Quotes on Self Esteem, Self Worth, Self Value & Confidence

[Paradise-on-Earth]

Most of you aren't used to saying:
"I'm Source-Energy in a physical body, and I get what I want!"

If we were in your physical shoes, we would start saying that. A LOT!!

Abraham Hicks

[spiritualcookie]

The Way to Truly Feel Your Worth is to Connect with your Inner Being

[An] important component of a satisfying physical life experience
is a recognition of your value and your worthiness.
And you can achieve that awareness only through an actual Connection
with that Non-Physical part of you. (...)
There is no other physical substitute for that Connection.

Some try to fill that feeling of void that is present when they are not vibrationally aligned with their Non-Physical Inner Being. (...)
Some seek approval from others,
some seek that approval by attempting to modify their behaviour in order to conform to rules or guidelines of one group or another,
and some work hard to excel in their personal behaviour by comparing their behaviour to that of others they are observing.
But there is no substitute for your vibrational alignment with You. (...)

If you do not tend to that Connection [between you and your Inner Being]
nothing that you can do
will fill the void
or take the place of that alignment.

- Abraham

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I don't care....

What do you mean, "you don’t care"?
-Well, I don’t mean I don’t care about anything, because there are a lot of things I do care about. I care about feeling good. And I care about clarity.
I care about being in the receptive mode.

I care about being an uplifter. I care about presenting all of myself in any moment in time. I care about being of value. I care about feeling good. I care about this magnificent environment.

I care about what’s in my vortex. I care about what’s in your vortex. I care about everything that you desire. I care about all good things coming to me, and to you. I care about us all living happily ever after.

But what I don’t care about are conditions that I cannot control. What I don’t care about are things that take me out of my alignment. What I don’t care about, meaning I don’t have momentum about it anymore.

I don’t care, it’s not a hook for me. It’s not a knee jerk response to me. I’ve trained myself to care about what infuses me, not what diffuses me. I care about what lifts me, not about lowers me.

I care about what feels good, not about what doesn’t feel good. I care about alignment. I care about being an extension of Source. I care about fulfilling my reason for being here. I care about being in this world, and not necessarily only of this world.

I care about the whole of me being present in this moment. I care about all who have gone before me, and all they have come to know, and all they do now know and all that they are now presenting to me.

I care about the revelation that’s constantly coming to me, and I care about being in the receptive mode of that. I care about being on the leading edge. I care about contributing in positive ways. I care about feeling good, and I care about others feeling good.

But what I don’t care about is that which I cannot control. And what I can’t control is everything that is conditional, and what I can control is everything that is unconditional.

I can control the way I feel, I’ve practiced it. I can hold a steady vibration. I can stay in vibrational sync with who I am. I can present the whole of myself, in this time space reality, in any situation.

Abe

The whole interaction:
To care, or not to care?

Abraham Hicks:
Do you have the clarity, the willingness, do you have the gumption, do you have the momentum ...that's even a better word, do you have the momentum to not care what somebody else thinks about what you're doing? Oh, if you could get there! If you could just get there! Practice these words with us! (the audience repeats with Abraham)

I don't care. It's just how I am!
I like it this way. Life is so fun for me! I don't care!
I'm sorry you're upset, but I don't care. [Applause]
I don't care. I would like everything to go well for you! But I can't fix it and so: I don't care.
-"Well, I want a divorce then, if you don't care!" -"I don't care!" [Applause] -"What do you mean: you don't care??"

-"Well, I don't mean I don't care about anything! Because there are a lot of things I do care about.
I care about feeling good, and I care about clarity.
I care about being in the receptive mode.
I care about being an uplifter.
I care about presenting all of myself in any moment in time.
I care about being of value.
I care about feeling good.
I care about this magnificent environment.
I care about what's in my Vortex.
I care about what's in your Vortex!
I care about everything that you desire.
I care about all good things coming to me and to you.

I care about us all, living happily ever after.
But what I don't care about, are conditions I cannot control.
What I don't care about, are things that take me out of my alignment.

What I don't care about- meaning I have no momentum about it anymore- I don't care, it's not a hook for me. It's not a knee-jerk response to me.

I've trained myself to care about what infuses me, not what diffuses me.
I care about what lifts me, not what lowers me.
I care about what feels good, not about what doesn't feel good.
I care about alignment.
I care about being an extension of source!
I care about fulfilling my reason for being here!
I care about being in this world, and not necessarily only of this world.
I care about the whole of me, being present in this moment.
I care about all who have gone before me, and all that they've come to know, and all that they do now know,
and all that they are now presenting to me.

I care about the revelation that's constantly coming to me.
And I care about being in the receptive mode of that I care about being on the Leading Edge!
I care about contributing in positive ways.
I care about feeling good, and I care about others, feeling good.

But what I don't care about is that that I can't control.
And what I can't control is everything that is conditional!
And what I can control is everything that is unconditional.

I can control the way I feel: I've practiced it. I can hold a steady vibration!
I can stay in vibrational sync with who I am.
I can present the whole of myself, in this time-space reality in any situation.
I can walk into a situation that is raging in discomfort, and because I haven't cared about it-
I'm not hooked into it- and because I'm not hooked into it, I am in vibrational alignment with the solution,
that they are all seeking.

They are all bound up in the problem, but I don't care about the problem!
I'm in alignment with the solution!
So, I can walk into any environment, no matter what's going on: Guns going off, people jumping off cliffs, it doesn't matter what sort of things are going on; because I don't care about that, -I'm not vibrationally aligned with that, and because I'm not vibrationally aligned with that, I'm not part of that point of Attraction.

I'm part of the solution, not part of the problem!
I care about that!

So, I can walk into any environment, steady in the vibrational alignment, with all that I've lived, steady with what's in my vortex.
In alignment with what's in my Vortex!
Walking Above The Fray, in complete alignment and alliance with all that is good.
Knowing what to do, and what to say, and where to go, and when to be!

In other words, Tuned in, Tapped in, Turned on- embracing life. That's what I care about!
I care about what feels good, and I do not allow myself to care about what feels bad!
Because in the unconscious sifting of the environment what doesn't feel good, causes me to launch something that does.
And that's what I care about.

I don't care about the problems. I care about the solutions. That's what I align with.
I don't care about the struggles, I care about the flow, and that's what I'm in alignment with.
I care about feeling good, I don't care about feeling bad.

I care about feeling good.
I care about fulfilling my reason for being,
and my reason for being is simple and singular care about feeling good!
Because, you see, Source within you feels so good!
And you know how you can tell how good source feels, by how bad you feel!
Because if Source wasn't feeling really really good about the exact thing you're focused upon, you couldn't feel bad!

If Source felt just like you feel, you'd feel wonderful. So when you feel bad, no matter what the subject.
It always means you have diverged from the way Source feels, about that subject.
You can love this guy, without living with him, (HS: we do!)
And you gotta, because source does.
And if you don't, then you're using him as your excuse to cut yourself off from Source.

HS:
Yeah, when you're in that situation- so for example, sometimes in the morning- (Abe: What situation?) A situation where you're off...

Abe:
Oh, we don't care about that.

HS:
Okay. [Laughter] So just be okay with where you're at!

Abe:
We don't care! (pausing).
You see, the reason you feel a struggle is, because you get into a vibration where you can't hear what source feels.

HS:
Can I just say that, like- even if I'm feeling mad or something, can I just say- "you know what- I don't care!" ?

Abe:
"I give up! I give up, I give up the struggle!" Okay? I give up. It's pointless. It's like someone handing you a 500 ton Boulder and saying: "Take it over there, please!" You say: "I don't really care about that."

And you better not care about it!!
Because you're not going to carry it over there! But if you really need it to be over there, and you focus upon what you want, and why you want it, a way to get it over there will be revealed to you. But right now, it better not matter so much, that you've got to pick it up, and carry it over there, you see! You get what we're getting at...?

HS:
Yeah yeah! I just lastly wanted to say: I adore Esther. I think she's one of my superheroes. And I love you Abraham! So, thank you very very much!

Abe:
We are all in this together, aren't we? Yeah. We are all in this together. Really good conversation!

from the youtube-clip "The Rampage of "I Don't Care" - Abraham Hicks"

[Paradise-on-Earth]

I can make a career of
living happily ever after!

Abraham Hicks

[spiritualcookie]

Practising Appreciation of Other Things is the Pathway to Appeciation of Self


Appreciation is the ultimate state of non-resistance.
The basis of appreciation is a vibrational frequency that holds no resistance.

And true self- appreciation just means you've practiced it until it's easy to be there.
We watch so many people who are you're harder on yourself than you are on anyone else.

It's easy for you to appreciate the beautiful day
or the cute kittens in the kitten box.
It's easy for you to appreciate just about everything.
It's harder for you to appreciate yourself usually because you've practiced not appreciating yourself .

(usually because there have been people who have not understood is who have wanted to feel better sincerely who have watched you doing things that made them not feel good and then have made you believe that you need to do something different so that they can feel good.
So we could talk a lot and there's no value in it about how you get to not appreciating self.
The important thing is how to pick up the mantle of that and begin to appreciate yourself.)

And what we notice is just practice appreciating ANYTHING.

Appreciate that
and appreciate that
and appreciate that
and appreciate that
and occasionally appreciate that
and then appreciate that and that and that and that and that and that and that and that and that
and occasionally appreciate that and that and that and that
and that and that

and you'll just get so in the rhythm of appreciation.

that before you know it - (...)
appreciation is a state of vibrational relationship (...)
it's a result of focus. (...)

What appreciation is is the feeling of vibrational relationship between what Source feels about whatever it is I'm thinking about
and what I feel.

What I feel is about those different frequencies.

So if I am practicing an alignment with Source on every subject that is active within me then I'm absent of the gap -
I'm absent of resistance -
I'm in the presence of that vibration [of Source on this topic].
and the result of that is I feel what I'm wanting to call Appreciation.

- Abraham
from the youtube clip: This Needed To Find You Before Tomorrow For A Big Reason !Abraham Hicks 2024

[spiritualcookie]

Learn to love yourself for who you are right now
and you'll find that others will treat you as kind and lovingly as you treat yourself.

- AH

[spiritualcookie]

You don't love yourself the way the larger part of you does.
And you suffer horribly in the absence of self love.

And we've noticed that when you're not loving,
you have a hard tiem loving anybody.

And when you're not loving anybody you have a hard time loving you.

Just find something to love
and focus upon it.

No matter what it is,
find something to love.

Give it your undivided attention
until you've activated the vibration until you can feel it within you.

- AH

[spiritualcookie]

We know the deliciousness within you when you feel worthiness.
And we also know that the path to your unequivocal chronic feeling of worthiness is vibrational alignment with the Source within you.

Nothing will make you feel more loved than the universe yielding to you your heart's desires.

The universe has always been yielding to you your heart's desires.
But in your determination that you are not worthy you don't let it in.

- Abraham
from the youtube clip: Abraham Hicks - Delusion - Real Thing?

[spiritualcookie]

Abraham:
Does it feel logical to you that you are utterly completely magnificently worthy?

HS: That's where the little bit of brains [come in and question my worthiness...]

Abraham: But isn't it logical given everything else that feels completely logical...

HS: When I look a little at a little child and the beaming light and the joy it's absolutely [easy to see their worthiness].

Abraham: So what's the difference? what's the difference?
Why can you believe that about the beaming child but not about you?

"Beaming child hasn't made all the mistakes I've made" - that are not considered mistakes by your inner being - so your inner being still sees you as that beaming child.
The way you feel about the beaming child - is the way your inner being feels about
you.
No matter what.
No matter what water is under your bridge
That's the way your inner being knows you to be

- Abraham
from the youtube clip: GB
Convo: 'the inactive box', clearing clutter for clarity ~ Abraham Hicks Daily