The Abe Forum

Sub-topics on different types of Rascals

• Aggressive Rascals
• Critical Rascals
• Lying Rascals
• Rebellious Rascals

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On rude people

You are always living a reflection of whatever you are outputting. And so, if you get into a little pocket where a lot of people are being rude, it’s probably because you are being rude—or because you have been aware of people being rude. Nothing ever happens to you that is not part of your vibration!

Excerpted from Chicago, IL on 4/25/99

When dealing with Rascals in your life:

"Ignore what you don't like" - Abraham

SHOULD YOU FORGIVE RASCALS?

We've never been one to forgive.
And people are aghast.
And we say: "We dont' forgive because we never condemned to begin with.

So forgiveness is coming back into alignment after you've been out.
Forgiveness is alignment.
It's giving up resistance.


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We know your world is a long way from your collective consciousness forgiving rascals who make conditions that upset you.
But it's not the forgiving of THEM we're asking for.
It's your forgiving of your own point of attention,
so that you can align with the love rather than with the hate.

You cannot focus upon something that feels awful without perpetuating it.
You cannot focus upon something that makes you feel good without perpetuating it.
So you've just got to decide. - Abraham

MAKE PEACE WITH OTHERS' DISCORD

The moment you stop the judgement on yourself
about the rightness or wrongness of where you are,
then you'll be able to be more forgiving relative to where others are.
You have to make peace with their discord.
And before you make peace with their discord, you have to make peace with your own.
- Abraham

LYING & LIARS: QUOTE ON RASCALS WHO LIE

If you feel drawn to someone
but you are annoyed because you think that they are telling you some lies,
try to look beyond the lies and try to focus upon the feeling.

People offer all kinds of words for all kinds of different reasons.
Most lies are offered to try and keep things in alignment.

We're not encouraging it,
but the motive behind lying is usually a pretty honorable motice.
IOW, when a child lies to their parents,
it's usually because they want to be free to do what they want to do,
and they don't want their parents to be upset about it.
It's about wanting an alignment.

Physical ears have a hard tiem hearing this.
You keep talking about:
"We need to be honest".
And we say, we don't meet any of you who are honest.
Even those who claim to be the most virtuous, are not honest,
but your vibration always is.
We would trust the feeling more than the words.

- Abraham Hicks, Houston, Texas 1/13/01

When someone says you're not being realistic about something, and they offer you their "realistic" perspective that negates what you want, what's a good comeback to them?

Abraham: What is your intent in "coming back?"
[If it is] to stimulate them to the knowing that you have come to, this is what you would say:

"I have come to know that my realism holds me right here,
for if I will only allow what is presently real in my experience,
then I will never grow beyond it.
And so, I have decided to forget about current reality
and to think about future reality.
And the future holds much more for me than the present,
for I am getting better at creating every day."

And the one who is seeking will say, "... What?!"

- Abraham