The F*-it thread
Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2024 8:13 pm
In the old Forum, we had a "F* it thread". It was incredibly useful!
I felt really off, the hour before, and looked for relief. Usually, I just let the topic go and relax, and find something different that is funny or really joyfully interesting. But this time, this didn't work. I was meh. I started to downspiral into a pity party. And worse. My German uncle calls this stance "wellmütig", and it feels as the perfect description: "in a wavy mood". Kinda seasick!
And then, I thought about that there should be a F* it thread here, as well. Where we can swear in a sort of safe place, until the mood lifts, or we even feel like laughing about ourselves. And then I got inspired to look for the famous "F* it quote", and I found at least one. because somewhere exists an interaction where Abe use the word themselves! Aka, brave Esther does!
And then I realized, I'm not in the mood for swearing, any longer. But I still will open up this thread for all those who need it, and for the time when *I* will need it!
Abraham on cussing and using the F-word
(HS asks if using the F-word brings down our energy)
Abraham:
Using this language, even if it's by some standards offensive, is serving them (who feel disempowered) because it's at least giving them a feeling of empowerment! It's much better than a feeling of disempowerment. And that is -in the majority of cases, why someone offers it.
It is their attempt at regaining their own power.
So, if someone displays this language in a way that you are hearing it, and they are in a position that they can hear you, say to them: "Good for you! Taking back your power!" But if someone is hopeful and then they are expressing rage, it's not so good. Because they are moving in the wrong direction. (...) That's when people are using it, just it became another "word". You can tell when you are using it to move into the right direction! And you can tell when it has no power within it.
from the youtube clip: Abraham Hicks ~ Using the F word and the Law of Attraction