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Know what I don't want and so know more clearly what I do want.
I like being more and more good at step 5.

I went into a hotpot restaurant and stayed a bit there. As I walked out, I reminded myself that it's good to know that it's a place that I would not visit again because the dipping sauce and the foods were not to my liking, no matter how many positive responses they got from other eaters. For lots of things, I would not know clearly whether it's a match or not if I don't actually experience it, like foods and beverages.

As I explored different dishes in the nearby diner, I now know I can enjoy its rattan pepper soup dumplings, vegetable buns, and small wontons, but not big wontons and golden beef soup--I don't like its sourness though the beef rolls are alright.

At first, I would feel a bit unhappy because this kind of experiences wasted my time and money. However, considering that it must continually exist in my life, I would like to make the best of them and get better and better at step 5. I can just tell myself: Wonderful! I now know more about my preferences. I now let go of certain things that are not a match to me, not needing to think about them anymore. Good to me. And also, it's a wonderful opportunity to practice my abundance--abundance in desired time, money, etc.

Now just pivot: It would be nice that I can easily find or be inspired to what I truly like, be it delicoius foods, or wonderfully functioning electronic products...

Morning Appreciation

9, October

It's so lovely: My niece sits stably on the bed while I lie by her side. She is playing a toy, really focused, and then she turns her head around to look at me, and every time she does so, she would immediately put on a big smile, revealing her little cute teeth. And she keeps doing so and every time I smile back. Her life is simple and happy. She just needs to follow her intuition and when she does so, she is happy, giggling, excited and bringing smiles to people around her. Her body is guided by Source and naturally grows and expands.

I was walking back home with the company of music. Recently, I always let the music be the BGM. But last night, I decided to pull back my attention to purely on music. I sorta became the singer and felt every element of the singing. And I also focus around to clarify every instrument that was playing-- is this pipa or guzheng? This is a wonderful, satisying way of focusing. And I am focusing upon beauty of a unique kind.

I so appreciate Esther, Abraham and Jerry. In the past few weeks, I have been listening to Abe talk about abundance and finances. And the teachings almost cover every aspect of finances, about money receiving, money management, budgets, how to treat debts and loans, lottery, jackpot, etc. From time to time, I like listing abundance I receive whether it comes as the form of money or free gifts or... I remember that I got a free coffee from a bank app. I got abundant skin products and hair products from my sister at perfect timings. I get satisfying money by offering quick and satisfying favors to people. I like making budgets based upon my priorities. I would save money beforehand for things I need or want on a frequent basis, such as on a daily basis. So I would buy yearly or seasonly or monthly vips for certain apps because I wanna use them every day. I've already got abundant electronic products including a lot of earphones because I must use them every day. And I now want to update them. I want an extremely efficient laptop of UHD with long battery life...

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I met my cousin at the bakery. She was going to the school to pick up her son. When I wandered at the bakery, she came in again and insisted on giving me a card of this bakery. I took the card and said thank you. After a short while, I realized that it's a wonderful opportunity to remember what I decided: There are times people just want to share with others abundance, like money, gifts, snacks, etc. And if this kind of receiving feels good, is aligned, then I would happily accept them. And this fit the category. I would like to feel more natural about both receiving and giving in alignment. I can feel really good in both receiving and giving. This kind of receiving and giving is beneficial to all parts involved. I bought tiramisu and pudding with the card.

I planned to buy a pair of glasses some time later. However yesterday afternoon, I had a very strong impulse to get up and go to the glass shop. So I acted upon it and got myself new glasses. When I remembered it, it's very interesting. This impulse was definitely not from misalignment, because it's not something urgent at all. But really why wait? Why not just go and get the glasses to improve the clarity earlier than later? These thoughts seem to be the reason why my Inner Being urged me to act. I like hearing the nudges from my Inner Being like this too.

I like remembering the importance of the present states of being and the now inspirations/impulses, etc. No matter how wonderful the basketball player performed before, if he was not in a good mood now, he just couldn't play that well now. In dynamic areas like this, old data was OLD, it couldn't decide the result of the now game or activity. In order to get the best performance, one should get into the alignment and follow the inspiration/impulse from alignment NOW.

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I was watching a video talking about Michelin-starred restaurants and whether they earn money or not. The uploader showed a graph to tell the audience that their profit margin actually is lower than other restaurants to prove her thought that these restaurants don't earn much. As I scrolled down the comment sector and found a very resonating comment and I favorited it. It directly reminded me of Abe's words about 10 ex-wives. The uploader missed the most important point--the net earnings. The Michelin-starrted restaurants could have much more revenue than the other restaurants and after considering the profit margin, they could still have much much more net earnings. They could earn quite well. So the difference between their profit margins doesn't count much.

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Just explore...

I felt uncomfortableness on my body, felt a bit worried(subtle), wanted to check it in the mirror, but stopped. I pondered, "What actually is happening in my Vortex? What's the vibrational process anyway?"

On the way to the fulfillment of my desires, my Inner Being is strongly calling me through my PoLR--mentally, wordly, naturally happenings, and action wise. And telling what-is as it is is not one of them. Worrying or fearing no matter how logical it seems to be is not one of them. Check to see more clearly what-is is definitely not one of them no matter how its pull is. Finding ways to feel better about the situation could be one of them, but usually it's hard to do when the negative specific thought/focus/attention is active now. The better way would be to focus upon other better-feeling subjects to get in the Vortex. And when I am sure I am aligned, I can really carefully approach the subject--if it is still there, to see whether it's the time to move it in the desired direction.

So last night, I did so. I shifted my focus. I filled my attention with other better feeling things. This morning, at a moment, I noticed something and I told myself, "Hey! Look, there is not any uncomfortableness about it; it works extremely well for me now." And then I stopped there, because I didn't feel I could go further. So I divert my focus onto other subjects again.

That thought seemed usual, now that I have known LoA and Abe teachings for many years. But last night, it made me really interested, it felt new. I made the best of it. I remembered how I made my improvements on different subjects carefully and persistently. And it's lovely memory. I remembered how I got breakthrough on the subject of money. One thing I remembered and followed was: A belief is a thought I keep thinking. So during those days, every day, I would repeat new, non-resistant thoughts about money I deliberately found until they became familiar and fully natural to me. Those thoughts including thoughts I heard from Abe and thoughts I had found based upon my reality. And it worked really well for me. Actually I started with genuinely appreciating the abundance of my family members--because it felt good for me to know that they had wonderful abundance. And I knew appreciating others' abundance benefited me too and could enhance my abundance.

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A belief is a thought I keep thinking:

On subjects important to me, I choose to purely focus upon the positive aspects and my Vortex version of them. This way, either more and more evidence would come up to please me, or I would be naturally guided to let go of them if they are just not a match--and the process would be smooth and comfortable, and when that happens, the timing would be amazing that I don't feel bad, while if I force it now, I must feel bad.

When I mainly focus upon even just one good-feeling subject and feel good, all other subjects in my life would start getting well.

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Last night, the moon was round and bright sometimes, and vague with grey stripes other times because it was gently moving behind clouds. The air was fresh and lovely with the scent of blooming osmanthus fragrans. I like walking outdoors with nature, coloring street views, music and thoughts on my mind. The night here is beautiful and robust. On my way home, I bought tiramisu and pudding. I would enjoy coffee and them when I got home. And recently, I often reminded me before I eat and/or drink something: Every time I eat and drink, my body works extremely diligently to keep my body both healthy and fit/slender.

I was searching interesting stories on Wetv, and I noticed a drama with two veteran actors and so I decided to watch it. I didn't know it would be a funny show at all, because the setting the story happened often led to sadness. It was not famous at all. I never heard it. However, it was one of the most hilarious TV series I've ever watched. Wonderful manifestation!

Obviously my little niece brings great happiness to people around her. She is so cute, happy, and funny. She likes exploring outdoors. She is good at greeting people with her very limited words. And she has great fun playing with these words again and again. She is guided to enjoy the process of learning to getting up and walking. When she smiles, she frowns her little nose and reveals her cute teeth. She is loved by us. And she easily brings love and joy to this physical world.

Yesterday afternoon, I wrote a new chapter of the novel and I wrote quite fast. I was greatly refreshed and energized. I like writing. I like exploring stories. I enjoy the smooth process of writing. I like knowing that I can reap the benefits--such as pleasure, joy, excitement, self-love, replenishment, etc.--by writing on and on, for the rest of my life.

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I hear better and more clearly.

I re-listened to Abe talk about physical wellness and youthfulness, and this time I heard better. Interesting. When I listened to it before, when Abe talked about trees and how they change as the season changes. I thought Abe were suggesting we just accept the change, including the withering and falling of the leaves. Partly right, but would be wrong without the next part. Abe asked us to make peace with what-is--if the physical decline already happened in the form of wrinkles, grey hair, etc. But, remember after the yellow leaves fall, in spring, fresh green leaves show again. And every cell/every part of our bodies is like these leaves, could shift to the fresh green one/desired one again. And then, in our alignment, we could keep it the way we want it to be, such as keep our bodies youthful eternally...

As for long life span and death, it's important to know that if we want to live happily long, we must continually explore, adventure, explore and experience new, otherwise, the energy flow would be very weak and under this condition, we actually would not want to live long. It would be weak and boring and lethargic. While, when one's desire is very very strong, but the resistance is very strong too, then one may very well die a quick death that other people would call as tragic.

I like that Abe guided the HS to feel better almost wholly about a specific experience in which the HS lost a contract and felt betrayed by the previous business partner. Not only did Abe guide him to focus upon the Vortex version of the future contracts which would be much more satisfying, Abe also guided him to let go of the anger toward that business partner--because that was quite active within him and might very well linger if not dealt with. It's so interesting to see the great shift happened within the HS in a short while, because at the end, he began to talk with a happy tone about another wonderful experience in which he was not very interested at first but after he got aligned, it became more and more interesting. His vibe definitely got to a new place; he was totally in the Vortex as he took the initiative to talk about this positive story. And the whole conversation was less than 10 minutes. (Look at the transcription of page21, titled ABRAHAM HICKS MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH - MAKE A LOT OF MONEY FAST (ANIMATED STORIES))

Writing is always a smooth process that refreshes my mind and energizes my body. After I wrote a new chapter of the novel in KFC, I went out and got myself a cup of coffee in Cotti. There, the girl asked me to get a card to see whether I could have a free gift--a coffee or an animal toy. I had done this several days ago and got nothing. But now, I got a free coffee. Haha! Because I felt purely good after the writing.

Months ago, I decided to treat my scalp and hair tenderly and lovingly. Every time I wash my hair, I would massage my scalp with fingertips and I would dry my hair softly with my hands and the towel. Every six days, I began to use the exfoliator to my scalp. I choose to see this a long game and so I would not take score too soon. And I am glad that now my scalp becomes healthier and whiter. My hair has increased. And most importantly, I rarely feel worry about my hair now. And I enjoy the softeness and love I shower towards my scalp and hair every time I wash my hair.

I have been deliberately exploring new restaurants, diners and gourmet foods and beverages. I fully use my sense perceptions to feel the space, the foods and the beverages. I can easily remember what the restaurant looks and feels and whether the dishes impress me in positive ways or not. Yesterday afternoon, I explored a light-colored, fresh feeling, wonderfully spacious cafe. And the thing I like it most is that the breeze would freely flow around because it is located in a wonderful place and the front door and the back door are both open.

I deliberately played with my niece and I teased her into smiles and giggles. I intuitively know how to do this. And just with some simple hand moves or "silly" games, she could shift her mood to happiness. And I really enjoyed her happiness, cute grin, and lovely speaking.

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Just explore...

It doesn't matter how many subjects I am focused upon on a frequent basis, what matters is whether I am aligned or not when I am focused upon the subject now.

Body: My scalp and hair get better, more healthy and the way I want them to be. My ability to process information continually increases and I can do it faster and faster now, while of course I can deliberately slow down for specific reasons. I was interested in a bodily function and wanted to improve it, so I began training my body. And it led to interesting discoveries. I actually was quite healthy and "normal" on that, it's just some habit made me apply my body differently. As soon as I decided to improve it, I quickly realized the limitations of some thoughts and habits and shifted them on the spot. As I keep on training my body, my co-operative and supportive body would behave more and more to my liking. I like knowing this.

Stories: Recently I am focused upon a specific drama. It shows me otherworldly beauty. And the ml and the fl have great chemisty and there are a lot of romantic and lovley interactions between them. They don't show their love directly. They imply with words. They show with their subtle facial expressions and behaviors and actions. I love them. I keep on writing stories; it is always a refreshing and energizing process.

Music: I can easily find beautiful and loopable songs to enjoy. I enjoy music every day. I like walking outdoors in beautiful spaces accompanied by music and it is like I am moving in a poetic MV.

Relationships: I like knowing that Our Inner Beings don't worry, don't warn. They call, guide and inspire. They are lighthearted. When teenagers go out for fun, their attitude would be: Have Fun. Their Inner Beings would accompany them all long and say: Where are you going? I'm along. Let's have some fun!

People respect and appreciate each other. People have good time together. People speak nicely to each other. People are aligned, understanding, allowing and uplifting. People are kindhearted. People are humorous. People share jokes happily. People share their wisdom. People happily answer questions and offer suggestion when others truly ask. People have conversations full of truths and inspirations. People are loving and caring. People are passionate about what they do. People are lighthearted. People are good at telling stories. People are genuine. People are good at soothing and healing. People hold onto the Vortex version of people and things. People are independent. People are happy, healthy and abundant. People are beautiful. People are cute, like my niece. People are funny, like my niece. People are focused and artistic. People are generous and happy in the sharing, like my mom, like those novelists writing and sharing out of love. People are amazing, willing caretakers, never impatient, always soft and gentle. People are examples of true wisdom, like Abe...

Security and Safety：I am always safe. I am always loved, supported, guided and helded by Source that creates the whole Universe. Source is in on everything of my life. Source is in on the safety of everything meaningful to me. All things I care about are safe. I am safe wherever I am, whomever I am with, whatever place or organization I am in.

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