Soulmates and Twinflames
HS:
My question is: Soul mate versus twin flame. And how the differences between that... um, like, when you have synchronicities with someone intensely, what does that mean?
Abe:
Well, people want to romanticize Alignment.
And that really is what it is! In other words, you all come in clusters. Your relationship to your own family, is a very strong vibrational connection. And so, what you're really describing is- when you feel a connection to someone, what's happened is: You've just met them on a vibrational wavelength, and you can meet on any vibrational wavelength- and it can feel like a strong connection! Sometimes you can meet somebody, who's just willing to complain with you about the same things you're complaining about, and they feel like your long lost soulmate! (Laughter)
Because, they'll stand by you, they'll be with you, they'll support you and defend you, you see!
And, so the best way to know that you've connected with someone who is really your non-physical counterpart, is for you to hang around in that high good feeling vibration for plenty of time. So that you can tell when you've taken a dip! Because until you know whether or not you've taken a dip, you won't know how to recognize someone else! Because as we were saying earlier, when you connect with something, there is momentum even in the connection. When you're offering a vibration and someone else is offering the same vibration, it's brought together by law of attraction. There is always a spark that feels like interest, you see! And so, that's why you're wanting to differentiate between twin flame and soul mate. And to all of those things, we want to say:
ALL of you are soul mates to everyone of you!
In other words, that's the way you feel from your non-physical energy vantage point!
Every single one of you has the potential of enormous harmony with every other being, who is present in this time-space reality. But of course as you've lived life, you've put into your vortex other preferences, besides just being energetically aligned. You want some of your physical awarenesses to be the same. There are many things that life has caused you to want, and you have the potential of satisfying every one of them, you see! And so we would spend no time looking around a crowd, and trying to acknowledge which ones are soul mates and which ones aren't. Because
the only thing that matters is, are you a mate to your own soul in this moment?
Are you a vibrational mate-, are you vibrational in alignment with your own soul?
And if the answer to that is yes, then you'll be able to find those who are a vibrational match to theirs. And two who come together, who are each individually in vibrational alignment with who they are, is what we consider to be the greatest harmony. Not sameness. Not same attitude about all same things! But same vibrational harmonics, which makes for the best kind of relationship.
Enough difference in interest, but the ability to be in alignment- so from that you can extract the best from each other, at all times, yes!
from the youtube clip Abraham Hicks - Soulmate Vs. Twin Flame - When You Feel A Strong Connection To Another
Quotes of Influence of Others over You
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When you get dominated by others...
It's ALL about Attraction!
HS:
Why is it that I let people an ability into what they like or what they want me to be... I don't know who I am, basically.
Abe:
Well you're not alone in that. But it's basically because... it's exactly because... it's precisely because... oh we're out of time. [laughter] It's because coming into this experience, you- like almost everybody else- were focused in your physical way, surrounded by people who wanted behavior from you, that made them feel better.
-So, you were guided away from your guidance system.
-It's also about momentum.
-It's also about that statement that you just made! In other words, you just made a statement that puts you on a grid spinning disc, that's about here (low). And when that's where your disc is spinning, then only people that do that to you, can get on with you.
It's like you get on, and you say: "All right, folks! This is the party we're having: I don't know what I want. I've never known what I want! People just have their way with me. So if you're going to come and play with me, I need you to boss me around. -I don't like it! I'll struggle, I'll complain about it. I'll complain to a lot of people about it, and they'll get on, too. We'll even do it to each other! We'll do it to each other."
So now you know you're doing it, when you find yourself doing that, you might want to pull back from that thought! You might want to try to find other statements, that get you on different disks, now!
It's not ever a good idea for us to attempt disk-jumping.
This jumping is sort of like quantum leaping. This jumping doesn't work very well in an environment like this! Sometimes it works better than others, because we can focus together in a powerful way. But when you feel strongly about something, then the way you feel is because of the vibration that you've got going on. And its relationship to who you really are, and what you really want. So, there's just a momentum that you want to cycle down. Or you can lay some new pipes! So let's take a little bit of time here and lay some new pipes about it! So are you saying to us, that you don't know what you want. Do you think that's really true?
So it isn't, that you don't know what you want! It's that other people seem to know more what they want.
Do you mean that? Or are people really bossing you around?
HS:
Um, I don't know if it's bossing, or manipulating, if that makes any sense?
Abe:
Sort of the same. Here's a really good word: Other people are influencing me around.
"Other people are influencing me around, because they've got more momentum going and I don't have any momentum going. So, every time I come out the door, I just get sucked onto their disc"."
But you see, it's not like that. You're not just getting sucked onto their disk. You practiced being there, before you opened your door! And when you opened your door, you said: "Hello, vibrational (...) compatible person! Hello vibrationally compatible friend! Hello, hello!"
-Jerry thought it'd be great, that there would be islands of incarceration. Rapists all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Murderers all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Thieves on one island, where they could do it to each other. And we said: You've got those "islands". The audience didn't like it, the day that we told them that. Because,
they don't think that the victim should be on the same island with the victimizer! But it's the way it works out!
So what might you say right here and now, to make you change discs? "Come on, come on, come on!!!?" You CAN`T, can you!
You just have to fall out of the airplane. You're at 30 000 feet (altitude), which is high and cold. Just let it happen, and soon it'll be over. And then, you just lay new pipes. And the way you lay new pipes, is by acknowledging:
"All right. I accept that I am the Creator of my own reality." Do you? (HS: Yes.)
I accept that I'm a vibrational offerer!
I accept that I choose to think thoughts, that place me on these spinning discs, and that law of attraction is going to bring other things like that to me."
You accept all of that, don't you? So, now- maybe- as far as you want to, or need to, or can go right now, is to say:
"I'm glad to know about my point of attraction!
And I'm glad I know that I have choices." -You do, don't you? You can choose general thoughts!
We'll give you some general thoughts to choose:
-I can get this!
-I'm not very good at it.
Which disc would you like to jump on, right now?
HS:
I can get this.
Abe:
-I don't need to figure it out, right now.
-I damn well better figure it out right now!
Which disc would you like to jump on?
-No one understands me!
-All I need is alignment with source.
Which disk would you like to choose?
...These are easy choices for you!
-I'm working too hard at this.
-This is getting easier all the time! I don't have to figure it out, all at once.
Which would you like to choose?
You see, what we're getting at- in other words, "what do I want to add momentum to?"
You're going to have a lot of fun in the days before you, as you begin noticing what momentum you are perpetuating!
from the clip "Abraham Hicks on how to escape the flow of a manipulative person"
It's ALL about Attraction!
HS:
Why is it that I let people an ability into what they like or what they want me to be... I don't know who I am, basically.
Abe:
Well you're not alone in that. But it's basically because... it's exactly because... it's precisely because... oh we're out of time. [laughter] It's because coming into this experience, you- like almost everybody else- were focused in your physical way, surrounded by people who wanted behavior from you, that made them feel better.
-So, you were guided away from your guidance system.
-It's also about momentum.
-It's also about that statement that you just made! In other words, you just made a statement that puts you on a grid spinning disc, that's about here (low). And when that's where your disc is spinning, then only people that do that to you, can get on with you.
It's like you get on, and you say: "All right, folks! This is the party we're having: I don't know what I want. I've never known what I want! People just have their way with me. So if you're going to come and play with me, I need you to boss me around. -I don't like it! I'll struggle, I'll complain about it. I'll complain to a lot of people about it, and they'll get on, too. We'll even do it to each other! We'll do it to each other."
So now you know you're doing it, when you find yourself doing that, you might want to pull back from that thought! You might want to try to find other statements, that get you on different disks, now!
It's not ever a good idea for us to attempt disk-jumping.
This jumping is sort of like quantum leaping. This jumping doesn't work very well in an environment like this! Sometimes it works better than others, because we can focus together in a powerful way. But when you feel strongly about something, then the way you feel is because of the vibration that you've got going on. And its relationship to who you really are, and what you really want. So, there's just a momentum that you want to cycle down. Or you can lay some new pipes! So let's take a little bit of time here and lay some new pipes about it! So are you saying to us, that you don't know what you want. Do you think that's really true?
So it isn't, that you don't know what you want! It's that other people seem to know more what they want.
Do you mean that? Or are people really bossing you around?
HS:
Um, I don't know if it's bossing, or manipulating, if that makes any sense?
Abe:
Sort of the same. Here's a really good word: Other people are influencing me around.
"Other people are influencing me around, because they've got more momentum going and I don't have any momentum going. So, every time I come out the door, I just get sucked onto their disc"."
But you see, it's not like that. You're not just getting sucked onto their disk. You practiced being there, before you opened your door! And when you opened your door, you said: "Hello, vibrational (...) compatible person! Hello vibrationally compatible friend! Hello, hello!"
-Jerry thought it'd be great, that there would be islands of incarceration. Rapists all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Murderers all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Thieves on one island, where they could do it to each other. And we said: You've got those "islands". The audience didn't like it, the day that we told them that. Because,
they don't think that the victim should be on the same island with the victimizer! But it's the way it works out!
So what might you say right here and now, to make you change discs? "Come on, come on, come on!!!?" You CAN`T, can you!
You just have to fall out of the airplane. You're at 30 000 feet (altitude), which is high and cold. Just let it happen, and soon it'll be over. And then, you just lay new pipes. And the way you lay new pipes, is by acknowledging:
"All right. I accept that I am the Creator of my own reality." Do you? (HS: Yes.)
I accept that I'm a vibrational offerer!
I accept that I choose to think thoughts, that place me on these spinning discs, and that law of attraction is going to bring other things like that to me."
You accept all of that, don't you? So, now- maybe- as far as you want to, or need to, or can go right now, is to say:
"I'm glad to know about my point of attraction!
And I'm glad I know that I have choices." -You do, don't you? You can choose general thoughts!
We'll give you some general thoughts to choose:
-I can get this!
-I'm not very good at it.
Which disc would you like to jump on, right now?
HS:
I can get this.
Abe:
-I don't need to figure it out, right now.
-I damn well better figure it out right now!
Which disc would you like to jump on?
-No one understands me!
-All I need is alignment with source.
Which disk would you like to choose?
...These are easy choices for you!
-I'm working too hard at this.
-This is getting easier all the time! I don't have to figure it out, all at once.
Which would you like to choose?
You see, what we're getting at- in other words, "what do I want to add momentum to?"
You're going to have a lot of fun in the days before you, as you begin noticing what momentum you are perpetuating!
from the clip "Abraham Hicks on how to escape the flow of a manipulative person"
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About the Mastery of Buddha, Christ and Muhammad (And why aren't all of their messages alike?)
The TRUE Leader of ourselves is our Inner Being
HS (Jerry):
Why have the massive numbers of mankind followed primarily three teachers- Buddha, Christ and Muhammad, as opposed to the many other teachers who've lived here during the past say, 4,000 years?
Abe:
The examples that you have offered without exception are examples of physical beings who came forth from the Inner World, as did all physical beings. But with greater and clearer intent. With greater wanting, with greater reason for being! They came forth as teachers, not only as participators.
And as they were physical beings, they allowed the opening of that passage-way, so that they could be physical beings; while at the same time allow a broader, greater part of that which is their Inner Being, to come forth into this physical experience. They were, in short, Blended Beings. You may also be aware, that as they came forth, they were not revered instantly. In fact in each of those cases, they were not really revered until long after they were no longer physical beings! It is always difficult for those who are physical to accept that which is new. It is easier to hold fast to the old thought!
It is our absolute knowing, that if those great leaders- any one of them-
were to come forth, expressing clearly their knowing in this time, that they would not be heard!
-That there would be great insistence on the part of those physical beings who are now in power, in the various parts of the world- wanting to hold to different thoughts, whether it is the thought of Christ or the thought of Buddha or the thought of Muhammad, or the thought of another great leader- they would rather hold to those thoughts of old, than to experience and accept that which is now.
HS:
I have a question that I've kind of concerned myself with, since my childhood: As teachers like Moses, Buddha, Christ, Muhammad... went off to themselves and as we understand, made direct contact with the Divine Being, and received these messages, I never could understand why their messages were not all the same! Since I thought, they were reaching the same Supreme Being and being informed. Could you respond to that?
Abe:
There are a number of reasons for that.
The most important reason is because, they were not all asking the same questions.
They were not all at the same point of wanting.
They were not all at the same point of understanding.
They were not all at the same point of experience.
They were at different times, in history.
In different places upon the world.
And they were making contact, or communicating with those,
who were at different points of wanting, and at different points of understanding!
HS:
Thank you, that was very good! There was Muhammad- let's say 1500 years ago, and Jesus 2,000 years ago, and Buddha 2500 years ago and then Moses, centuries before that, who went to themselves and received the information, that started these major religious movements that exist today.
But why do you feel that it is, that there have been no such powerful leaders of thought that have stood out in the last 1500 years? Why have we had such a long spell without, anymore?
Abe:
They are not allowed by those physical beings who are here, to receive them!
HS:
And why is that?
Abe:
It is easier to hold to the thoughts of old, than to create new thought.
It is easier to act out of habit, than to act out of your wanting.
The beliefs that surrounded you when you were born are very powerful. And it takes a very strong being, to live surrounded by beliefs and still allow the knowing that comes forth from within, to guide. Most are not strong enough! They allow the pressure of the group, that surrounds the pressure of the beliefs that abound to keep them from doing the very thing that they intended to do, as they came forth.
HS:
The people that... the adults, the people that are older than them, have more experience. The tendency is to look toward them for guidance and leadership and then, granted yes, this Inner Voice is speaking. But how much can a person actually learn from that personal Inner Voice, without any guidance from those who have had physical experience? That are here, when we're here?
Abe:
The guidance that comes forth from within in the form of emotion,
is the most profound guidance that you will ever experience.
It is much more emphatic, much more precise, much more deliberate,
and much more appropriate than any set of rules that you might gather,
or any set of conversation that you might gather from anyone else, who experiences.
Because they do not see through your eyes!
They have not lived the experience that you are living, you see. In order to understand the value of this guidance system, you must understand that you are more than you see, here!
You are a being that has lived on and on and on, through many births and deaths. You are a cumulative being, that is much much more than you recall from this one physical life experience!
And when you accept that, then you may begin to accept that that broader part of you, that older, wiser You, that You that is connected to all-that-is, has the ability to offer you in any moment emotion or even clear lucid thought to assist you. In knowing the appropriateness of any thought, word or action, in the the moment.
Your guidance system not only knows who you are and what you want in the here and now, it knows the You from the broader perspective, and it knows all of the Inner Beings of all of those, that you are interacting with!
from the youtube-clip Abraham-Hicks: Why Buddha, Christ & Mohammed?
The TRUE Leader of ourselves is our Inner Being
HS (Jerry):
Why have the massive numbers of mankind followed primarily three teachers- Buddha, Christ and Muhammad, as opposed to the many other teachers who've lived here during the past say, 4,000 years?
Abe:
The examples that you have offered without exception are examples of physical beings who came forth from the Inner World, as did all physical beings. But with greater and clearer intent. With greater wanting, with greater reason for being! They came forth as teachers, not only as participators.
And as they were physical beings, they allowed the opening of that passage-way, so that they could be physical beings; while at the same time allow a broader, greater part of that which is their Inner Being, to come forth into this physical experience. They were, in short, Blended Beings. You may also be aware, that as they came forth, they were not revered instantly. In fact in each of those cases, they were not really revered until long after they were no longer physical beings! It is always difficult for those who are physical to accept that which is new. It is easier to hold fast to the old thought!
It is our absolute knowing, that if those great leaders- any one of them-
were to come forth, expressing clearly their knowing in this time, that they would not be heard!
-That there would be great insistence on the part of those physical beings who are now in power, in the various parts of the world- wanting to hold to different thoughts, whether it is the thought of Christ or the thought of Buddha or the thought of Muhammad, or the thought of another great leader- they would rather hold to those thoughts of old, than to experience and accept that which is now.
HS:
I have a question that I've kind of concerned myself with, since my childhood: As teachers like Moses, Buddha, Christ, Muhammad... went off to themselves and as we understand, made direct contact with the Divine Being, and received these messages, I never could understand why their messages were not all the same! Since I thought, they were reaching the same Supreme Being and being informed. Could you respond to that?
Abe:
There are a number of reasons for that.
The most important reason is because, they were not all asking the same questions.
They were not all at the same point of wanting.
They were not all at the same point of understanding.
They were not all at the same point of experience.
They were at different times, in history.
In different places upon the world.
And they were making contact, or communicating with those,
who were at different points of wanting, and at different points of understanding!
HS:
Thank you, that was very good! There was Muhammad- let's say 1500 years ago, and Jesus 2,000 years ago, and Buddha 2500 years ago and then Moses, centuries before that, who went to themselves and received the information, that started these major religious movements that exist today.
But why do you feel that it is, that there have been no such powerful leaders of thought that have stood out in the last 1500 years? Why have we had such a long spell without, anymore?
Abe:
They are not allowed by those physical beings who are here, to receive them!
HS:
And why is that?
Abe:
It is easier to hold to the thoughts of old, than to create new thought.
It is easier to act out of habit, than to act out of your wanting.
The beliefs that surrounded you when you were born are very powerful. And it takes a very strong being, to live surrounded by beliefs and still allow the knowing that comes forth from within, to guide. Most are not strong enough! They allow the pressure of the group, that surrounds the pressure of the beliefs that abound to keep them from doing the very thing that they intended to do, as they came forth.
HS:
The people that... the adults, the people that are older than them, have more experience. The tendency is to look toward them for guidance and leadership and then, granted yes, this Inner Voice is speaking. But how much can a person actually learn from that personal Inner Voice, without any guidance from those who have had physical experience? That are here, when we're here?
Abe:
The guidance that comes forth from within in the form of emotion,
is the most profound guidance that you will ever experience.
It is much more emphatic, much more precise, much more deliberate,
and much more appropriate than any set of rules that you might gather,
or any set of conversation that you might gather from anyone else, who experiences.
Because they do not see through your eyes!
They have not lived the experience that you are living, you see. In order to understand the value of this guidance system, you must understand that you are more than you see, here!
You are a being that has lived on and on and on, through many births and deaths. You are a cumulative being, that is much much more than you recall from this one physical life experience!
And when you accept that, then you may begin to accept that that broader part of you, that older, wiser You, that You that is connected to all-that-is, has the ability to offer you in any moment emotion or even clear lucid thought to assist you. In knowing the appropriateness of any thought, word or action, in the the moment.
Your guidance system not only knows who you are and what you want in the here and now, it knows the You from the broader perspective, and it knows all of the Inner Beings of all of those, that you are interacting with!
from the youtube-clip Abraham-Hicks: Why Buddha, Christ & Mohammed?
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How to stop other people overpowering you with their wishes
Well, that is what Segment Intending will do for you if you will stop anytime you realize you are going into a new segment - which simply means a block of time when your intentions are different - if you will stop and say,
"What am I wanting to feel in this segment?
What am I wanting to have here?
What am I wanting to do?"
It will come forth to you very quickly and then you will not be swept up by the influence of someone else's intentions.
If you're not deliberate and they are, they'll overpower you every time.
It is Law.
It is momentum.
- AH
Well, that is what Segment Intending will do for you if you will stop anytime you realize you are going into a new segment - which simply means a block of time when your intentions are different - if you will stop and say,
"What am I wanting to feel in this segment?
What am I wanting to have here?
What am I wanting to do?"
It will come forth to you very quickly and then you will not be swept up by the influence of someone else's intentions.
If you're not deliberate and they are, they'll overpower you every time.
It is Law.
It is momentum.
- AH
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On Comparing yourself with others
Comparison is your death trap.
It is the beginning point, and middle point and ending point of most defeat or failure.
For it holds you in that position of negative emotion, which holds you in that place of negative attraction.
And you simply cannot offer enough action to compensate for that.
- AH
Comparison is your death trap.
It is the beginning point, and middle point and ending point of most defeat or failure.
For it holds you in that position of negative emotion, which holds you in that place of negative attraction.
And you simply cannot offer enough action to compensate for that.
- AH
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No one, nothing, can deny you your desire.
Only YOU can deny your own desire, through contradictory vibration.
No one has ever kept you from anything.
Nobody's keeping you from being rich and famous.
Nobody's keeping you from being well.
No one but you.
And the reason that you do it ie because you observe things that cause you to offer a vibrational outpouring that doesn't match the vibration of your own desire.
- Abraham
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Rebelling when you feel others pushing-against...
HS:
Um, my friend- she doesn't drink alcohol. Um, most of the time when I've been around her, I wanted to really drink up. I don't know why!? Um, in the past I've had a label as a rebellious spirit. Maybe that's why? But I don't understand why, cuz usually when I'm around my other friends, we have a great time and there's not that thing. But every time my girlfriend from AA comes down, I have to obliterate myself until I am sick the next day, and I'm looking like a jerk to her, and she thinks I need to go to AA, but when I'm around my other friends I can have a great old time, and have a couple drinks and I'm... what IS that???
Abe:
Law of Attraction is a very powerful thing, is it? In other words, she has activated within herself, big times, a vibration of pushing against alcohol. So when she comes close to you, she activates that vibration of pushing against within you, too! It stirs up your defensiveness, and then you rebel.
from the youtube-clip "Talk to Your Cells, Will Change Your Life!
Abraham Hicks 2024"
HS:
Um, my friend- she doesn't drink alcohol. Um, most of the time when I've been around her, I wanted to really drink up. I don't know why!? Um, in the past I've had a label as a rebellious spirit. Maybe that's why? But I don't understand why, cuz usually when I'm around my other friends, we have a great time and there's not that thing. But every time my girlfriend from AA comes down, I have to obliterate myself until I am sick the next day, and I'm looking like a jerk to her, and she thinks I need to go to AA, but when I'm around my other friends I can have a great old time, and have a couple drinks and I'm... what IS that???
Abe:
Law of Attraction is a very powerful thing, is it? In other words, she has activated within herself, big times, a vibration of pushing against alcohol. So when she comes close to you, she activates that vibration of pushing against within you, too! It stirs up your defensiveness, and then you rebel.
from the youtube-clip "Talk to Your Cells, Will Change Your Life!
Abraham Hicks 2024"-
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In Unconditional Love lays your Power and your Freedom
(and how to not let your bad relationship with your mother pinch you off from it)
Now, here's the piece that we really want you to understand about this this is the subject of unconditional love:
Do you accept, that there is an inner part of you, that is offering a vibration that is calling you?
-That soul, that source, that inner vibration: you got to know it. Because it is the basis of your guidance. And so, if you don't know that, you want to get to know that, want to feel the familiarity of that! Begin to notice when you feel vital, and why. And when you feel depleted and why!
Begin to notice that your guidance has been giving you good information. So, if you accept that, that inner being part of you exists and that that inner being part of you is calling you, then this is what we want you to understand: This subject is how you create your own reality. It's how you turn thoughts if you will, to things. It's how you turn a vibration into a see-it-hear-it-smell-it-taste-it-touch-it experience!
So, here's a vibration. It's where everything starts, and maybe this vibration that we are demonstrating here, is not perceivable to you because maybe you're on a different wavelength. Maybe it's the vibration of your inner being who knows your value, who knows your worthiness, who is liquid love. Maybe that's what's going on, and maybe you have just come away from your mother and you're in a whole different vibrational state. So you can't even perceive this vibration!
But then let's say, for whatever reason, you're not in that state... maybe you meditated, maybe you've had your feet in the water, maybe you've been in the surf today, maybe you've (...) but you ARE not resistant to who you really are! And so, this vibration that before was not perceivable, now is being received by you in the form of the first manifestational phase: You have thoughts that are occurring to you. And you're having an emotional response to those thoughts!
So, vibration and mood, that's the thing that we want you to focus on here. Vibration and mood. So, right now your mood- hear this, is unconditional.
This mood, this vibration of love- it's a vibration of love, because that's who you are! Because it's natural to you!
You didn't say "If you'll do this, then I'll feel good. And if you'll do this, then I'll feel good." You are unconditional in this love, can you feel what we're talking about here? Now, you can get to any feeling of alignment with who-you-are in an unconditional way. But in the moment you say "my mother is in a bad mood", or "my mother is negative"- now you've made HER the condition that prevents you from this mood! That's not unconditional love! That's conditional love!
Now you need to control your mother.
Now you need to have better timing.
Now you need to teach her what you know! It's too long, you don't have enough years and neither does she! (laughter) In other words, you can't depend on somebody else to get it. You've got to be unconditional in your love, and before you are going to be able to be unconditional in your love, you got to understand what it is:
It's alignment with who I really am, and all that I've become. And it is an emotional journey that I can take, because I don't need the condition to support it!
Conditional love says:
Give me more money and I'll feel better.
Unconditional love says:
Apart from the money, if I can stay off that subject for a while, if I can give myself permission to feel good even before the money comes, and I can practice the unconditional vibration of prosperity without needing the condition of money to support it- or to substantiate it or to justify it or to validate it- if you can be unconditional in your vibration -and you can!!...
You were born unconditional in your vibration, you see!
But you co-dependently trained each other away from it!
You've lost track of this relationship with your Inner Being, because there are some rewards that others will give you: They will validate you. They will give you their attention. It's just that you're looking for love in all the wrong places! And it isn't consistent, and you're right: There's no one on this planet who wants to love you more than your mother does. But if she is not in sync with who she is, she has no love to give! What she has, is where she is!
And you've got to give yourself permission to hold yourself in a place, where you can consistently, unconditionally, line up with love. And then you can shine your never-ending attention upon your mother: Unattached!
Unattached from her behavior-
because you went to the source of the well.
-You went to the source of love!
-You found it, you did it often, you stabilized there,
-you cared about it.
Things happen occasionally- you get your back window blown out, it helps you to know what you're doing! You just keep regrouping and trying again, and finding alignment and finding alignment, until -before you know it- you're so stable and you're so sure, that no matter what happens, you don't get off your game!
You understand that you'r Source energy in a physical body, and that you're supposed to have a good time. And then you say those things that you said to us, and you're really really there! You say: "I love my mother. My mother is the Avenue through which I came into this physical life experience, and my mom's doing the best that she knows how to do. She's on her path of least resistance, and sometimes she takes a lot harder path than I want her to take. But, that isn't any of my business! I don't have any control over the path that she takes.
I only have control over the path that I take!
And right now I'm bordering on stumbling off my path, by turning my attention to something that is none of my business, and that I can't control, I think I'm going to be non-conditional unconditionalness and I think I'm going to return to my vibrational frequency that is really meant as:
You do that again and again and again, on subject after subject- because there are so many people willing to play with you! And help you get onto your path!
Get onto your path. Get onto your path! And before you know it, you'll be so steadily there, and people will look at you and they'll say: "What's with you? Why are you so stable all the time? How did you get so stable?" and you say: "I went directly to the source of stability." -long pause, audience begins to laugh... "What? What??" -"Well, let me make it easier. If I went directly to the source of happiness!" -"What??" (Laughter, Abe sigh in playing the HS who explains what he was doing...).
"Okay, man. I'll just tell you how it is: I became selfish. I gave myself permission not to play with those who aren't fun to play with, until I found the vibration of alignment of who I really am. And now everybody I play with, is fun, right?" -"Oh, did they all change?" -"No, they didn't change. I did!
I'm no longer looking to them for the resource. I got my resource! They can do whatever they want, and frankly they are amusing."
-They're amusing! They're amusing. You got that, didn't you?
from the youtube clip: "Unconditional Love: The Source of Happiness - Abraham Hicks"
(and how to not let your bad relationship with your mother pinch you off from it)
Now, here's the piece that we really want you to understand about this this is the subject of unconditional love:
Do you accept, that there is an inner part of you, that is offering a vibration that is calling you?
-That soul, that source, that inner vibration: you got to know it. Because it is the basis of your guidance. And so, if you don't know that, you want to get to know that, want to feel the familiarity of that! Begin to notice when you feel vital, and why. And when you feel depleted and why!
Begin to notice that your guidance has been giving you good information. So, if you accept that, that inner being part of you exists and that that inner being part of you is calling you, then this is what we want you to understand: This subject is how you create your own reality. It's how you turn thoughts if you will, to things. It's how you turn a vibration into a see-it-hear-it-smell-it-taste-it-touch-it experience!
So, here's a vibration. It's where everything starts, and maybe this vibration that we are demonstrating here, is not perceivable to you because maybe you're on a different wavelength. Maybe it's the vibration of your inner being who knows your value, who knows your worthiness, who is liquid love. Maybe that's what's going on, and maybe you have just come away from your mother and you're in a whole different vibrational state. So you can't even perceive this vibration!
But then let's say, for whatever reason, you're not in that state... maybe you meditated, maybe you've had your feet in the water, maybe you've been in the surf today, maybe you've (...) but you ARE not resistant to who you really are! And so, this vibration that before was not perceivable, now is being received by you in the form of the first manifestational phase: You have thoughts that are occurring to you. And you're having an emotional response to those thoughts!
So, vibration and mood, that's the thing that we want you to focus on here. Vibration and mood. So, right now your mood- hear this, is unconditional.
This mood, this vibration of love- it's a vibration of love, because that's who you are! Because it's natural to you!
You didn't say "If you'll do this, then I'll feel good. And if you'll do this, then I'll feel good." You are unconditional in this love, can you feel what we're talking about here? Now, you can get to any feeling of alignment with who-you-are in an unconditional way. But in the moment you say "my mother is in a bad mood", or "my mother is negative"- now you've made HER the condition that prevents you from this mood! That's not unconditional love! That's conditional love!
Now you need to control your mother.
Now you need to have better timing.
Now you need to teach her what you know! It's too long, you don't have enough years and neither does she! (laughter) In other words, you can't depend on somebody else to get it. You've got to be unconditional in your love, and before you are going to be able to be unconditional in your love, you got to understand what it is:
It's alignment with who I really am, and all that I've become. And it is an emotional journey that I can take, because I don't need the condition to support it!
Conditional love says:
Give me more money and I'll feel better.
Unconditional love says:
Apart from the money, if I can stay off that subject for a while, if I can give myself permission to feel good even before the money comes, and I can practice the unconditional vibration of prosperity without needing the condition of money to support it- or to substantiate it or to justify it or to validate it- if you can be unconditional in your vibration -and you can!!...
You were born unconditional in your vibration, you see!
But you co-dependently trained each other away from it!
You've lost track of this relationship with your Inner Being, because there are some rewards that others will give you: They will validate you. They will give you their attention. It's just that you're looking for love in all the wrong places! And it isn't consistent, and you're right: There's no one on this planet who wants to love you more than your mother does. But if she is not in sync with who she is, she has no love to give! What she has, is where she is!
And you've got to give yourself permission to hold yourself in a place, where you can consistently, unconditionally, line up with love. And then you can shine your never-ending attention upon your mother: Unattached!
Unattached from her behavior-
because you went to the source of the well.
-You went to the source of love!
-You found it, you did it often, you stabilized there,
-you cared about it.
Things happen occasionally- you get your back window blown out, it helps you to know what you're doing! You just keep regrouping and trying again, and finding alignment and finding alignment, until -before you know it- you're so stable and you're so sure, that no matter what happens, you don't get off your game!
You understand that you'r Source energy in a physical body, and that you're supposed to have a good time. And then you say those things that you said to us, and you're really really there! You say: "I love my mother. My mother is the Avenue through which I came into this physical life experience, and my mom's doing the best that she knows how to do. She's on her path of least resistance, and sometimes she takes a lot harder path than I want her to take. But, that isn't any of my business! I don't have any control over the path that she takes.
I only have control over the path that I take!
And right now I'm bordering on stumbling off my path, by turning my attention to something that is none of my business, and that I can't control, I think I'm going to be non-conditional unconditionalness and I think I'm going to return to my vibrational frequency that is really meant as:
You do that again and again and again, on subject after subject- because there are so many people willing to play with you! And help you get onto your path!
Get onto your path. Get onto your path! And before you know it, you'll be so steadily there, and people will look at you and they'll say: "What's with you? Why are you so stable all the time? How did you get so stable?" and you say: "I went directly to the source of stability." -long pause, audience begins to laugh... "What? What??" -"Well, let me make it easier. If I went directly to the source of happiness!" -"What??" (Laughter, Abe sigh in playing the HS who explains what he was doing...).
"Okay, man. I'll just tell you how it is: I became selfish. I gave myself permission not to play with those who aren't fun to play with, until I found the vibration of alignment of who I really am. And now everybody I play with, is fun, right?" -"Oh, did they all change?" -"No, they didn't change. I did!
I'm no longer looking to them for the resource. I got my resource! They can do whatever they want, and frankly they are amusing."
-They're amusing! They're amusing. You got that, didn't you?
from the youtube clip: "Unconditional Love: The Source of Happiness - Abraham Hicks"
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Observing "what-is" tends to only regurgitate what we already believe.
(Reactivating resistance).
HS:
Is there some kind of a pre-destiny in following that inner guidance, that inner path?
Abe:
Only in this sense: It was decided, or known, as you were making the decision to come into this body, that
You're a creator.
And that through your exploration, you would expand.
And that expansion is necessary and delicious.
But we would call that predetermined or pre-decided by you, intentionality.
HS:
By me -me-, or me -my Inner Self me-?
Abe:
You, your Inner Self.
HS:
Both of us? Teamwork?
Abe:
At that time, there was no split in you, because you hadn't come into consciousness that could think independently. So you said "step one is: I will think independently. I will know what I don't want. I will know what I do want! And in my independent thought, I will discover things that I do not want, and in the discovery of what I don't want, I will simultaneously discover what I do want, because every component of the universe has
wanted and absence of wanted within it."
And you knew that, and you said: "Sometimes it is necessary for life to show me what I don't want, before I can even know what I do want! Because it has to be personal."
So, when life shows you what you don't want, and then you know what you do want- you've launched that rocket of clarity. And you, and therefore we, have reached into a new place where we have never been before! And we immediately go there, because we have no resistance. You are slower in coming along, because you've got beliefs that keep you from immediately going there.
But when your desire for feeling good becomes stronger, than holding to a belief that you don't care about... The other day, we've been telling this story. We may even have told it to you directly! Esther was in Del Mar. She has a house there. She hadn't been there in months, she was sitting at her desk, looking out where the ocean should have been, and couldn't see the ocean. And she realized that in the months that she'd been gone, the trees had grown in, and the bushes from the side had completely obscured her view from sitting at the desk!
Which was why the desk was there. So her gardeners came later that day, and she said: "I'm blocking my own view. Could you guys trim this edge, so that I can see the ocean?" And they said: "Happily!" and then they said: "But there are trees down in the ravine, that might be part of what you're seeing!" and Esther said: "Well, I only own half of that ravine. Just be sure that it's on my property." and they said "We've got you covered!" -and off Esther went to lunch with her friend. They were gone many hours. They shopped and ate and explored, and when Esther came back, she walked onto her deck and went in and looked out the window, and the ocean was back.
She was so happy to see it! Then she looked out a little way on the hillside, up very close to neighboring property, and saw something that made her gasp: Two very large tree stumps. Cut all the way down to the ground. And Esther thought: "How in the world did that happen?? I thought i was so clear!" and then Esther began feeling guilty right away, and so sorry. And then she tried to make herself feel better, and she thought:
"Well, that house is under construction. Maybe it's new people, and they don't know those trees were there!" -so she worried about it for a day or two, off and on, whenever she thought about it.
And then one day, she looked out and she saw a man in a suit standing out on that patio- it's across the ravine, Esther's never been over to that house- standing in a suit, looking at the tree stumps. And then he took his phone out, and took a picture of them, and Esther thought: "I better go confess." But she'd never been over there before, so she didn't know how to get there. Is that a road down, that leads up? Or road up, that leads down? It took her a while to get there. And when she got there, he was already gone. But on her way over, she had practiced her confession: "I didn't mean to do that, and I'm so sorry! But I did do it. And I will make it up to you, in whatever way you want! I'll plant new trees. I'll landscape your whole yard- whatever makes you feel better. I am so sorry!"
-But he wasn't there. So she didn't deliver her speech. So she just went home, and continued to practice it. And then, a day or two later, she went with her friend off to lunch again, and when they got back she said to him: "Look what I did!" -took him out on the patio and pointed at the trees. And her friend said what? "Esther, your gardeners didn't cut those trees down, while we were at lunch! Why isn't the hillside all torn up? Where is the debris from the trees?"
And Esther thought: Hey! and then they walked out to the edge, and she looked up close to her property, and there was a very small stump with all the debris from it lying right there, where they had cut it. And all that had happened is, the gardeners had cut down a little tree that let Esther see things, she wasn't used to seeing. And Esther thought: "It's embarrassing that I believed something so dumb! It was completely illogical. It didn't make any sense at all, that those two men in three or four hours... they would have had to have a helicopter and a saw, and just cut it off at the bottom and carried the whole thing away!"
There was no possible way that that could have happened. But Esther believed that she had done that. The circumstantial evidence was such. The way it had unfolded in her experience- she believed something, that was truly illogical. It shook her up! Esther said: "I bet there's all kinds of really dumb things that I believe, like that, that are in my way! That I just keep carrying forward, for no good reason. Because circumstances just make that the path of least resistance, relative to the momentum that I've got going."
And so, you do- all of you- have many beliefs that you are nurturing, that you continue to keep active. that prevent you from your true reception of what's truly going on. Here's a very powerful statement:
If your desire is strong enough, any belief that's in its way, will fall by the wayside.
But most of you -because of your attention to other humans, and your desire to find mutuality with them, you choose harmony with beliefs that don't serve you- rather than upset them.
Rather than harmony with the beliefs that your Inner Being holds about you, that serve you completely, you don't want to be a freak. You don't want to be a pollyanna. You don't want to believe things that most people don't believe.
You want to believe the circumstantial evidence, because most of you are conditional.
We mean: You, meaning humans, are conditional in your thinking! So you keep observing what-is, and you keep bringing the vibration of what-is forward, even though your very existence means, you are here to create new.
You're not here to regurgitate what's already here!
You are here to become freer. To become wholer. To become newer. To feel better!
You didn't come to regurgitate what-is, and yet, most of those around you are true regurgitators.
And if you stand out not as a regurgitator, sometimes they want to call you weird or freak or pollyanna, or "not facing reality".
HS:
Aren't those regurgitated beliefs manifestations as well (Abe: they are!) ...from something, that happened when you were five or six years old?
Abe:
Something happened 20 years ago, and if you didn't keep thinking about it, it would completely be out of your vibration- within three days! But because you talk about it, you keep bringing it forward 19 years, 18 years, 17 years, 15 years... and so, here it is. Right here, still active in your vibration, even though it has no relevance other than the relevance that you've given it, because you keep it active in your vibration!
So it continues to be in the way of what you want. but your blessed Inner Being- even though your Inner Being knows that you've got things in your way, your Inner Being is always looking for a path of least resistance to call you around it! Over and under it. In other words, to show you that you can get to where you want to be, no matter what beliefs that you hold. But isn't it nice, when you are willing to acknowledge that you have beliefs that are in your way, that are not valid? And what we're saying to you, with this segment, is:
The less you try to find mutuality with the girls in the nail salon, because they're lovely they are lovely and there are positive aspects... Esther one day realized, we've been talking about positive aspects for as long as she can remember. And somehow she was thinking that what we meant was -in every situation, or in every individual, there are positive and negative aspects, so line up the positive ones, line up the negative ones, and focus on the positive ones... and all of a sudden, she understood what we really meant. We meant:
Focus upon any aspect that causes you to feel good, while you focus upon it!
It's not an evaluation. It's not a determining what's positive, and what's negative! It's looking for mutuality with your inner being. It's looking for what feels good when you find it, you see!
HS:
And what feels good- a positive desire can blast out an old negative belief!
Abe:
Because, you see, every individual is like the universe at large. Within every particle of the universe is wanted and absence of it. So, in every individual, there are aspects of them that you want to find mutuality with, and aspects of them that you don't. But most people want the other to change, to be mutual to you, rather than just looking for what is mutual. Or looking somewhere else to find it! Oh, you could be living such wonderful lives, if you would realize, that in every place you look, there is mutuality. And it's up to you, to find it. But when the first thing you do, is find something that's missing- then you harmonize with what you're mutual on, that takes you away from your Inner Being. And then, you struggle and need them to change, so that you can feel better. You got that, didn't you?
HS:
Yeah. Is that... is that mutuality? Because part of me attracted like, some negativity, and part of me attracted some positivity. and everything that I... I attract to myself.
Abe:
That's a perfect statement. Because you've attracted it all.
Nothing is coming to you, that you haven't attracted. But here's the thing: You could be in a place of true alignment. Maybe you've been meditating for a while, and you're tuned in, tapped in, turned on, and you are in alignment, and in that alignment, you attract someone to you- let's say an individual to you, who has that mutuality.
In other words, that person has that potential or maybe even that going on actively, right here right now, and even though they might have a whole lot of other things that you don't want to think about ,or that you don't want to be mutual with, doesn't matter. You are focused upon and active about the thing that does, until you get so nosy about everything, about that person. You meet new people, law of attraction brings you together, and the first thing you do, is: "Tell me about yourself!" and we're in the background, saying: "Don't do that!! Let the law-of-attraction- mutuality be what carries you!"
Don't look around for other things that you might be mutual about, because you might find all kinds of things that neither one of you want to have active in your vibration, that you're mutual about! Because you have all kinds of things within you, that you don't want to be active in your vibration right now. Helpful?
HS:
Yeah, that makes sense, too. Yeah! Yeah, yeah!
Abe:
So, what is life, really? What is it?
Life really is you, seeking alignment with who you really are.
You, seeking alignment with who you really are, you seeking alignment with who you really are, until you discover:
You know when you're satisfied. And when you're not, then moving out and let law of attraction bring to you things that are important to you.
HS:
Well, that's what brought up that predestination I was thinking about. Jerry, manifesting through his own questioning a lot of this, right here... (Abe: yes!) ...and was that like, his Inner Being, calling him into it? (Abe: No question!) ...This is where he's going to, and he just had to... (Abe: No question.) ...allow that to happen and go through his experiences, to get in line with that?
Abe:
Sometimes, when you really want to know something, your Inner Being calls you right through contrasting experiences, in order to inspire you to ask for the thing, that you most want. It's also good: Everything is always working out for you!
from the youtube- clip "Is Pre-Destiny Real | Abraham Hicks | LOA (Law of Attraction)"
(Reactivating resistance).
HS:
Is there some kind of a pre-destiny in following that inner guidance, that inner path?
Abe:
Only in this sense: It was decided, or known, as you were making the decision to come into this body, that
You're a creator.
And that through your exploration, you would expand.
And that expansion is necessary and delicious.
But we would call that predetermined or pre-decided by you, intentionality.
HS:
By me -me-, or me -my Inner Self me-?
Abe:
You, your Inner Self.
HS:
Both of us? Teamwork?
Abe:
At that time, there was no split in you, because you hadn't come into consciousness that could think independently. So you said "step one is: I will think independently. I will know what I don't want. I will know what I do want! And in my independent thought, I will discover things that I do not want, and in the discovery of what I don't want, I will simultaneously discover what I do want, because every component of the universe has
wanted and absence of wanted within it."
And you knew that, and you said: "Sometimes it is necessary for life to show me what I don't want, before I can even know what I do want! Because it has to be personal."
So, when life shows you what you don't want, and then you know what you do want- you've launched that rocket of clarity. And you, and therefore we, have reached into a new place where we have never been before! And we immediately go there, because we have no resistance. You are slower in coming along, because you've got beliefs that keep you from immediately going there.
But when your desire for feeling good becomes stronger, than holding to a belief that you don't care about... The other day, we've been telling this story. We may even have told it to you directly! Esther was in Del Mar. She has a house there. She hadn't been there in months, she was sitting at her desk, looking out where the ocean should have been, and couldn't see the ocean. And she realized that in the months that she'd been gone, the trees had grown in, and the bushes from the side had completely obscured her view from sitting at the desk!
Which was why the desk was there. So her gardeners came later that day, and she said: "I'm blocking my own view. Could you guys trim this edge, so that I can see the ocean?" And they said: "Happily!" and then they said: "But there are trees down in the ravine, that might be part of what you're seeing!" and Esther said: "Well, I only own half of that ravine. Just be sure that it's on my property." and they said "We've got you covered!" -and off Esther went to lunch with her friend. They were gone many hours. They shopped and ate and explored, and when Esther came back, she walked onto her deck and went in and looked out the window, and the ocean was back.
She was so happy to see it! Then she looked out a little way on the hillside, up very close to neighboring property, and saw something that made her gasp: Two very large tree stumps. Cut all the way down to the ground. And Esther thought: "How in the world did that happen?? I thought i was so clear!" and then Esther began feeling guilty right away, and so sorry. And then she tried to make herself feel better, and she thought:
"Well, that house is under construction. Maybe it's new people, and they don't know those trees were there!" -so she worried about it for a day or two, off and on, whenever she thought about it.
And then one day, she looked out and she saw a man in a suit standing out on that patio- it's across the ravine, Esther's never been over to that house- standing in a suit, looking at the tree stumps. And then he took his phone out, and took a picture of them, and Esther thought: "I better go confess." But she'd never been over there before, so she didn't know how to get there. Is that a road down, that leads up? Or road up, that leads down? It took her a while to get there. And when she got there, he was already gone. But on her way over, she had practiced her confession: "I didn't mean to do that, and I'm so sorry! But I did do it. And I will make it up to you, in whatever way you want! I'll plant new trees. I'll landscape your whole yard- whatever makes you feel better. I am so sorry!"
-But he wasn't there. So she didn't deliver her speech. So she just went home, and continued to practice it. And then, a day or two later, she went with her friend off to lunch again, and when they got back she said to him: "Look what I did!" -took him out on the patio and pointed at the trees. And her friend said what? "Esther, your gardeners didn't cut those trees down, while we were at lunch! Why isn't the hillside all torn up? Where is the debris from the trees?"
And Esther thought: Hey! and then they walked out to the edge, and she looked up close to her property, and there was a very small stump with all the debris from it lying right there, where they had cut it. And all that had happened is, the gardeners had cut down a little tree that let Esther see things, she wasn't used to seeing. And Esther thought: "It's embarrassing that I believed something so dumb! It was completely illogical. It didn't make any sense at all, that those two men in three or four hours... they would have had to have a helicopter and a saw, and just cut it off at the bottom and carried the whole thing away!"
There was no possible way that that could have happened. But Esther believed that she had done that. The circumstantial evidence was such. The way it had unfolded in her experience- she believed something, that was truly illogical. It shook her up! Esther said: "I bet there's all kinds of really dumb things that I believe, like that, that are in my way! That I just keep carrying forward, for no good reason. Because circumstances just make that the path of least resistance, relative to the momentum that I've got going."
And so, you do- all of you- have many beliefs that you are nurturing, that you continue to keep active. that prevent you from your true reception of what's truly going on. Here's a very powerful statement:
If your desire is strong enough, any belief that's in its way, will fall by the wayside.
But most of you -because of your attention to other humans, and your desire to find mutuality with them, you choose harmony with beliefs that don't serve you- rather than upset them.
Rather than harmony with the beliefs that your Inner Being holds about you, that serve you completely, you don't want to be a freak. You don't want to be a pollyanna. You don't want to believe things that most people don't believe.
You want to believe the circumstantial evidence, because most of you are conditional.
We mean: You, meaning humans, are conditional in your thinking! So you keep observing what-is, and you keep bringing the vibration of what-is forward, even though your very existence means, you are here to create new.
You're not here to regurgitate what's already here!
You are here to become freer. To become wholer. To become newer. To feel better!
You didn't come to regurgitate what-is, and yet, most of those around you are true regurgitators.
And if you stand out not as a regurgitator, sometimes they want to call you weird or freak or pollyanna, or "not facing reality".
HS:
Aren't those regurgitated beliefs manifestations as well (Abe: they are!) ...from something, that happened when you were five or six years old?
Abe:
Something happened 20 years ago, and if you didn't keep thinking about it, it would completely be out of your vibration- within three days! But because you talk about it, you keep bringing it forward 19 years, 18 years, 17 years, 15 years... and so, here it is. Right here, still active in your vibration, even though it has no relevance other than the relevance that you've given it, because you keep it active in your vibration!
So it continues to be in the way of what you want. but your blessed Inner Being- even though your Inner Being knows that you've got things in your way, your Inner Being is always looking for a path of least resistance to call you around it! Over and under it. In other words, to show you that you can get to where you want to be, no matter what beliefs that you hold. But isn't it nice, when you are willing to acknowledge that you have beliefs that are in your way, that are not valid? And what we're saying to you, with this segment, is:
The less you try to find mutuality with the girls in the nail salon, because they're lovely they are lovely and there are positive aspects... Esther one day realized, we've been talking about positive aspects for as long as she can remember. And somehow she was thinking that what we meant was -in every situation, or in every individual, there are positive and negative aspects, so line up the positive ones, line up the negative ones, and focus on the positive ones... and all of a sudden, she understood what we really meant. We meant:
Focus upon any aspect that causes you to feel good, while you focus upon it!
It's not an evaluation. It's not a determining what's positive, and what's negative! It's looking for mutuality with your inner being. It's looking for what feels good when you find it, you see!
HS:
And what feels good- a positive desire can blast out an old negative belief!
Abe:
Because, you see, every individual is like the universe at large. Within every particle of the universe is wanted and absence of it. So, in every individual, there are aspects of them that you want to find mutuality with, and aspects of them that you don't. But most people want the other to change, to be mutual to you, rather than just looking for what is mutual. Or looking somewhere else to find it! Oh, you could be living such wonderful lives, if you would realize, that in every place you look, there is mutuality. And it's up to you, to find it. But when the first thing you do, is find something that's missing- then you harmonize with what you're mutual on, that takes you away from your Inner Being. And then, you struggle and need them to change, so that you can feel better. You got that, didn't you?
HS:
Yeah. Is that... is that mutuality? Because part of me attracted like, some negativity, and part of me attracted some positivity. and everything that I... I attract to myself.
Abe:
That's a perfect statement. Because you've attracted it all.
Nothing is coming to you, that you haven't attracted. But here's the thing: You could be in a place of true alignment. Maybe you've been meditating for a while, and you're tuned in, tapped in, turned on, and you are in alignment, and in that alignment, you attract someone to you- let's say an individual to you, who has that mutuality.
In other words, that person has that potential or maybe even that going on actively, right here right now, and even though they might have a whole lot of other things that you don't want to think about ,or that you don't want to be mutual with, doesn't matter. You are focused upon and active about the thing that does, until you get so nosy about everything, about that person. You meet new people, law of attraction brings you together, and the first thing you do, is: "Tell me about yourself!" and we're in the background, saying: "Don't do that!! Let the law-of-attraction- mutuality be what carries you!"
Don't look around for other things that you might be mutual about, because you might find all kinds of things that neither one of you want to have active in your vibration, that you're mutual about! Because you have all kinds of things within you, that you don't want to be active in your vibration right now. Helpful?
HS:
Yeah, that makes sense, too. Yeah! Yeah, yeah!
Abe:
So, what is life, really? What is it?
Life really is you, seeking alignment with who you really are.
You, seeking alignment with who you really are, you seeking alignment with who you really are, until you discover:
You know when you're satisfied. And when you're not, then moving out and let law of attraction bring to you things that are important to you.
HS:
Well, that's what brought up that predestination I was thinking about. Jerry, manifesting through his own questioning a lot of this, right here... (Abe: yes!) ...and was that like, his Inner Being, calling him into it? (Abe: No question!) ...This is where he's going to, and he just had to... (Abe: No question.) ...allow that to happen and go through his experiences, to get in line with that?
Abe:
Sometimes, when you really want to know something, your Inner Being calls you right through contrasting experiences, in order to inspire you to ask for the thing, that you most want. It's also good: Everything is always working out for you!
from the youtube- clip "Is Pre-Destiny Real | Abraham Hicks | LOA (Law of Attraction)"
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