Topic: Rude People / People who are mean to you
- That person's response to me had far less to do with me, than it did with them.
- I don't have control of how they feel, before I get there. And I'm going to stop taking credit for how they feel, when I get there! Because they already felt that way before I got there.
- I'm sure that this isn't such a personal thing: This person is probably behaving that way to a lot of people. It isn't about me.
- somebody who doesn't feel good in the moment can't respond nicely to me, no matter how wonderful I am
- This interaction and my feelings about it is a helpful indicator of where I am vibrationally. It's always good to have an awareness of where I am to help me to figure out how to raise my vibration and attract more positive experiences in the future.
- What they're thinking about me has far less to do with me, than what *I'm* thinking about me - or what I'm thinking about them-thinking-about-me.
- I get along with people really well,
- this is sort of an isolated incidence.
- This isn't the majority of what happens to me - This is an anomaly
- If I think about it - it doesn't really matter what someone else thinks about me. All that matters is what *I'm* thinking and what *I'm* feeling - and I have control of that regardless of what anyone else says or does.
- I like the clarity that this interaction brought: It shows me what I DO want:
I want to get along with people.
I don't want to care what anybody else is thinking about me
When I meet people, I like the best of both of us to rendezvous.
I like to bring uplifting things from them
I like them to feel glad that they saw me.
I want them to greet me in a way that lets me know that they're glad to see me
paraphrased from a rampage by Abraham Hicks
from the youtube-clip Abraham Hicks ~ SAY THESE EXACT WORDS WHEN THEY TREAT YOU BADLY