book wrote: ↑Sat Nov 23, 2024 8:23 am
As we all know, people are creatures of habit. This is because of brain wiring / neuroplasticity, but also LOA keeps you in the same feeling place that you are accustomed to
That is not the whole story!
Because EVERY SINGLE TIME you experience something even slightly dissatisfying (not even to speak of big and bold unwanted), Source notices and hears the AUTOMATIC request of what you would like better or more (aka, the new born "rocket of desire").
And in an instant, this rocket goes into your Vortex, where source tends to it and couples it with other matching desires, and (Abes words, sloppily quoted) "bakes incredibly delicious cakes" from all the ingrediences in your Vortex, that you might not even have been aware of, going incrementally and every day, into your Vortex.
This Vortex-versions, or "cakes" are now CALLING YOU. And when you don't go after them, when you don't allow yourself to follow your inner guidance that leads you the way of how to GET your stuff that is piling up in your Vortex, "you will never be happy" (Abe).
So, the old habits will feel worse and worse. You will get more and more dissatisfied in not changing something.
And when you look around, this is what you can observe! More and more people can't STAND the old. They get long Covid and BurnOut. They feel itchy and restless. They want to understand what is calling them, even before very unspiritual people start asking for life's purpose, and their own mission, and what, for heavens sake, COULD FULFILL THEM. In all of this, even more rockets of desires get born that are about deep clarity and freedom and finding meaning.
You can't make a big emotional jump on the emotional guidance scale, you can only do gradual moves. If you do make an emotional jump into a much better feeling place, it will be temporary and you will not be able to maintain it.
This, also, is not entirely true. YES, when you jump too far, you normally can't sustain it, or it will be at least a quite rocky ride. But again, who decides what is "too far"? Everyone is different! And the adventurers among us LOVE a good challenge!
My brother is a priest. I once asked him why he chose this very challenging life (I can't imagine being without my mate and my family, without own possessions and the absolute freedom to do what I want, when I want with whom I want. And he chose poverty, obedience and celibacy?? He answered that "Some love to climb mountains in the 8000m high. I'm called by nothing more then to live the life of a priest!"
"Who you really are" is who you are, in all fullness of your Vortex! It is ALL DONE! It is all there already (and calling you since decades, probably!) So, you never try to leap into the nothingness. You yearn to leap into what is long done, and what rightfully is YOU! And so, when you build up and build up and build up a dream inside of you, you CAN finally let go of your resistance and you WILL go. That can happen either in croaking (where you- "weeeeeeeeee" as Abe describe
) let go of all your resistance in one fellswoop and leap "into Heaven" ON EARTH.
Or, you have an "enlightening moment" of smaller or bigger size. Those feel ORGASMIC, can be completely life-changing, AND they can last. I know, as I had those, several times!
Abe advice to not hold back for so long, so that this phase of adjusting is not too much stretching (and in that, uncomfortable). But it IS possible, and it can be so big and convincing, that you just give up your resistance about what you had experienced willingly and thankfully, and live on "happily for ever after".
We have social media today: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok. These are made specially to be addictive and with algorithms that work hard to maximize the amount of time you spend on the platforms, and also very easily lead you down on paths of radicalization, because anger / outrage is a surefire way to keep up engagement. It is a proven fact that social media radicalizes people into very strong beliefs about different political / human issues, with women and men often being on polar opposites of the scale, which was shown to cause a lot of issues in dating in many countries today for young people.
I agree partially: There are big challenges, especially for young people.
BUT this young people deliberately chose to come into this time. They knew what was waiting for them, and they CHOSE it as a contrast, that was not just able to mix them up and radicalize them, but also to train them in an especially big way, to "turn around the topic" AND USE IT TO THEIR ADVANTAGE! Which would be, to choose self-thinking, FEELING for their unique inner guidance, and understand that there are energies that serve them and feel good, and those that feel bad and mix them up.
As Abers, I think most of us understand the importance of what we focus upon and not over indulging in social media, even if we do use it sometimes. Back in the day Abraham urged us against watching TV / the news, but the media of today has become so much more insidious and manipulative since then, it is even more wise to avoid it as much as possible.
Yes, the contrast got bigger!
And that is a BIGGER chance to become finally clear about what we really want.
Now, the question is: I get the impression that people who are very used to spending 5-7 hours per day on social media, specially TikTok (reports show this is a completely average amount for young people), and don't know what we know, it is very easy to become trapped in this negative feeling place and staying there for a lot of their awake hours, and then attracting from that place.
I have 4 children in the age between 24- 35 years of age, and 3 of them are not interested in being Abers at all: They want to do it SOLELY "their own way". Of course they grew up in the time of internet being available, and they saw this "world of social media" forming and evolving, and they all use- and love it. AND they all figured out exactly what serves them, without me needing to interfere and teach them! They did it in their own way. Just as all people in the past did that, where some were successful and some not so much. It all adds up to life being an adventure park.
Since they are not Abers they are not aware of the importance of caring about how they feel, how to reach for relief, or that it is bad for them to spend so much time in negative feeling spaces.
...That's really not true for all of them! I wouldn't even say that it's true for most of them. My children per example all have a very natural sense for following what feels good for them, and much clearer than I knew, in their age. Also I see in their friends, that those who had a hard upbringing without much love, peace and trust in their families, are at first attracted to not helpful behavior and -contents. But, those young people also have an almost radical desire to get out of that, or even to master it, and most of them are doing exceptionally well!
But it is true, that the threshold of pain is not fully reached for some of them: As it is for all those people who feel bad. It is part of their journey! In some times they need a huge amount of pain to finally choose to turn around- and some croak before (or instead). And loving people tend to look at the "tragedy" in that. I completely get that.
But then also- even those who croak, are not "lost". As soon they die, they are back fully ITV, merged with their loving, knowing, eternal souls. And who gets to decide if an intense life with a lot of seeming pain really is a tragedy- or just a fascinating adventure for those that choose to live that way?
Then the addictive nature of the apps + their habits + vibrational momentum keep them doing the same thing, thus trapped in this negative cycle.
You CAN NOT be trapped in any cycle. Energy is always moving, and always becoming more. Either you use the evolving energy to finally change around and become healed- or you croak and get in THIS way a new beginning.
And to me it seems like a rather hopeless existence, which more and more people are influenced by these days, specially young people who never even lived without social media and being permanently online, so this dependency on technology is more ingrained into them than in someone born before 2003.
Of course, you are free to see it from OOTV (where it feels bad and "hopeless"). Or from ITV, where it feels as an awesome, intense and very helpful CHANCE, full of hope and eventually even KNOWING that this all will lead into an awesome future that we might never become a match to, when there had not been immense contrast.
But only from ITV you are able to realize what Source knows to be "true".
DON'T WORRY ABOUT THIS WORLD, it is not broken.
And don't worry about others. You worry more about them, than they do.
There are people waging war; there are people on the battlefield
who are more alive than they've ever been before.
Don't try to protect people from life; just let them have their experience
while you focus upon your own experience.
Abraham-Hicks
You want to be an Advocate to the wanted,
not a protester for unwanted.
Abraham Hicks
World peace means one mindset big enough to make the decisions about what everybody else wants and the rest of the world conforming. That is the ultimate definition of world peace.
You say, “Oh, let’s get along!” And what each of you mean is, “You do what I want.” A peaceful world means, “Everybody wanting what I want. Going along with what I want.” And the only problem with that is: there are more than one of you, and you have endless desires that are born within you.
The ultimate experience is everyone having their experience and launching their individual rockets of desire, and the Universe yielding to all of them simultaneously. And everybody not worrying about what anybody else created, and so, then allowing what they are wanting. What a world that is, when there are endless desirers—who are allowing the fulfillment of their own desires.
Excerpted from Los Angeles, CA on 3/10/01