The Abe Forum

When you get dominated by others...
It's ALL about Attraction!


HS:
Why is it that I let people an ability into what they like or what they want me to be... I don't know who I am, basically.

Abe:
Well you're not alone in that. But it's basically because... it's exactly because... it's precisely because... oh we're out of time. [laughter] It's because coming into this experience, you- like almost everybody else- were focused in your physical way, surrounded by people who wanted behavior from you, that made them feel better.
-So, you were guided away from your guidance system.
-It's also about momentum.
-It's also about that statement that you just made! In other words, you just made a statement that puts you on a grid spinning disc, that's about here (low). And when that's where your disc is spinning, then only people that do that to you, can get on with you.

It's like you get on, and you say: "All right, folks! This is the party we're having: I don't know what I want. I've never known what I want! People just have their way with me. So if you're going to come and play with me, I need you to boss me around. -I don't like it! I'll struggle, I'll complain about it. I'll complain to a lot of people about it, and they'll get on, too. We'll even do it to each other! We'll do it to each other."

So now you know you're doing it, when you find yourself doing that, you might want to pull back from that thought! You might want to try to find other statements, that get you on different disks, now!

It's not ever a good idea for us to attempt disk-jumping.

This jumping is sort of like quantum leaping. This jumping doesn't work very well in an environment like this! Sometimes it works better than others, because we can focus together in a powerful way. But when you feel strongly about something, then the way you feel is because of the vibration that you've got going on. And its relationship to who you really are, and what you really want. So, there's just a momentum that you want to cycle down. Or you can lay some new pipes! So let's take a little bit of time here and lay some new pipes about it! So are you saying to us, that you don't know what you want. Do you think that's really true?

So it isn't, that you don't know what you want! It's that other people seem to know more what they want.
Do you mean that? Or are people really bossing you around?

HS:
Um, I don't know if it's bossing, or manipulating, if that makes any sense?

Abe:
Sort of the same. Here's a really good word: Other people are influencing me around.
"Other people are influencing me around, because they've got more momentum going and I don't have any momentum going. So, every time I come out the door, I just get sucked onto their disc"."

But you see, it's not like that. You're not just getting sucked onto their disk. You practiced being there, before you opened your door! And when you opened your door, you said: "Hello, vibrational (...) compatible person! Hello vibrationally compatible friend! Hello, hello!"
-Jerry thought it'd be great, that there would be islands of incarceration. Rapists all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Murderers all on one island, where they could do it to each other. Thieves on one island, where they could do it to each other. And we said: You've got those "islands". The audience didn't like it, the day that we told them that. Because,

they don't think that the victim should be on the same island with the victimizer! But it's the way it works out!

So what might you say right here and now, to make you change discs? "Come on, come on, come on!!!?" You CAN`T, can you!
You just have to fall out of the airplane. You're at 30 000 feet (altitude), which is high and cold. Just let it happen, and soon it'll be over. And then, you just lay new pipes. And the way you lay new pipes, is by acknowledging:

"All right. I accept that I am the Creator of my own reality." Do you? (HS: Yes.)
I accept that I'm a vibrational offerer!
I accept that I choose to think thoughts, that place me on these spinning discs, and that law of attraction is going to bring other things like that to me."

You accept all of that, don't you? So, now- maybe- as far as you want to, or need to, or can go right now, is to say:
"I'm glad to know about my point of attraction!
And I'm glad I know that I have choices." -You do, don't you? You can choose general thoughts!

We'll give you some general thoughts to choose:
-I can get this!
-I'm not very good at it.
Which disc would you like to jump on, right now?

HS:
I can get this.

Abe:
-I don't need to figure it out, right now.
-I damn well better figure it out right now!
Which disc would you like to jump on?

-No one understands me!
-All I need is alignment with source.
Which disk would you like to choose?

...These are easy choices for you!
-I'm working too hard at this.
-This is getting easier all the time! I don't have to figure it out, all at once.
Which would you like to choose?

You see, what we're getting at- in other words, "what do I want to add momentum to?"
You're going to have a lot of fun in the days before you, as you begin noticing what momentum you are perpetuating!


from the clip "Abraham Hicks on how to escape the flow of a manipulative person"

If the Path is a FUN Path, you don't care how long it takes.
You only want this to be a short Path because your not having Fun!

Abraham Hicks

Dying is a true Quantum-Leap!
How it feels to croak, vs how it feels to move up the scale pre-croaking, and about advancing into step 4 and 5

HS:
What I would want from you, is: I feel great. Everything's wonderful. I have been lately watching kind of near-death experiences, and am a little obsessed with, um the feeling of all of that resistance, leaving, when someone crosses over and comes back. And I would love to know what that feeling feels like! If you could talk about that feeling of the resistance leaving? Prior to croaking would be preferable, you know. But I'm just... every time I hear about the love of the source, I can't explain the eagerness for that! Or the desire for that!

Abe:
We're going to explain this, and you're going to get it! But the reason that we can't give you exactly what you're looking, for in terms of understanding that feeling of relief, is this... You're going to like this. We were talking earlier about beliefs, and how you can't just change a belief all at once. And so, your vibrations, as you deliberately think, and deliberately therefore, accomplish a vibration, it's a gradual thing- that is gradual enough, that you don't get that enormous feeling of relief.

It's like moving up the emotional scale from fear and despair into anger and revenge into frustration into a feeling of satisfaction, and then more, and then more, all the way to love and appreciation. But it's a graduation, much more than even the emotional words that we're describing! And so, it's like getting into a tub of water that's cold. And after a while you adjust to it, so you don't notice it so much. You're getting into a tub that's too hot- and after a little bit, you adjust to it. It's a sort of gradual thing!

The reason that the death experience, for most people, is so extraordinarily sensational, in an awesomeness that we can't describe to you-
is, that they've been ornery, ornery, ornery, disconnected, disconnected, disconnected, disconnected. And then they make their transition, where they go straight to pure positive energy!

And the feeling of release and relief, of all of that resistance- in one fell swoop... is something that happens for people only at the death experience, in that way. Now it's possible, you could... it's possible, it's not likely but it's possible, that you could have something that bothered you, and bothered you, and bothered you, and bothered you, and bothered you, and bothered and bothered and bothered and bothered... and you could get distracted by something, and you could feel a sort of euphoria as you change the subject! Because that's what we're talking about.

But law of attraction will not let you move from one vibrational frequency to another that quickly. Only in the death- experience!

That makes sense to you? So you're just gonna have to get used to gradually getting happier.

HS:
It has been amazing! And it's like you said: I do almost feel crazy, because when contrast happens... I never really got, when I used to listen to you, when you say "you'll learn the value in the contrast". And I really feel that, today! When contrast happens, it's no big deal!

Abe:
Oh, it's choices!! It's more clarity! It's more definition. It's more detail! It's like you learn to be an artist, and they only give you two colors: Black and white. and then as you get better and better. You introduce more colors to your palette, and then you learn to blend them, until there's no ending to what you can do! And the contrast is what gives you more colors on your palette! It's what gives you more things to think about. Life causes you to continue to ask for more! It just does. It must.

And when you ask for more, than you can let it in. You have momentarily feelings of discord, when you're really asking for more than you're letting in, but then, as you know the process and you know the laws, you reach the place that there's never really a big discomfort. In fact, it's when things that felt like trauma and challenges, start turning to opportunities, and adventure- because you know that there isn't anything that you are not capable of accomplishing and now in your eagerness,

you're just really excited to watch how the universe is going to whip this one into shape on your behalf!


from the youtube-clip Abraham Hicks - Notice The Signs From The Universe!

Is 2012 "the time of Awakening"?

HS:
You've talked so much about being on the leading edge, that we are ever-expanding, that we're eternal beings... and in that broader and important context, so many people have made such a big deal- hoopla, about this year. About this next couple of years.
Is humanity really as a whole on the cusp of a quantum leap in consciousness?

Abe:
Well, we've been calling at the time of awakening.

-The time of realizing who you really are. It certainly is a time of more deliberate awareness! And a time of greater sensitivity to that broader perspective. But in regards to the "big thing", that people are making about this year, we think that it would be appropriate in every new year, or every year coming, to make a big thing about it!

Because the leading edge really is where all of the attention is. And the reason that we put the word "awakening" into it, is because humanity has always had access to this non-physical energy stream. But if you're not consciously aware of it, you're not awake to it, and so... It's the kind of things that we've been talking about in this gathering, that make the answer to your question "unequivocally yes".

But it's not because it has changed from the non-physical viewpoint.
It's that more humans are becoming consciously aware of their relationship with what is non-physical!

We've been talking about it recently, in stronger terms, in this way: What you see through your physical eyes is a given. In other words, you've come to an agreement about what sight is, and what sound is, and what smell is, and what taste is, and what touch is. But almost no one has been making the association between the emotions that they are feeling, and their relationship with what is non-physical. And, as more of you are doing that and are beginning to taste... its the wrong word but it seems appropriate... to taste the subtlety of the non-physical energy... that's really what's happening!

It isn't that things are changing so much. It's that your ability to see them is changing.
You're tuning your frequencies higher and higher! So, that the crevasse or gap between what is physical, and what is non-physical, is less. And the awareness of what is non-physical is more!
That's what's happening.

HS:
So it's not so much a quantum leap- it's more of subtlety?

Abe:
Quantum leaps are never a good idea. Humanity hardly ever adjusts in less than a century, after a quantum leap.
You really don't want a quantum leap. And really, you can't have a quantum leap! Quantum leaps are sort of a fictional way of describing "leaping into something that you've been wanting for a long time". But the thing is- and it's annoying to most of you, that

unless you are in the vibrational vicinity- you're not going to realize it!

And so, you can't not realize it and then jump into the realization of it. Sometimes, exaggerated contrast causes you to launch a really big rocket, which is sort of like a quantum leap. But you rarely maintain your vibrational relationship with that rocket, that you've fired off! Because what's surrounding you, that caused you to launch the rocket, is usually more dominant, and you settle right back into that practiced belief system, you see.

And so, a quantum leap could only occur if life caused you to launch a big rocket and somehow you were able to completely forget everything else! A lobotomy would help. But you lose so much in the process of that. Your vibration would raise, but your recognition of things would not be satisfactory, you see! So it's much better...

Meditation is the closest process to quantum leaping that we know!
Going general is the closest process to quantum leaping that we know.

And because life has caused you to put all of this vibrational reality over here in your vortex- so what are you going to do to get ready, for what's ready for you? Well, a quantum leap would be nice. But a quantum leap is not a practical thing:

You don't jump vibrational frequencies like that. You ease your way into them!

HS:
You say so "it's already there". Obviously it's just aligning with that?

Abe:
It it's all about aligning. Which is what we are calling "the art of allowing".

The art of allowing, that brought a perspective that is really you!
That you have been honing for all of the days of this life, and long before!
It's the art of allowing yourself to be in vibrational sync with all that you have become.
And therefore with all that we are!
And therefore with that, which is source energy!

from the official youtube clip: Is 2012 "the time of Awakening"?

Excerpted from the August 2012 Alaskan Cruise.

You will feel an actual Tipping-Point,
then your manifested world will never be the same.

Abraham Hicks