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"Nothing matters more to me, than that I feel good."
(Abe)

...I enjoy my tipping point!
I react joyfully from ITV now, and so, it all turns out wonderful!

Day 13

FloatingBoat wrote: ↑Sat Dec 28, 2024 12:50 pm (...) I think of the miracles and the unconditional love, which is also what brought me to Abraham, where I felt this energy most purely and what absolutely attracted me. Of course, I don't know you personally, but from what I've gathered here, I can say that you live these miracles and unconditional love every day and carry them in your heart.

This words of you are SO BIG for me! They deeply resonate (!! ) with me and I know in my whole Self: You are right. And I can not, and want not, stay in the old closet about that, anymore!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

This interaction was still stirring in me, when I got the impulse to listen to a clip from an -before to me- unknown channel (so, was it "random" that it found me?? ) that was about "how to know if a man is in love with you". I heard it in the background so to speak while I sorted photos, but it touched and moved me, as I KNEW it was describing all the signs that my (beloved) neighbor shows, when we meet- since almost 30 years now. We never talked about our feelings, and we did not even become friends. But meeting each other is each time as "having your toe in a light-socket" as Abe call it- we get instantly TITITO and feel incredibly alive and moved. The Earth shakes, and then it stands still, so to speak. Holding it's breath, until something melts and flows within us, wild, untamably, HUGE, tender and warm and undescribably beautiful!

I always had a very hard time "trusting our love"... because- why would it be? FOR WHAT? I certainly was not looking for such a "distraction" and potential pain for my partner!!

-I am so happily married. I have the best partner I can imagine! And still, there is such a huge attraction to the other man. I once had asked Abe about it, and the answer was crystal clear: "He is your twin-flame". I had heard the term "soulmate" often, and I was absolutely certain my husband would be one. But I never had heard the word "twinflame". So I started a search and found what resonated with me: Twinflames are not just your "soul-family", but offsprings from the very same soul that you are, too. There is a HUGE attraction between the partners, often almost spooky similarities, most often one of them is already in an -often very happy- relationship, and the age and other earthly circumstances usually don't match easily. WHEN they come together as couple, it is a very very challenging relationship, while full of earth-shaking chemistry that binds the two extremely tight.

So, bottomline, twinflames meet, when they are ready to learn about UNCONDITIONAL love- most often in the hard and deep way, and source doesn't let them escape from each other easily.

I cant speak for my twinflame, but I and DH certainly learned incredibly, in those 15 years that things where "on" until the girlfriend of the twin got pregnant. I was not willing to pull other ones into the madness, as this woman and the child, and so I told my inner soul, this game would be over now. I would no longer be available, and I got released. It went almost away, for 5 years... and now, outer things have changed and the calling slowly comes back, as it would knock on the door... and I wonder again: WHY? What for??

My inner voice came clear and stern with this short answer: It is the very next step.
Oh my!! YES. I want to be open! I want to be a lighthouse: ...I want to LOVE, because that is what is ME! But why this way?

You are a lover, and a lover's got to love!
-Abraham

And: NO!! I don't want it!! This topic is so crazy! It is inconveniant. It is potentially hurtful (and I wouldn't want anything less than that!). It is WEIRD!! People might judge me: That scares me! I can not really control it! I can't bang it into shape. I can't label it, and "do something with it". The other man is so not complying to talk, intellectualize and sort it into piles! And also- it feeeeels so good. It feels sooooo calling. It feels a a force of God. "Nothing to do. Everything to feel."



...I decide to TRUST! I decide to go with the flow, to love and to look at what feels wonderful, and stop in the second it doesn't feel good anymore. Even if others don't understand. Even if others want me to "care", so that they can feel good... Oh my. It feels temerarious and super-foolish and UNCARING and I know... all of this is just my RESISTANCE. Because, in it's core, it is just true, pure LOVE.

I give up. I give in. I am willing to be the lighthouse in whatever way feels good!
I let go of my holding back. Source, lead me- I am willing to let my joy guide me in steps of millimeters, so that I don't run ahead or get dragged... I am willing. And I pray that I am ready! FOR WHATEVER THIS IS!


So when you say to someone not just "I LOVE you,"
you say to them,

"I LOVE loving you. It is MY pleasure.

I am loving myself as greatly as I could ever love, by my love for you.
I need NOTHING back from you in return.
It is MY focus upon YOU and the way it FEELS as I focus it!

It's MY focus upon you, future creation of mine,
future empire that I am building,
future job that I'm working on,
future-whatever-it-is, that I'm gathering.

It's my love and appreciation, that YOU EXIST as an object of attention
to which I can give my undivided attention,
my undivided attention- as I PURR myself into ALIGNMENT."

Portland, OR on 8/11/12





On the feeling of Falling in Love

When you have that feeling of falling in love-
what it REALLY is,
is alignment with Source,
while you hold another as your object of attention.

- Abraham





What is unconditional love, anyway?
Unconditional love is:
I´m happy!
I´m HAPPY.
I´m happy- in this moment.

Unconditional love is:
I have the ability to focus in love on my happiness."

from the clip Abraham Hicks - He feels pulled to expansion, but she

...it seems that I got my answer to "Whyyyy??"

"Nothing matters more to me, than that I feel good."
(Abe)

...I enjoy my tipping point!
I react joyfully from ITV now, and so, it all turns out wonderful!

Day 14

I enjoy being about my tipping point in feeling absolutely financially free.
I "work" with Abundance and my desire to reallly feel RICH deliberately since I was 8 years old. I still remember me, birthing the rocket of desire for my family of origin, who have been entrepreneurs.



So, almost all my life, I looked for a way to not "yearn", while I never never gave up to soothe myself in WANTING my dream to fulfill.
I am PROUD about it. I came so far! I made peace in such a HUGE way. I lived my life, embracing abundance, and I am ready. I EXPECT "outrageous abundance", and I feel so very abundant already- in my ideas, my desires, my answers, my knowing, my assets, my BELOVED "stuff": my fulfilled dreams!

I DID THAT.
And all the Universe helped me, pointed me, reminded me, backed me up! THANK YOU, THANK YOU LIFE!!!



I feel that my calling is to be a "living example" of enjoying abundance, and I so enjoy how this grows!
I am really good at it, and getting better and better!
I left behind poverty-thinking and all it's unwanted manifestations.
I experienced many many many "miracles" in regards to money, and several extremely generous gifts.
I feel so fulfilled in being wonderfully balanced generous, in my beloved family, and with my friends!
I feel worthy, in so many ways. I trained a "lazy" life, where I do not have to "earn" money, AT ALL.
I became a true, lighthearted, free-flowing lover of money, a connoisseur of food, beauty and energy.
It feels clear and clean. It feels filled with love and joy and fun!
It feels endlessly eager and passionate! I feel KNOWING: I trust all of this! I expect the very best things.

I feel that I live mastery!
And I am sooo eager for endlessly more! And, I am sooooooo thankful for all of that!

Wishing you a fantastic, glamorous, awesome, wonderful, easy, lighthearted, light-filled RICH transition into 2025 (pick all what you desire!)
and the most beautiful, transformative, mindblowing, delightful, blissful New Year that you can imagine!

"Nothing matters more to me, than that I feel good."
(Abe)

...I enjoy my tipping point!
I react joyfully from ITV now, and so, it all turns out wonderful!

Day 15

I enjoy my tipping point in feeling SO eager to embody "who I really am" on a totally new level!
I feel guided. I feel understanding so much more than ever.
I feel in such friendly, deep love with my body and -physics!



I REALLY feel that it's alright. What was was SERVING me, on my way to enlightenment and mastery.
I am certain that my Vortex is filled with exactly what I want, and source not only knows it, but lives it, and knows the perfect way to the perfect unfolding, and the perfect co-creators, and the perfect further "ingrediences" and the absolutely perfect timing.



There is no rush, at all. Nothing is hunting me. I just want to have FUN, on my way! Fun of fantastic movement. Fun of awesome delicious food. Fun of TRUSTING the unfolding. FUN! If this is no fun, I will not do it, and that's not only all I can do- it is EENOUGH. Ohh, I so like that!! I trust it! And I am eager and curious for the unfolding!!

Thank you, thank you, thank you LIFE!

Hi Paradise on Earth!! Just wanted to pop in to say on Christmas day a bunch of my friends and family played the game you mentioned in one of your posts: what is the one thing you would buy if you had all the money in the world, and what is the one thing you want that money can’t have. It was a lot of fun! Thank you! And a very wonderful 2025 to you!

CoreEssence wrote: ↑Thu Jan 02, 2025 2:48 am Hi Paradise on Earth!! Just wanted to pop in to say on Christmas day a bunch of my friends and family played the game you mentioned in one of your posts: what is the one thing you would buy if you had all the money in the world, and what is the one thing you want that money can’t have. It was a lot of fun! Thank you! And a very wonderful 2025 to you!

Ohh, I love hearing this! Thank you so much for sharing! It is wonderful to reach around the globe, so to speak, and feel the love, joy and inspiration of people you have never seen. We are all in this together, right?

"Nothing matters more to me, than that I feel good."
(Abe)

...I enjoy my tipping point!
I react joyfully from ITV now, and so, it all turns out wonderful!

Day 16

It's half-time of this challenge. I so enjoy what I am achieving here!
I remember how I turn around every problem in minutes. I CAN DO THAT!
I love how I am drawn to the quotes or clips that I need most, in the following time.
I am so CERTAIN, so sure, so in KNOWING that source works with all of us, all the time.
I so enjoy this "co-creation" on purpose! I so enjoy how aware I am, of it!

I love how conscious I am in all of it- witnessing what and how things happen, and how they are leading to what I TRULY desire.
I so like to understand this (snippet of a) quote. Well, of the WHOLE quote, but here it comes pulled together:


I care about feeling good, and I care about clarity.
I care about being in the receptive mode.
I care about being an uplifter.
I care about presenting all of myself in any moment in time.
I care about being of value.
I care about feeling good.
I care about this magnificent environment.
I care about what's in my Vortex.
I care about what's in your Vortex!
I care about everything that you desire.
I care about all good things coming to me and to you.

I care about us all, living happily ever after.
But what I don't care about, are conditions I cannot control.
What I don't care about, are things that take me out of my alignment.

Abraham

I woke up this night and felt fear, and that was SO ODD.
It was my "normal" some years ago, and now, I KNOW that this is not "real" (while of course, I embrace and soothe it.)
But fear is not who I really am- it just means, I am missing the TRUTH and my alignment here, that always is there when I look from the right sides.

I LOVE how fast I am where I belong: On the highflying discs.
I am so thankful for Abes teachings! I am so thankful for my mind and my emotions, and ll the life experience that taught me. I WANT TO BE HERE- in this time, in this space, and see my life and my insight and the one of whole world, to unfold into Paradise on Earth. And I know- I will. I will see it DONE. Thank you, thank you life!!

"Nothing matters more to me, than that I feel good."
(Abe)

...I enjoy my tipping point!
I react joyfully from ITV now, and so, it all turns out wonderful!

Day 17

My daughter and SIL and all the grandsons came today, and oh my, I am TIRED now!!
I LOVE them so much!!
They all are eager to learn about our true power and how to "get your stuff" ... I was so touched having all this young vegetables humming around me, having fun, playing and asking philosphical questions! I felt SO touched and in love and happy!!

We ALL (including my son in law) cooked after a wonderful breakfast. We prepared a meatloaf for each family, with violet (!!) potato-cakes, creamed corn and for desert breadpudding with cherries and vanilla-custard. It would be so much easier to do it all on my own, but oh, we loved working together!!

And then the delivery of our fire-wood arrived, and the "men" ran outside to clean it up.My husband will enjoy this SO much! And the boys LOVED to "help" even more, and my SIL is strong as a bear and REALLY did amazing work. I appreciate them all sooo much! I love being with each one of them! My step-grandson must leave tomorrow morning again for his home, and it hurts to say good bye. I'd LOVE if I could spare him his fears and problems... but I know, I just can see him happy and clear and trusting and enjoying what is becoming.

I loved not to be drawn down, but be able to, instead, uplift!
I LOVE how much I know and have trained, that upliftment comes so easily. I still feel the short sting of the unwanted, and then I easily turn around to the wanted, and so easily, ENJOY it. I am proud. I adore seeing how the joy gets back into others eyes. SO fast. So certain. So reliable. This sh* WORKS!

I am sooo sooo thankful for knowing my stuff. There could be nothing more amazing and beautiful for me, than to be an uplifter. I am so thankful to love here and now, and to know what I know, and to have those around me that really benefit from who I am. Thank you, life. THANK YOU LIFE!!!

Paradise-on-Earth wrote: ↑Sun Dec 29, 2024 10:35 pm Wow, what an amazing "welcome home" for me!!

FloatingBoat wrote: ↑Sat Dec 28, 2024 12:50 pm Hello Poe,

Thank you for your wonderful words.

I find some very strong parallels; in my childhood, especially through my grandfather, I experienced unconditional love. My grandfather was Christian, but in such a natural way, not fanatical, but extremely loving. He loved me with all his heart, accepted me as I am, and I remember being the best version of myself in his presence because I believe he was so connected to his source. I remember when I came to him, I had so much fun doing things for him, like working in the garden. He would rush out, even though he was already old, and we would work in the garden together. That was a wonderful time.

This is incredibly beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing!!

I believe this harmony and love that I experienced with him, combined with the beautiful nature I experienced there, strongly awakened in me this desire for paradise, or rather, it reminded me of the broader perspective. But, of course, as with many people, attempts were made to talk me out of it at school or at home, and so began a long journey of searching, exploring philosophy and various forms of spirituality, even turning to Christianity. But only through Abraham do I feel whole again because they have reawakened my memory of what has always been within me.

yes, right? ...Abe have always called this "resonating". We resonate in our bones, so to speak. With our whole beingness. With the whole of us... and then we KNOW. It is a gift, and nobody can talk us out of THAT!

I remember very strongly in 2015 when my grandpa died, that shortly before he passed, he took my hand and radiated such hope; his eyes were really shining. But only through this year's experience with the blue orb and the dream where he told me that his love always flows to me, that the love from my inner being always flows to me, and that my love always flows from my heart, could I truly understand everything.

I find it so beautiful how you describe your relationship with Jesus because much is distorted by religion.

...and I even understand, why. That is such a gift to me, from Abe, also: We are not all on the same wavelengths, and some CAN NOT hear what others know to be true. But religion fills the gap and helps those that don't have the capacity for "the whole thing". And,isn't that good!

I think of the miracles and the unconditional love, which is also what brought me to Abraham, where I felt this energy most purely and what absolutely attracted me. Of course, I don't know you personally, but from what I've gathered here, I can say that you live these miracles and unconditional love every day and carry them in your heart.

This words of you are SO BIG for me! They deeply resonate (!! ) with me and I know in my whole Self: You are right. And I can not, and want not, stay in the old closet about that, anymore!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

This path suits you as you describe it, and it absolutely suits me too.

YES, YES, YES!!!

I once had this thought, as Kyron describes, that we are a kind of paradise children who still carry the longing for paradise within us because this experience is still so real for us. And paradise is, of course, the non-physical level where only love and positive energy exist. Therefore, I am very grateful to you for sending me that from Kyron. I listened to it again, and particularly one part fits very well with my current situation.

YES!!! And it fits me, as well (of course it does!!)
We are those that are now needed: Those, that remember, that hold the light of this vision, so that others can see and remember, as well. We ALL are "Children of God", we ALL carry the vision. Some just walk a few steps ahead- so that others can find their path, also!

„Did you ever stop to think that you you are the answer to problems other people have that don’t have any solutions that they can think of where they cannot get into peaceful places where they don’t know what to do next and there you are the lighthouse that is not afraid of the truth“

Abe say, sometimes we get sent as "step 2" for others. And in this moment, that is the most joyful that we sooo WANT to do. It is never a burden or a chore! I experienced that in my 2 days with family just now, also... Being step 2 for someone else is BLISS. It is fulfillment. It means to be who we really are and to do, what we came to do, as OUR HIGHEST JOY!

At the moment, I've noticed that many people come to me with their problems, and sometimes I manage to be that lighthouse for them. But often, I let myself be dragged down into a negative spiral, which helps neither me nor them. However, it's a good reminder for me to stand up more for my truth and be the lighthouse that is so needed right now.

exactly!! You are not alone in this, either... (of course you know that). We all must train to "get there"- Jesus needed to do that, as well! (This thought always soothes me) He also was OOTV, from time to time. You don't throw a giant fit and whip people, when you are ITV! And, "they don't nail you up when you are in the Vortex!" (Abe). We ALL slip, and it is totally ok.

Now I feel, I am finally ready to step into my WHOLE life and be who I really am!


This is my absolute favorite sentence. It reminds me of a topic you recently touched on, which I actually wanted to say something about. You mentioned 2009, and that's when I had my first panic attack. Just before it happened, my heart was pounding, and I felt an incredible love. Then this feeling tipped over because I think I was afraid of this extreme love and greatness that I actually am, and because I couldn't allow it, I panicked. But I believe that today I can join you in saying that I am also ready for the wholeness of who I am and my full greatness.

exactly!! THAT is the classic "panic attack". And (as you know) it is nothing bad. While it is a sign of HOW GREAT we are, and that it is time to stop micromanaging, supressing ourselves and fearing our own power- just as Marianne Williamson said in her famous poem:



thank you for reminding me about that! It helps me so much, in this moment, too!!

Danke

Thank you, thank you for being so wonderful and standing up for it, for being a lighthouse for me and others. Thank you for continually inspiring me.

It's just what happens when we resonate! And it is SO my pleasure. We are in this together, right?
...SO von Herzen gerne!!

Hello Poe,
thank you so much for your loving response.

It has awakened many things within me and fits so well with my current situation. I feel a strong resonance with your words, and what you write radiates so much love, experience, and wisdom. Your words make me happy.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Yes, i feel also a big resonance with your words.
There is a lot of positivity that can be gained from religion, and I see it in my mother as well, that her relationship with God can give her a sense of unconditional love and hope, and that is a very good path. I am happy for everyone who finds a way that helps them come into a positive vibration and feel a sense of love, gratitude, appreciation, or hope.

Yes, it is so helpful when one is connected with their inner being, and it inspires others so much. This positive aura also inspires others who are nearby. Additionally, one can positively influence the people they love by seeing them as they would like to become, casting a good light into this world. I experienced this myself again last Wednesday when we were with our friend Johannes. We talked to him, and he was probably in a psychosis. I was again on a negative track with my friend Eric. We tried to get him to seek help, but of course, that didn't work. Both Eric and I then slipped into a low, and now I have started to realize that it doesn't do me any good, and I am letting go of this matter with Johannes and imagining him as he would like to be. This contrast experience has shown me even more what I wish for in contact with others, and in the meantime, many desire rockets have been shot into my vortex, so I can also validly look at this situation. Additionally, I am learning more and more to be a lighthouse for others, simply by focusing on joy. Abraham says, "When you get your eye on the joy, everything else will fall into place."


Yes, I often notice that i can help other people better when i take care of myself rather than putting myself last and then trying to be there for others. That doesn't work for me, but I've slipped back into it again. However, there are also these positive requests at the moment that make me feel that more people are interested. For example, I often talk to my father about inspiration and motivation and also the topic of positive influence. Recently, he spoke with his neighbor Diana about this topic and told her what I have said about these subjects. Diana would like a detailed written explanation because she has a daughter with anorexia, and I am happy to write this text for her because I think the teachings of Abraham and my experiences on these topics could be very helpful for her.


Since I've been involved with Abraham and also in the forum, I can let go of negative phases much more easily because I notice how good it feels to realign myself positively. The books, the forum, the exercises, all of this has triggered a chain reaction of positivity in me again, and I am so glad that you recommended back then to approach things without pressure but to do what makes me happy right now. And that gives so much ease and so many possibilities. And these loving reminders from you, that's what I love about you because this reminder has brought so much good into my life, and I just want to say thank you for that.

Thank you to you, thank you to me and my inner being, thank you to Abraham, and thank you to the whole universe and the forum because I am happy that I have found and can live my truth, which I have felt inside for a long time, through Abraham.