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On Rascals Who Misunderstand you, Don't Understand You, or "get you"



The best thing that you could ever do for anybody is let them misunderstand you, and let it go.

They're never really going to "get you"
and your need for them to "get you" is exhausting.

Let go of caring about how you are perceived by others.

They completely misunderstand me and I don't care!
Why?
Because I care about my alignment and I can't have both.

- AH


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Do Demons, Devils and Fallen Angels exist?
"Rivers of fearful thoughts", that are attractive to those of a fearful point of attraction


HS:
I decided to review my own life. What I was taught at various stages, and first of all, I was taught about demons. That's where it started. Demons are fallen angels, like they're real powerful, independent etc. Then the next stage, another group... I live in a commune, they use the phrase "lower astral entities". So, that's not quite as bad as a demon, but... so I like the term thought-form. And I just wondered, so... We think thoughts, they coagulate, and they sort of keep thinking...? I guess the follow-up question is, how much personality is there? Or, intention, or independence, or power... I mean, there's life there, but how much are they individual powers, that can DO things?

Abe:
They have no power of assertion. They can be invited!
In other words... we hesitate to put so much conversation into this, that we actually pose them as creatures of the night- that you may meet around the corner, because: It's not like that, AT ALL.

It is, that it is a coalescing of thought. In other words, if you are fearful or aggravated about something, and you are offering those thoughts, those thoughts are emanating from you. And have vibrational characteristic. And by law of attraction, other thoughts like them join your thought, and so the vibration can become stronger and stronger, until there are rivers or currents that carry these thoughts.

So, they are fearful thoughts. It's why it's relatively easy to get the population of the planet worried about an epidemic of swine flu- because there is a vulnerable vibration, that is somewhat active in a lot of people. Maybe most people to some regard! So, worldwide that attention to something therefore is activated in many people at once, can get a stronger foothold. But this stream of men's spin-off, of men's conscious thought; that consciousness that exists, amounts to like a very small flea on the back of a very big dog- in relationship to this vortex of well-being that is the result of what you all are living!

In other words, it works like this. And we're happy that you have shined a light on it, in a little stronger way for us here! So, as you're experiencing contrast,
knowing what you don't want and therefore asking what you do want- when you ask for what you do want, we are not kidding you- that requests springs
forward in a rocket-light fashion! A vibrational rocket. And the larger part of you, who knows full well that no one would know better to ask for an improvement for you, than you... so, when that rocket emanates from you, your inner being and that which is source, gives undivided attention to that new found request! And the universe expands: Because Source Energy is on that request now! That's really a big thing to understand!!

Now the next big thing to understand is, that as those in your current now-reality are sending those rockets forward, this vibrational reality is expanding. And is full of better and better and better requests! When someone's rude, you ask for them to be nicer. When someone's sick, you as for wellness. So, this vibrational vortex of well-being expands, and source gives undivided attention to it. Now, here's a really important thing to understand:

The new energies that are coming forth, who are the consciousness that are the new infants, that are being born now now now now now now now... they come from that vantage point of well-being! When someone croaks (we try to be as disrespectful as we can about the death experience. As there is no death!) -when someone releases their consciousness here in this physical body, and re-emerges into the non-physical,

they don't bring those worrysome, lackful force with them!

They become what life caused them to become! And it is from that vantage point that the new consciousness is born back into this physical experience. So, as a result of that- feel the power of that!- millions of people, billions of people, sifting through and asking for improvement; source holding the improvement, people are croaking and so forth and new ones coming in, are understanding the fresh new well-being perspectives, so now there's the other
side of that! When you know what you don't want, you know what you do want. -We just explain to you, what happens with the "what you do want part".

There is something that happens with the "you know what you don't want-part", too:
It goes into the thought-form bank in the sky.


...It doesn't matter what you call it. It remains in this physical realm, and

it doesn't have anything close to the power because source isn't behind.
It's there. There's NOT a source of evil. There's just the spinoff of man's lack for thought!
And so, if you could stop watching television, it would peter out pretty quick! It really would!


...If you weren't keeping it activated, with monuments and historical documents and all of that stuff, where you keep reliving the negative past -then it would eventually just peter out. In other words it'd peter out in the sense that, proportionately speaking, it wouldn't amount to nearly as much as the thoughts of well-being, that would predominate. So, the reason we put it to you in this way is, because we are not acknowledging that there is no existence of it, we just want you to understand what it is. And the power, that it doesn't have, and your choice of whether you are a match to it or not.

And so, that's why we're saying to all of you, who are so interested in finding the "reality" of things, and trying to find the rightness of reality, and sorting out alllll of the components of life on the planet, we say: Ooh what a big job you have, first of all! And what really a waste of time it is to try to sort it all out, and put it into good piles and bad piles, when what you really want to do, is let life cause you to expand. And then, do the only thing that is necessary, or that you can do, or that is a value to you, or that will help you fulfill your reason for being!

And that is: line up with who life has caused you to become.
Mind your own business, and don't try to sort out all of that outside-the-vortex-stuff!

But we think it is important, in the context of this conversation of demons and devils and all of that kind of stuff is, that

the worst that can be out there, is your lack for thought about things that are the opposite-of what you want!

And in combination, every lackful thought that has ever been thought -even if it is all gathered together, while it could give you an uncomfortable time in your bedroom, if you were in the vicinity of it, it has no power. It cannot assert itself into your experience! Can only come by invitation. And you are only an emotional movement on the emotional scale away from being out of vibration with it, anyway.

Helpful devil and demons and all things of that nature are figments of man's imagination.

But it doesn't mean that they aren't real! Because, the thoughts you think, ARE.

from the youtube- clip Abraham Hicks - Devils and Fallen Angels





Outtake:

We just explained to you, what happens with the "what-you-do-want-part":

There is something, that happens with the "you know what-you-don't-want-part", too:
It goes into the thought-form bank in the sky.


...It doesn't matter what you call it. It remains in this physical realm, and

it doesn't have anything close to the power because source isn't behind.
It's there. There's NOT a source of evil. There's just the spinoff of man's lack for thought!
And so, if you could stop watching television, it would peter out pretty quick! It really would!


...If you weren't keeping it activated, with monuments and historical documents and all of that stuff, where you keep reliving the negative past -then it would eventually just peter out. In other words it'd peter out in the sense that, proportionately speaking, it wouldn't amount to nearly as much as the thoughts of well-being, that would predominate. So, the reason we put it to you in this way is, because we are not acknowledging that there is no existence of it, we just want you to understand what it is. And the power, that it doesn't have, and your choice of whether you are a match to it or not.

Abraham Hicks
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On Rascals who Dominate and Domineer over Others

- [Parenting] - [Parents] offer guidelines or rules of behaviour. If you break a rule you reap the negative return. Your parents are angry, or disappointed, or they may even offer more obvious punishment. And so you modify your action to confirm with the rules - or at least to make them believe you are conforming - not out of your positive quest for harmony, but out of your negative awareness of the repercussions that will exist if you don't. You act, indeed you do, but not from a point of joy.

- [Schooling] - [Schools teach you] if you don't do this, you will be punished. If you don't do this, you cannot graduate. If you don't do this, you will not succeed." And so... you act, indeed, not from your natural sense of freedom and growth and adventure, but from your awareness of negative repercussions if you do not.

- [Sales & Advertising] - The salesman... works hard to point out the negative situation in which you stand if you do not have his product. And so you say "yes" to the salesman, not from your clea awareness of the value of your purchase, but because you resist the lack that he has so vividly pointed out to you.

- [Bullies] - Bullies are usually those who feel tremendous lack of appreciation for themselves. They feel weak hen the want to be strong, or they feel powerless when they want to feel powerful, and so, from their negative feeling of lack, they act, trying to compensate for their own feeling of weakness.

- [Wars] - Virtually every war that has ever been fought has an instigator at the helm who is doggedly focused on his feeling of weakness and is now setting out to prove that he is not weak.

- Dominating fathers or husbands who want to control the lives of children or wives. It is our knowing that, in most cases, behind that face of domination is a very insecure and inadequate feeling man. But his domination does not make him feel stronger, for it defies law. When you take action from a negative perspective or from lack - you intensify the lack that you feel.

Behind the bully in the schoolyard, or the dominating father, or the leader of a country who wages war against other nations, is one who wants very much to know and feel his own strength, but has not yet found a way to do it.

He believes that by domineering over others, others who are weaker, that he will feel his strength.

Instead, he magnifies his own weakness, and so the bullying or dominating or waging of war continues until he dies.

However, the feeling of power, or strength that he so desperately wants is already his, for his weakness is only illusionary.

He is a product of:
- an environment that spends more time criticizing than praising.
- More time tearing down than building up.
- Indeed he is a product of a mass consciousness of physical beings that feel more insecurity than security.

And so he also absorbs some of that feeling of insecurity.

Often he has been fostered by parents or teachers who feel their own insecurity, who have dominated over him to feel their own strength. Of course, they did not feel stronger as a result of their domination of him, but they did pass on the cycle of insecurity and domination, indeed, to another, and so it goes.




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When you judge someone as a difficult / problematic / bad "rascal", you are disconnected from all-accepting, all-loving-Source

There is not rightness or wrongness,
there is alignment or not.
There is allowing who you ARE to flow in this moment,
or there’s pinching yourself off.

There’s worthiness or lack of worthiness.
There’s clarity or confusion.
There’s being who you are, or not being who you are.

(...) Do you know that every person, no matter how abhorred their behavior is in any moment of time
—Source is loving them,
and when you’re looking at their action [which you dont like]
instead of the part of them that Source is looking at,
then you’re gonna disconnect from Source?

And that’s why you feel bad.
Not because they’re abhorrent or doing wrong.
But because you’ve used them as your excuse to disconnect from Source,
who never disconnects from Source.
Isn’t that good to know?

~ Abraham-Hicks, Houston, March 19, 2016
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If we're all good, pure positive energy at heart, how do evil people form?

We really mean it when we say,
when you know what you don´t want, you know what you do want-
and if you lived a life that is regarded to be evil by those who´ve watched you-
sometimes it´s misunderstood-
but ALWAYS at the heart of that beginning place was someone, mistreating them.

Iow, no one ever comes into this world with evil intent.

(...)
They did NOT start out, to be evil.
They found something in life that caused them to deprive themselves of enough of wellbeing -
and when you deprived yourself of the wellbeing that you REALLY are seeking in a very strong way, you take it REALLY hard!

(...)

If there gets to be too much of a gap between what you want, and what you are allowing -
THAT´S when the discord comes.
And some people just get so overwhelmed and lost in the discord,
that they lose their way.
Temporarily, until they re-emerge.

from the clip Abraham Hicks ~ What About Evil People
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Bad behaviour is usually an attempt to feel better - but without understanding the Laws of the Universe - so going about it in a way that can't bring happiness

HS:
Are they [people who do bad things] actually trying to be good? To do good things? And its... maybe confusion, or a bad decision...?

Abe:
We would say, yes!
In the same way that everyone you know is trying to have a better life,
and some of them are just having better success on that than others.
But it´s a misunderstanding that is keeping them from discovering it, and finding it!

-

The more bad a person behaves, the more disconnected from the feel-good happiness that they seek

Those people who are regarded to be the most evil among you,
are those MOST SEPARATED from the Good THAT THEY SEEK!

Iow, their very display of the evil that you acknowledge,
is evidence of the discord, or the disconnection from the good that they are SEEKING.

(...)

And some of them -what you witness is their reaction.
And if you have the opportunity to hear them,
within the defensiveness that they often speak-
you can HEAR the longing that they have.
The longing that they have to return to the wellbeing.

-


Best way to deal with bad people: avoid them and don't think about them (don't beat that drum)

It´s such an interesting thing to watch humans, who´ve been building
the Grids of discord and the Grids of competition,
who then witness some evil deed, that they abhor-
and then they keep beating the drum of THAT-
and therefore depriving themselves of appreciation and love, that would be there otherwise!

And the more they deprive themselves of the appreciation and love that would be there otherwise-
the more they hate and abhor the person, that is the object of attention, who seems to be the subject that is CAUSING them to feel that way.

Isn´t it interesting that they are picking up on that same cane of pain?
But it´s hard for any of them to be empathetic or compassionate enough to understand, that SOMEWHERE it started for that person, too.

- Abraham

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Segment Intending.
BUT do NOT (by default) segment-intend what you do not want- per example by watching TV!

(Dealing with mean people)


HS:
When all that I'm listening to you, all the YouTube videos, I came across one that it really touched me. Because I know that I was... my brother-in-law was very rude. He has been very rude with my mother-in-law, and that always bothered me so much. And I guess I was so focused into that particular thing, that (...) I called it into my own life. And my son is so mean to me! I mean he is so disrespectful...(Abe: doesn't matter!) and then... now before, I was like, why? Why, why? And I was just like, it was hurting me! But now (...) I'm like more like: Okay, maybe I did that to...

Abe:
Stop just for a moment! This occurred to Esther the other day. You know, we've been talking about Esther gets her notebook, and she writes the name of the segment. And then she just reaches for feeling words, that foster in her the feeling, that the word implies. She talks about how she loves this and how she appreciates this, and she acknowledges this, and this, and she literally sets her own vibrational tone. Well, without meaning to, that's what your story was just doing!

It was like a segment in which you were intending future problems, with these people.
Esther said to herself the other day: "So, I segments intended 30 times today!" and she'll sit, it takes about a minute or two for a page, she writes so fast, you can't read it later. But it really brings the feeling that she's wanting!

And then she turned on television for an hour, and she thought "huh, I wonder if that's segment intending, too!? Watching that, thinking about that, feeling like this is interesting... isn't it?"

So when you tell the stories the way that they feel good to you- oh your segment is intended. And the next experience you have with the subjects of that segment, will feel good to you.

But as you're noticing, or remembering the injustices that have come to you, and in the conversation you are setting the tone of that- then isn't it logical that that's the disrespected person, that you take into the next segment? So, that when you do that often enough- somebody who has never disrespected anybody, will disrespect you.

Because that's the vibration you've got going on!
You see? Don't you love knowing this?

from the youtube clip How to deal with disrespect - ABRAHAM HICKS 2020
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Massmurderers- can we help them?
Will they come after us?


Sometimes people worry when they hear us talking. Because they think, that we're encouraging mass murderers. And we say: no one ever does anything like that, when they're in alignment with source!

So if someone is having those kinds of experiences, you've got to know they're completely out of whack. And usually, the reason that they are so out of whack- if you follow the history of the serial killers, or those who are doing those what you call dastardly deeds to society, or to individuals; what you will find in every case is that they were someone, who was being misunderstood. Who was being touted, who was being controlled, who was being misunderstood! Who was being punished by a society, who did not understand what unconditional love is. And so, it just perpetuates more and more and more.

There is a war against crime, and more crime every day.
There is a war against teenage pregnancy, and more teenage pregnancy every day.

Everything that you push against becomes more!

Because the pattern of vibration holds stronger and stronger and stronger, so you just have to come to the place where you have to individually decide: want to feel good! And if you're tending to the thoughts, then you'll never get to the action. In other words, if you're having thoughts of unworthiness and thoughts of rage and revenge, and someone is counseling you into soothing yourself, and you're finding alignment with who you are, it's not going to escalate into taking a gun and killing someone!

But if you're feeling revenge and rage and somebody says to you: "You're wrong!" and feeling that, and you need to get control of your emotions, and they're not explaining what your emotions are- law of attraction is going to help that rage get more and more and more. Until the next logical step is some sort of violence, which then as a society and a whole, you push against all the stronger! And lock them up, and condemn them, and speak of them disrespectfully, you see. Nice to know isn't it? Nobody has to know this, but you, in order for you to live happily ever after!

If you found someone in the street bleeding, we know you'd help them.
If you find someone in the street writhing in agony, and wielding a gun- you don't feel so inclined to help them out! Even though they're asking in the same way that they would, if they were bleeding.

And if you want to know how source feels about them: source is adoring them. But they're so blocked off, they can't hear it. And that's why they're behaving the way they do! When life causes you to ask for something in a really strong way, and you find vibrational attitudes and ways of living, that keep you from hearing it, or feeling it, then you want it and want it and want it! But you're blocking it blocking it blocking it. It's logical, isn't it? Doesn't that make perfect sense of everything, that you see in the world?

Once you understand that, it doesn't take many to stand in a place- and it's easier if you have your distance from them!- where you are focusing upon them through the eyes of source.

Esther notices that, as she writes with Jerry, who is non-physical. Or Abraham, who is non-physical! She can feel when she asks for guidance about something that she's dealing with. She can feel an absolute awareness of where she is, and an absolute non-attachment to the negative emotion, that she feels: that's what step-five-living is!

It's understanding that stuff happens. But not letting it take you off of your balance, as you're observing it! And not feeling guilty about being in the middle of it.

Because it's part of the process of expansion, you see! Really good conversation! Yeah. Do you feel a need to control those, that you fear would harm you or your family? It's sort of a logical thing: To want to, at least, keep them away from you! But they won't come for you. If someone's agitated and in that place and you're in a place of love, they're not going to come for you! (It's) vibrationally inaccurate. They don't find you! They find those, who are in the same hatred. Have you ever heard someone say:

The dog bites those who are afraid of it? Well, that's why- because that fear is a vibration of aggravation.


from the youtube-clip Mass Murderers - That’s Why Someone Becomes A Murderer. ~ Abraham Hicks
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When you get dominated by others...
It's ALL about Attraction!



HS:
Why is it that I let people an ability into what they like or what they want me to be... I don't know who I am, basically.

Abe:
Well you're not alone in that. But it's basically because... it's exactly because... it's precisely because... oh we're out of time. [laughter] It's because coming into this experience, you- like almost everybody else- were focused in your physical way, surrounded by people who wanted behavior from you, that made them feel better.
-So, you were guided away from your guidance system.
-It's also about momentum.
-It's also about that statement that you just made! In other words, you just made a statement that puts you on a grid spinning disc, that's about here (low). And when that's where your disc is spinning, then only people that do that to you, can get on with you.

It's like you get on, and you say: "All right, folks! This is the party we're having: I don't know what I want. I've never known what I want! People just have their way with me. So if you're going to come and play with me, I need you to boss me around. -I don't like it! I'll struggle, I'll complain about it. I'll complain to a lot of people about it, and they'll get on, too. We'll even do it to each other! We'll do it to each other."

So now you know you're doing it, when you find yourself doing that, you might want to pull back from that thought! You might want to try to find other statements, that get you on different disks, now!

It's not ever a good idea for us to attempt disk-jumping.

This jumping is sort of like quantum leaping. This jumping doesn't work very well in an environment like this! Sometimes it works better than others, because we can focus together in a powerful way. But when you feel strongly about something, then the way you feel is because of the vibration that you've got going on. And its relationship to who you really are, and what you really want. So, there's just a momentum that you want to cycle down. Or you can lay some new pipes! So let's take a little bit of time here and lay some new pipes about it! So are you saying to us, that you don't know what you want. Do you think that's really true?

So it isn't, that you don't know what you want! It's that other people seem to know more what they want.
Do you mean that? Or are people really bossing you around?

HS:
Um, I don't know if it's bossing, or manipulating, if that makes any sense?

Abe:
Sort of the same. Here's a really good word: Other people are influencing me around.
"Other people are influencing me around, because they've got more momentum going and I don't have any momentum going. So, every time I come out the door, I just get sucked onto their disc"."

But you see, it's not like that. You're not just getting sucked onto their disk. You practiced being there, before you opened your door! And when you opened your door, you said: "Hello, vibrational (...) compatible person! Hello vibrationally compatible friend! Hello, hello!"
-Jerry thought it'd be great, that there would be islands of incarceration. Rapists all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Murderers all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Thieves on one island, where they could do it to each other. And we said: You've got those "islands". The audience didn't like it, the day that we told them that. Because,

they don't think that the victim should be on the same island with the victimizer! But it's the way it works out!

So what might you say right here and now, to make you change discs? "Come on, come on, come on!!!?" You CAN`T, can you!
You just have to fall out of the airplane. You're at 30 000 feet (altitude), which is high and cold. Just let it happen, and soon it'll be over. And then, you just lay new pipes. And the way you lay new pipes, is by acknowledging:

"All right. I accept that I am the Creator of my own reality." Do you? (HS: Yes.)
I accept that I'm a vibrational offerer!
I accept that I choose to think thoughts, that place me on these spinning discs, and that law of attraction is going to bring other things like that to me."


You accept all of that, don't you? So, now- maybe- as far as you want to, or need to, or can go right now, is to say:
"I'm glad to know about my point of attraction!
And I'm glad I know that I have choices." -You do, don't you? You can choose general thoughts!


We'll give you some general thoughts to choose:
-I can get this!
-I'm not very good at it.
Which disc would you like to jump on, right now?

HS:
I can get this.

Abe:
-I don't need to figure it out, right now.
-I damn well better figure it out right now!
Which disc would you like to jump on?

-No one understands me!
-All I need is alignment with source.
Which disk would you like to choose?

...These are easy choices for you!
-I'm working too hard at this.
-This is getting easier all the time! I don't have to figure it out, all at once.
Which would you like to choose?

You see, what we're getting at- in other words, "what do I want to add momentum to?"
You're going to have a lot of fun in the days before you, as you begin noticing what momentum you are perpetuating!



from the clip "Abraham Hicks on how to escape the flow of a manipulative person"
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Soothing yourself when people haven't been nice to you:
Helpful Self-Talk


(You get into a situation, that) activates that old belief, within you. And that old belief does not jive with what you now want, and you've got discord- and you've got it now. So, now you start soothing yourself. And you say to yourself, as best you can- you just feel around, until it feels better. So, you might say a bunch of things that don't work, until you stumble on one, that does.

But you keep going, until you find it!

So you say: "That person's response to me had far less to do with me, than it did with them."
"Okay somebody who doesn't feel good in the moment can't respond nicely to me, no matter how wonderful I am!"
"Law of Attraction lined us up to get what we got from each other. So there must be something in my vibration, that evoked that! Something that I'm going to gradually change. But I'm sure that this isn't such a personal thing."
"This person is probably behaving that way to a lot of people. It isn't about me."

"Everybody doesn't treat me that way. I have different relationships with different people, and so it can't be that I'm always the unloved or unwanted one! Because lots of times I have wonderful relationships with people. So this has to be something that we've cooked up together. Here it has something to do with the combination of what we're doing!"

"Actually I get along with people really well, and this is sort of an isolated incidence. This isn't the majority of what happens to me: This is an anomaly of what happens to me."

"When something happens like this to me, that gets me thinking! It's actually to my advantage. And whenever I know what I don't want, I always know more clearly what I do want. So what's this making me know, that I want more? Clearly well- I want to get along with people. and I don't want to care too much what anybody else is thinking about me! Because what they're thinking about me has far less to do with me, than what I'm thinking about me or what I'm thinking about them! Thinking about me- how to get to the place where I don't care so much, about what they're thinking about me. I just want to care about what I'm thinking about them! Or what I'm thinking about me. And I've got control of that. And while it's sort of hard right here in this moment, while they're scowling at me, or while they're acting out, or while they're behaving in the way that they are. And while I can't really do anything about it, when I get off to myself, I'm going to make some lists of things that I would rather feel in a moment like this.

"When I meet people, I like the best of both of us to rendezvous. I like to bring uplifting things from them! I like them to feel glad, that they saw me. I want them to greet me in a way, that lets me know that they're glad to see me!
But I realize, when they do that, it's more about who they are, than about who I am. I don't have control of the way people greet me, because I don't have control of how they feel, before I get there. And I'm going to stop taking credit for how they feel, when I get there! Because they already felt that way before I got there. But I'm going to start asking myself: how'd I get here? What is it in my vibration, that made me rendezvous with them in their ornery moment? -That's the question that I want to ask! And I think it's that I keep noticing, that I don't like it when I'm there. So I keep that part active, rather than remembering what I do like!

So I think that I'll write in my book what I liked about this meeting.
What I liked about this meeting, what was good about this, what was good about this, and I'll get all this good stuff so active in my vibration. And in activating the stuff that feels good, the stuff that doesn't feel good will be deactivated."


Although you can't deactivate something!
You have to activate something else.

Because when you try to deactivate it, you activate it!

"So you have to activate something else in order to deactivate it. But there's no such thing as deactivation. And there is such thing as activating something else. So, I'm just going to activate what feels good so much, that now everyone in the world will be a reflection to me, of what I've rendezvoused with. Not of my worthiness state! In other words: I can be ornery, I can be happy, I can be appreciative, I can be blameful, I can be anything. I can be all of those things- and none of them have anything to do with my worthiness!! They're just about my current vibrational state of being.
But these blessed others, who rendezvous with me, are such a reflection of where I am! Such a reflection of where I am. And since I'm trying to figure out where I am- because I'm trying to bridge my beliefs, isn't it beneficial to have all of these people reflecting back to me, where I am?"

So, when somebody says to you: "I don't like you!" -they say it with words or with body language, or with some sort of behavior, you want to stop and say to them:

"You have done such a service to me! Because you've made me realize that you don't like me. Which means I must be offering a vibration that's unlikable. But I'm not changing it, because I want you to like me!
I'm changing it because I don't want to rendezvous with you anymore.
I'm not changing my behavior so that you'll feel better- I'm changing my behavior so I don't keep rendezvousing with the likes of you!
I'm pure positive energy. I'm appreciation! I'm love! I'm upliftment! I'm a teacher of well-being. I'm running around, wanting to spread life in the world, and when I rendezvous with you, I can tell I'm not doing that in this moment!"

from the youtube-clip Abraham Hicks ~ SAY THESE EXACT WORDS WHEN THEY TREAT YOU BADLY ★🧡AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS🧡
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