from your mother and you're in a whole different vibrational state. So you can't even perceive this vibration!

But then let's say, for whatever reason, you're not in that state... maybe you meditated, maybe you've had your feet in the water, maybe you've been in the surf today, maybe you've (...) but you ARE not resistant to who you really are! And so, this vibration that before was not perceivable, now is being received by you in the form of the first manifestational phase: You have thoughts that are occurring to you. And you're having an emotional response to those thoughts!

So, vibration and mood, that's the thing that we want you to focus on here. Vibration and mood. So, right now your mood- hear this, is unconditional.
This mood, this vibration of love- it's a vibration of love, because that's who you are! Because it's natural to you!

You didn't say "If you'll do this, then I'll feel good. And if you'll do this, then I'll feel good." You are unconditional in this love, can you feel what we're talking about here? Now, you can get to any feeling of alignment with who-you-are in an unconditional way. But in the moment you say "my mother is in a bad mood", or "my mother is negative"- now you've made HER the condition that prevents you from this mood! That's not unconditional love! That's conditional love!

Now you need to control your mother.
Now you need to have better timing.
Now you need to teach her what you know! It's too long, you don't have enough years and neither does she! (laughter) In other words, you can't depend on somebody else to get it. You've got to be unconditional in your love, and before you are going to be able to be unconditional in your love, you got to understand what it is:
It's alignment with who I really am, and all that I've become. And it is an emotional journey that I can take, because I don't need the condition to support it!

Conditional love says:
Give me more money and I'll feel better.
Unconditional love says:
Apart from the money, if I can stay off that subject for a while, if I can give myself permission to feel good even before the money comes, and I can practice the unconditional vibration of prosperity without needing the condition of money to support it- or to substantiate it or to justify it or to validate it- if you can be unconditional in your vibration -and you can!!...

You were born unconditional in your vibration, you see!

But you co-dependently trained each other away from it!
You've lost track of this relationship with your Inner Being, because there are some rewards that others will give you: They will validate you. They will give you their attention. It's just that you're looking for love in all the wrong places! And it isn't consistent, and you're right: There's no one on this planet who wants to love you more than your mother does. But if she is not in sync with who she is, she has no love to give! What she has, is where she is!

And you've got to give yourself permission to hold yourself in a place, where you can consistently, unconditionally, line up with love. And then you can shine your never-ending attention upon your mother: Unattached!

Unattached from her behavior-
because you went to the source of the well.
-You went to the source of love!
-You found it, you did it often, you stabilized there,
-you cared about it.

Things happen occasionally- you get your back window blown out, it helps you to know what you're doing! You just keep regrouping and trying again, and finding alignment and finding alignment, until -before you know it- you're so stable and you're so sure, that no matter what happens, you don't get off your game!

You understand that you'r Source energy in a physical body, and that you're supposed to have a good time. And then you say those things that you said to us, and you're really really there! You say: "I love my mother. My mother is the Avenue through which I came into this physical life experience, and my mom's doing the best that she knows how to do. She's on her path of least resistance, and sometimes she takes a lot harder path than I want her to take. But, that isn't any of my business! I don't have any control over the path that she takes.

I only have control over the path that I take!

And right now I'm bordering on stumbling off my path, by turning my attention to something that is none of my business, and that I can't control, I think I'm going to be non-conditional unconditionalness and I think I'm going to return to my vibrational frequency that is really meant as:
You do that again and again and again, on subject after subject- because there are so many people willing to play with you! And help you get onto your path!

Get onto your path. Get onto your path! And before you know it, you'll be so steadily there, and people will look at you and they'll say: "What's with you? Why are you so stable all the time? How did you get so stable?" and you say: "I went directly to the source of stability." -long pause, audience begins to laugh... "What? What??" -"Well, let me make it easier. If I went directly to the source of happiness!" -"What??" (Laughter, Abe sigh in playing the HS who explains what he was doing...).

"Okay, man. I'll just tell you how it is: I became selfish. I gave myself permission not to play with those who aren't fun to play with, until I found the vibration of alignment of who I really am. And now everybody I play with, is fun, right?" -"Oh, did they all change?" -"No, they didn't change. I did!
I'm no longer looking to them for the resource. I got my resource! They can do whatever they want, and frankly they are amusing."

-They're amusing! They're amusing. You got that, didn't you?

from the youtube clip: "Unconditional Love: The Source of Happiness - Abraham Hicks"

If he's a good soulmate- he WILL give you grief!

Abe